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I have been able to escape through the back door, pretending as if I want to urinate. It's only a matter of time before they come to my house. Some of the gamblers there are from my street

Bluezy13:
Whenever I see a thread with ChildOfDoom attached to it, it amuse me.

I don't know why

please don't give up on me. They have refused to take my excuse this time. Please proffer solution for me. I might end up losing my phone today

Karleb:
What you need is therapy.

Hmm. What have I not tried. Pastor has prayed for me. I need a companion I think. Being narcissistic or in solitude is not helping matters. Please which therapy? My type shouldn't be working or made to see money. Gradually running out of excuses. There's no one available to beg for financial help again. Almost every one is fed up. Jail is imminent

FalseProphet1:
What you need is spiritual cleansing, without spiritual cleansing I see you going back to your vomit (betting and masturbation) regardless of how many days you try to abstain.

You'd find yourself struggling with the wind.

This I have seen.

please I am interested. Where is the Venue for the cleansing? I lost again. Currently held down as I try to use my influence as a banker (showing my id card) to find a way out. I played 17k credit. I am begging and lieing I earn 120k monthly. Promising to pay back by month end with interest. My pay is just 45k and my accumulated debt should be large by now

Please save me

Day one - clean

I will update the house daily on my progress. God helping me and your support guys, I can win this 'war'.

Trying not to be desperate, being able to let go of past losses, avoiding those who gamble and trying not to use people's money that puts me in a difficult situation of betting 'to recover' are things to avoid

Fellow gamblers can join me on this. Together we can. It's now or never. It shouldn't be a case of 'till death do us path'

So I observed it's 239 days to the end of the year. About seven and half months left. I will try fervently to abstain from bet9ja (at all lost). Every other addiction is trivial and hasn't done me much harm.

Though I will suffer in the process. Time to avoid entering a bet shop for any reason. My phone always charged will be affected. Watching free football matches will be affected. The few friends I have in the betshop in this new place will be affected.

I guess I will spend most of my time sleeping, reading and getting to know my neighbours. It could be worse if I don't stop. Knowing that getting jailed with no way out (claustrophobic), stripped and made to sleep on a cold floor and sodomised in the process is enough to deter me. I noticed a place far off where abokis charge phone 50 naira for people.

Cryinfreeman:
ChildOfDoom: The reason you don't have any sense is because poverty have not rewind your brain. You don't know what suffering is that is why you have become a problem to your own self.

You have cap - you have no head to wear it.

I do suffer sir, anytime I lose all on me. Its not a life I am happy about. Losing has a way of regulating my excesses. I am now extra focused to hide my mess and remain on the job. Tonight now, just garri I drank. I also get to trek to work henceforth from now till month end (by waking very early), till help comes from somewhere

Things I could have easily bought with the money:

An office bag (I use paper bag to the office)

A power bank (This would have stopped my going to betshop to charge my phone)

Food for 10 days (The balance would have sustained me for the next ten days)

If only I can turn the hands of time

PattyMike:
Oloribu ni o.

Hmm I guess I deserve it

Going to face my fears today

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU'RE MY IDOL SIR.

hmm the sarcasm

I have lost sleep. Please help me

Nyascobar1414:
Woow...
NIgga

boss. My condition is messy

hectorr:
Nobody holy pass.

I made a mistake saying I am not that bad. I am actually useless. I feel downcast and distraught. Money I had kept all through the holidays.

God punish the person that invented transfer. What excuse do I have this time around. No where to run too. To think my clothes are tattered and nothing in my room (just a bad-looking foam). I should have bought the needful


Please I need someone in Edo state I can stay with to discipline me, keep me company and help me manage my finances. I seriously lack self-control

Lord!!! How do I sleep. If only I could know before hand how it would feel like if I lost money. My nature of job must make me hold money. And bet9ja shops have proliferated round the town. I am finished

azraeljaheel:
My nicca in the trenched


Anticipating your write up

Updated...

I am in big trouble tomorrow. I just lost 21k I was keeping in my account to give to customers tomorrow. Virtual oo. God save me.

New resolution : Not visiting betshops for any reason again

Please someone give me loan

As long as I am not dead, arrested or decapitated, I have reasons to forge on. Keep hoping for the best. One step at a time now. For whatever addiction I have now, I am practising self-control. I have seen someone with lot of wealth lose it to addiction to cocaine

Total elimination in this polluted world of desperation is herculean. A little of masturbation, a little of gambling, a little of carbonated drinks etc is what I pursue. We all are trapped with one addiction or the other. We all need to moderate them to get out of it Alive

Even though I have been addicted to bet9ja for about 7 years now (I just played real Madrid to qualify 4.65 odd for 1000 naira). I am not that bad. At least my situation is not as bad as one who sold his car to gamble or who lost his marriage because of betting addiction. One went as far as using the money meant for his dad's coffin to gamble on virtual. I have seen someone use 2 million naira on a 2 odd game that failed. The highest I lost at once was 250k (federal government COVID-19 relief loan).

Even though I am a chronic masturbator and now have erection issues. Mere smiling of a lady or shaking hands with her can make me hard (irregular erection). It's still not that bad. At least I don't get to break any one's heart. I am not guilty of raping anyone or making her steal from her parents (like the guy that made his girl steal from the mum's shop and give to him). I do not fear std or responsibility from impregnating someone

Even though my dad married at 22. He left to stand on his own at age 19. At age 30, the foundation in which I stand is shaky, but it's not that bad. There are some worse off. Some stabbed or killed a loved one. All I did was make them worry. At least I still got to graduate after a long time away from school. I am doing a white-collar job even though I have a lot of debts to pay for the next ten months. Some who graduated on time with a good record are still struggling to get jobs.

Deepsight danidani adonis86 ntipro you can drop your advice on this abandoned thread. My mails not working

Abba114:
childOfdoom what about your pedophilia do u have control over it now

not a paedophile o. Just that i am mainly attracted to low-budget ladies. Be on low cut or all-back weaving and tattered or fairly-used clothes and I am turned on. I get this feeling they are the type in my league I can afford due to my impecunious state. For those with expensive clothing, I can only fantasize from afar but timorous when they come close

JoviaIJune:
how far? Your mail dey active?
I wan make we reason

pirogee76@gmail.com

MarryWhiteasap:
The ones that are mad and psycho gets married at a snap you wey be spoilt brat go dey assume. Woman go still enter create a miserable atmosphere for you, na you go cry me a river when her long cobra twist don ruin your life.
Women are Powerful in households

hmm. Which woman case bad reach me. Me that will wake up early in the morning. Without praying, laundry, bathing or brushing, we go and camp in a bet shop all through. The only positive thing is, I get my phone charged, watch TV and see my companions (fellow losers) to chat with

blockgeek69:
You can fix all this things by your self if you are willing to.

A young lad at 30 already giving up? There is so much you can change even at 40.

hmm. I also have lots of debts piled up (both online and physical creditors). It will take something extraordinary to clear them. This has created a bad name for me anywhere I stayed. It will always put me in hiding and my children might end up inheriting these debts or curses from those I tricked

Aside my intellectual ability, nothing else to benefit from me in matrimony. I just hope no one is deceived by my innocent looks or gentlemanliness. Lot's of skeletons in my cupboard.

- no sexual satisfaction for her as I have a weak erection due to years of self-service

- no ability to hold a home together as I am wayward, a chronic punter and profligate spender. How possible will it be to save and take care of my family. I can barely feed myself well.

- I have got anger and communication issues. Hard relating well with the opposite sex

- I have got health issues based on an obnoxious lifestyle devoid of proper healthy living. I doubt if I will make a good husband or father having failed on my own.

Working on all these vices; but I guess there is little or no chance of a 30-year-old changing again

Where Una dey see money to fund love? Only my welfare is a stress to cope with

Ebuka78:
I am going to use your idea to describe Nigeria.
We think that NIN is the only way to reduce crime not knowing there are other ways people indulge in crime.


You think it's only bet9ja that existed, there are betting, Merrybet, 1960 bet, Sportybet, betpawa, access bet, sure bet, bet365, lions bet, and many more.

You have to be wise in this life. Don't just find one way and claim you have see it all. Expand it...

those ones never moved me one bit. Just bet9ja virtual that enticing odds and fast pay out.

You can't fathom the ecstacy of those lost to the addiction of bet9ja virtual. It's gives you ephemeral gains and takes back from you in ten folds.

Families have been separated, jobs lost, businesses crumbled, people lynched, tortured, arrested or disowned due to men's penchant for the game. Some committed suicide or went into exile.

I just hope the site can go forever just like the way MMM went. Over six million I lost in 8 years (2015 to 2022) is no joke. Just charging of phones I will miss but little pity to owners of bet shops who derive joy in feeding on people's sweat, pains and misery

So I went to a bet9ja shop close to my house to charge my phone. Unknowingly to me, the owner was throwing a party there to mark his wife's birthday. On citing me (a regular customer), he saw to it that I was well served.

I was given a sumptuous plate of fried rice with an edible weighty chicken and croaker fish. It was garnished with salad and well creamed. I was given a chilled bottle of Goldberg to use in washing it down my alimentary canal.

I was in the midst of fellow losers, dining and girating to the melodious music that rented the air. For a moment, we forgot our miseries. I felt loved

rickpat:
na wa....bro if a hustle doesn't favour you,why don't you just quit?

I want to. I swear, I really want to. I don't have TV in my house, my battery easily runs out and I am an introvert.

So any time I am bored, I want to watch TV or charge phone, a bet shop is all I think of. That is the spirit that lures me to the act.

Please help out. What other alternative do I have?

I have tried and tried. God knows. Maybe until I become rich and life gets easy before I change. Or I need to visit a native doctor who will cast a spell on me so that I will always see a bet shop and flee. As it stands, all the deliverance I went for (from priest and pastor) didn't work. I just lost 10k today. Part of which is for customers. Due to my intellect, I will have to forge a lie to delay payment. I keep doing this and then pay with my salary at the end.

Hmm. God save me or I perish. Over seven years now. I work, another enjoy my sweat. Looking tattered and unkempt to work regularly. I trek and eat miserably yet I have money to give to bet9ja virtual. One takes risk with money ordinarily he wouldn't use for feeding.