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blockgeek69:
You can fix all this things by your self if you are willing to.

A young lad at 30 already giving up? There is so much you can change even at 40.

hmm. I also have lots of debts piled up (both online and physical creditors). It will take something extraordinary to clear them. This has created a bad name for me anywhere I stayed. It will always put me in hiding and my children might end up inheriting these debts or curses from those I tricked

Aside my intellectual ability, nothing else to benefit from me in matrimony. I just hope no one is deceived by my innocent looks or gentlemanliness. Lot's of skeletons in my cupboard.

- no sexual satisfaction for her as I have a weak erection due to years of self-service

- no ability to hold a home together as I am wayward, a chronic punter and profligate spender. How possible will it be to save and take care of my family. I can barely feed myself well.

- I have got anger and communication issues. Hard relating well with the opposite sex

- I have got health issues based on an obnoxious lifestyle devoid of proper healthy living. I doubt if I will make a good husband or father having failed on my own.

Working on all these vices; but I guess there is little or no chance of a 30-year-old changing again

Where Una dey see money to fund love? Only my welfare is a stress to cope with

Ebuka78:
I am going to use your idea to describe Nigeria.
We think that NIN is the only way to reduce crime not knowing there are other ways people indulge in crime.


You think it's only bet9ja that existed, there are betting, Merrybet, 1960 bet, Sportybet, betpawa, access bet, sure bet, bet365, lions bet, and many more.

You have to be wise in this life. Don't just find one way and claim you have see it all. Expand it...

those ones never moved me one bit. Just bet9ja virtual that enticing odds and fast pay out.

You can't fathom the ecstacy of those lost to the addiction of bet9ja virtual. It's gives you ephemeral gains and takes back from you in ten folds.

Families have been separated, jobs lost, businesses crumbled, people lynched, tortured, arrested or disowned due to men's penchant for the game. Some committed suicide or went into exile.

I just hope the site can go forever just like the way MMM went. Over six million I lost in 8 years (2015 to 2022) is no joke. Just charging of phones I will miss but little pity to owners of bet shops who derive joy in feeding on people's sweat, pains and misery

So I went to a bet9ja shop close to my house to charge my phone. Unknowingly to me, the owner was throwing a party there to mark his wife's birthday. On citing me (a regular customer), he saw to it that I was well served.

I was given a sumptuous plate of fried rice with an edible weighty chicken and croaker fish. It was garnished with salad and well creamed. I was given a chilled bottle of Goldberg to use in washing it down my alimentary canal.

I was in the midst of fellow losers, dining and girating to the melodious music that rented the air. For a moment, we forgot our miseries. I felt loved

rickpat:
na wa....bro if a hustle doesn't favour you,why don't you just quit?

I want to. I swear, I really want to. I don't have TV in my house, my battery easily runs out and I am an introvert.

So any time I am bored, I want to watch TV or charge phone, a bet shop is all I think of. That is the spirit that lures me to the act.

Please help out. What other alternative do I have?

I have tried and tried. God knows. Maybe until I become rich and life gets easy before I change. Or I need to visit a native doctor who will cast a spell on me so that I will always see a bet shop and flee. As it stands, all the deliverance I went for (from priest and pastor) didn't work. I just lost 10k today. Part of which is for customers. Due to my intellect, I will have to forge a lie to delay payment. I keep doing this and then pay with my salary at the end.

Hmm. God save me or I perish. Over seven years now. I work, another enjoy my sweat. Looking tattered and unkempt to work regularly. I trek and eat miserably yet I have money to give to bet9ja virtual. One takes risk with money ordinarily he wouldn't use for feeding.

Medianna:
Well you're being sincere.
But common it's for business minded peepz.
Besides if you use the 10k to do all of these, then what will you be using your salary for, since you work?

95 percent of my salary till December is to service debts from my past mistakes. Only God can save me now. I dare not resign or I go to jail. Because I owe lots of people

I will be lying if I say I have a strong business I can do with 10k. What I can assure you is that, if I win 10k, I will use it to survive for 20 days (500 a day). Morning food - bread and akara which is 200. Evening food will be two swallow without meat - 200. The last 100 naira will be to transport each day to the office to avoid paying fine for latecoming while I trek back at the close of day

Xscape1993:
Gambling is not good ooo.

I swear. It's the worst addiction I ever experienced. My addiction to masturbation or carbonated drinks never wrecked me like this one that made me sell my properties and use people's money

Uzomacharles:
No NAIRALANDER Pushed You There......

With all the NEWS and About Gambling or Betting,you still went ahead and WHAT DO YOU WANT US TO DO?

Create a fundraising stuff for you?

A Fool @40 is Becoming A Fool Forever

I am 30. I can still change before I get married or turn 40

jetwonder:
better stay out of virtual game for your own good !

True. My greatest regret since 2015

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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what do you want us to do with this insensible info

sebi una no wan get sense with your previous gambling topic,it shows u will never get sense

hmm. I will keep trying again sir. Start afresh. This time do more than 60 days of abstaining

Totilopussylick:
I once went to bet9ja shop with my last card i played the visual and won about #800 with 2 hundred naira.

The place there's this restaurant very close to the bet9ja shop.

A plate of eba and ewedu soup is #500

I quickly went in and took care of my belly first.

I said to myself, i won't enter bet9ja after I finish eating

But surprisesly i found myself in the shop

And that was how the remaining #300 went back to where it came out from .

I went back home empty handed

I can relate. The temporary reward is to lure one back. then they take back in ten folds

Just back from a betshop with a heavy heart. I played bet9ja Virtual with the only 2000 naira I had. I lost and then gambled with customers 6500 naira with me I had to tender on Monday (as a marketer). Don't even know how to lie to them by Monday.

After which I quickly played 2000 naira virtual on credit claiming I would transfer it to them. I thought I would recover all. I lost it. They kept asking for their money and wanted to embarrass me or seize my phone. Luckily for me, I reached out to colleagues with lies in order to get urgent 2k loan from them. One reached out


Back home with my phone but in sorrow. A graduate's life wasting away (over 7 years in the act). I am really a child of doom

After over 60 days of abstaining from bet9ja virtual, I went back to the act. I won 1500 which I used to eat. Though I feel disappointed and scared. I might be tempted to go back again. As a precaution, I have decided not to go back there for any reason (not even charging or football) till further notice

I can relate. Hmm

atilla:
Fantastic. Im happy to hear you've cleared up the waec fees.
Try and start saving for something good for urself. You deserve it. Dont fall back and go near betting centre again to charge your phone

Thanks. Saving? Cost of feeding is high. Maybe when a bigger job comes through. As for visiting a bet shop, I won't lie, I still do. Just that the submission that I can never beat the system, turns me off. (you win today and lose tomorrow). Just phone charging, the drinks session and watching live matches on TV is my focus now. Currently 53 days clean

Alleluia. Life still continues in my hide out. At a time, I thought I would be consumed. There was the fear of curses from those I duped or being arrested by loan apps who keep threatening me if I don't pay up or being beaten by the people I lured to lend me money. Bet9ja virtual finished me (from Dec 2015 - January 2022).

It's March 1st now. Hopefully, I will continue to survive and live to tell the story. Alleluia I didn't get lynched or beaten as repercussions before I changed. I pray it stays this way. I have suffered enough. So far, I have been able to pay back all the waec fees I squandered from the job I am doing at my hideout.

CAPSLOCKED:
SOUNDS LIKE YOU'RE REALLY ENJOYING YOURSELF. WHAT EXACTLY IS YOUR COMPLAINT WHEN YOU'RE INVOLVED WITH 2 OF THE BEST THINGS IN THE WORLD?

hmm. Nothing is as bad as gambling. No matter what is in your hand, bet9ja virtual takes it all within few minutes

Starz825:
Oh..guy you still dey...
I thought you said you are taking a leave off mother earth

the thought of that, scared the sh*t out of me. Life's too precious. There were times I nearly did crazy things to make ends meet, that would have cost me my life. Thanks to God, I am clearing my headache gradually.

I will try to change my lines to avoid creditors and have a fresh start. Only a clear head can remove negative thoughts from my mind now.

LIVINGICON:
U don come again with this your book of Lamentations. Trust me, u are not ready to fight off these addictions and they will be the stuffs that ruin you on the long run.

hmm I have currently abstained for 14 days

Polynek:
The solution to ur problems are all in ur hands bro

how boss? Have you ever been addicted to something? How did you pull through? Maybe I need serious drilling to change. That I fear a lot, hence I run from state to state.

Who has a link to a therapy group I can always confide in, share my story and be motivated to keep trying/striving?

Now, I can't try out womanising because I am always broke due to debts that have piled up.i don't even have a strong erection or good clothes to attract women.

As for drugs, scared if I go into it now, I may lose my senses, considering my frustration/predicament

I envy my younger brother who is addicted to womanising and drug intake. His nice physique catches the eyes of ladies. He is hardly moved by Betting as he devotes his time to his love games online. Elderly wealthy ladies online take him out and spoil him with money and gifts.

His sexual ability (probably boosted by his intake of drugs) makes ladies come back for more. His time is dedicated to clubbing and flaunting lifestyle. Even though he spends money for the aforementioned, I envy his kind of addiction. It doesn't make him to dupe others or run from persecution like I do. So much enjoyment he gets. Mine is sorrow all long

"the best way to fight an addiction, is to get a stronger addiction"

Masturbation and Bet9ja virtual (gambling) are my current addiction. The former has really helped me clear my head and induce sleep when sober (though it has affected my erection), the latter has done nothing good to me, only to destroy my life (since 2015 December)

So happy I was able to beg the customers I gambled off their 25k and lied I was robbed. I have till month end to pay off. Hmm. How long will I continue to go into trouble due to my Bet9ja virtual addiction. Mere looking at me, I am a gentle man to the core, no drinking, smoking, rough life or womanising. The devil just sent Betting to shift my focus

Botking:
This Man, you still dey alive, the only thing wer I fit tell you now is make you change your name, do well oh make your future clear like clearance Peters

okay sir. I will stop going there to charge. Even if my phone off, I go bear. I really fear I have no future. Maybe the curses of those I tricked to gamble before are working on me. As for the name, I would have long deactivated this account, just that I forgot the password to the Gmail linked to it

I just have to find a way to help myself out. Will look for a rich customer to bail me out. I pray I see. No one here is interested in my case.

If I scale through, I will need to do something to change my life for good.

First of all, please I need a room mate. Someone that can help condition my thoughts whenever I am bored

atilla:
Are u playing with us or are u just actually silly. Why would u take all the money with you to getting shop sebi inside u wont go there to charge again.

it's the spirit. I lose control when I start playing. It's better not to play at all in my case.

Hmm. To think I embarked on a three-days prayer and fasting, then use of anointing oil and soap to bathe, when I visited my father's pastor. Still no changes


God of Shedrach, Meschach and Abednego! Why have you abandoned my case

Ammishaddai:
A fool and his money are soon parted

please don't give up on me. I am à graduate with a bright future ahead of me. I can even quit my job now and save face if someone can save me one last time.

Even if it means swearing to pay back with time or working as a househelp to recover the money. Please sir