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Chaiii....

And she is even taller than una Messi....


Go girl.....

How can you call that potty up there, Nigerian joll of rice?

Na waooo....


So he should have been sent out of the house of God?Why not let God fight His fight? Meanwhile,did the law find him guilty?or is it the usual social media trials?

Typical Nigerians,with all the spiritual messages going on at Shiloh 2020, you all had the chance to notice Boidun...

oazeez1991:
In my own opinion, d ans 2 ur first question is, YES.

No mata hw much or deeply u love a person, smtin attracted u 2 dem at d genesis of d relationship, so dia will olwez kom a time in d phase of d relationship wia u get 2 meet sm1 wu has more of dat quality/qualities u saw in ur present partner dat made u fall in love wif dem, nd dat moment, u wud wish u met dis new individual b4 ur present partner, temptation wud buildup high 2 leave ur present one 4 dis new individual (who is still a stranger in ur life), it wud tk DISCIPLINE, MORAL, COMMITMENT, nd above ol, God's GRACE 4 one 2 overcome such temptation.

For d oda question, 2 come out 4rm such situation, try apply dose caplock statements nd seek God's grace.

Waooo...I appreciate so much!

Geesaintagape:
I bought phone for one chinasa wey dey do Holy holy OK make she come as agreed she start preaching, oya give my phone she say never.
I went straight and reported to reverend father cos she b Catholic girl.

Lolzzz...but did she finally return the phone??

Biglittlelois:
Thank you fa,

Some people will confidently stay in nonsense called relationship, and still be asking for advice instead of using their brain and legs,

Later they will come here and classify all women and men as having one nasty behaviour, when they are mostly at fault.

I wonder why other comments above didn't tell Op the truth

Aunty, please be calming down,Biko......

crackhaus:
This your deflection is wonderful...

But I'm not the only one here who assumed your post was about a female (you in particular sef)

My brother, it's a free world, you can assume anything jare, nothing spoil!

Na waooo

gaius01:
You are welcome.
I didn't arrange it very well, probably that's why you had to read it again. Next time I will write it with ease for better insight !

Thanks again, you answered the question well,I understand you perfectly.... You gave a new meaning to the word 'love' and 'commitment'...

I'm grateful... Truth is someone who trusts my opinion was in the situation and for some reasons,I didn't give a more detailed answer like yours.

mrblessed:
You have done a lot of disservice to the word "love." People who are not contented with what they have, who think the grass is always greener on the other side, are usually left with nothing but regrets when they begin to reap the consequences of their actions. First, you aren't in love with this person as you claimed; you are just infatuated. Second, if you dump him -- something I am sure you have already executed in your mind-- and hook up with the newest guy in your heart, you will always be susceptible to external influence. When the next knight in shining amour comes, it is going to be business as usual.

Thanks, but I believe that is your opinion, this person is still in a loving and committed relationship and isn't planning to dump anyone....

sisisioge:
Well, when we fall in love in the real sense of it, it starts with romantic love which has a lifespan of about 6months afterwhich commitment love sets in if we are really into each other.

So, it is apparent that the initial gragra had worn off and you aren't committed. Good luck.

Hmmm... thank you, although the person in question has been in a committed relationship for over 12years and still is... but the question is,is it actually possible to admire another person?

crackhaus:
Lol, wasn't this OP married that year... What is this I'm reading?

Abi you don dey see another man?


Stop seeing him, stop calling him, stop chatting with him... If you work together, keep it strictly professional.

Failure to do any of the above and paynt will shift soon...

Lolzzz.... thank you, you answered the question in nairaland way, but it's okay.

I'm just wondering what makes you think that the person in question is a female, the way you guys paint women here is ridiculous,so there are no more good women?

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Love is for a short while .
Commitment is for ever if you are willing to stay.
Your questions depends on two categories.

1. If you are married, the love can go but commitment holds you .
2. If you are datin you can go and get another person.

In essence love draws you closer to a person qualities. Commitment lead you when love seems to be indisposed.


My thoughts though!!

Chaiii... thank you.

blackpanthar:
stop thinking love is emotional....

Love is a choice

Okay, thank you.

Good evening everyone, please I want to ask, is it possible to love someone deeply and after a long period of time, you start nursing a feeling for another person?

How do one come out of such situation, please?


Modified: Thank you to everyone who took out their time to read this piece and respond, I'm so grateful, that's what nairaland should be.

Na waooo,Oga you fall hand die.

Na una dey spoil work for private school teachers.How can you work in a school for a whole 4weeks without negotiating your salary? You are even asking us what to do? The wicked headteacher will even brag to having employed a graduate and paying him #6k.


Is it not better than one million menial jobs? Sometimes,white collar jobs na scam!!!

Ladies let's learn self value and self respect.... please


You're going out to meet a total stranger in a strange environment without cash when you are not an item for ritual sacrifice!!!!

internationalman:
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...

Oga please goan marry!!!!

Sikay19:
Noodles cooked with palm oil

Hmmm....nice oooo, you should have added scent leaf and okpei(locust beans) to it nah.Maybe it will give it a more village taste.

Lolzzz


All those nairalanders males campaigning for baby mama, make una come see oooo.

ZINIIBANKS:
Chii9 maybe this is one of your old account

Who is Chii9?

Ngwa, let the bashing begin!!!!!

Macadamemmy:
Like for PDP
Share for APC

Abeg!!!stop this....

Happy birthday ma'am, you look great.I pray that God give you an outstanding testimony and prosper you more.

7BigSquids:
Toor. If I scratch your throat dia

Lolzzz.... leave me abeg...

I'm interested oooo


I haven't tasted chicken pie Biko..

Waoooo....

I'm surprised about 15 nairaland monikers who commented above were humane and sensitive.Waoooo.... I'm still surprised.


To op, embrace God,He will only give you that which you are seeking for,try also to forgive your mother and reconnect with your father.