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Webmasters › Re: Can't Update My Whatsapp Business by chatinent: 11:59pm On Oct 06, 2021
Switch accounts to the email you used to first download. Let's see.
Politics › Re: Ohaneze: Umahi Trading Off Igbo’s Interests For Abuja’s Enticements & Inducement by chatinent: 11:57pm On Oct 06, 2021
Impending war.

An epitome of the Women of Owu may become.
Politics › Re: Umahi: Counter-Secessionist Groups Will Rise In The South-East by chatinent:
Umahi looks like sb who downloads about two litres of shepe in the morning before going for the main two kegs of overnight tumbo.

Travel › Re: Margorie McCall, Irish Woman Who Lived Once And Buried Twice In The 17th Century by chatinent: 11:51pm On Oct 06, 2021
What's the need?

Makes no sense.
Celebrities › Re: I Never Left Nigeria For Canada - DJ Switch Clears The Air by chatinent: 11:51pm On Oct 06, 2021
All right.
Travel › Re: Pictures From The Lagos-Ibadan Train by chatinent: 11:50pm On Oct 06, 2021
NGpatriot:
Of course, never fails..

Got to be ipob..


grin grin
I am not a member of the IPOB.
Romance › Re: Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Post You Because She Is Looking For Someone Better by chatinent: 11:49pm On Oct 06, 2021
I don't care about who posts me.

What if I am the only one reading it?
Politics › Re: Orji Kalu: Nigeria’s Unity More Important Than 2023 Elections by chatinent: 11:47pm On Oct 06, 2021
Another campaign stunt.

See en food-flask head.

Travel › Re: Pictures From The Lagos-Ibadan Train by chatinent: 11:44pm On Oct 06, 2021
It's high time people stopped praising these leaders when they do what they are being paid to do with our taxes!
Travel › Re: Truck Collides With Moving Train In Kano (Photos) by chatinent: 9:44pm On Oct 06, 2021
Hmm
Music/Radio › Re: Most Played Songs Of The Year by chatinent: 9:40pm On Oct 06, 2021
Johnny Drille - Before You Wake Up
Romance › Re: Lady Sleeps With Her Ex-Boyfriend's Father, Mocks Her Ex (Video) by chatinent: 9:33pm On Oct 06, 2021
I fit no marry las las.

Romance › Re: Lady Sleeps With Her Ex-Boyfriend's Father, Mocks Her Ex (Video) by chatinent: 9:30pm On Oct 06, 2021
JaneYave:
A man that sleeps with the son's girlfriend has no sense too. Infact, men are the main cause of women's silliness.
Must it always be a gender war? Just pass judgement at the three stupid people naw
Family › Re: Share Your Experience With Fake Family Members by chatinent:
I beg to differ. My view may be different...please bear.

I really don't see that as deep wickedness tho...I think he was just strict and more ego-centric. Meanwhile, the land isn't yours bro! More so, I feel you sold it when you beseeched him to beg for “good grades”... some people will start seeing such a person as a neer-do-well. More of what you had in mind against him was what you heard from others, some things he did and other things you assumed he could do, emotion conceived, nurtured dislike, harbored resentments... than those things he really did in reality, or things he could do.

Tips: when people don't always do what we want or what we think, it doesn't make them bad.

I lived with an uncle who turned me to jaki, with severe mistreatment for three years because I was off the shores of Nigeria and nowhere to escape to (cos I so wanted to escape, lol).

The part you said he “reluctantly congratulated you” was biased tho. Since he did, there is really no reluctance (sorry, but this is how I'll see it if it were I). If he was the first person to congratulate you, maybe three minutes after delivery, you'd still throw shades at him that he was indirectly mocking you. Lol. You know, your mindset is seeing him as counterproductive already. On the other hand, he could be disappointed you had a child out of wedlock! Since you stayed with him, he should be concerned... whether or not it's positive. I also understand it's not his business what you do with your life.

During my stay with my uncles, I refused to see them as wicked souls. I preferred to understand that, for a truth, nobody cares. Nobody would really leave their immediate family insatiable issues to begin to pick areas to help out in any extended family


Problems no dey finish so far we remain humans. That alone made me persevere and revamped the way I reasoned things. I live a zero-expectation life. I don't expect sb to pop outta the blue and want to help you...and that is more reason I verily appreciate every effort anyone makes towards me...even an iota of it.

Yes, everyone has those uncles who we feel are very deep-pocketed but doesn't want to help! It's crazy but it's true! They are like every other human out there!

What do I do? I dey dey my dey. I dey respect myself. If I need to buy a handout, I start planning for it aforehand. I don't need to beg for grades, I strive to make grades. I wouldn't have sex if I aren't already calling her my wife. I wouldn't put a kiosk on a land that's not mine...even if it's a family land. I wouldn't esau my respect! If I don't have money, I hustle money or retire on my stone-filled garri. If my wife puts to bed impromptu, I prefer to meet sb else differently than sb who may not want to help. I also understand that people will always talk..so I don't give them what to talk about...and don't care since I am living my life without hurting anyone.

I don't want to cut my clothes according to my size anymore. I am now cutting those clothes to the cloth size.

Life don teach me a lot.

Conduct a life audit.

Action Plan:
Ask yours these questions...
1. Is this person wicked or am I feeling entitled?
2. When was the last time I did sth good in the same angle I am needing sth for this person for the first time?
3.What are the good sides about this person?
4. Am I proud? If I am, what can I do to submerge it?

What is more? You have to not think that sb should care about you. In the real sense, they owe you no obligation of care. Work for whatever you need. Las las, in the school of experience, there are no graduates.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chatinent: 8:39pm On Oct 06, 2021
[quote author=iamyemiakins post=106509202][/quote]Lol
Travel › Re: Welcome To Balneario, Brazil, The Dubai Of Brazil(photos) by chatinent: 8:27pm On Oct 06, 2021
walkbrazil4k:
The place is amazing, I would definitely be there myself
Sorry, you no dey there before?

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chatinent: 8:21pm On Oct 06, 2021
cococandy:
Crab cake omelette and salad
How can I do omelette on top jollof rice, please?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chatinent: 8:20pm On Oct 06, 2021
Periwinkle-d swallow. grin

Good time with Helen.

Snails, periwinkle, shrimps, and afo anu.

Politics › Re: Buhari, Jonathan Hold Talks In Aso Rock by chatinent: 7:12pm On Oct 06, 2021
Ebele sef.

Crime › Re: Bandits Kill 10, Injure 11 In Katsina Community by chatinent: 6:58pm On Oct 06, 2021
How do villagers survive in these places!

Politics › Re: Army Begins Golden Dawn In Abia Says No Hiding Place For Criminals by chatinent: 6:57pm On Oct 06, 2021
lomprico:
I need a chapter 1 & 2 on the topic "using coconut coir to develop a filter"
Send a mail.
Properties › Re: Fire Outbreak At Federal Secretariat Complex, Abuja by chatinent: 6:57pm On Oct 06, 2021
Anytime they want to loot, they'll burn buildings and announce money was burnt.
Politics › Re: Army Commanders Embezzle Millions Of Naira Donated By Zulum For Housing - SR by chatinent: 6:50pm On Oct 06, 2021
Not new.

Next?

Family › Re: The Cost Of Getting Married To A Poor Family by chatinent: 6:49pm On Oct 06, 2021
Eight years? Abi na jail sentence? Mehn.
Politics › Re: Army Begins Golden Dawn In Abia Says No Hiding Place For Criminals by chatinent: 6:46pm On Oct 06, 2021
ODEHOYIKOCHO:
Mostly the innocent. Even those tagged and treated like criminal may end up being the innocent.

Criminals go don run
I dey tell you
Romance › Re: In Love With My Ex Girlfriend by chatinent: 6:39pm On Oct 06, 2021
VlamesIffect:
grin
Bola146:
grin
Why na?

Well, lalasticlala come and see food for front.
Romance › Re: In Love With My Ex Girlfriend by chatinent:
To cut the story short, I dated a girl for 2 years which her family and mine are fully aware, she's an Igbo girl and I am from Rivers State,
Ikwerre?

I wanted to get married to her all of a sudden her parents refused they started talking about tribal differences, I told them even my mum is an Igbo woman but they don't want to to listen it got worst when the Rev. Fr said no they should not allow her marry me because they are Catholic.
Ok?

I felt very bad, but how will I do I moved on with my life.that same year they gave her out in marriage to one guy who based abroad
I understand how this feels. What I don't understand is do we blame the parents who suggested who she should marry or she who decided to marry the “abroad” person? Why I am saying this is because 99.8 percent of Naija babes cannot use ear and hear anything abroad.
Let's continue reading your story sha.

I congratulated her
That's the feeling, man.
without any grudges they got married
Tah! Who you dey deceive?
and this year the man died but they have a son,
What?!! My condolences.
the man has been buried but I still love her and she is willing to come back to me
Make I no talk, let's hear you finish...
infact as it stands we are more than lovers
You mean you didn't even let her mourn him?
,
but I am giving her space so that she will mourn her husband very well
Is that so?
and I don't want people to feel I prayed for the man to die so that I can take her back,
Ok. Ok. Next? huh Have you thought of her son in all these rancho-krishna drama?

because she said nothing will stop her this time.
Make I no spoil show. Carry on.

My problem now is should I let her go or marry her because I love her so much 100%
I won't mince words with you. undecided

I know death is inevitable...but I am wondering sth, shey she has another parents? No bi the same parents? Where these morale come from?

Abi are we just blaming innocent parents?

Una dey yarn when the husby dey alive? Cos I can't believe it was when you sent your consolation that this new relationship began. Shey you mah dey plan relocate go live with am for the husband house abroad?
Make I mind my business...
Back to you sha, let me tell you a story about Nigeria.

Goodluck Jonathan was the Vice when Yar'Adua was the president. Yar'Adua passed away. And by virtue of the death, the constitution allows the Vice to become the President.

In another news, Goodluck was seen shedding tears and said he wished Yar'Adua hadn't died...*Some text missing*

My network is poor. Sb may finish the story.

Discussion continues..

Anything wey you wan do, tuale! Nothing we go talk go change you.

Politics › Re: Army Begins Golden Dawn In Abia Says No Hiding Place For Criminals by chatinent:
Oh.

Both innocent and guilty people will have to pay for it.

That's the mixed blessing. cry My own is that I am available to write your research works.
Crime › Re: Suspected Electric Cable Thief Electrocuted To Death In Lagos (Disturbing Photo) by chatinent: 6:09pm On Oct 06, 2021
Maxymilliano:
Going by the butt-raising position, he must have mistaken the place for a mosque and got electrocuted while praying grin
Guy!

Politics › Re: Okonjo-iweala Reacts To Pictures Of Girl That Looks Exactly Like Her (photos) by chatinent:
Beautiful! I love everything about this woman!

They look alike and that's because she was dressed like her. They have differences: one is the skeletal cavity of the olfactory hno. One looks like a dwarf bodybuilder bending down and the other one looks like it doesn't hit the gym.

Another difference is that if one gives you a peck, it will sound like screenshot.

One is about 500 pounds weight and can never catwalk, the other isn't up to 50.

With these few points of mine....

Thankiu.

Autos › Re: This Accident Happened To A Keke In My Front On My Way To Work This Morning by chatinent: 5:49pm On Oct 06, 2021
Hope no death casualties, please?
Family › Re: Nigerian's Mentality.... by chatinent: 5:45pm On Oct 06, 2021
Lol.

And let's assume children upbringing matter is being discussed and you want to talk, and sb interrupt you.

That's not all. What's all is when you discover the person is married! Lol.

There is this big disparity between those who have kids and those who doesn't. My heart goes out to those married without kids arguing with those who do.

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