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Just 27 days of abstaining from betting was so boring for me. Back to a betshop to charge my phone and watch ball. Despite knowing I might be tempted later on. How I wish I have a generator

I am back to chronic masturbation, despite knowing it produces a rancid smell and makes me hungry/weak
. Ordinary smile/chat with a lady now gives me irregular erection (too much sexual imaginations)

I have started spending irregularly on junk. Almost everything I see I buy and eat. Despite knowing that when I am broke, I will get tempted to use people's money to stake. Hard controlling my gluttony due to pampering from childhood

Kenpaly:
Thanks, me im focusing on isue of eating. that's what normaly reduces guys income drastically.strugling guys should eating mama put which ranges 4rm 300h to 500h.whr i am now even 200h can do you per session.

one of my addictions too. I don't know if it's the nature of my work or because I think too much or because I just like food. I love buying any edible I see.

Illegal1:
Childofdoom u funny dye...

dis1 nah new yr revolution abi na wetin?

the next 100 plus day resolution (till December ending)

iamwilliamsfx:
God is your strength

amen. So help me God

Hollybratt:
I thought it was poetry you wrote, well nice one, and thank God your eyes don clear
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IRMC

Let me guess, I Reserve My Comment... Good you concurred without reprimandment

So many demons to fight, but I am learning how to regulate them. Even if I know I am doomed, I will delay my Waterloo/downfall

For wreckless spending on junk and liquor, I have limited my spending to 1200 a day, to checkmate my avarice and gluttony. Beer will be only on weekend. No more two piece of meat per meal. No more eating in classy restaurants with overhead costs added. Enter bike to work & Trek back

For my masturbation addiction, only two cum per week. On Friday evening, to remove the stress of the week. On Sunday evening to prepare me for the stress of the new week. Anticipating soapy with blue film puts me in check and eliminates the thought. It also prevents me wasting money on girlfriends who are leeches, eliminates paedophila tendencies or patronising oloshos

For gambling tendencies, I am learning to accept that I mustn't play heavy. Before now, when I lose, I get taken aback and keep trying to recover, till I lose it all. Now I will work on 400 or 500 naira booking number per week. Even if I lose, I will try another week. I won't relapse to virtual again, trying to recover my bet loss. My love for football and need to charge phone will always take me to a betshop. Today I lost 400 naira (God punish juventus) and I left without virtual (despite having up to 10k with me).

Obascoetubi:
So, some one worked hard under the sun to get his/her money while yahoo boys dey relax under the roof, later yahoo boys tricked & sc*mmed the person of his hard earned money, is this cool to u? how will u feel when armed robbers robbed u?

I did not view it from that angle. Like lovepeddlers. That profess love to wealthy or old or white clients, to get something from them

joinusnow:
Yh even arm robber self too shey.

I didn't say that. Referring to mainly harms or risk done to one's self, not others

Daniel7543:
Nothing wey Mayorkun no go see inside agege bread

huh.

People are quick to condemn yahoo boys and prostitutes. Among the different addictions one can face, theirs is far better.

A prostitute, most times, remembers her family. I know of a young girl who started in SS2. She took care of her poor parents and handled feeding at home at times.

Then a Yahoo boy is also cool. Once they hit it big, they 'bless' those close to them. I once enjoyed the comfort that accompanied that from someone close


But there is nothing to write home about a gambler or cocaine addict. Once your child is into it, sorry. They will lose all they have and become miserable, wreck family members financially and keep causing havoc anywhere they go (that spoils the family name). I am a living example of a gamble addict

There is this friend of mine who cocaine finished. As the only male in a family of five, the rich father gave him the best in life. But immediately he graduated from mild drugs to cocaine, his life changed for bad. He abandoned his family and became wayward

Gamble addicts and cocaine addicts will likely end with torture, arrest or death. We can dupe anyone and sell whatever to satisfy our urge. When life is frustrating or we can not let go, we go into the act again

God help us. Even when we stop at times, there is a tendency of relapsing back into the act when the kind of care we need is not available

Graceunlimitedd:
did that guy later buy your phone?

No. I doubt if any one will pay that much for Nokia 2.1 with a little screen issues

My terminally ill dad saved the day once more. I called him to intervene. he has helped me to beg the person I owe, to give me time till I am paid. What God cannot do doesn't exist.

Back at the office. Ecstatic. The ephemeral gains of gambling, boomerangs when it's adverse effects hit the Punter.

God help me abstain for a longer time (till December or at least 100 days).

The day I am supposed to resume work

I will have to flee to another state. Glad I was able to pay back the waec enrolment fees I owed in the previous month

17:56. No way yet. It was nice knowing you all. Thank you for listening to my problems and proferring solutions from time to time since 2015.

It's shouldn't be I never tried to listened. I did. I abstained one time 68 days. Another time 44 days


So help me God

15:47. Yet no help in sight

It's obvious my story won't end well


Wonder where I will turn to before night

NEW RESOLUTION

No more going to betshop to charge or watch match

Time to restart church activities


If only God can make a way in this one and I avoid problems

Lamanii22:
You’re still hanging there?

yes ma. Please can you help?

Stephenmoka4:
Where are you?( state )

Edo state sir

seniorgozman:
Go to twitter, that's where you will get help with vawulence

how

ObinaaDubai:
Bet9ja bah

If ur phone is cool will buy it

It's Nokia 2.1. let me call you now please

Hmm do not forsake me Lord. I am tired of being on the run for my life. Anyone to help please

I am just 30 and have a bright future ahead of me

Please is help on the way?

Take me as your disobedient child, who is ready to change his ways

My heart really heavy now. Who will give me reprieve

EngrGeorge:
hi boss how have you been?
Long time

Not so well. In a mix right now. Need about 40k to settle debts

ObinaaDubai:
How did you spend the money first

I misused it I confess. but I need one more shot at life

Someone save me. I will do better now. God intervene and bring a helper

Obinaadubai I saw your post on my thread, on which you indicated interest to help me if I sell something to you. I decided to reply you in an abandoned thread @obinaadubai


Please I am ready to save my life. How do we go about the deal. This is my number - 09093467197

I use God beg Una. I am like a brother to you all.

I have lost sleep thinking of the consequences

Please God can use someone to help me

I need loan of 40k to pay someone between now and Monday or my life is in danger

So my addiction to self service began way back, about ten years ago. Since I started, I have really never looked back. At times, I engaged in marathon sessions through sex chat, blue films or imagination. Or even before sex

So many ointments have suffered in my hand. From vaseline to lotion, to soap, to hair cream to groundnut oil etc.

The putrid and rancid smell that comes after the act, isn't favourable. It kills morale too. It's causes dysfunctional erection and a flaccid dick. Too much friction has given the stick a strange look

Though, this act can not be stopped overnight (just like every addiction). So I will look to regulate it. I will now fix every Fridays to soapy.

Fridays (at night), because it marks the end of the week. After the week's stress, it helps me unwind. Having to shoot my cum by Friday is something I will be looking up to. That way, I will remain motivated. Once a week not bad. If I say stop totally, the fear of no more fun, might push me back into the act. It also gives me enough time to freshen up and use fragrance before the new week. That way, energy is not sapped during working days

Day 45 - 29/8/22

Clean

Day 46 - 30/8/22

Clean

Day 47 - 31/8/22

Clean

Even though I am able to survive my betting addiction, I doubt if I can do without a bet9ja shop. So many benefits for an introvert like me

- when I need company to talk, due to my solitary lifestyle

- when I need a place to charge my phone

- when I need to watch football or movies free of charge

- when I visit a new place and need to socialise or find my way around

- the feeling of not being totally useless is there, seeing people in much deeper mess

- opportunities could abound as people from all works of life converge here. Those who win 'dash' at times


Was bored earlier. Now rejuvenated, smiling sheepishly, as I plug my phone, chat with people, watch TV and follow punters forecast on virtual