₦airaland Forum

vickydevoka:
That’s y you are lady. You complain over everything. If he doesn’t call always na u go still complain. Live is not always they way u want it.

PureFace1:
That's not constant communication, you are actually the clingy and obsessive one. Why do you require so much texting every day and want to know what he is doing at home and work?

So many Redflags and deep insecurities, no valueable man will stay once he noticed that.

Pathfinder2090:
Your pic first before I will comment 😁

Nia69:
Not being single doesn't automatically mean I'm ahead of you, why do you even think about that? Who knows I might be.

Don't quote me with bad vibes, I answered this, nothing more.

GreatVocalist:
No, I dont.

I think people are wired differently, and there's no one-size-fits-all pattern of communication.

I know that women desire more attention than men do, I also know that there are women who define what you mentioned above as clinginess.

So I don't know it better than you do, not even as much.

Nia69:
Probably your attitude. I have those qualities too and I'm not single.

CSTRR:
The most shallowest women in the world are in america.
If you are not 6ft tall atleasst ,Konji go finish you.

GreatVocalist:
People are wired differently though.

When a man doesn't tick all these boxes, what message does that send to you?

Kriss216:
Your defense line is so weak, lok

Kriss216:
Funny enough, it was the matured and reputable Nairalanders that suggested that option.

Kriss216:
@Bolded.

Should I dig out posts of some monikers here that suggested this option as a leverage to get adequate sex from a wife?

GreatVocalist:
Why is the fourth reason a problem to you? Doesn't that pass off as being too clingy?

Kriss216:
When a single and hórny man always desire for sex, the society will beckon on him to go and get married. The man will obediently go and get married and his wife will start to deprive him of same sex he was getting abundantly as a single man.

The man will now rush to the society to complain of not getting the sex they promised he'll be getting bountifully. The society, being feminine in nature, will tell him ;

-Have a talk with your wife
-Be helping her in doing house chores
-Be washing her pants and bras twice a week
-Always buy her gifts
-Take her for vacation
-Always send her money for no reason
-Make her happy

My questions to the society are;

1. If a man has to do all these before getting sex from his beloved wife, what then is the essence of marriage?

2. What does a man benefit from marriage?

3. What are the things a wife can do that a baby mama cannot do?

thesicilian:
First, you are not even half as smart as the drug baron or the terrorist.
Second it is not a sign of intelligence to judge a population of over 250million by the actions of less than 20 people at the top.
Third, I believe you would change your opinion about how smart we are the moment you step your feet outside the shores of the country and observe how well your people who seemed to be nobodies in Nigeria are doing abroad

thesicilian:
Lol. I'm sure the people who did this research sat in their air conditioned offices in New York or wherever to gather data online and formulate what they know nothing about. Nigerians are some of the smartest and most intelligent people on earth, that's why we can compete with anyone on a level playing field. It's just the situation we find ourselves in Nigeria that make us seem not to know what we're doing.

ufotunang:
Even when APC presidential form was 100 million naira and nigerians and some APC party members complained they did not reduce the price of the form

renderme:
He didn’t disavow, he doubled down. Lol! Have u seen the one he was praising ojukwu in an interview? Here’s the link:

In Lagos, we are children of Obafemi Awolowo, Lateef Jakande, Madam Tinubu, MKO Abiola, Bola Ahmed Tinubu. We are not war merchants, we believe in ONE NIGERIA yesterday, today and forever!!!WE ARE YORUBAS

We say no to Ipob terrorists organisation in Lagos! pic.twitter.com/gZEOwwwnci

— Ayekooto (@DeeOneAyekooto) March 6, 2023

And here is the link to the GRV twitter spaces discussing how “igbos should take Lagos and chase all traditional rulers from power as they go to vote LP”

This exactly sounds like terrorists who want to take over Lagos....smh pic.twitter.com/xfXjGibgnN

— Souljah (@jeffphilips1) March 6, 2023