Well its a nice thing if the practice will be constant (as in forever). Just shows that the lady values

her husband. Something i will like to do for  may man as i adore him. But in some cases i think

common sense should be applied.

@ Poster

I really think you go for the AA Razos. So because white chicks line up, so what.

Go for them white chicks and leave the real Black guys for the ebonies. i guess you're not just

man enough.

@ Poster

What do you mean by "not sure of anything" what in particular are you talking about?

Wow, this is crazy. Me think your brother needs some serious prayers.

Maybe he still loves the first wife, despite all the atrocities.

This thread is so cracking me up man,

@ topic when i rem I'll get back at ya.

Bring it on baby

If her mum has got a good judgment, then its cool as she will want the best for you both. But if her mum is otherwise,

then i am afraid it could affect your relationship based on bad advise.

13 years appears to be pretty long.

Few questions

- Any particular reason why this has taken so long
- Is it by choice or circumstance?
- Which everway if accountancy is not the forward, maybe he should change jobs and ask God for directions.

Sorry about your predicament though,

I ain't saying she's a Gold digger, but she ain't messing with no broke nigger.

Guys from Europe KO guys from Europe Ni. hissssssssssss.

Husband rape his wife?    Well if he does, just like someone said. rape him back when he  is not in the mood. But i

most advise that you tie him up to the bed before you rape him, else you might get raped again cos i will assume he is

physically stronger.

Its obvious that i do not know who they all are. Will run for dare life.

Just keep appreciating her. And don't forget to spoil her when the days become good.

All the best.

God is always faithful.

[Ermmm, in case you didn't know, that means a spiteful and disgusted hiss]

And that is exactly what i meant

Huxley,

And your point is? Prove all that you have accused him of.

I think you seek attention and i guess you have gotten it.

Why not open a forum and discuss this bullshit with your fellow atheists.

This thread is a waste of bloody space and time. echewwwwwwwwwwww

Very interesting topic, as i can see  lot of guys saying they hate lies, distrust, disrespect blah blah blah,

Oh i see you guys value this so much, yet most guys practice all these they are pointing fingers to. (this does not mean

that women a exempted).

Personally the TOP THREE  i detest and can never ever stand include:  CHEATING, LYING and LAZINESS

Thanks Unin.

Marriage should be a very informal thing (my opinion). Why should i be stuck up. Answering a damn phone should never

be an issue. As long as you are playing the game right in your marriage you should be OK with it. People who say my

wife/husband should respect my phone is all bullshit. What is in the phone that one should respect anyway? I am not

saying every call should be jumped at, but pick up when necessary, like when he is not there to pick it up. But i guess

this does not apply to people to tie their phones to their asses, as they will always be there to answer their calls

I just do not understand people sometimes. If you are that private why get married? Marriage is all in your face when

spouses begin to live together. Its no longer boyfriend girlfriend. Why make marriage formal? All this don't touch my

phone i will not touch yours bullshit theory will only bring problems like distrust, contempt, grief etc. Why build a

relationship on this? If one is that private i beg your pardon remain single so that no one with pry on your phone. In

Marriage it is almost unavoidable. If my man hides his phone for no reason and all that, i can never trust him and i will

have my eyes on his every move. If he has nothing to hide i will not go after the phone as there will be trust and

transparency. Enough said.

Hey Dude,

What advise do you precisely need here? You have done a foolish thing by getting her pregnant in the first place.

You were enjoying the unprotected sex cos you did not want to use a CD, but you do not want to take the

responsibility of what comes with it. Karma is a bitch yea and you have to be very careful how you treat people, else

you will reap the consequence of your action in full.

I aint saying she's a gold digger, but i aint messing with a broke nigger. hehehe

I remember when my dad stopped us from having maids live and do all the chores in the house.

Then my siblings and i thought he was damn wicked. We grew up doing all the chores with our

school works on the side , it only made us multi tasking as individuals and very independent.

I am glad he made that decision as i love a tidy home. I often raise my nose when i go to a

friends place and the house is all over the place.

I feel for you poster. I think you should be more firm in gettings things down. The fast food is a

no no as your child should be eating fresh home made food.

Guruofast,

I guess all this will apply to all men who has got a child outside wedlock abi.

It takes a deep and mature person to be able to handle that kind of situation if

he really and truly loves the woman. I think its the way the man handles the situation

that will make the woman make certain decisions. Some men can be very horrible, to a child that is not theirs

Not for shallow people.

Kk,

If this story is true, in my humble opinion i think the guy should take a walk. It's the early stage

and no kids involved yet. Marriage is not a do or die affair. Its better now that its only two months

in. He can now clearly see why people were opposed to him getting married to her in the first

place. Cearly shows that her attitude ad values is not the way foward.

Briefs all the way. Don't like boxers for guys.

LOL .

Neurogena is really good. It keeps your skin subtle and fresh during winter and does not make you sweat during

summer.

Simply splendid.

Ko jo men

@Poster, even if i live my life by the way the bible has instructed. What i have got to loose?

I am not dumb for a pastor to tell me to give all my money. I serve God cos i have had a personal

experience. If you are not willing and open, God will not jump down from heaven to convince you.

I think he is way too much for that. And this is why there is what is called free will. Say what you like, do what you like

Your mum being a preacher does not hold water enough for you to say yea you know all about Christianity.

Why dint you pray to God to reveal unanswered questions, rather than run helter skelter to people asking them

what Christianity is all about and why this and why that. They are not God and can never know all. I think your business

is with God and no one else. If you think Satan will give you all it take, be my guest. You will soon understand that nuffin

goes for nuffin. Keep your beliefs to yourself.

I do not live in abuja so i cannot recommend any. But i will want o believe that, there will be a couple of beauty studios

that can wax. I am not too sure about laser though.

Discreet WHATTT . I bet if i ever tried to be discreet i will be caught that same day.

One man lover. aint got time for that hide and seek rubbish.

Its a turn-on to know that you have got one devoted and faithful koko