The english is a bit skew . did not grab shittttttt.

hahahahahahaha.

What if the girl isn't laying

She may be scared nowwwwwwww.

I have been following this discussion and i find it pretty interesting.

To the catholics, If the argument made by the poster is wrong, you have not defended nor explained why,

catholics bow down to Mary and pray through her. Remember in the bible Jesus said in John 14:6 I am the

way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. and did not state through

Mary. Also your argument about Roman tradition does not hold water. God knows the end from the

beginning and in 1 Corinthians 14:33 says For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all

churches of the saints. So this goes to explain that God carefully complied the bible and the contents in it,

in other to direct us to as not to fall astray.

I for one, cannot stand the catholic doctrines as they seem to always contradict almost everything in the

bible which God has provided that we go by. How to you explain idolatry and it says in the ten

commandment that " Thou shall not worship any other God except me ( God) and this is also stressed in 1

timothy 6:14 that you keep the commandment without stain or reproach until the appearing of our Lord

Jesus Christ. Idolatry is very well practised as many catholics, they go as far as having shrines with the idol of mary etc.

Also how do catholics explain confession to father, how can the father help you as human?

How can the father tell you after confessions that your sins are forgiven you? The concept of confession of

sin to a priest is nowhere taught in Scripture. First, the New Testament does not teach that there are to

be priests in the New Covenant. Instead, the New Testament teaches that all believers are priests. 1

Peter 2:5-9 describes believers as a “holy priesthood” and a “royal priesthood.” Revelation 1:6 and 5:10

both describe believers as “a kingdom and priests.” In the Old Covenant, the faithful had to approach God

through the priests. The priests were mediators between the people and God. The priests offered

sacrifices to God on behalf of the people. That is no longer necessary. Because of Jesus’ sacrifice, we can

now approach God’s throne with boldness (Hebrews 4:16). The temple veil tearing in two at Jesus’ death

was symbolic of the dividing wall between God and humanity being destroyed. We can approach God

directly, ourselves, without the use of a human mediator. Why? Because Jesus Christ is our great High

Priest (Hebrews 4:14-15; 10:21), and the only mediator between us and God (1 Timothy 2:5). The New

Testament teaches that there are to be elders (1 Timothy 3), deacons (1 Timothy 3), bishops (Titus 1:6-9),

and pastors (Ephesians 4:11) – but not priests.

Back to the reverence given to mary by catholics. That Mary was the mother of Jesus and found favour in God's

sight and all that. Remember that she was used as a vessel and not the executioner. Nowhere in the bible

says through Mary you will get to the father nor through Mary your prayers will be answere nor did the bible say this is my beloved Mary in her i am well

pleased. Jesus did not say only through mary can you get to the father.

No where in the bible are any of these mentioned. Catholics have put in upon themselves to practice this and

mislead people in doing do. Please prove this scripturally and not what one father said or a book written

outside the bible. Is this so hard to see? Why read books that are contrary to the basic fundamental set by

God in the bible? Why should you dwell on Roman Tradition? Note that God will propergate his words with

or without any Roman Tradition. So follow the scriptures with fear.

This is always the problem when guys assume relationships with girls they are close with. Because you guys enjoy

each others company should not make you think you guys are dating. Even if you happen to sleep with her. A

relationship needs to be well defined so that either party know where they stand.

Example:

Boy: I like you and would like you to be my girlfriend.

Girl: Sorry i do not like you, as i do not feel the same. OR

Girl: Let me think about it,

Girl: I am still thinking,

Girl: Ok i like to you. I am now your official girlfriend.

End of story, If the above does not happen menhhhhhh you r on your own.

Guess that is some kind of ogbanje shit,

Don't try it man. Why not ask your family if you should do it or did your girl ask you not to mention it to your family?

In love with a married man??

I bet you are ready for the consequences which indlude, unhappiness, constant fight, curses, nemesis (the man loving

another woman after you.)

LMAO

party Nah cannot work, way way tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo possessive and very private. Guess that is the greatest turn on.

I think you should take the walk.

The guy is eating and having his cake.

Has a relationship that he keeps and has you in the dark.

You have all to loose.

El Nino

Really, it could be from the same source, has this happened some where in the east as well.

Na so we see am my people,

The story is very true and that is all he did!!

My take on this is,

1: He well and truly loved her with his entire existence

2: If he had done anything other than what he did, we might be reading about casualties

3: He is one helluva mean fella, this is one person you dont want to cross swords with.

4: And as for his wife, its a case of when he asks her to jump, her response will be "how high?" not "why should i?"

Now ya'll need to be patient cus this story is a long one,

There's a newly wed couple (when i say newly i mean under 3yrs) who apparently seem to love each other a lot.

The husband is a company executive who does trips out of town probably 2wice or 3 times a month for board meetings. Just prior to one of these trips he hears rumours that his wife might be sleeping around.

Come the day he intends to leave for the airport. The usual protocol is that the driver takes his oga to the airport and waits for oga to board the plane before he leaves for home and when he gets home he tells his oga's madame that oga has left. Now oga gets to the airport and tells his driver to leave for home. Driver naturally obeys and goes home to tell madame that oga has left.

Now oga goes to one of the bars in town and stays till late into the night, he then proceeds to leave for home and since he is the oga of his house he has unrestricted access. He walks in and goes upstairs to his bedroom. What doesn he see?

His so called closest friend (who was his best man) and his wife on their matrimonial bed (shagging the living daylights out of his wife)

What did the husband do??

He simply walks out, shuts the door quietly and goes downstairs,picks up a news paper and reads (obviously we all know all he can see on those pages is the colour RED). All this while his padi grabs his clothing and runs out the house half naked. (what bout his wife??)

His wife is all sobbing and begging using that infamous naija excuse (it was the devil!!). He does nothing and after a while leaves for the same bedroom his wife had just defiled, lays the bedding properly and proceeds to fall asleep.

Next morning: He wakes with his wifes pleading still ringing in his ears and leaves for work (please note that he also leaves the usual miscellaneous spending money on the table without saying a word).

He comes back from work (very late) and just goes up to bed without eating his wifes cooking and avoiding any contact whatsoever with her. This went on for about a week, wife gets frustrated and guiltily packs her things and leaves for her fathers house.

A week passes and father in law calls in to check on son in law why he has refused to come check on his wife who left home and literarily cries everyday without saying a word on why she suddenly moved back into her fathers house.

Haven heard this, the son in law responds to father in law as thus " Has your daughter at any point in time ever told you that i have denied her of anything in any shape or form be it physically, mentally, sexually, financially or in any way?"

Father in laws response to the question was "NO"

Son in law then says to his "Since your answer is No, if your daughter cannot tell you what she did with her own mouth, i cannot tell you what she has done"

Father in law leaves the house and a few days later wife returns back home to the same routine of shedding tears, cooking uneaten meals and her husband ignoring her.

This continued for 365 days,

On one of those rare days when the husband was home. He calls his wife into the bedroom and makes love to her. After which he asks her to go prepare him a meal to which she eagerly responds.

This my people is the end of this story, he didnt talk about the issue nor did he ask her why she did what she did.

What would you have done as a guy in the same shoes and as a woman what would you have done if you happened to be in the same predicament

Buy one get one. Not, buy one get one, two, three or four free.

You sound like you have been forced into getting married!!!!!!!

Who made the decision, you?

If you were sure you would not get the jitters man.

N:B Also what excatly are you scared of, the lady, having children, responsibilities, the whola package or there is someone

else?

Please expantiate. :

As we all know a woman is responsible for anything and everything. Men should learn to take responsibilities.

What has relatives got to do with this? A woman is married to her husband and not relatives. She is only related,

The husband should be able to protect his wife and family from relatives who act as devil's advocate. But i guess the best thing

is never get your extended family involved from the start of your marriage. Let there be a rope and let them know were they

can get and not get to when it comes to your family issues please.

I do not know the deep end of the story, but he should not have gotten her pregnant if he knew he was not going

to be with her on the long run. I know for sure that they have been together for about 7 years. So if he knew he

was just hanging in there, he should not have gotten her pregnant like i earlier stated. Left her for another woman

and makes it pretty obvious that he belongs to another woman now.

Pepeye,

The story is actually true and this girl in question is a friend. Just wondering why and how a man can possibly do that. It makes you think as a woman.

Busy_Body:

Apparently, the wife does not work. The guy has got a considerably good job. He just fled with another woman and hardly shows up to help out with the

kids, because he's moved in with the other woman.

How do you explain a man walking out on his wife and 8months old twins, leaving them to fend for themselves?

Well said.

I just think guys that think thier women or girlfriends show too much care, must check themselves. Cos if they don't you think they are seeing some

other guy or something. These things can be checked if the guy is trusting and all. If you have a guy that has got tendencies to cheat, men you have to

keep tabs else you are likely to loose him to another woman or you take a hike.

Its not that women cannot achieve all the status you have mentioned. They are in a double position

where they often find themselves making sacrifices like taking time off work to nurture thier children

and other things alike.Women who have sacrificed these family for career have gotten to top places i

n the society and the so called male dominated world.

@ Whitelexi, how about women that agree all the time?

Some men are just cursed with sampling. They cannot keep thier pants up.

Please try and use the spell check if you cannot construct a simple sentence. WOW.

I think you want to find out what will happen if you do it.? Well do it and wait for the consequences.

But remember, if you do get married someday, how will you feel if some guy is trying to hit on your wife?

Law of karma. Case closed.

I will not encourage a 15 year old girl to date a 28 year old guy. Yea Love bla bla bla. But what is the real difference between 13 14 and 15? Please some

girls at 15 have just started thier cycle. Moreover why deprive herself of her developing teenage years by being stuck to a guy that may end up using

her and dumping her, by saying that she is immature and not independent bla bla bla. The gril needs to get mature , her stories, know how relationship

works, and also have a mind of her own to enable her make decisions on right and wrong.

Please i even think that is child abuse sef.

HELL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Another Woman's Pant. ewwwwwwwwwwwww

I have been in a similar situation, where a guy said he just wants to be friends while we were dating. Of course he was just being a coward to say it's all

over and i helped him out by calling the whole thing off. It was painful i must say but it was the best move i made for myself, cos i met this fab fab fab guy

and dated for  7 years and we are now married. A guy that knows the worth of what he has will not say he wants to be friends with a girl he knows he

may eventually loose. You may need to ask questions why he wants to be frineds and also what you are meant to be doing while you remain friends. Are

you to see other guys? or will he want you in his bed when he feels like and then do back to the normal friend levels? You need to clear things out b4 you

make your move. Good luck girl