₦airaland Forum

dawnomike:
This water don pass the available garri ... If this is true, I hope he pays for his crime

But a girl of 14 having anal sex? That's messed up

Which crime?
But until the girl shows her face, this news is fake

pretydiva:
The movie was completely sold out on Christmas day

The best Nigerian film in recent time. Quote me again after you've watched it. I was persuaded to go watch it. Everything was just on point. Very exportable.

Admols:
Truth needed to be said:
It is a year now that you put somebody under earth.
Hot, warm, cold or hash weather, he is there and will continue to be there without you knowing what he is currently facing.

This money that family want to squander (sorry, it is your money though), why can't you gather this money together and empower few youths in your area like those who just left apprenticeship training but lack funds to establish?

This is the time for WAEC/SSCE registration, paying WAEC fees of between 5 to 10 students will be rewardable for your father in his grave.

On the other hand, you can all contribute this money together and establish a small scale industry for your family.

I heard that COCA-COLA was established by a family.

Lmao. When you hear Yoruba and party are like 5/6 you think say na joke? Most times, Yoruba will do party first before thinking of how to pah his child's school fees, you are talking of paying for others waec money. I laugh

0taPiaPia:
But I am thinking, were is it written that a party must be thrown for the dead years after. There are things that just don't bother me in this life and I can't be dragged into it by anyone irrespective of age.

It is not written anywhere. People do it when they feel they can afford it as a family. In the Op's case, I'm sure the family thinks they are able and capable. Going by Op's assertion, he said some of his siblings are doing okay than him. But then, they think he should pay more because he's in charge of their father's money.
Trust me, even you. If you have the money, you'll remember your parents when they die, provided it's tradition where you come from

SavageMaster:
Well..maybe I didn't see it that way.

If they want equity in the way properties were shared, they should man up and discuss with Op. I don't know why his late Dad gave him all his properties. A dead man's will, if there was one, cannot be changed.

However, throwing a burial remembrance party and taxing people, including Op huge sums of money, is what I'm against. If they have something else in mind, they should come out directly and let the Op know.

Alright, I agree with you if you do not see it that way. But then, let's assume the father left his properties with the 7th child for whatever reason. The 7th child should also not try to change tradition when it comes to spending his father's money to do a party for his father. The man mist have loved him enough to leave all to him, he should try show love to the man too.
I think the family sef is a very good one, in other families. He might be in a mental institution by now or in the worse case, dead. That position he took is a not a small thing. In other families, his siblings won't contribute a dime, they'll say he should do his father's party, since the father left his properties to him.

iamclime:
If I have the means and can meet you in person, I will buy you nkwobi and wine for this comment! This is the only comment that resonates with me here.
Our belief system encourages a lot of wasteful spending and unnecessary stress in this part of the world.
We the so-called educated generation need to change the narrative and spend our money on the living and needy, not to impress people or satisfy unfavorable traditions. This is my take.
@Op, whatever you decide, take responsibility for your actions and decisions. Best wishes

Na people like you and the op make bad people multiply in this world. Cos with the scenario this Op painted, some people will visit babalawo because of him soon, that is if they've not been there already. Remember he lost money to bad business, maybe he just start losing money.

SavageMaster:
Hmm...

First of all, make sure none of them still has access to your Dad's properties.

Then, discuss with your Mum(if she's still alive) and your other siblings as to how to remember your Dad. You may just go to church on that day with members of your family and book for prayers by the priest during the service.

Summary
Those people you mentioned above have no right to tell you how to remember your Dad, talk more of taxing you 500k.

That "party" is not necessary

Simply ignore them.

I hope I made sense.

Don't worry, you'll make sense until your father put the last born in charge of his properties,leaving you and others with nothing. Then the last born starts investing on bad businesses. I'm sure someone like you go dpn reach babalawo house.

Why are you the only one that's managing your dad's property? Did they say they are not interested in the property or how. And if the property is worth millions, it is only logical if they apportion such amount to you, considering the fact that you're the one managing the properties.

Zzor:
Is he marrying her for gains, why have are you men becoming leeches smh

And you don't think someone that wants an investment in the region of 1.5m without thinking of giving anything back is not the bigger Leech? I pity person weh go marry you, cos you've never being reasonable.

You and your brother no get sense. Why on earth will a lady collect my phone on a first date. I will chase her away there and then. You and your brother need to be a man first before looking for a wife.
I won't deny my wife can go through my phone behind me, but while I'm there?! Wtf!

Or tell is the truth, is your brother handicapped or an imbe?

Wahala for person weh don stake on Barca.

Lol. Wetin make police and army come do.

gaetano:
Bịa, useful idiot. Ohaneze and other ịgbo group have spoken about this many times. We saw this thing happen in 1984 and warned y'all not to support the bigot but una get coconut head. Sw that has border with cotonu went and brought this economic disadvantaged president just so you lots can have VP. But your people are surfing today as they can't trade through their backyard. Keep pointing fingers at Igbos, thunder gba gbuo gị dia. Isi aki.

Your reply still shows you are stvpid. You guys are always pained. You get people talking about what's affecting us all, the best you can do is insult them. Na that thunder go gba gbuo gi you too. Eleribu

Rugaria:
When it was closed the igbos railed against it and the rest of the country looked the other way! This was an evil policy never practiced anywhere else in the world. It's like imposing sanctions on your self! I know of many young traders ruined by this policy. The Igbo man is done complaining! Yoou termed it "wailing". . Survival mode activated! Let's see who suffers most. A country of wretched vermins that cut their tribal noses to spite their wicked faces.

And now, you have people talking about it. What was the response? Vulgar languages. What do you really want then? You lots are confused

gaetano:
Joke is on them. You can't single out one tribe in Nigeria for economic sabotage. The nemesis will go round. Let them keep crying, we are all in this together.

You guys are just too vain. What is Ohaneze saying about this? Nothing. Some group of people come together to talk about this, you mock them. But when the border is Opened, idiots Like you go rush go buy rice. Toxic people.

Coneheadyutes:
Shut up.

All cone heads are the same. Sheep will always be sheep. Mentally disabled people reason alike.

This is not the first time I am seeing a comment like this from a cone head green gutter water drinker.

You still forgot to make sense.

BRIGHTRIVERS:
He will win the election only if they kill all the youths of Nigeria.

They will win if they Kill all of us that protested for 12days.

2023 is the year for the youths. Those old men should be getting ready to hand over the baton. It is long overdue!

I hope you know the total number of youths that protested, including the miscreants no reach %10 of 9ja youths?

rymesgentility:
Bro , if you actually lead praises in church and this happened .. and your asking why !! Then you not worthy of leading praises on the alter of God , Go pray and ask God why that happened... praises goes with pure and dedicated mind, you will even be carried away why praising God .. so why went blank.. you should rather be looking for God’s face why that happened.. rather than you creating this thread...

Bros, no be so o. We dey lead finish go drink, come back carry mic sing thanksgiving, we go still flow. Na by Grace

Kalatium:
Have You Ever led a song in church and you went blank?

This happened to me within the week. I was leading praises and worship only for me to go blank.

I made them continue singing "we have come to draw, draw, draw... Draw from you again " for 10minutes telling them to sing from their heart whereas i actually went blank . I actually can’t remember any song.

Share your experience.

Like seriously?! How can you go blank for 10mins. If I follow you draw for like three minutes, na to sidon dey look una o. why we go draw for 10mins.

We stooopid gan for this country sha. like wtf?! He return from war?

I remember late 2018, we were shooting under stadium bridge, this shoki and that same guy beside him really disturbed me, I had to part with little cash despibot being the owner of the project. They collect by hailing.

saaphiere:
Never leave your girl child with any man be it her father.

Your father is like that man I guess.

Even if ATM's President was to be in his shoes, he'll also leave. If they appreciate him, they would have paid him well.

mad o. Jah Rastafarian! Ethiopians should have this animal on their flag.

So person sidon type all these because of Nigerian babe. I pity you.

bunmioguns:
But he is stylishly right

Hmm. perhaps, stylishly. The types of businesses these ladies do, men can't venture into it same way. One babe rented a property in those highbrow area here in Lagos for her boutique business. she rented a full duplex. I can't lay my hands on the particular job this babe is doing for her to raise such fund for the business. So, stylishly. Make I pause am.

If producers think like this, there'll ve less rubbish film in the Industry. Then about the ladies, He's just trying to be diplomatic before another Mike ezuroinye style of dragging comes up.

Truth be told, I would have nightmares sleeping inside that house. It's too flashy. That BBN house is not that bad, at least I can still sleep peacefully inside that. Then anyone noticed Canadian brothers have real jobs? unlike our housemates here

wirinet:
I need ISBN for a book am about to publish, can you assist me, and how much?

I will do it for 5k and you'll get it within 7-10 working days.

Zzor:
I hate men that can Cook,them go get wahala

You are very correct about this. I can cook and I get wahala.

Madibah:
Alex ekubo is more funny than broda shaggi

Stop smoking weed you no go hear.