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OBelz:
It's will be put in a book and am trying to redeem myself. It not been easy.

I would love a copy

Finally
A female ruggedity

You aren't female I gather?

Hmm. Didn't know

THESE CHURCH BROTHERS…….

Andrew is in his office. He is enjoying listening to an audio message through a DVD player in the office. Cindy knocks on the door and he asks her to come in. She enters..She is well-dressed.

They exchange pleasantries. She then speaks,

‘Pastor Andrew, I got your message and so i came to see you.’

‘Yes, Cindy. As the youth pastor of this assembly, I’m bothered about the degree of disinterest our sisters express in our brothers. Even the newcomers are being discouraged from considering the proposals coming from our brothers.’ He sighed and continued,’ They prefer to move around with men who don’t even think about God. Why is that?’

Cindy laughs

He says, ’I am serious, Cindy. The Serious Brothers’ Committee has come to me to complain and ask that I intervene. One of the steps I’m taking is to talk to sisters to know what the matter is. So, please, speak up,’

‘Oh, Pastor . Most of our brothers are too serious. They only talk of spiritual things all the time. They can be very boring.’

‘Ok, do you mean exactly?’

‘’They are not current .They rarely remember birthdays. When we remind them, they only buy us gifts like bibles, devotionals, bible study manuals, message tapes. They don’t seem to be aware we have other things we value too.’

‘Really? Please, go on.’

‘yes, why don’t they take us out to the beach, cinemas, to shopping mails or sometimes, just for short strolls? Is that unspiritual too? Why don’t they take us to eateries once in a while? Why don’t they buy us feminine gifts? For heaven’s sake, the gifts don’t have to be expensive-they only need to be thoughtful.’

‘hmmm.’

‘Yes, only things they ask us is whether we have prayed, how long,the contents of our morning devotion, the number of fasts we observe, what the Holy Spirit is revealing to us. We are fed up. They should try to be human sometimes. We don’t want unexciting relationships. We are smart.’

Andrew draws forward in his seat,’ I understand all you said but I want to ask-did you ask from God before breaking the relationships? Did you fast and pray and receive revelations or you just followed the flesh? Did you sisters receive confirmations?’

She looks shocked, ‘aha, so you are one of them.’

He looks perplexed.

Standing up, she says, ‘’See you later, Pastor Andrew. There is nothing to discuss further.’

QUESTIONS
*Should courtship be all about prayers, fastings, devotions, bible studies(spiritual matters)?

*Should sisters/brothers opt for non-spiritual folks because the spiritual ones are boring?
*Is it compulsory to marry someone you were led to?

SweetCunt97:
Funny how many of these series seem to undermine male power and dominance.. Feminism is really knocking hard. But personally it would b best not to put any gender down to make the other seem stronger or superior

Which of them?

Honeydenz:
You are right.
Unfortunately it's very common on campus. Boyfriend and girlfriend living together....Very common. I did it also to be honest, it wasn't funny. The disadvantages is more than the advantages.

could you share your disadvantageous story?

scoundrel:
Somebody will come, dump misinformation and run away. Lol. Sadly, the situation is as bad on Reddit as it is here.

So you disagree.
A topic like this needs fe ale input.
Maybe a counter stats "80of males are Homo"

scoundrel:
Women don’t care and are easily intimidated. End of story.

Please don't be offended. Was this the same experience at Reddit?

Besides you believe low quality men congregate here.

Higher quality on Instagram.
Indeed

scoundrel:
I don’t think. I know. It doesn’t take up to a month for any newbie to realize the fact.


I never said females bring up ideas. I stated that males dominate the internet because females are too busy dating. Your statement only confirms that it’s true.

Now, stop derailing and contribute properly to the thread.

Dating can't be it.
Married men are here too.
You on the other hand don't think of yourself as ugly yet you are here.
Could be women are easily intimidated by overwhelming male dominance.
I have seen several attempts made by women to turn the tide and control the narrative.
I think it lacked female overwhelming support for extended periods.

To say that men have more social experience is crazy.
It is generally believed for every 3 gals a guy asks out there are 15guys asking a girl out.

My own story is not unique. I can relate with most stories here. I will only be repeating the same thing you have already read.

scoundrel:
Females are too busy being carried away with suitors to care about being here. It’s only ugly and rejected ones who come here because no one looks their way. Females with money to subscribe are busy updating their Instagram accounts.

Don't you think males generally dominate cyberspace?

Get feedback on sexy pictures maybe women's territory but on ideas?? Not likely

scoundrel:
The thread is dead? It makes for good reading.

I like men because they are majorly honest. There are some lies here and there, but everyone jumped into the thread to contribute. The thread aimed at females was dead in the water. It’s only low quality females (and males) who congregate this forum. However the males have more experience in social situations.

why do you think this is so? Don't females have no money to subscribe?

Openbusiness:
I'm happy for her and wish her the best. But why is it that Nigerian men don't like to help their fellow men but always eager to form Captain Hero for women? What about the 1000 other male riders?.Whoever or whatever wired you 9ja guys like that deserves a GCFRN for life They always like to form Superman for women but leave their fellow men to suffer. Well, their problem. More enjoyment for us. Being a woman in Nigeria is so fun

American women will be jealous

imiski:
I have in my little way rendered assistance to both sexes and the male folks are usually more more grateful than the females.

Do you think it's fair?

imiski:
Females generally have the disposition that they deserve any risk taken on their behalf-after all all you want is to get in between their legs. But if it were to be a guy watch how he would struggle to foot your bills or make your hospsital stay comfortable.

How do you know all this?

Not heard about this Linda for Long

purples25:
Guys really worship the most pretty girls and its unfair really .

Anyway both guys and ladies are guilty of this. Everyone should try to control themselves.

Karma is when they turn on you and hurt you. Then you get a taste of the sadness and bitterness the less pretty people feel. That's life.

Can you open a thread on the sadness less pretty people feel?

mapet:
This woman's story is not new. I followed her story about 5-7yrs ago

where is the nairaland link to her story

advocate666:
That god just shat everywhere.

I am more sure he bleed everywhere.

LordReed:
And now shift to absurdity. I am done with this conversation.

Come on.
Creative thinking.

Why do you think surgeons insist you don't eat 6 hours before surgery?

Last supper to 9am crucifixion is more than 5 hours.
The women had to prepare his body for burial. clean him up isn't that right?

Like seriously are you missing the fact that Pilate sent him to Herod?
He could be pressed all that while.
Royals would expect some decency in their court. Shit smell together with flies is indecent.
Artful doger.
Bowel movement watcher.

LordReed:
Tell that to hospital nurses that have to take care of the soiled sheets of people on drip.

What are the chances he also defecated in the grave?
What are the chances he defecated while Roman soldiers whipped him.
Plenty chance while he carried the Cross
Plenty chances pre cross, cross, post cross.

LordReed:
Like all of that matters. On death the sphincter muscles loosen, you think because you don't feel pressed or you haven't eaten since the last night that there is nothing in your bowels or bladder? And you think the man who was beaten and treated like a criminal and tortured was afforded the dignity of voiding his bowels while in captivity for less than 5hrs (during which he never even had a moment of respite)? Man you are really grasping for straws.

very much possible.

LordReed:
You were positing that he didn't eat so he couldn't have pooped.

I said are little hours ago. His bowels would be empty. His arrest and crucifixion were hours apart.
He was crucified 9 am.

While in Roman captivity, he could have asked to use the loo.

Jesus eats and uses the loo unless on long periods of fast.

Doing number 2 on the cross could be or couldn't be.

cinderellashoes:
I just saw this thread but I felt the need to leave a comment. Leeching isn't a 'Nigerian girl thing' alone.

I am not a Nigerian but I grew up here. I have Nigerian girlfriends who spend their last dime on guys who end up breaking their hearts. I am saddened to see all the things you guys always say about Nigerian girls.

Just last week, an Igbo girl who happened to be my friend came over to my place so we could plan a surprise birthday for a guy she just started dating and we are talking about a surprise of like 70k plus and she's a fresh graduate.

Here's my own story with my ex, a Nigerian guy o

A mutual friend gave him my bbm pin and he sent me a request which I accepted. We started chatting and I liked him so we decided to meet. I was schooling from home while he was schooling in Ilorin. Before our first date, he said, "Babe, when you are coming please get me some snack or a meal cos I didn't wait to eat at home."

This guy is from a good home, his parents are okay.

I stopped at TFC on my way to get the food for him. When we got to the movies, he asked if I brought my student card and I said no.

I noticed that he wasn't pleased so I offered to pay for mine. After the movies, we went to shoprite and he bought me a pack of chocolate and I thought it was such a romantic gesture.


A few days later, he asked me to lend him 3k that robbers broke into his house and stole his money. I sent the money to him immediately.


Then it was money for house rent, he asked for 10,000 to complete it and I sent it to him.

Then it was this, or that, and I always did my best to send it to him.

I once borrowed 5k from a colleague to give him.


I used my tfare to go see him in Ilorin and each time, I used my money to cook for us, including his friends who always dropped by to see our 'iyawo'.


Yes, we had some wonderful memories. But I thought it was love, I kept thinking that we were building a future.


One day, he asked me to lend him my new, Dell laptop which an aunt sent to me from London. He used to have a laptop but he said he borrowed it to someone and they stole it.


I had no choice than to give him the laptop. For three whole years, the only cash he ever sent me was 1k which I needed as tfare to go for a job interview.

Although, on my 23rd birthday, he bought me a cake and took me to the movies.


Afterwards, he asked me to stop my job, saying I didn't have time for him. This guy refused to work, he was waiting for his dad to get him a job. Each time we had a date, I paid for it. He always had a reason to lend money from me and he never paid back.


But you see that laptop ehn, the one I borrowed him. I never got it back. He gave me a long story about it being stolen and I had my written school project in it.


I couldn't submit my project on time and I didn't graduate with my mates. You can call me a fool or whatever, but my point is, some Nigerian guys leech on girls too. Stop bashing Nigerian women all the time.


I decided to break up with him because he didn't want to get a job! At this time, we were graduates. However, I wanted to break up with him in person...the words that came out of his mouth made me realize that I had been fooled.

"Please borrow me some money now, because after the break up, its only you that will be eating your money"


P.S I am married to another Nigerian man now and he's so sweet and wonderful.

There are good Nigerian men and there also bad Nigerian men. And there are also good Nigerian women out there, take your time, and observe before meeting up with any girl.

We association of Nigerian sweet boys want to compensate you for all your troubles.

This invitation is also extended to your husband.
We hate to see a nice girl maltreated.

LordReed:
I like you you went from out right denial to wholehearted embrace. LMAO!

I didn't deny. Just explored options. Pooping isn't the only possible outcome

HappyPagan:
Small poop then. Poor guy must have been terrified.

Might have purged earlier.
Pooping isn't an issue though.
He was Stark naked.
Dick dangling. Hard and soft.
Crucifixion is worse than pooping.
Do you think victims of jungle Justice poop their pants?

He doesn't need to die to poop. The pain was too much why would he bother holding it in.

Back then it was common sight. Crucifixion and other outlandish capital purnishment.

The emotion he was feeling wasn't terror. He was expecting it.
Love for mankind.

LordReed:
He supposedly ate the last supper so no he wasn't fasting.

When a person dies the sphincter muscles are loosed allowing piss and shit to escape. It is reasonable that if Jesus died on the cross that he did shit and piss in a similar manner.

That was hours ago. Little wine and bread.