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PrimadonnaO:
It has been stated severally that most women are hypergamous... they want to be with men who are above them in all the ways that matter.

So most men become insecure because they suddenly begin to feel they've fall short of what they're supposed to be in a home.

And in most cases, to be honest, many women tend to be uncontrollable when they earn significantly higher.

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This is one of the catalysts of feminism. Women are now educated, smart, outspoken, and are making their own good money, so they're asking men "what makes you special?"

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Everyone should feel secure in their worth, though. Alarm bells shouldn't start ringing in a man's head the very minute he finds out his wife/partner earns higher. It's not every woman who'll rub it in.
So many women are the breadwinners in their homes, and everything is just fine.

I know you hoes will take dis topic to another level!
Upon all the money hoes earn, their men ends up footing 80% of the house expenses and you idiots are asking "what makes men special?"
Are you pple wise at all

Like!
Who cares
Who will notice ur absence

Its actually none of my business who she marries!
You dnt plan future with any girl.
Future planning is a one man thing!

calcal:
so your paycheck is 50 dollars per month

Less than sef!

richmond500:
So I took my vaccine today, it was suppose to be two dose.
I took the first dose today, my next appointment is 24/June.

I was told to come report if I experience any uneasy feeling as there are some rumours that the dose causes inflammation of the skin and makes one sick.

So, I'll just observe and tell u guys if its safe to take the vaccine and if u should believe those rumours or not. stay connected.

BTW, I took the AstraZeneca/Oxford dose

they jst injected caprisonne inside you so dnt bother updating us

Lol.
I remember wen i was serving. One woman met me to be her daughter's private lesson teacher for #4,000 which i accepted.

After two weeks i begin reason, does this stress worth 4k
Omo na so i japa.. Lemme be managing govt's 19,800..

Teaching(private school) no be work ooo..
If u re a private school teacher, u re still unemployed to me.

BeboNGN:
I don't know if this is wrong or right section to post this, but anyways I need your help and I don't know how to do this much, but I don't have any alternative than this.

I need a laptop, and I have saved 100k for it, the laptop specs I want to buy is Corei7, 8GB RAM and 1 Terabyte, I need this high powered laptop because I will be using it to do data analysis work, and some programming work

The laptop cost 140k and I have 100k am begging if anyone can help me no matter the amount, so I can complete this and purchase the laptop and start freelance work to earn a living.

Thank you very much, I appreciate all the help you can give me.

Core i7 for 140k
Abeg show me the person that sells it!

luminouz:
Nawa o... When I don't now know nko?

Then forget na

luminouz:
Damn!! Who are you referring to?

I no call name oo...
Figure the answer yourself

See how everybody dey make mouth...
Even one fat hippopotamus that i have seen physically is up there making mouth that s/he can't go back to her ex.
The question shuld be which of ur exes really want to come back to you

52 rubbish codes...
All una things dey alwasyydey complicated...
See long list

I dnt understand ur post!
Why not make use of punctuations properly
What made her hate you?

You jst wantu spend the rest of ur life going to the hospital and spending unnecessary money!

festacman:
This inspirational words of advice: "Work your butt off to be rich. And work your butt off some more to stay rich" is overrated and can lead many to depression and suicide.

Yes, no lazy person will be wealthy in life, but believe me, there are multitude of people who work much much smarter/harder than Linda Ikeji and still can't climb up the ladder. Life no balance.


For example, Burna Boy works harder but he is certainly NOT the hardest working or the most talented artiste in Nigeria. It is debatable if he is more gifted than Adekunle Gold.

It is about a fine mixture of DESTINY, HARDWORK and GRACE, grace of opportunities, so to speak.

Fallacious statement...
Many lazy pple are rich..
Many pple are lazy and smart... Define lazy please

All these psychological theories and other counselling are trash!!

You see why i dnt feel a thing when boko boys kill them
Very useless set of human

Yes but my money cant be involve in that kind of relationship...
dnt ever ask me for money, ask him instead.

Beedude:
Did Ferguson won epl with 16 point ahead 2nd place ? Did Ferguson every had 99 points ?
You are the one that need to think.
First 5yrs of Alex was nothing to write home about and here is someone that has overrun epl in just 5yrs. Abeeg I no get time for argument this Monday morning

Lool!
Olodo!
Did guardiola won 3 straight leagues
Did guardiola produced a world best player in his team

Dnt overhype guardiola
Messi made guardiola.
Since he left messi, which european trophy has he brought back

Think Again fam!
No coach like that Ferguson!
You think am a man utd fan
How much did ferguson spend in all his career as a man utd manager

Beedude:
Most EPL fans are hypocrites. Their hatred for Pep, Messi and Barca is second to none. Same Pep dey castigates and hates has dominated EPL in a way no coach has ever done. When he fails they tag him scam. When he wins the say its becos of money. Is Aston Villa richer than Liverpool to the point that dey were pumelled 7-2 ?
When a coach is good we have to give it to him. PEP is the best coach in Epl by a long mile and no team will reject to have him as a coach should the chance come.

Did u think before saying this
Did u watch Ferguson's time at man utd
Abi u wan jst dey talk anyhow

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Judgesledge:
Why has righteousness not commented, oh I forgot, he's in church now, better be going my self. Not going may not be a sin, but surely will lift up your spirit if your heart is set towards God

Not in today's church bro!
U go dere and see all sorts of scam.

Lemme tell you bro!
You made a nice suggestion but contributing money to buy a lister or soundproof mikano is far from being possible.
You know why?
Some tenants are something else and can neva contribute to anything in the compound.
Some tenants are also witches and wizards in disguise that even to contribute money for sewage disposal is a war game to them.
I live in a compound of 4 flats and 2 boys-quaters and they have problem contributing for little things.
Yoruba tenants(no tribalism intended) are the worst thing that has ever happened to me.
They complain over everything and won't contribute to anything.

Freestainworld:
That is why Boko Haram keep killing them without mercy

I have said it severally, dnt ever pity a soldier.
I can neva type R.I.P wen boko boys kills anyone..
Very heartless set of idiots.
Cowards

BlowYourMind:
I am not surprised


Get rich quickly plague is wide range in there.


Baby factory ritualism is booming


Hardworking lost people of the red Sea drown Jews

No wonder yorubas are wallowing in poverty

Iamafinegirl:
Lol... even him knows that’s not true
I m sure he didn’t mention that
Because he is sure I m a virgin and we was waiting for marriage to commence the do

Virgin korh!
Vagina nii!!
Madam leave that thing.
So after all those spendings, baba no see pvssy..
U actually met a fool.. a nonsense simp.
So after you guys go clubbing or so to catch fun, u go straight to bed wen u come back No sex. Jst like that...
Omo!
That guy na fool ooo.

Kingscee:
My dear you can make your contribution without insulting anyone, anyway thanks for your wonderful advice.

Saying u sound stupid is nt an insult bro...
It actually means the statement doesn't fit the particular purpose it was meant for

Iamafinegirl:
Did you tell them that when we are talking
“You are not serious is a big INSULT for you”
Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted to you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know?
Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?

Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.

Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?

Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil.
Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke?
But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl?
When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard.
Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard
You have called me demonic woman
You have called me stupid woman
You have called me very stupid woman
The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult.
Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself.
Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?

Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building? And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do.

Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.

Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.

Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.

Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?

Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?

Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.

Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you?
Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my path

Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours?
Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself?
When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart.
Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onion etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%

Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na.
Did you tell them that I spoke of u buying some thing like blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. The cheap juicer bought did it last? No
Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts?
Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no?
Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use my car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?

The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?

In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover.

You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc.
And still buy food n do stuff.
You would remember I was never a burden on u
I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.

On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care. Simple

Thank God he left ur lying ass...
U re very toxic to be in a relationship...
You said no sex but am veey sure there is another guy rough handling ur pussy...
Rubbish