redseason:

I believe you read his story and it’s crystal clear she did not ask. No need making excuses for her. What she did is actually abduction and it’s a criminal offence.

I also saw how some people ignorantly and emotionally feels a girl child is best taken care of by the mom. A lot comes into play in the fight for custody. I am divorced myself. My son was 6 and my girl 2. Shocker, I successfully won custody and she was 3 just yesterday. I even stopped her from unsupervised access when I am not around. And this caused her so much agony, though not intentional. No be everything we suppose post for SM. How can a woman without a known income, known forwarding address, known accommodation be talking of custody? Must everything be about emotions? The child’s welfare, well-being and safety comes first. The responsibility of the mother to be a good parent comes next.

Congrats to ur little princess. A blissful life to her.
do not forget that we've not heard from her. This is not about emotions, the story is only one-sided. If you hear from her ehn, you go vex. You are actually the one acting on emotions because you have same case as op in marriage but at least, its not your mother taking care of the kids and you sound like a responsible father. I take good care of my 2kids all by myself but that's because their father is late, but i will never let any man help me raise my kids because men don't have that much capacity to care for kids especially when they're little. and when they remarry, their wives will turn d kids to slaves. This is what i have experienced wella, so i beg to pass. Make i raise my kids by myself. I wont even ask the man for upkeep

Lexusgs430:



Parenting is the responsibility, of both parents..... You would have to seek legal redress, so a shared custody format, can be worked out .......

What arrangements did you have in place, for their joint custody...........

The man does not have the financial capacity to take legal action, else, he would not have come here

Validated:
Oga, please, read this SLOWLY, AGAIN & AGAIN

No woman carry sugar for her waist. No woman can give your children more love than their mother. Even, your own mother cannot. I am not an advocate for divorce and I believe you can work out your differences, no matter how deeply entrenched they are. Even if it is infidelity. Are you perfect? Bring back your wife JUST BECAUSE OF YOUR CHILDREN. They are a priceless gift from God. A woman that gave you triplet cannot kill you, because she would need both of you to train them. Mind you, your mother could go home to rest with God anytime. Go and reconcile with your wife and see the joy your children will grow up with.

JUST FIND A WAY TO BRING HER HOME FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILDREN

Do not create a deeper gulf in your family by going to police, lawyer, welfare, etc. Work on your marriage. Thtee wonderful words in every relationship are Sorry, forgive , and love.
Can you say, I am SORRY?
Can you forgive her? Just tell her!
Do you still love her? Just say it

Your next action:
Stop the fight, Text her and say, "Dear, please, I am sorry, I forgive you because I still love you and the children". Hear what she replies. These words work wonders in marriages.

By the way, I read your other topic about you and your wife. It all boil down to your lack of Finance. N55k is too small for your family of 5 plus your mother. Get other source of income sir

The woman obviously knows that he cannot take good care of them. Imagine taking them to the village. Why not invite his mother to come stay with him and raise them under his watchful eyes in the city. The woman only left them for a while cos she had to go and get a job before coming for the girl. Trust me, She's coming for the rest cos obviously she loves the kids. so, instead of looking for a solution on how to take care of the kids, you're talking abt a woman coming to take her daughter. i know she didnt take d right steps, but trust me, she will take better care of that child than your mother. Even your mum knows that. Your mum is too old to raise responsible kids at her age. allow the woman rest. she has taken care of you, why burden her with taking care of your kids. Me, i for no leave anyone for you o

redseason:

Good advice, but what if she calls his bluff and refuses to turn up? What if there is no forwarding address to locate her in Lagos and she changes her phone number since it’s switched off? What if her family claims they don’t have much forwarding information about her? What can a welfare system do?

Oga, ASAP, get her mother arrested! In your statement rope her into the kidnap of your daughter. Inform the police they were both involved in requesting for the kids visitation to her home. She should be detained and charged as an accomplice in a kidnap case. Do this and watch her run down from Lagos with your daughter. You guys can now sit down and do the needful the proper way. There is a similar case here on NL where the MIL even prevented the father from seeing his twin for 6 years, immediately after arrest, the elusive twins appeared from God knows where.

Her scheming to talk your daughter deceitfully leaves much to be doubted. It shows the girl is not even safe with her. You would have failed your child, if as a parent you don’t even have a verifiable address where she resides, where she schools and the safety of the environment where she lives. You deserve to even know what this ex does for a living. What if she is into hook up/prostitution? you don’t want such character raising your girl child.

you did not bother to ask him if the mother has tried talking with him that she wants to take the girl before. Maybe he refused and the reason she decided to act this way. I'm not in support of the woman taking the child without his permission, for me, that's very risky. What if sth happens, she will have to start explaining story but maybe she has tried before and he refused. Also, a girl child is better raised with her mother if she's a responsible mother and from the tone of his writing, doesn't look like she,s irresponsible or the op would have used every means to say so since they are separated.

redseason:

Good advice, but what if she calls his bluff and refuses to turn up? What if there is no forwarding address to locate her in Lagos and she changes her phone number since it’s switched off? What if her family claims they don’t have much forwarding information about her? What can a welfare system do?

Oga, ASAP, get her mother arrested! In your statement rope her into the kidnap of your daughter. Inform the police they were both involved in requesting for the kids visitation to her home. She should be detained and charged as an accomplice in a kidnap case. Do this and watch her run down from Lagos with your daughter. You guys can now sit down and do the needful the proper way. There is a similar case here on NL where the MIL even prevented the father from seeing his twin for 6 years, immediately after arrest, the elusive twins appeared from God knows where.

Her scheming to talk your daughter deceitfully leaves much to be doubted. It shows the girl is not even safe with her. You would have failed your child, if as a parent you don’t even have a verifiable address where she resides, where she schools and the safety of the environment where she lives. You deserve to even know what this ex does for a living. What if she is into hook up/prostitution? you don’t want such character raising your girl child.

Get her mother arrested for what? What kind of advice is this? Better fear God. No be everything be violence

jeromestarks:
This woman does not know that yansh is only attractive when it is on the waist on a young woman.
Anything about 23 -27 is a turn off.
This is why Dj Cuppy irritates me.

See you. Does DJ cuppy notice you? This only goes to show that if your wife is more than 27, she will be a turn off to you. You go cheat tire. Some of you don't even know what you say anymore, just open your mouth and say rubbish

HilcomTech:



Even Peter Obi knew all along he wasn't going anywhere but he just kept deceiving his gullible followers.

shatap there. he is fighting for a course that people have awoken to. To us, its a clarion call. you wont understand cos your head is filled with so much agbado and cassava or sth of that sort. But we, whether obi wins or not, we are not backing down. so you better swallow this bitter pill cos there's nothing you can do about it. i kind of think im wasting my time typing this cos the only grammar in your dictionary is gullible. The question is- What does that word mean? Olodo

TheSameGuy:
This man is very dull

He always sound incoherent with his bad grammar


No wonder he had a Pass in UNN after 6 years, What a disgrace!

Zombie, buhari your president can hardly pronounce any word correctly and you're here blabbing about a man that speaks far better than d almajiri. May God save you from your own hate. Hate kee u there

Glink2018:


Why should I be Obi-DENSE?/

Even without being obidient, you're already dense so no need for obi-dense. Your dense go double.

ATLIEN2027:
Marrying a fat Cow?

Sad for their loss but marrying a fat cow out of pity is not a good start.
He will be cheating around left and right like a dog.

You're an id-ot if this is what you say to a woman that just lost her kid. Pray you don't experience same. I don't blame you, you Yoruba's no dey ever get sense. When normal pple dey talk, you sef talk

ATLIEN2027:
Marrying a fat Cow?

Sad for their loss but marrying a fat cow out of pity is not a good start.
He will be cheating around left and right like a dog.

You're an idiot if this is what you say to a woman that just lost her kid. Pray you don't experience same. I don't blame you, you Yoruba's no dey ever get sense. When normal pple dey talk, you sef talk

naptu2:


https://www.dispatch.ug/2022/11/14/kabale-university-lecturer-sacked-over-sex-for-marks-scandal/

Anuofia. This one thinks he's in Nigeria. Werey

Baronthecelebri:
She fine naturally, but the makeup is very bad

Who asked for your opinion on her looks. Abeg, congratulate her and pass. Otherwise, JSTFU. Nonsense and indomie

jeromestarks:
If she's not a virgin your bro has made a mistake he will live to regret.

Either he shares her with her ex(s) or he spends his money training someone else's child or he suffers both cases.


Marry a virgin and have peace of mind.
It's foolishness to sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man with just two eggs and indomie.

What kinda idiot is this?

beerfraud:


https://mobile.twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1589351579156893697

Wakada idiot is this reno

Zealoy:
Hi guys this is the plate of rice i bought this morning at the market for #400, rice #200 and the tail of fish #200, here in Lagos state

This looks like poison to me

Penguin2:


You meant to say IPOB ladies?

When they support Tinubu they are Igbos, but if they were supporting Obi, you’d tag them IPOB.

You see your double standard is oozing.

Dont mind the useless lip service personnel called yoruba pple

OgaDeyVex:


Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/delta-woman-stabs-man-to-death-during-fight/%3famp

nonsense everywhere

Moneyyman:
Hmm
Women have it tough in this world.

Put yourself in their shoes for a moment. You're young, beautiful, and attractive.

Many males, both young and old, poor and rich, sensible and stupid, good and wicked, are coming for you. Imagine the confusion they face. It is tough.

Many women are scared of making the wrong choice but they make the mistake of choosing in the moment and not looking at the future.

So, if things change (either ways) their choice could either backfire or get better with time.

A mistake in choice could end her life (figuratively). It is tougher on women cos with age, their options reduces.

Most women can only marry one man but many men marry more than one woman. Making a choice is difficult for women.

As for we, men, the prize.

Go get a life. Smash your goals. Hit money. Become a better version. We should age like fine wine...getting better as time passes.

We are the prize.

dey deceive yourself. Which prize are you talking about

i used to have some respects for this keyamo guy before when he was still a legal practitioner or is it an activist. I've since lost all that respect since he became apc spokesman. The man is just blabbing nonsense on and on. A political nuisance indeed. So money makes pple stupid

dmdmdm:


I should have asked that he goes to Jos for the laundry job too since beggars can't be choosers.

He has a driving skill and it would be useless in a factory. We ain't relenting, a job would most definitely come, and all of these would be story.

Be useful to the people around you, stop being bitter.

Persons who see life differently helped out and it was enough to get data. The same help that's been choking you, be sure to keep water close by.

Do not live an empty life, if you can't add value to humanity, sit and learn from others, who knows, it may hit your stone cold bitter heart, that's if it still pumps blood.

You will need to calm down madam. Its obvious you are letting your emotions get the better of you, so pls just calm down. Like you said, It will pass. I once faced all these but i fought back with all my strength. Infact, there was nobody to go for help so i did little jobs to feed both kids and hubby and later got a job in a school. My kids attended the school so there was no school fees anxiety. I could go on and on. But at this point, i need you to know that when you come in a public space to ask for help, you shd know that pple must tag you something. Dont take it personal. Pray for the best and move to the next thing. God awaits you to rise so dont remain down and dont give room to nitwits who youre better than to insult you. That i wont let any woman debase herself with. Pls be strong. God will help you

1Sharon:


My friend, a job opportunity was offered but you sidestepped it and jumped on the comment asking for your acct details.


You claim to have one cup of rice in your house, yet here you are.

I think you should shut up already. Its obvious you have nothing to offer. Why not just read and pass. You are exhibiting a poor mans mentality.

Confirmedzombie:
The South East is no longer safe again. This is the handwork of Ipob.

I wonder what this IPOB terorists want.

Ipob your days are numbered

you must be mad. So edo is now south east. must you show ur ignorance and stupidity to d world.

KingKO22:
Heart attack for IPOB pigs of Pandora Obituary urchin

I can see that the magnitude of suicide from SadEast will increase drastically

And sadsad people will continually remain sad n foolish. How do you people think that a common campaign manifesto will change anything for apc and tinubu. didn't you read buharis change manifesto. we obidients are not scared. not even scared of loosing cos then we put off a good fight which is already giving tinubu sleepless nights. No wonder he looks half dead already

lhordspy:
Where are the families of those who were allegedly killed? Abi dem no get family? Them no get pictures? Where are the graves? Is it not funny that we havent seen someone that knows someone, that also knows someone that was killed?


'Gathering of Eye service people' .

Sowore- A failed Journalist, a worst activist and a disaster of a politician. Looking for attention as usual, anything to be in the news and enjoy his few minutes of media spotlight.

Mr macaroni - i dont even know where to even place this one. Anywhere belle-face attention seeking boy. You see him running his mouth and fingers all over twitter jumping on anything political upsetting issues looking for validations from ipob miscreants, while they suck his Di*k continously. They will soon turn on you one day for sure. Children of hate dont like someone for long, they are only enagaging in the fake love because of their tribesman political unachievable fantasy of ruling our country, the country they once called a zoo, not even ruling Biafra. Their envious and hatefilled soul will always tend to showcase itself, no matter how they surpress it.

The only real person in their midst there is Falz, just so unfortunate he has been successfully misled into engaging in Political sponsored Anti-government activities, cheerlead by Children of hate.


Tinubu, a man not in power can order the killings of protesters. But Peter Pandora, a serving Gorvernor didnt ordered the detainment of Nasiru El'rufai using DSS, right? Silly hypocrites

You zombidients just have big flat-head for nothing. What is the use of big-head without using it to think?

And Falz? youre a dummy, honestly. Just keep waiting for their families. you think everything is propaganda. You should have been one of the persons killed, i for ask for your family. Dont you know that the APC government will do everything in their power to cover up. By now, you should have known that tinubu is a money bag who uses his stolen funds in bullion vans to keep people silent?. You cant be that daft nah. Haba

what to say. we have a sick president running a sick country and wants to make sure that he runs the whole country aground. I cannot even begin to comprehend peoples suffering. It is well with these people. I pray God will make a way. A day of reckoning is coming. Judgement day is coming soon for everyone involved in all these vices. They cant escape it for what goes around comes around

mrvitalis:

Debt clearing , payment of pension owed before him ... reduced cost of governance that saved the state 500 million dollars

All this are the qualities Nigeria needs in her next leadership and that's why I'm voting him

Won't mention his performance in education, security, health ,road those are basic any idiot can do that even tinubu

Why are you responding to d slowpoke who does not know common economics and politics. He just wants to learn from you. Allow them wallow in their ignorance. Leave them, dem go chop agbado tire. sufferhead no dey tire them

ebufa:





what do you expect from a slimy southwastener!

my thoughts exactly. You can imagine. and one Igbo girl married this mental nutcase

N3TRAL:
THE CHIEF LAW OFFICER OF THE FEDERATION HAS SPOKEN!


DISCHARGE IS NOT ACQUITTAL.

EVEN IF HE WAS ACQUITTED, THERE'S THE SUPREME COURT THAT HAS THE FINAL SAY.

I ONLY WISH THE SUPREME LEADER WAS ALLOWED TO GLANCE AT TWITTER FOR A MINUTE AND LEARN A LESSON OR TWO ON HOW SWIFTLY HUMANS CAN SWITCH LOYALTY.

SOCIAL MEDIA WAS FILLED WITH OBIDIENTS PRAYING YOU SHOULD BE KEPT TILL FEBRUARY 2023 AS PLAN B.

I STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT JAGABAN, THE PEACEFUL AND LOVING MAN WILL PARDON KANU WHEN HE BECOMES PRESIDENT OF OUR GREAT REPUBLIC NEXT YEAR.

TO ERR IS HUMAN BUT TO FORGIVE IS DIVINE

GOD BLESS JAGABAN AND EVERYONE WHO IS BATIFIED, AMEN.

GOD RESTORE PEACE TO OUR COUNTRY , AMEN.

GOD BLESS NKECHI , MY YELLOW PAWPAW , FOR ME AND LET HER KEEP LOVING ME , AMEN!

NKECHI, IF YOU'RE READING THIS KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU TO THE MOON AND WE'LL MAKE BEAUTIFUL BABIES.

GOD BLESS NZERIBE MY FATHER-IN-LAW, AMEN.

GOD BLESS NGOZI MY MOTHER-IN-LAW, AMEN.

GOD BLESS NAIRALAND, AMEN!

You really need to be discharged and acquitted from mental issues

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stop exposin your ignorance. It stinks

Pakute:
Let that bitch take several seat back, who e help?
More intelligent and highly placed women like Okonjo Iweala and Aminat Muhammed were proud of the award. We don't want a politically motivated Obidient bitch ass and a mentally damaged feminist around our award.

see madness. Aunty cure it before it kills you.

Persephone1:
Your family is complete but you are crying here for women like your mothers
Lets not act like we don't know you when you want women like your mothers you want sufferhead women would would take all your shiit and still crown you like kings

Treat your woman right and you won't be looking for your ancestral women ! .As for your prayers, direct them to yourself. You need them more.

Lol

God bless bro for this. Thanks