godquality:
if the country better, people for no leave na. When we start going to countries like Malaysia, Singapore, Thailand, even Philippines then you know all is not well.

abeg remove singapore, its disrespectful naming a first word nation alongside semi-shithole nations

Mynd44:
Here we go again.

When you left Nigeria to go to Malaysia without documents did you tell the Nigerian government? Now you want the government to use resources that are not enough to take care of law abiding people to get you out of the trouble you got yourself into.

if ur child misbehaves do u rather leave him to die?

InvertedHammer:


You know at least one bad man or one bad woman in your neighbourhood. Guess what? Someone is married to the son or the daughter is betrothed to someone. Some men/women are not worth the respect wasted on them.
There are ladies who wish death on their mothers-in-law but kneel and bow to them. That's pretense/conformity and not respect. Sadly, some folks cannot differentiate between the two.

No matter how bad an elder is he still deserves your respect its not a mere priviledge, he earned it. It is one of the positives of core african values the west admires. Better pretend u are respecting him than burst him up in public.

Rubbiish:

Keep it up bro...
if u continue like this, u will live long
Any woman that will destroy u will first come between u & ur family/friends

#truth she will first of all isolate u from the people that might jeopardise her plans and rescue u #bloody_delilah

maasoap:

Don't be too emotional, and don't activate your attack mode against me. I will ignore you the moment I realise that you can't debate with a clear head without attacking others for having contrary opinions.

You're focusing too much on the negative sides of family interferences in marriages in Nigeria. To people like me, the positive interferences outweigh the negative interferences.

Dont give up bro, that's a conditioned reflex. The whites conditioned us to feel as though everything we do and have our culture is barbaric, evil and too backward that is why 99% of comments u see about africa is soo negative. The bad thing is that these comments are coming from africans the majority of people who talk good about us and our value are actually non africans, its pathetic. I tried to explain this but people dont seem to understand.

maasoap:

Long but deep. We can't just discard our extended family just because we are now married and just make our wives our only project and only thing that matters.
If you have problems now, ranging from finance to health, it is your family that will be with you to the end. Your wife might quit at a point if the crisis drags on for too long.
My point: we must learn to keep both and draw the line for each side, it is not that difficult to maintain.

Exactly! its as simple as that, thats why we should all pray for wisdom to be able to deal with this issue. Wife is not more important than family neighter is family more important than wife they all have their places.

hisgrace090:
So all this okorocha have accepted cow colony is nothing but lies ?

Why are humans this way?

no carry two hands hold this news ooo, u fit see evidence tomorrow to prove say im talk am true true.

Balkan:
That one follow university? abegii!

Dont say what u dont know national open university is one of the best schools in nigeria, if u make a 3.0gpa in that school u sabi book.

davidif:


Wrong! A man shall leave his father and mother, brothers and sisters and cleave to his wife and they shall become ONE FLESH!!! What is it about being ONE that you people don't understand? It means that no one should come between you and your wife and that includes your wife. Do you people even know anything about loyalty or what it means to have your wife's back or defend her honor? If you don't, please don't marry abeg. Don't punish the poor girl biko.
No wonder a lot of marriages in Nigeria are just loveless. Wife just stays with the husband because of the stigma of divorce not because he loves him. Your wife does not come after your family but before them.

My brother you are the one misunderstanding the scripture, being "one" means u must appreciate,respect and love what i love and i must also appreciate, respect and love what u love. It doesnt mean i should side with u even when its obvious u are misbehaving, "i still love u as much as i love my family but sorry this time around u messed up". I love my family so much that my wife must also love my family so much its not a choice and thats what the scripture is saying. Honestly no one wants to be put in that position where he would have to make a choice b/w family and wife and godforbid if my wife forces me with bad character to make that choice, i will prove to her she is a second citizen to where my family is b/c this same woman might decide to leave tomorrow but my family is my family get that bro. Thesame thing is also applicable to women- a man must love the womang's family as much as the woman loves her family. A woman should never make a man alienate his family b/c of her for no reason, i have a far distant cousing brother that married since 2014, eversince my cousing married everything changed he no longer allows his immediate cousings freely into the house, he no longer pays their school fees like he used to, he no longer comes home for xmass, the most funny part is that we the family were barely invited to his white wedding, this woman has never visited the husband's home for the first time, they now have a son but me i never use my eye see the pikin. However this same woman is living with her younger sister in her husbands house and is paying her school fees and all sorts. When people talk of love and marriage i laugh do you know that 50% of marriages in america ends in divorce? These are people we are sure say atleast they marry for love... and we are trying to mimick them

paulynpen:

Husband's people should also learn to accept their brother's wife and treat her as their own. They should learn to leave couples alone, the woman is a human being with flesh and blood she has a family too. What you will not do to your sister or like someone do to her don't do it to your wife or your brother's wife. You will only succeed in telling her that she is not a member of your family and when she start behaving like that you will cry fowl. For crying out loud do you know how many homes are shstered and sacrificed on the alter of family people? Africa should learn to grow. You are married with your own family but will not remove eyes from your sister-inlaw. I am not talking from this one but on a general note

let me remind you this... now judge yourself.

paulynpen:

I did expect this from you, its a characteristic of a lowlifer and a weak man who can not rise without making other loom stupid. One wise man once said if you argue with a stupid man he will drag you to his stupid corner and with his experience in stupidity will defeat you. You need to grow up and learn the art of communication and discussion its part of civilization that you can't learn in that thick Bush

how funny, you think you are civilised and you still habour the notion that being african is part of ur problem[s]? That cognitive dissonance is real struggle.

Our 9ja feminists must be very disappointed by now just when they think they were really influencing some people this news happened. lol Real quality women do not propose for anything "if u aint brave enough to propose to me u aint brave enough to marry me"...lol o pari

paulynpen:

I don't have to argue with you or explain anything to you because I can see that you are a child, you may not know much. Wait for experience

if u don't have the statistics of the number of marriage breakdowns due to family ties, hold ur peace africa did nothing to u stupidity did.

paulynpen:

Husband's people should also learn to accept their brother's wife and treat her as their own. They should learn to leave couples alone, the woman is a human being with flesh and blood she has a family too. What you will not do to your sister or like someone do to her don't do it to your wife or your brother's wife. You will only succeed in telling her that she is not a member of your family and when she start behaving like that you will cry fowl. For crying out loud do you know how many homes are shstered and sacrificed on the alter of family people? Africa should learn to grow. You are married with your own family but will not remove eyes from your sister-inlaw. I am not talking from this one but on a general note

bring your stats

kokomilala:
What's Kanu brother's business with Kanu's family? All these stupid cultural sentiments don't make us move forward.

we do not appreciate us or think well of what we have achieved over the course of +20 centuries of living in the dark continent. They came and told us lies about ourself we believed,- they expressed us as the heart of darkness, they told us they brought light to us, they said we were barbaric, they made us believe that black signifies evil, they said we had no history, they said we had no civilization... and all [sort] lies. My heart bleeds to know there are some of us still holding on to the lies they told us.






"cultural sentiment indeed"

InvertedHammer:


Your mother and father can be insulted if they insult themselves first. Respect is earned. Insult must not be verbal. It could be subtle.

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"respect is earned" good word combo yet void of meaning. Sounds inspiring yet decieving in its self reality. So u mean to tell me that a woman that bore the man u married and the man that the trained him into the man he was b4 u married him is yet to earn your respect?

fiyin47:
Lol joblessness of the highest order, this blogger funny die o

e concern u?

iamJ:
if kanu makes mistake and allow her to go because of his brother, men that will climb her eh, her yansh na corola 2018 model ooo

dont play that kind play kanu, a word is enough for the wise

go instagram and view kanu's wife and see what am saying, he met her a virgin, she is 2nd hand, how many 2nd hand women u know? most girls are 40th hand and some 200th hand, her body still new like Belgium motor, dont play oooo

advice kanu if u know who knw am

dem no dey advice person twice

craze talk... o pari

mickeyenglish:


I am tired of the ups and downs of this country along with its ill-mannered rulers .Instead of the State Governors to also quickly capitalise on this lovely idea to create ranches or "colonies" not for any Fulani or Northerners, but for the citizens of their respective states.By the time the Southerners start producing large and healty cattle for both dairy and consumption, then ild like to see who would patronise the fulanis.

Post No Bill.

you must consider peoples fear and sentiment before doing such a thing and if our government wants to diversify our economy with livestocks, they should establish it and employ people based on merit as of now what am seeing is nepotism.

Femi i dont know your intentions, why say that your minister for agriculture is given the wrong impressions? For your information this sentiment is not chief Audu's he didnt champion it, we've all known this fact since two years ago. The FG is not given our state to herdsmen or however you understand it, he is simply trying to solve a problem by creating a new one. This belief of herdsmen taking full control of any land given to them "by FG" in whatever name- cattle colony OR ranch is not a hypothesis its an eventuality history has record of it, it will surely happen. Why should FG use tax payers money to sponsor peoples private biz, is it not suspicious?

b0rn2fuck:
but if madrid win the league, quote me

i dont care about league mak others carry kwanu, na only dem de play football?

b0rn2fuck:
He was so desperate to get his goals after 5 goals with one inclusive from him, all he did was waiting on box 18 while other was hustling, at least he got two goals

save this b4 season ends if im no pass 30 goals quote me.

ImaIma1:


So all the intelligent ladies are not beautiful?? How did you come to that conclusion?

i said "d ones i know" sis and u must b among them bc i don c ur pic and u no fine

honourable356:
You still don't understand the word "presentable"?

Who even told you that.. as you put it,( book) intelligent chics is not fine?? who told you so??

You just have not met them, simple!

i said "the ones i know" they are not even presentable ooo. Nonye law student [IMSU] ugly, on top am she no d even mak up and when she does, omo! na disaster. AMAKA, ANATOMY STUDENT, UGLY WITH DEEPERLIFE ATIRE. is it strange to u? d reason is obvious.

honourable356:
I have just few words to say...

Whoever I end up marrying must be intelligent...i repeat MUST! I am not saying she shouldn't be beautiful...

What I am saying is,

SHE MUST BE PRESENTABLE AND INTELLIGENT...(Education-wise, and common sense)
That is to say, I want a lady with all her quality but intelligence should be one of it.

Who want dull children?
Certainly no me!

u better start now to d mould ur own wife b/c [book] intelligent chics no d fine ooo, d ones i know shaa.

mamuzoOMAH:
This is easy sha. U just need to stop her from watching Zee world, Telemundo and Africa magic epic. Those stations make someone dumb. Also encourage her to visit nairaland more. Nairaland is a home of intelligent people. Sometimes unserious, they give out useful and intelligent ideas. Tell her to visit the Politics, Foreign Affairs, Health, Religion Science and Technology Sections more. Plus others that may interest her. NNairaland will give her two sides of the story, so longs as she is open minded, she will then reason critically and eventual come to a conclusion. Tell her to Start watching CNN, Channels, NAT Geo Wild, supersport and other stations that will make someone sensible. Also like someone stated above, give her books to read. Buy her good books. Ben Carson, Steve Harvey and the likes. so Kong she's obedient anddedicated, she will mprove. In all these, jst stop her from wahing Zee world, Telemundo and Africa magic epic.

see as de tin easy 4 ur mouth

walexbiz:
Any governor that accept this rubbish should be gladly voted out of power... I dey keep surveillance on Amosu

expect baba Rochas to be the first to comply with this evil...

ednut1:
So what would u rather have If implemented herdsmen vs farmer clashes wud be history.

ranch! ranch! ranch! ranch! ranch! ranch!



Biko if you own cattles/livestock, buy or lease land and do ur thing there. Not government forcing people to give up there land


#banopengrazing
#notoopengrazing
#notocattlecolonies
#noto2016grazingbill

please that cattle colony is a prototype of the 2016 grazing bill that was rejected, google it and know why it was rejected. They are systematically trying to bring it back... where is nnamdi kanu bikooo? God!




#NOTOCATTLECOLONIESbikoooo!

Is this not an indirect way of bringing back that devilish 2016 grazing bill ?

Why is that man saying banning open grazing anti-fulani is he ok?

Nutase:
Buhari, playing politics with peoples destiny since 1985

buhahahahaha its not a laughing matter but i must laugh