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iyamALBEN:
Make elders stay for palace na. Wetin elders come dey find online self .

Lol... You ehn? ..

Dem go hear am from this our generation of youth. What our fathers could not tell them during their time, na we go tell and show them the way back to the palace.

What we knew back then was "elders of our land, not "elders of our social media". Let them leave our cyber space for us. hahahaaaa...

The bible says that ( fathers) elders should not provoke their children to wrath. These elders have marginalized the youth for so long and provoked them to wrath, so they have no choice but to dish them insults left and right. You really can't blame them.

Let the elders give the youth a chance to exercise their rights freely. We are for peace and fairness.

Shalom.

I didn't want to contribute to this useless topic but seeing what a responsible married man commented down there about his wife. I decided to chip in this.

Now, majority of you who clamour for big bum fail to realize that they get bigger and out of shape with time. Even the small sized ones will also get bigger with time. Look at Rihanna. Just after one and she's looking this big; to think she used to look petit before now.
So if you're judging a woman by shape and size, then you're getting it all wrong because all that will change and very quickly before you know it.

My worry in this kind of thing is, it's the slim and short guys that always want the big butt women. Forgetting that it will get to a time you won't be able to satisfy her any longer as she'll become too thick for your tiny, short or slim frame. Una no dey pity una self.

A little secret here.. a big butt lady once disclosed to my elder sister that they prefer men that are muscular and strong with big gbola. Not even an average size o because it doesn't satisfy them and since then, I've been observing girls with big butt are usually selective and particular about a mans P size. So if you know you're not that strong with the right size, don't even deceive yourself because she may not even agree to marry you and if does out of desperation, she'll cheat on you without remorse. Na me tell you.

Anyways, go for it if that is all marriage is to you. However, I think you need counseling from mature and experienced people on what marriage is truly about.

It's a little complicated here but nothing too difficult to solve.

Since you've been with your mom all these while, I don't think going to be with your father for a short time will be unfair to her. I mean... Your father has been responsible for your education all along and not like he abandoned you. So do what he wants. Your mother is only being selfish and resentful about this whole thing because of the past and not because she really loves you to the moon and back like that. She's just trying to spite your dad.

So, talk to her lovingly and make her understand why you need to see your old man as he also has a right to you. If she tries to put up any drama, ignore her and go. Nothing go happen. Also be prayerful and when you get there, use your sense and avoid the other woman like a plague. No go keep body for her o. The world is wicked.

MrOposter:
You are very pathetic, senseless ladies like you are the ones pinning another man's babies on men. Not even a word for the deceitful baby mama. Carry your busy body dey go.

You are the pathetic one who needs to sit his ass down and stop sleeping with anything he comes across.

I see you're so unrepentant and prolly still digging girls with reckless abandon that is why my comment hit you so badly.

Don't worry. Continue.

Jamo:
Hmm, I think its better to start a movement to stop bra production, the ladies will feel relaxed while we guys love to also see them braless, am I making sense?

who told you?

The relief when you snap the hook at the back ooh... Or when you pull off the straps from your shoulders, no be here o lol...

Abeg, that thing can be a huge discomfort at times.

She's even lucky, it wasn't in a lift.

This ocean, 18k? Lies.

If it's true, then she must be daft for paying such amount for this thing.

Things cost, e no reach like this.

baralatie:
Okay! what about those men and women who abstained until they married ad into the marriage DNA released that the children do not belong to the father and the mother confessed it belongs to.........
I do not want to mention the full detail

It's still the same thing. They still messed up along the line cos if such an one abstained, she won't get pregnant for someone other than her husband. It's still the same habit of sleeping around with anything.

Something a simple abstinence could have prevented but because most of you think with your third legs, now, see where it has landed you. You are now running up and down, in and out of a lab like a headless chicken.

This will still not make a lot of you have sense and stop all these indiscriminate unprotected sex with every Tom , dick and Harry. So annoying.

Imagine if it were HIV, you don carry or she go carry. Na wa for una.

austyn0:
God bless you. Remain highly favored.

You're welcome.

etrouble:
How is she her relative? Was his wife born by any of his family members?

So it's only those born in your family circle that can be called your relatives?

Fyi, there are types of relatives. You can be related by blood, marriage or biz. Reason you have questions like.. " how you related to this person or what's your relationship with so so person". Got that?

It's phlegm build up.

Take TomTom for fast relief. Then go and get erithromycine antibiotics caplets. Take as directed.

You can also gargle with warm salt water to break down the phlegm.

Men, I fear una. You people cannot control that thing between your legs. It's a pity.

That is why animals are now giving birth to humanoids. Many men have fathered a lot of animals in this life. Tueh!

Lol .... So you no get liver you go day scam.

Why scam in the first place place? Scamming alone on its own attracts curse. So whether he proceeds to harm you or not, karma will still takes it's course on you. So better you return the money back to him.

Vevejoy:
Yes I paid 100% for my vacation.
I'm highly considering your last paragraph (advice). Seperate until he's ready to change and if not, move on. Can't live like this.

Thank u

Please do and save yourself of " had I known" situation.

You're welcome.

Op, handle this issue like a man by telling your mother inlaw, you've got your immediate family to cater for and can no longer afford to cater for others needs on a regular basis.

Zonefree:
Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relative. Place your wife where she belongs before she destroy you. A word is enough for a simp.

How is she not his relative? abi akamu block your brain?

Why give such advice? Did he twll you his wife is his problem?

Instead of telling him to deal withmain issue ( mother inlaw) you're telling him to put his wife in her place. What place exactly?
Mtchew.

If I read well, you said he didn't fund any of the expenses you made for this trip? Yet he wants to dictate how you should run your vacation and who stays and leaves for who? Damn it! He's high on some nasty substance.

He has no right whatsoever to ask your brother to leave the house, even if he was the one that paid for the guest house. I mean... Isn't your brother just like his own brother and son to his parents?
Why the segregation? Una dey marry o.

My advice. It's high time you left that marriage cos it doesn't really hold much for you as things stand cos he leaves you to fute your bills yourself, accuses you and your mum of being fetish, visits spiritualists and is now threatening to deal with you. Separate from him for now until he's ready to be reasonable and accomodating.

tonicyril:
Ahh tankz mum

I appreciate.

So where did u add ur pepper to make it more spicy ma?

I added the pepper in the rice when cooking it from scratch.


I also added little pepper when friying the veggies.

tonicyril:
pls ma'am teach me this fried rice of a tin very well, i didn't get all the grammar u blew up there ma

Lol..

Pour oil in a pot
Add onions and curry powder, pepper and garlic to fry.
Then pour the chicken water. That is water used in boiling chicken. Add more cubes to taste.

Allow it to boil very well then add your washed rice and cover to cook.

When it's done, bring it down and set aside.

Cut all the veggies you want to use.
Pour little oil in a pan
Add some of the veggies except the spring onions. Fry for a few seconds. Then add the spring onions and start adding the rice little by little little,

Watch as you add the rice to make sure its not too much and doesn't cover the veggies.
Once you added the needed quantity, keep stiring and allow to fry for a few mins. Then bring it down.

You can fry another batch by repeating the process again.

So you're not frying all the rice and veggies at once. You do it in batches for better results.

Wizywiz:
Correct babe..... abeg I fit marry you

Lol . ..

Thank you bruv.

Firewalls:
Yummy

Thank you .

glorious614:
What a coincidence, this happens to be one of my favorite meal.

Wow! really?

Oya, bon-apetit. .

Khaleesi4lyf:
Beautiful and I bet it's gonna taste delicious though in not a fan of fried rice

Don't mind those bitter loosers up there! Them never see garri sef drink today.

Lol... Yeah it tasted so nice I had to fry another plate. . Couldn't get enough of it. .

Thanks dear.

ahnie:
Beautiful meal channah1 would really love to have a taste.

Pls ignore all those hungry sea-lions condemning your meal.

Yay!!! sure you're welcome.

Thanks darl.

Lol.

You should have done DIY like a lot of Yankee babes are doing.

Even in Naija, to make hair is expensive. Sometimes I diy it.

YeyeGbami:
You do well , don’t mind all those hungry lion.

Lol... Thanks bruv.

SerikiFulani:
Nice one dear.....

Thanks dearie.