Nia69:
Probably your attitude. I have those qualities too and I'm not single.

You may not be single. But you are by no means ahead of me.

CSTRR:
The most shallowest women in the world are in america.
If you are not 6ft tall atleasst ,Konji go finish you.

Praise God, Nigerian women can get some shut eye even if it's fa few minutes.

The fact that life showed this man shege to the extent that he paid to have his bones broken.

GreatVocalist:

People are wired differently though.

When a man doesn't tick all these boxes, what message does that send to you?

Same thing it sends to you. I think you know it better than I do.

Kriss216:

Your defense line is so weak, lok

You think I give a fok what you think about my defense? What's this? Some moot court session?

Kriss216:

Funny enough, it was the matured and reputable Nairalanders that suggested that option.

What's their Facebook username or twitter handle? LinkedIn nko? Lemme go stalk them

Kriss216:

@Bolded.

Should I dig out posts of some monikers here that suggested this option as a leverage to get adequate sex from a wife?

Who are they?
Do you know who they IRL?

I'm talking about verifiable humans, you're talking about moniker.
You do know teenagers are on this forum right?

GreatVocalist:

Why is the fourth reason a problem to you? Doesn't that pass off as being too clingy?

No. There's a fine line between constant communication and clinginess.
I want a man who can chip in a bit of a conversation as he prepares to go to work, during his break time in the office, on his way home from work and after he's eaten, resting and retiring to bed, when he's out with friends, etc stuff like that. A little "hey" "what are you up to?" "your day going on well?" "OK something unusual happened at work" just basic conversation.

Very different from someone who wants to be on the phone with you all the time, gets suspicious of everything and everyone, for example, you didn't pick up the phone when they called, where you'll be afraid to even say "I'm sorry I have to go". That's obsessive and clingy.

Kriss216:
When a single and hórny man always desire for sex, the society will beckon on him to go and get married. The man will obediently go and get married and his wife will start to deprive him of same sex he was getting abundantly as a single man.

The man will now rush to the society to complain of not getting the sex they promised he'll be getting bountifully. The society, being feminine in nature, will tell him ;

-Have a talk with your wife
-Be helping her in doing house chores
-Be washing her pants and bras twice a week
-Always buy her gifts
-Take her for vacation
-Always send her money for no reason
-Make her happy

My questions to the society are;

1. If a man has to do all these before getting sex from his beloved wife, what then is the essence of marriage?

2. What does a man benefit from marriage?

3. What are the things a wife can do that a baby mama cannot do?

You're lying through your teeth and you know it
From all the advices men give men or women give men, these two are universal.
1. Help out with the chores.
2. Help out with the kids.

I've never ever heard anyone tell a man that he must take his wife on a vacation before he can get sex. Never!

I'm tall
Very slender
Slight curve
Pretty face
No dirty /dusty feet
No faux lashes
No heavy makeup
Takes care of personal hygiene
And,, introverted

So can any of you tell me why I'm still single?
Spirit husband?

Arrogance
Dishonesty
Stinginess
Lack of attempt to ensure constant communication etc

thesicilian:

First, you are not even half as smart as the drug baron or the terrorist.
Second it is not a sign of intelligence to judge a population of over 250million by the actions of less than 20 people at the top.
Third, I believe you would change your opinion about how smart we are the moment you step your feet outside the shores of the country and observe how well your people who seemed to be nobodies in Nigeria are doing abroad

.

thesicilian:
Lol. I'm sure the people who did this research sat in their air conditioned offices in New York or wherever to gather data online and formulate what they know nothing about. Nigerians are some of the smartest and most intelligent people on earth, that's why we can compete with anyone on a level playing field. It's just the situation we find ourselves in Nigeria that make us seem not to know what we're doing.

Yes, very smart. But we have a drug baron for president, a terrorist for vice and hopefully an ex con for senate president.
We're so smart we managed to pay for our naira with naira while defending the man who lovingly lent us 2 recessions we haven't recovered from.
Your ignorance isn't cute.

I like the fact that they adopted kids. Nigerians don't really like adopting. That's why an almost 60 year old woman will be doing everything to conceive. A child is a child. Train them well and they'll love you for life, all things being equal.

Obviously Nigerians aren't very smart people.
The median IQ of the average Nigerian was 84 in 2018, and later dropped down to 67.76 in 2023.
I mean what other reason is there as to why people will love and support the same people who have (almost) ruined their lives?
A smart society encourages objectivity and discourages sentiments.
Smart people don't hold to tribal/religious sentiments at the expense of humanity. A smart person makes informed decisions.
Kleptocracy, religious and ethnic clashes and divisions, mob justice and many more are a proof that the Nigerian society is breeding very dull individuals who go on to give birth to dull children and so on and so forth.
Sigh.

Too much suffering can make you begin to see things upside down. Sorry ehn

ufotunang:
Even when APC presidential form was 100 million naira and nigerians and some APC party members complained they did not reduce the price of the form

The same are shedding blood from their eyes for LP 15 million.
Meanwhile APC charges more than double for that.

Imagine Peter Obi as your president.
For every time people complained, he listened and tried to act.
It took a handful of complaints on twitter. No body protested or carry placard for him to get LP to reduce the fee.
But no, you can't imagine him as your president because you're cursed with suffering.

Why are you bothered what adult physique your daughters will have when they're fully grown up?
Just like face, complexion, physique is determined mostly by the gene pool. The combination of genetic traits of the extended family. She may not be as endowed as her mother, simply because she looks so much like grandma or an aunt or a female cousin.

Peter Obi is a liar but Tinubu a drug baron is the better choice. Swines.

renderme:

He didn’t disavow, he doubled down. Lol! Have u seen the one he was praising ojukwu in an interview? Here’s the link:

https://mobile.twitter.com/DeeOneAyekooto/status/1632611148968206336


And here is the link to the GRV twitter spaces discussing how “igbos should take Lagos and chase all traditional rulers from power as they go to vote LP”

https://mobile.twitter.com/jeffphilips1/status/1632620579755896833

You're disgusting.
Quoting a serial liar Jeff Phillips who lies at the drop of a hat.

Won't stop Peter Obi from reclaiming his mandate.

Must be an igbo man who killed that 15 year old.
Everything that goes wrong in Nigeria has an igbo person behind it.

ycat:
His/her father and mother are Yoruba and Lagos is Yorubaland.

Speaking Yoruba does not make you Yoruba just as speaking English doesn't make you British.

If you are born by two ethnic groups, you are half n half.

We are indigenous people and can't be another ethnic group just because you are born there, you can only be Yoruba if both of your parents are Yoruba.

Say anything you want, the people responsible for all of these are Yoruba who watched as you got comfortable enough to call their bluff on their land.

Your half and half rhetoric is as useless as a limp dick.
This "Igbo people want to take over our land" is a worn out sentiment.
Divide and rule will not succeed anymore.

Flunitrazepamm:

Stupid bloody mofo, is your own father from Lagos? You guys should return to the pit of hell you came from. Cannibals !

I won't mind plucking out your eyeballs, and eat them and sucking your brain juice with a straw.
The rest of you is useless.

helinues:
Gbadebo will lose this election even Jupiter residents go feel am.

Imagine those who care less about the development of their region want to impose a failure Gbadebo on us who has no family achievement not to talk of political achievements. Thunder punish devil

We go show una say SW na indeed Sophisticated West

Atowunrinwa can not lord over us

Apart from tribal ethnic slurs, what other thing identifies a man with a tiny deek?
If you can't impregnate your wife today, I doubt you can, you'll blame igbo people.
Frustrated loon.

Look at those foaming at the mouth with their pencil deeks.
None of the 3 candidates are igbo. But somehow you've convinced yourself Igbos are the reason you've failed to impregnate your wife.

Faiththatworks:
Although I have made up my mind not to comment on the Election of the 25th of February again but I will make an exception today.
Soyombo the real indigenes of Lagos State are very very very angry with the boastful, immature and uncouth language the Obidients have been pouring all over the media( online and offline).
I was born in Lagos,had my primary and secondary education in Lagos and went to government school with the real indigenes of Lagos growing up.
My secondary school education in Lagos State was in a boarding house in a far flung location,where having an ibo name automatically disqualified you from getting admission into the school.
I was admitted because I had both ibo and Yoruba names.
The Crux of my story is I'm in WhatsApp groups with my primary and secondary school friends and the feedback I get everyday from the group is disheartening.
The indigenes of Lagos are very very angry with the loud uncouth noise of the Obidients especially those from ibo extraction.
There's anger from imota to isale eko,from badagry to Epe,the people are seething with rage,even the educated ones are unleashing beastly articles about the occupation that's happening on their Homeland.
The admin of my WhatsApp groups have deleted many inflammatory post in our groups to calm down nerves.
Soyombo should know the mood of the real indigenes of Lagos is that of rage and anger to what they see as a hostile take over of their land.
I pray Sanwo-olu wins with a landslide on Saturday,that's the only thing that can assuage the feeling of anger among those I have talked to.
I will play my part by voting APC from top to bottom on Saturday.
It's an error to keep calling Lagos a no man's land,there are people who call Lagos their state of origin,you must respect the feelings of these real owners of Lagos
God bless Nigeria

Omo ale.
Is your father from lagos?
His grandfather nko?
As them born you for lagos, na so dem born chukwudi. You speak Yoruba, so does he.
You pay tax, so does he.
So what gives you the right to lagos more than he?

Atms are barely giving new notes in my town. All POS has are old notes which are expensive to withdraw.
OK, lemme deposit old notes in the bank, no way.