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As if those chics care about him. they just there to get on the cover of KING magazine or even Smooth Magazine.

Tgirl4real:
what's d deal  

Pay him no attn. I don't care for those.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=206634.msg3217592#msg3217592 date=1229127547]Larriana King. . . . . .I need u to interview Chika98(She's been a thorn in ma flesh).

I agree with you here. . . . . . . .The two of em must strike a balance.
Meanwhile, women still have that tendency to drop their standards after marriage. I have seen it times without number.
Miss Jackson(the hot diva in the neighbourhood) suddenly got married and she turned poppy(including her dress sense).

Men cheat for sexual satisfaction. . . . . .Men seek for what they lack in their matrimonial bed.[/quote]Jehovah God will give me a man that won't do such.Amen. We women know what the deal is and some of us will do all to keep what we've got.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=206634.msg3217516#msg3217516 date=1229126119]Is it only the tummy?? What about  her hygiene and grooming??

But the problem here is THEY DON'T enjoy it after marriage. . . . .
The only reason they were apparently enjoying it pre-maritally was because they wanted to get hitched by force.
If i satisfy this monsieur i will boost ma chances with him. . . . .It's no rocket science.

Men understand this. . . . .However, men still try and put up a performance with the hustle n bustle they go through during the day.
Men also have to dig deep out there, work, Naija stress alone is enough to kill a man's libido. It's kind of funny women are the only ones who use flimsy excuses like headaches and flu to ward off their men's sexual advances.

When the frustration piles up and get unbearable. . . . .A man would seek for greener pastures.
It doesn't happen in one night. It takes time.
Women should step their game up and do everything humanly possible to keep their men on a leash.[/quote]Listen dear, women don't function like men. It doesn't take much to get him turned on. BUT a women needs to be in the right frame of mind in order to get charged up! Like helping her around the house, looking after the kids. . things like this will make her feel good and open up ( in bed). It is sad to say but I refuse to believe that all men out there cheat for lack of sexual satisfaction unless you have told her about it and she still doesn't give a flying Bleep then that is a whole different ball game. A lot of women I know are doing all they can to keep their husbands just that some of them have that cheating habit in their blood.

tope2000:
Lol . . . . . honestly i have met girls like that
I mean whats the big deal

Yeah like where did you buy your shoes! they so lovely. A naija chic will say " errrrmmm i don't remember" lol

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=206634.msg3217463#msg3217463 date=1229125127]Many men married without test-driving so those ones are bound to have stacks of problems if the sex ain't good.
Now lets move to the ones that got it ON before marriage. . . . .It's no longer a secret that women give their best before marriage than after.
Once a woman is hitched, she forgets all her social responisbilties. . . .She becomes lazy.
Afterall, her goals have been achieved. She is married. Sex should no longer be an Olympic competition(it has now become a routine sex).
Lets just have sex to make babies. . . . .tantric or Karma Sutra should be binned.
Before u know it, the tigress in bed a man once knew is now using the Bible to go against oral and all other sexual activities.

Babes, if only you know. . . .[/quote]U do have a point. BUT seriously who no like better thing?? If a woman enjoys sex then I don't think she will want to be having routine sex. Often times women can be weighed down by household responsibilities and kids etc. Men also have to understand this as well. Even you lot will need a little help getting it up in the near future. Marriage is all about changing and growing together and when the other person is slacking then call them back to order. . . rather than jumping on the next available chic down the street

follypimpi:
@~Sauron~
You took the words out of my mouth.I totally agree with you,Especially when them don born,the tummy will start piling up.them go jst dey too relaxed,whereas we MEN still want the old vibe.

Oh shut your grub up! Who deals with the beer belly?? and receding hair line? U men want the old vibe ke?

tope2000:
Kia, esp us naija women
We lie about our relationships, marriages even the cream they use for their body
This is why i only have 2 female friends, n i don't even tell them about relationship either good or bad let alone seek advice, abeg.
I will rather go with my heart

I don't see anything wrong with sharing somethings with friends. Absolutely cool BUT you have to be careful with whom. If we were still in high school back home then that is different when getting a love letter from a guy is such a huge deal . You just have to be very careful though.

sherri:
it 's very saddening to see  the sheer ignorance and complacence displayed by the very  people who are supposed to be the future!

a few questions to ponder:

just because "it's not new" does that make it any less true or real?
does not the fact that it's not new make it more expedient to find a solution?
CNN is one and the same as the American govt?
are you all waiting for the ruling class to find a solution just like you're waiting for them to provide the very basic of infrastructures?
oh! you didn't know you had a ruling class?
if you are so concerned and defensive about the negative portrayal of Nigeria what are you willing to do about it?
who do you guys think is bankrolling MEND? 

i hope you all realize you can make a difference and you can bring about desired change to your various communities contrary to what you have been conditioned to believe.

lastly, oil is not a curse, it's the selfish braindead morons, a.k.a ruling class that are cursed! and the people who remain complacent? they deserve their ruling class!

When it comes to the country Nigeria then it is! Let's be realistic for once. Look at Dubai. . . It is a blessing to our country but we have mis-managed all of our natural resources that it has now become a curse to us.

tope2000:
This is the reason why a woman need to be careful about who she calls friends, people u seek advice from in term of ur marriage

lol. They will tell you to do this and that BUT when it comes to them. . they will do anything to keep their man. How many ppl out there will tell you that their marriage isnt rosy?? My dear na life be dat

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=206634.msg3217417#msg3217417 date=1229124206]That is where the problem lies. . . .Some men would lie they are getting quality even when they are not.
The thing is. . . . .most women thrive on lies to pump their self confidence. Men have been indoctrinated to believe this.
Even when a woman is UGLY, just tell her she is the most beautiful woman and she is bound to believe it regardless of what her mirror says.

Men are easy to tame, unfortunately, most women don't have their partners' password.[/quote]Ehn so why marry her then? Assuming the two people where getting it on before they married and if not, you teach her! What is the reason behind lying to a girl that is your wife about her love making skills?? seeing as you are stuck with her for life! My dear, It doesn't work that way. Any married woman/man out there would wanna be the best they can be to their mate in bed.

busybein:
is it every love that is meant to be?do u know if that girl would have made ur life a living hell if u married her?do u know if its this same God uve left  that did u a  favour by letting her go,after seeing what a terrible marriage u lots would have had?when u blived in God then,ever heard of every disappointment is a blessing?did u ever bother asking that same God uve deserted why ur lover broke off with u?sometimes we want things to happen our own way,we never want to find out if we r on d right track

This right here is what a LOT of people forget. There is a reason it happened. You just have to ask God to show you that and also the lessons that you need to learn from them

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=206634.msg3217398#msg3217398 date=1229123863]I disagree with you. It is one thing for a woman to think the SEX is great, it's anutha thing for the man to agree with this.
A cheating man would hold his horses when he is confronted with an amazon.
Sex doesn't have to be 20 times a week. One quality sex session administered in the right mood is better than 100 sex sessions without tact!!![/quote]Ok so assuming the man always tells his wife. . you are so good and you know your shit! He acts like he wants her too ie He's always ripping her clothes out . . calling off work to come home yada yada yada. . Then he STILL goes out there to cheat. . then what?? What is that then??

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=206634.msg3217384#msg3217384 date=1229123595]NEGATIVE!!![/quote]I stand by my words. Come what may. All one has to do is to pray and hope. BUT a cheating man will ALWAYS cheat. Doesn't mean they don't love their wives just that they cannot help it. Na today?

Like someone has said. Call her up and ask her what she wants. . if not. . call the whole thing off! She's playing immature games

They really need to quit banning you. It is now ridiculous.

@ Post: Give a man all the good sex you can. . love him all you want. . if he will cheat. .he will do just that.

Is that Q on there?? See chics proudly claiming the jump off title. This is so funny. Not only black American girls jare
Didn't a Naija chic from MD come the flava flav's casting call? talking about she's gonna be his african queen.

Brash: Leave matter. I full ground! lol

MrCrackles:
What do you want from me?

Abeg leave me jare _{How naw}?!

Says the dude who was professing his undying love to me this other day

I dey small oh

sistawoman:
but you just said that you know people that have had sex and are still stiff. They just opened their legs and did not learn anything.

If you do it and don't learn from it then you don't have knowledge correct. So an experienced sexual person gained knowledge from the experience and uses it next time.

Where did I say that? I merely said it doesn't make sense for people to have sex and not learn anything. Two different things dear

Brash thinks it is pathetic??

igwe 1:
biko aghotaghi m ebea ofuma.
Mana achoro m ima ebe ino wele mara onye mbu?

Inukwaaa. Amaghi onye ibu. A justurum n'ekwu maka mbosi a ino n'ekwu maka ilu nwanyi.

sistawoman:
Bcuz i sleep with 50 different guys it does not mean I have sexual experience it just means I sleep around and they do what they need to do to get their nut.  If i learn nothing, if i try nothing new then I am no more experienced when I am done with guy 50 then i was with guy one.

If I have experience I could have slept with 5 guys but I can hold it down because I make having good sex apart of what i do.  I learn from each sexual encounter.  I take something new from each sexual encounter.  Thus giving me experience and not just numbers of sexual partners.

An experienced sexual partner knows that laying there like a log is not sexually exciting or fullfilling.

I can understand what you mean but I guess u are talking about a LovePeddler here. Why would anyone open their legs to shag if they cannot get anything out of the experience?? It doesn't add up to me. She might as well "touch" herself to get off rather than just humping dudes for no reason. Normal ppl should learn from each and every sexual experience. We all need it to keep a man in the future. No body wants a prude in bed.

igwe 1:
Kedu ebe ino wele maram?, aka m na-achokwa ooooo.ka mu hapu ime ihe m ga eji taba onwe mu uta n' ikpazu.

Ngwanu. Odikwa nma. Lezie anya maka na ndi na abughi ezigbo mmadu juru eju. Uta awughi ezigbo ihe. So ahotaram ofuma

sistawoman:
Having several sexual partners is different than experience.

With experience you can't be stiff.

With promiscuity you can be stiff.

Two different things.

Ok please explain the two to me because I'm kinda confused here.

igwe 1:
Kedukwanu?
Mgbe obula ichoro ka anyi gba akwukwo!

LOL. Adimma. Okwa ihula onye wayo dika gi. Echekwam n'isi e nwere enyi nwanyi onye ichoro ilu?

igwe 1:
I feel lonely and sad.

Eyaaa. Ele mgbe unu na agba akwukwo?

*sighs* Stay with her. It isn't a death sentence.

You still haven't told us what the texts say?

JustGood:
Promiscuity dey Britain no be small.
If you leave London and Birmingham and mix more with oyibo, you go sabi say these britico people dey sexually horrible. Married dey yansh colleagues for work. Thats why young men love work nights out on Britain. If you play your game right, you'll definitely end up with some colleague for the night.

I think it obtains in white America as well. . . I have experienced it twice in America

This is so true.

The Lord fights for me always and he will continue to do so. Thank you Lord for all you have done for me. . . Even though I do not deserve it. God is good. All the time! Praise God

Na so e dey start. One day begins a story

tope2000:
Chika u started it on this thread
when jejely told u what i heard about washing machine n u went to told david

u lie, i hear urs n chika are something else
He is?

lol
they do indeed
fill me in on the shortlist

See me see trouble oo. When u were discussing it nko?? I'm just a passer by

chamotex:
Tope's boobs are in the Hall of Fame . . . . . . . . . . . . . they need to be retired

I'm currently scouting for replacement . . . . . . . I've got a shortlist sha

What happened to be being celibate?