₦airaland Forum

LagosFirstSon:
Young people just wasted like that

So painful

adecz:
Nigerians are a sheepishly gullible
bunch of suffer heads ...


For example, If something has been
selling for N1000 for many years. APC
government comes with their nonsense,
lack of direction policies and the thing
begins to sell for up to N3000, people will
shout, cry and complain.


However, when APC does some abracadabra,
and the thing now comes back to N1900,
everybody go begin clap for APC for a job
well done, forget say the original price was
just N1000❗️❗️❗️😐😐😐




Suffering suffer head people,
how market❓❓

pansophist:
Men just don't like when a woman reminds them of the rules.

It's more about her delivery, not necessarily what she is saying. Some egos have been bruised, hence the pandemonium.

But she is right. That's the point of marriage. A man must be able to provide and protect his family, including his wife. That's also where your pride as a man will come from.

Although men of this generation have narrowed the definition of wifey duties to financial only. So if she is not bringing money, then she is not an asset. That's very wrong.

tollyboy5:
First of all do you think to pay house rent is easy?
I'm sorry I grew up with an apt ideology and I'm still trying to understand relationship matters. Because I don't understand many things I have come to notice and understand.
My parents for instance are old fashioned.
My mum does little trade while my dad provide almost everything.
My mum got established by my dad in the 90s and later my dad lost his job.
We moved from our quarters in garki Abuja then back to Lagos. My dad was the bread winner of his family back then.
After coming back to Lagos my dad then returned to Abuja to start working as contractor, things were not as good as before but my mum was never prepared for this newly kind of life.
She came from a nice family also and she's a strong willed person.
Immediately she started doing more also to provide for me and my sister her nagging increased. There is not always peace whenever my dad return from Abuja. I was the mummy's boi so I always took side with my mum no matter what, while my elder sis is always compassionate towards my dad now reverse is almost the case tho.
My daddy being a gentle person reduce his visit to Lagos. Despite being the landlord lol. My mum was 70% in charge of the house.
Fast forward till now, me and my dad are not close while me and my mum are no more close like we use to.
The last time I went home and wanted to demarcate some extension of the building my mum challenged me that I dare not.
I did not waste time to tell her to return to her father's house if she's not pleased.
I've imagined all the wahala she gave my dad wen I was still her strongest ally. If she felt my dad was not providing enough as a man she should have gone outside to rent 3 bedroom flat and a shop to know if my dad did not provide shelter.

If a man provides shelter for his family I feel he has done a good job. If both party contribute feeding as 50/50 there is nothing bad about that.
The man will still need to pay school fees and other house related bills etc.
So with all this provision and expenses if a lady feels he must also provide all feeding. Then what is the support she's giving to him?
Thanks I'm just trying to learn so I won't be expecting more than I could get from a lady.

eazzzy1:
If women tie sex to provision, men should tie provision to sex too. If every married man only provide on the days they have sex, the average man will provide less than 20 days in a year.

That there are women who still believe sex is beneficial solely to a man is bewildering. If only you know the number of wives who are in therapy because their husbands wouldn’t touch them.

One of the only allure of marriage or any other arrangement that would make me share my space and with someone is increased income, reduced expenses or both. Double income, single bill is the goal. Keep your knacks.

If I wanted to pay for knacks I know how to go about it. I also reserve the right to change customers at will. Having a live-in call girl negates the entire purpose of such lifestyle.

Proserpina:
The bolded.... Like you have typed "helped" that is her role . You are playing around with words, we all know what "to provide" means in this context. Men are to provide, Women are to support.

Sex is scared to her, it is her own input and no matter how cheap or easy to get it may be out there it is something of value to her so if that's what she use to quantity her gain and loss she is justified. It is like telling a man not to see money as a huge factor he contributes to his marriage. Personally if I'm to make a post as hers it will be cooking, yeah because it's something I don't find easy to do but I do it out of love. So that's her compromise, her offer of love, she has the right to use it as a measure. Let's not downplay it because sex is bastardized out there, to her it isn't.

You are right, two wrongs do not make a right.

pocohantas:
1. A wife's role is to support not to provide.
2. She expects her husband to be a major provider.
3. She can't be sexually available for a non-provider husband.


Anyone arguing this is being unrealistic.

If men wanted women to be providers, they won't expect providing women to hide it from the public. Neither would they call women richer than their men, the HUSBAND. Tell me about "na she marry man keep for house".

We all know the truth. But let's argue...

Quote me when you are knacking your wife without providing as an able-bodied man.

✌️✌️✌️✌️

Proserpina:
Where's the lie in her post?

As a man it is your responsibility to take care of your woman, if you can't you have no business with marriage.

lexy2014:
Off point.

that is not what I asked you.

1. if that is the emphasis as you claim, how well have you held those in government accountable to the standard of whatever is what doing is what doing well .. haba !

2. did you vote for obi to provide bore hole for the community?

3. you are an ardent supporter of Tinubu. the people that you voted for and that you support who are in government, how have they made Nigeria better since 2015 till date?

4. should the performance of those people in government not be your concern instead of whether obi donated borehole or not?

5. why the obsession with obi when there are so many government officials that you support who have nothing to show despite all the billions entrusted to them?

6. why did it need to take obi to provide borehole for a community when there are several elected government officials who are responsible for the welfare of that community?

7. a challenge has already been thrown to your likes to go to the community to do a better borehole. when will you take up the challenge?

8. if you once said , then how should a personal donation of a borehole by obi who is not in government become an issue of national debate?

9. if you can defend the profligacy of tinubu in carrying his son to dubai with government funds that did not benefit any Nigerian, why then is a borehole donation to other nigerians now a big deal for you?

lexy2014:
that is not what I asked you.

1. if that is the emphasis as you claim, how well have you held those in government accountable to the standard of whatever is what doing is what doing well .. haba !

2. did you vote for obi to provide bore hole for the community?

3. you are an ardent supporter of Tinubu. the people that you voted for and that you support who are in government, how have they made Nigeria better since 2015 till date?

4. should the performance of those people in government not be your concern instead of whether obi donated borehole or not?

5. why the obsession with obi when there are so many government officials that you support who have nothing to show despite all the billions entrusted to them?

6. why did it need to take obi to provide borehole for a community when there are several elected government officials who are responsible for the welfare of that community?

7. a challenge has already been thrown to your likes to go to the community to do a better borehole. when will you take up the challenge?

8. if you once said , then how should a personal donation of a borehole by obi who is not in government become an issue of national debate?

9. if you can defend the profligacy of tinubu in carrying his son to dubai with government funds that did not benefit any Nigerian, why then is a borehole donation to other nigerians now a big deal for you?

lexy2014:
to a very large extent, yes.

majority are farmers and access to clean portable water is a huge challenge not just for farming but for domestic use

lexy2014:
if that is the emphasis as you claim, how well have you held those in government accountable to the standard of whatever is what doing is what doing well .. haba !

did you vote for him to provide bore hole for the community?

you are an ardent supporter of Tinubu. the people that you voted for and that you support who are in government, how have they made Nigeria better since 2015 till date?

should the performance of those people in government not be your concern instead of whether obi donated borehole or not?

why the obsession with obi when there are so many government officials that you support who have nothing to show despite all the billions entrusted to them?

why did it need to take obi to provide borehole for a community when there are several elected government officials who are responsible for the welfare of that community?

a challenge has already been thrown to your likes to go to the community to do a better borehole. when will you take up the challenge?

if you once said , then how should a personal donation of a borehole by obi who is not in government become an issue of national debate?

if you can defend the profligacy of tinubu in carrying his son to dubai with government funds that did not benefit any Nigerian, why then is a borehole donation to other nigerians now a big deal for you?

PresidObi:
People in APC are scared stiff about Peter Obi, for some reasons, he's everything their principal can never be. He is redefining politics and broadening the spectrum.

God will bless Peter Obi as always.

immortalcrown:
Even Madam 40 seconds?

My question is, what exactly is bad about Obi's donation of boreholes? Don't the beneficiaries need the boreholes? What exactly is bad about it? If you attack my comment without mentioning exactly why the boreholes donation is bad, you are mentally-deranged.

If you suggest that Burna Boy and Davido should use their money to help the poor instead of spending the money on cars and jewelleries, fools will remind you that Burna Boy and Davido are not the government. The fools will say you should not tell a rich man how he should spend his money.

But the same fools act as if Obi is the government. The same fools try to tell Obi how he should spend his money. OBO allegedly gave orphanages 30 million Naira and there is no physical evidence of it for the public. Those who asked for evidence were informed that OBO owes nobody any explanation. But explanations are being demanded for Obi's donation of boreholes. When the government does a substandard project and you criticise it, online thugs will say "We are getting there, it is a gradual process". In fact, they will insist that the substandard project is ultramodern. But the same thugs are condemning the boreholes Obi donated. Double personality disorder.

If Obi provides water in Enugu, his haters will still say he is helping only his own tribe.

Let him do his things without minding the critics.

Jewessgratitud3:
Why will they continue to take shit? When they know their Worth? It's only a woman who doesn't know her worth that Will sit and watch a man take her for granted.

Why will you have a beautiful woman and still go out and cheat with one smelly girl that has not bathe herself well. Tomorrow they bring one deadly disease home and infect this beautiful women. Not worth it!

Any woman who suspect her man cheating should divorce him sharp sharp. Don't even wait to confirm.

See beauties now. Abeg make una take una life do better thing.

Biglittlelois:
Lol the era of "enduring wives" has come to an end, stay if you can manage a cheating partner, leave if you can't.

Penguin2:
Reactions

See me smiling from ear to ear🤓

Like someone said in another thread, once the north becomes Obidient, it’s over. Because not even rigging will stop him.

We will be there in 2027!

Proserpina:
Like... They don't have to wet their pants when they see women making their own money.

We gat this balanced

The chopping will go around

Proserpina:
Money

I won't lie 🤥

Ati owolowo ati Owo eni once I have it, my shoulder pad dey rise

I hate being broke.

ManirBK:
true talk bro but some were given half bag of Rice and half bag of Millet or GuineaCorn thats not fair why not full bag!!

ArcSEMPECJ:
Lols....like he is leading with example not to give shishi?

He wants to appear like Obi but will surely not be like Obi....

Let him tell us the role of his son in the Dubai visit along side 36 men in the journey to beg for food .....( Yet nothing came out of it ).....tax payers money gone ....lols

Pls he shouldn't bother....Nigerians will celebrate him the way he has celebrated the economy of Nigeria ...

Proserpina:
Cc Seun

Seun

Mynd44

Dominique

Please do something about this annoying being, I take God beg you.

Proserpina:
Cc

Seun

Mynd44

Dominique

Kingpele:
The award is for well dressed female ..and the idiot is wearing female clothes, so I don't see any fault from the organisers..if a cross dresser did better than women ,who suppose to know better .than the joke is on the women present during the award ceremony .....

Proserpina:
Cc

Seun

Mynd44

Dominique

Goodlady:
It's part of it. Many idiôts v shown themselves on social media and they have been sacked.
We just need a sane society.

Goodlady:
Recruitment process and taking a closer look at social life of personnel is one easy thing to use to get out bad eggs. We v seen killer cops, rude soldiers using social media anyhow without sanction. A sane society ll breed sane security agencies. It's now a time to stop going excuses and perform.

phorget:
Nobody will be happy about any bad news cos it affects us all negatively, its unfortunate that we cant afford not to hear or read bad news this days due to the choices some of you made for us. We are in it together already but I just hope we all survive this together too.

Goodlady:
Yenyenyen!
We v patriotic Nigerian and females are more patriotic sef. So I m not here to blame the president but to say FG as a collective body should v sane personnel that held that binance man down. He shouldn't be escaping