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Sometimes you just have to be MEAN. I practically had to yell at someone like "dude! If I girl was chasing you like this . . won't you be very vexed with her?" You just hope they get the point sha.

haha hahaaa. You're quite intrigued by him. The mystery about him is a challenge to you and you just wanna figure him out quick. U wanna know what he's thinking etc. Sadly most times you never do unless u lot become closer i.e fall in love. You find him interesting because he's that which you cannot figure out at least not yet. BUT I do hope he feels the same way oo

buahhahahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. I ave died todayyyyyyyyyy

Pataki:
You are not serious! There is nothing for women to beware about. I ain't no dwarf and none of my family member is

Maybe he wasn't only talking about how tall you are. He may well have been talking about your looks

Let her have some patience because a HUGE fight is on the horizon

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3199012#msg3199012 date=1228781213]Don't mind Jenny. . . . . . .I would give you Taribo West F.O.C. [/quote]Jenny you hear am?? Taribo West na fine bobo for you na

Stop derailing the thread. If U want him yourself why not take him?? Stop wishing bad luck on me

tope2000:
At last

That shoe is too fresh to def! U want me to walk behind you incase you fall off it??

Cristalz:
Unlike you, I'm not interested in his daily life update
Aww.  .  .heard they are taken already :-[

Anywayz thanks hon, but why don't you concentrate on keeping hubby dearie from staring at/admiring gorgeous ladies.  .  .I don't need help with men

But you are interested in their daily life update??

syphillis:
chika more pics of ur hubby

Now i know how much U truly care about me

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198967#msg3198967 date=1228780444]I thunk looks don't matter. . . . .Character is the KEY!!![/quote]BOTH. Not just looks but character and it does outweigh beauty in my humble opinion.

Cristalz:
Not everybody is as shallow-minded as the delusional ones up in here

Go and find Gbenga Obasanjo. I hear he lives in Florida.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198963#msg3198963 date=1228780317]Chika98, would u marry a midget??
Yes or No!!![/quote]Biko mba! Why would I wanna do that??

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198943#msg3198943 date=1228780014]I am not talking about the money. . . . .It just happened he was the ugliest man i can think of!!!
Anyways, thanks for joining ma side of the argument belatedly. [/quote]lol. No probs

syphillis:
chika r u sure u wont marry this cute guy?

Putu asu!  

syphillis:
abeg make una leave obj alone ooooo   ,wetin d poor man do una naw,i sure say him go dey sneeze for where him dey now

still LMAO @OBJ and FATHER ABRAHAM

Would you marry HIM?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198918#msg3198918 date=1228779565]Chika, don't change ur mind o. . . . .

Will u marry OBJ if his character comes next to Father Abraham??
Yes or[b] No[/b]!!!

Stop pussyfooting, amigo
What is this ATTRACTION and stop side-stepping issues here.
U want a woman with good characterHow do u know the woman u r staring at has a good character without having a background knowledge??
If you are not a dork, you should know that attraction is her FACE. . . .That attracts u FIRST before moving on to other stuffs.
For the umpteenth time, THINK!!!!![/quote]The nose is enough to scare the bejesus outta me. So Hell to the NO! There is more to life than money

tope2000:
With all the money iyabo obasanjo as . . . . . . . . she is still damn ugly to me and I'm sure she has re-packages herself

My dear. . the Obusonjo's are a lost case. No amount of money will ever re-package them

syphillis:
come here,u need a mind blowing kiss from chika or tope choose one

but for real u r right,if u love ur wife u wouldnt even notice any flaws on her skin,or watever's gone wrong wt her body

mind blowing kiss ke? Times like this Sauron actually stops chatting shit and makes some sense for a change

stillwater:
Ugly girls with ugly characters abound more than you think.

Abi ooh. them full ground

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198793#msg3198793 date=1228777629]This is where Debosky is getting stuffs wrong. . . . .
He thinks he can spot a woman on the train and get attracted to her good character??
How would he know if the babe has good character by sitting on the train reading METRO news!!!
Nansense!!!

It is not hard. . . . . .
Ma girlfriend is gorgeous and her character is few inches below Mary!!!
It wasn't hard for me to find her. . . . . .It shouldn't be hard for you to find HIM.[/quote]Amen Jesu!

vicade:
well looks are more probable to change than personality. well that is a first. most girls will go for the tall,handsome AAND RICH guy  who serves her breakfat in bed during courtship and[b] turns her into a punching bag in marriage.
[/b]

God forbid bad thing!

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198766#msg3198766 date=1228777316]
Beauty and Good character can co-exist!!!![/quote]It can yes but hard to find a very gorgeous girl/guy with a good character.

syphillis:
so if someone asks d man

interviewer:sir what do u like bout ur wife

man: her personality

interviewer:her body look,is it exactly what u want?

man:nope,in as much as i love my wifes personality,i still dig a slim woman anyday anytime

why not marry out of love and forget the looks
now tell me,if that man is not stupid

It has to be a combination of BOTH. Looks and personality otherwise e no go work!

tope2000:
I know it isnt easy, this is why i said she should try her hardest
Plus it isnt healthy either, imagine a size 10 wearing size 18-2 after 2 kids. C'mon she should hit the gym on join weight- watcher asap atlast should lose 2 dress size abeg

No doubt she should. Everyone should at least work out 3times a week with or without trying to lose anything. It is a healthy way of life. Gawd knows am hitting the elliptical when that baby pops out .

Cristalz:
Girl seems you still believe love only happens when good 'ol cupid shoots people in the butt with his love arrow

Men look at character.Personality. Because beauty will fade. Okay? A woman can be the most beautiful angel ever,but if her character and personality is lousy, she will roast on the spinster shelf.

That's funny but true

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198713#msg3198713 date=1228776351]Do u think a man would be happy if u tell him u ADMIRE the bulge of the other guy in the room??
U would be lucky not to cop a blackeye if it happened in Nigeria.[/quote]Ha hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Abeg to each their own jare.

tope2000:
That happens alot actually, So i wonder how men who likes lepas will deal with it
Altho i think he should love her no matter what but she should also try her hardest to lose the weight
It aint sexy

Easier said than done. Do you know how hard it is to lose baby weight?? My dear. . ask the mothers and they will tell you that  it ain't easy

syphillis:
is this a joke?

No it isn't . then again it depends on how he says it though

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=205278.msg3198653#msg3198653 date=1228775549]It won't be sexy few days later when u find the same woman your man is admiring on ur matrimonial bed.



Then he is gonna get it from me!

vicade:
with all this orobo and lepa talk ?

I have an uncle who married my aunty and she was lepa and pretty. afther the second child she blew up as in she became orobo. so what do u do in this kind of situation?  There is more to a woman than her physical presence and if any guy does not know that then he is not a man.

Thank U ooh. Who is to say she will remain a size 6 even after popping them kids out[/quote]

[quote author=game_rod link=topic=205128.msg3197261#msg3197261 date=1228755512]empty fools, trying to convince us it is not good to serve God,

David, Crackles, etc, with all your posts on the sexuality section, one wonders if you know anything more than sex, and you come here trying to talk on something you don't know about, saying him used to be in the choir, hahaha, choir in the sex land abi? Stupid buffons.[/quote]And this is the way you have decided to serve God??

No. . being a worker in church isn't the only way to serve God. We are so misguided. It is unbelievable.

debosky:
You women and Sharon (no wonder, his name is feminine  ) just don't get it!

A man doesn't marry ONLY for physique!!

Being 'romantically blind'   is not the same thing as not seeing a DIFFERENCE. Your wife's boobs are 32A and you see 36D won't you know the boobs are bigger? Does that mean you don't love your wife? That is simply a fact! You can admire different things without wanting to be that thing or wanting that thing!

You women are simply misguided if you think a man will look only at physical attraction before marrying. You talk as if there is a production line of women where you can choose hottest body, smartest mind and non-irritating attitude and combine them into a wife. You take your IMPERFECT wife and LOVE her. Does that mean she doesn't have flaws? NO. Does that mean you can't ADMIRE other women? NO Does that mean she is the most beautiful? NO

Just like she may not be the smartest but you love her REGARDLESS of that. If you think you are the 'most beautiful woman' YOU ARE DELUDED. What you should value is that your husband LOVES you, not on some falsehood about being the most beautiful.

Anyone who needs to think they are the most beautiful has poor self esteem and hasn't gotten her head straight. I will NEVER marry the most beautiful woman I meet - she will definitely LOSE that beauty over time - what happens then? will I stop loving her??

U are getting this all wrong. If i marry a man today does that mean he's the most handsome I have ever been with?? BUT with the inner qualities HE then becomes the most beautiful to me . . Inside and out!

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=205278.msg3198552#msg3198552 date=1228774169]That was not what syphillis wrote.
She said it's perfectly ok for a man with big woman to admire a thin woman.
What's the point of marrying someone and wishing for another?[/quote]LISTEN CAREFULLY TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY NOW

lol. . The man you will marry won't be the IDEAL dude you have always wanted! Mark my words. In terms of looks. . he may not be that which you've drooled over and dated. Marriage isn't about looks but about what's on the inside. Nothing is wrong with a man admiring a cute woman even if she's thin or thick. Nothing wrong with that at all. Infact, it is kinda sexy for a man to say " babe. . look at that gorgeous chic right there. .she's hot" Nothing is wrong with at all.

tope2000:
Wetin u do again

Well i guess thats is true  
But does that mean u wont look or admire any other babe again

Ofcourse he will. He just wont be chasing her

Ebony: What is hard for you to understand?? A man can say he wants a thin woman but ends up falling in love with someone who isnt so thin but he LOVES her. It happens all the time.

Presido Nwoke oma kedu?

Agaba isi ukwu. . ele nke n'eme??

Ify nwanyi oma . . Happy xmas ooh. Ma gi and ndi begi