₦airaland Forum

Personally,I don't have issues with adoption,if I have big money,I will adopt someone to just help or improve that person's life. Adoption shouldn't just be only when people couldn't give birth but also a way of helping the less privileged.

Other than that, take the responsibility of doing one thing in the house, filling out the gas or paying Nepa bills or water bill or buying provision whenever it finishes....


Inukwa!!!my first FTC this year,dear brother mynd44 or Bro Seun or Bro lala, can I forward my account number?

streetsoldier1:
I'm also a child trainer , a free with you and employ that method too. I will stop teaching this January to focus on Biz, educators dey suffer for this Una kantry.

oya finish the gist joorr

Yeah!!! I agree with the suffering part! Just look for another side hustle, although the area where you work determines your pay,an educator at Ajangbadi,Surulere and Lekki or Ikoyi don't earn same oooo

streetsoldier1:
some kids defy all these butty methods, some even defy all teaching theories ( behaviourism et Al)

In child training,God factor can not also be ignored!Also I noticed that sometimes children has a way of interpreting emotions (pain, sadness),as I have met a very stubborn boy who seems to be defying every discplinary methods I knew,I decided to befriend him and pay closer attention to him,he opened up about his parents, his parents were separated and his father forcefully took him away from his mother at 13years,he wants to go back to his mother but his father won't allow him and his father's new wife was abusive.The boy used stubbornness to wage war against his father and the new wife which was in turn affecting his academics.When I approached the father,he said that the boy's mother died a year ago and they hid the news from the boy.

Infact it's a long story....so some times, there's a reason a child is actually misbehaving, to you (parents),it might be infinitesimal but to the child, it's a big deal.


By the way,my nairaland first post in 2021

mariahAngel:
Ihe a anyi gaje a banye wu afo ohuru, biko biingoo, gbalia chegharia nwa anwula nne gi.
Onweghi uru nu na icho uka.

Biingoo, happy new year in few minutes time.

Chaiii...Nnaa jisie ike!

Nice!

The thing is that when sanctioning an erring child, there are one million things to do to get them properly disciplined..it varies with each child, you just have to study them and know what works for such child.

I have a 5year old boy that what works for in terms of discipline is just to "quarantine" him(lolzzz),he will promise you heaven and earth just to be free, the thing scares him seriously.I use that to drive a point....I think it's same with every child just as a parent,be patient and fine out what works for that child....

God help us in this country oooo


We need a miracle at the rate things are going!

Explorers:
2 palliative with sauce, fried plantain, beef and 1 female egg.

That looks like a male egg,please!!!

I have never killed chicken before and I don't plan to....

EzzyCarter:
Yes I have....The best Christmas gift I could have asked for... A beautiful set of twin girls

Waoooo.... congratulations.... God bless them

A church member gave me a first Christmas gift,I was so surprised and pray that God bless her oooo.I wasn't even expecting anything from her.

Nawaooo.... I think the price is reducing.

Nna ehnn... this is wickedness ooo

RaptObserver:
She looks older than 58 even with her wealth

Somehow true, maybe work related stress and she had five children, that one only ages women faster.

Biglittlelois:
I just have a natural hatred for it.

My sister,I thought I'm the only one oooo

Wig ko wig ni.... misplaced priorities...

I saw two men's picture up there, which is the cheatee and which is the cheated?

Asun as in peppered goat meat?

Hmmm..... when is he going to sanction monikers that are tribalistic and humiliating others based on their genders?

Free things dey run belle ooo

Mtchewwww.... small money that's approximately #4500 in a day....

Na waooo...



Redpillers whatcha say?

Please don't go for referral wifey oooo,do the finding and searching yourself.God will guide and direct your path.

Pinkbeauty5:
Thanks you for your input. I do flog them but I just felt it was too much.

I will work on myself and try to go easy on the flogging .

Don't flog with anger but rather with love....A nine year old boy may not even respect your cane or flogging but will shiver at his father's presence or appearance.Whatever correctional approach you want to use, do it with Love and work on your anger for the sake of your husband and children.

Hian!!!

Why do these people like stressing Nigerians?can't we just do it at the comfort of our homes?

apasino01:
Confront Wetin ?

Me sef know say as a kid my ear wasn’t really working.

I no hear Word!

Hahahaha... your case is indeed different!

Forcing me to swallow pawpaw when I didn't like nor fancy pawpaw.


Another one,my mum always buys oversized clothes for me during my teens,my class mates will bully me and call me names because I usually wear oversize.It made me depressed then,I was always hiding.This particular Aunt of mine enjoys seeing me in a bad mood because of this.

repent4christ:
Ladies are more reasonable when commenting on marriage than male's on this platform, why are you guy's so bitter....just wish HMB...doesn't take anything from your soul.

Nna ehnnn... the thing is getting out of hand ooo, nairaland males(not all though) are always looking for a little opportunity to bash and lash females here.I don't know if those males have been meeting females here and it didn't end well for them or whether the females they meet outside have been breaking and piecing their fragile hearts.... It's not their fault anyway,Seun condones it.


To the op, happy married life, you both will grow old together and reap the fruits of your labor.

My dear, she doesn't need any of those,my children may be visiting their great grandma and I will just get a crate if soya milk juice....then the children will just play with her and disturb her peaceful life... finish.


I will just snap them.... finish.


All those old people just need you to visit them and keep them company.

cococandy:
Food

Nna ehnnn... Nne kuku keep mi oooo

What's this torture ooooo