₦airaland Forum

Adebowalay:
mAddest analyst...hahaha

Thanks, sir.

Nairalandwizerd:
if I catch u

Lol, sir.

Larrykaysail:
what is the meaning of this u need to upgrade ur IQ

You actually need to downgrade yours if it's higher than mine to understand me, sir.

jacoik:
lolxxxxx hahahaha I swear guy u no well ooooo. see how u analyze it

Thanks sir.

Macgyver1:
I like your writing prowess...

Thanks sir.

Smiles.

Yawns.

Death sentence.

She looks below N70k.

This woman drinks.


I'm certain.

Pastor my foot!

This death thing is becoming unbecoming.

Can the dead act like the living?

Things cannot change.


This are the signs of the last days.

Abi I should renounce being a Nigerian?

Ok

Hit me using the number below.

People still trust these human governments?

You are stupider than I thought.

Cannot people do things in private again without social media validation?

This has nothing in being a simp or being a red pill.


This is just a kid who decided to find attention on Twitter with an entitled queen kong.



I wonder what Val meant after all. Nonsense and ingredients.

Waiting for ignorant wolves.

Touts. Them all.



They keep making all other reasonable force men look stupid.

Quit linking Valentine to God. Valentine has nothing to do with God; it is originally pagan, stop sugarcoating it.






More so, Jesus is not God.

I cannot continue to be in this country.

dominique:
I knew this topic wouldn't get up to 5 replies before they start blaming the man's failure at parenting at the wife. In reality we know what's happening. Most men don't bond with their kids, they feel the only thing they owe their kids is money, they push their kids away with too much strictness. Once the children are old and on their feet, they want to start getting close but it becomes awkward, they blame the mother for turning their kids against them.

Don't bond with your kids you hear, continue pushing them away because you can conveniently blame your failure at parenting at their mother. We're in the generation of woke kids, if you do anyhow you see anyhow. Let's even look at it critically, how can one person have so much power to turn you against your own parent? That further proves how much the father had failed in parenting.

I had more to what the OP experienced. I never experienced fatherly love at any moment of my life. There was actually sth he taught me by his actions; to be a direct opposite of a father.

SAME with me.

AT a point, I disowned his being my father.

felt:
I struggle a lot because I don't have an emotional relationship with my dad. He never opened up about anything, not even his childhood, failures and all. He is well respected, so it always feel like a struggle to be as good as him. He is nicer to people outside and just cold at home. I don't even want him to be nice at this point because I am already used to him being cold, but I still hate it.

I grew up with a "2 parent" childhood. I say two because my parents have been together for about 30years and basically argued all through.. For about 15 years, have never slept in the same room.

It may sound crazy but I can tell you all my life, I ve seen him laugh just once with us, and that day, I was shocked and confused how to respond to it. If I never saw him happy with his friends, I d have thought he was never capable of it.

He never congratulated me, instead compares us with others. Even when I finished sec school, after the graduation event when everyone is happy, the first words from his mouth with a disgusting look was "no prizes" when he realised I didn't receive any graduation prize.

No one feels comfortable with him. We can't even be around close perimeter when he is around, we speak to him from a corner because of fear. It's extremely uncomfortable when you find yourself alone with him, because the only conversation is perhaps a complaint or talking about the future, and it is one-directional and controlling.

Yes, he didn't really beat us, but he was and is still distant and extremely controlling. If he entered the sitting room, we all left. He watches (TV) news alone and even if we just weren't interested, he makes us feel worse by asking us questions and ridiculing us for not knowing. And not a joke type of ridicule, but plain... "Are you stupid" type. The first time he saw me watching a movie at 14, he called me stupid watching people make money, instead of learning how to make mine. First time I genuinely asked him a question about something I didn't understand in my science book, he made me look so stupid. It made me doubt myself so bad and want to choke myself whenever I didn't understand anything. But looking back, how will I really fully understand something I ve never seen and a young age...at 13 years old. Infact the exact topic was on electromagnetism (Motors and generators).. I can cram the definitions and did relatively well in the tests, I was only looking for an actual understanding. I remember I will then read random abstract non-related books online to force myself to understand everything, and go in a loop when. I can't. Recently I ve tried to slowly and very consciously tell myself that it is okay not to understand sometimes.

The atmosphere around him is horrible. Very horrible. I hate being around him, I do. I am closer with my managers at work than him. I tend to bond more to strangers than home. And I am by no stretch a failure, I have achieved things that people would have doubted I did, but he never congratulated me. Instead he makes me feel bad for not doing it his way or not doing better. He compared me with many people growing up, but now I am better than them, he never congratulated me.


I don't like him. People say they love their dad. I basically simply do not!. I only feel appreciation towards him and tbh, I d love to gather and return all the money I think he may have spent on me growing up, so maybe I will feel free. I don't just like him.

To our Older people here,.. Please help me...

I m getting past my mid 20's and this is troubling me. I don't want to say this, but tbh, I hate him, I hate the person he made me become. I do understand people have fights with their spouses but I question what we (kids) really did to deserve this. What was our offence

Maybe my offence is existing and I am sorry for doing that Sir.

Dem really beat bullshit off this guy.


What's the cowardice all about when you were already becoming a Nigerian's hero? What's the transferred aggression for? Is it not Buhari you should squarely curse?

Well..

These Armed Forces act as though they love to suffer in this shithole of a country. They love being used all in the name of obeying the last order. Many reasons I hardly pity any of them when calamity befalls them.


I understand everyone wants to fight the just fight of peace, justice, and security.


I put it to you: mankind's government cannot give you all those. It cannot solve our problems.


The only government I support and will continue supporting is God's Kingdom.

Please train your child in a Christain way. Teach him what to say, do, and behave. Thank you.

It is only God's kingdom that can solve humankind's problems.

There is no relationship between God and Valentine's day.

fati2001:
because that's the only thing they think 24/
7





St Valentine's Day is an annual festival to celebrate romantic love, friendship and admiration. Every year on 14 February people celebrate this day by sending messages of love and affection to partners, family and friends.



but no some so called human's changed it to something else..

GOD have mercy.

The day has zilch to do with Christians. Check again.