OldBeer:
After almost killing us with:

Dating pictures

Engagement pictures

Pre wedding pictures

Introduction pictures

Bridal shower pictures

Bachelor's night pictures

Traditional marriage pictures

Church wedding pictures

Reception pictures

Honeymoon pictures

Baby shower pictures

Maternity ward pictures

Baby naming ceremony pictures.....

Still e no reach 1 year!
They should just refund back the mb I used in congratulating them.
Shior!

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Where is Aisha Buhari?

ikp120:
Arrant nonsense!... Absolute piece of trashy dramatic shiit mehn! These are the reasons why ladies think the world revolves around their bum bum... This shiit sulks mehn!

Just pass her a note in a restaurant which says "Will you marry me?". Or you ask her the shiit face to face without all this "kiddish" and trashy dramatic fuckery mehn.

Guy you messed up big time.

If my husband proposed to me like this, I wasn't gonna be comfortable. Luckily he understood what type of a person I am. But people are different. Some like this dramatic type of proposal, and its their choice and taste.

Pretty girl.

I am disappointed that she picked a divorcee as her first time husband. Her cup of tea though.

ekmike:
it's obvious to say am in a wrong relationship. moving out is now an issue

Very true

Berlynn:
your wife looks really mature tho late marriage! ... Happy marriage life tho

Your mates are already married while you are busy taking selfies and browsing through old brides pictures. In fact they are on baby number 3

Yes

Airforce1:


Ok you win

i don't argue with women.

Misogynist

Airforce1:
You cant be dark skinned and still wear dark dress unless you're going for a burial

Nope, black is a colour for everyone. one can coordinate it with bright accessories,shoes and a bag.

Airforce1:
Don't wear that dress if you're not Light Skinned.

Says who?

Cyclone of bullshit.

The child was unconscious and woke up after. Mmmxxxcceeeew

Arielle:

True. She's just a regular girl. Quiet. I grew up knowing her family, her Dad and his siblings, because I'm from Calabar. Men seem to get away with everything don't they? STD and they still 'let him in'?!! Suffice it to say, Toke will make a killing with her book. I'm definitely buying it. Anita has her baby and Maje looks like the cad he is.

Very true that men seem to get away even with the devil, but we let them sometimes.
Was she going to die if (she) Anita stepped aside and waited for a well deserving man? Is all this humiliation worth it? Millions of people now having knowledge of your sexual health!!!!

Are there no descent men in Calabar??

What about her son who will grow up knowing all this? Unfortunately children born from such unions normally dont turn out well. It was just an uncalculated decision.

I have someone i know who dated a married man. Before she fell pregnant, i cautioned her and she didn't listen. She fell pregnant and the man did not deny the pregnancy. He supports the child in all aspects, but unfortunately the child is not free to see his relatives because the man went back to the wife and fixed things. The husband is now hunky dory with the wife, buying her expensive cars and she benefits nothing.

Now the girl is not free to move on because, how will she explain to a younger man that she had a child for an old married man to a point of almost ending their marriage. She continues to be a piece meal whever the man feels like having something else. Where is your dignity as a woman?

In all this i blame the woman not the man. Uncalculated move.

Arielle:


She's much better looking in real life and nowhere near 'light skinned'. She's not even half Lebanese but a quarter. Her grandfather Patrick Solomon moved to Nigeria from Lebanon as a young man and established PATSOL, one of the first cinema houses in the area. He married an Efik lady and had Anita ' s late Dad, amongst other children. So her Dad was biracial. Her mum might be Ibibio, not sure. She's brown skinned. Not light, as in 'yellow'. Toke just wanted to lighten her skin. No excuses. Na her own body, after all.

Good to know her background, though nothing screams biracial when i look at her. I guess her genes have been diluted.
There are so many light skinned girls out there. Anita is honestly an ordinary Jane to me. Nothing spectacular, even after hearing her biracial background.


₩How do you know her by the way?

Is this the light skin Toke bleached for?
Truly i dont see anything light that will make person go bleach their skin. So many stunning, light skinned girls.

This Anita is just ordinary

Didnt Kemi say she will say bad things no more

ajuwarhodes:



The SA attached to ur moniker,guess u are in Sa,means u are obviously infected, how come u know abt the statistics of the people living in SA if not what u have read online?ur reply sounds more dumper,sorry I won't have time to read ur reply.madam know all.yet she knows nothing!!!did u read where a guy said on this same thread that his ex was on HIV drugs and he never contacted the virus? No u won't have read that!why quickly say am positive,that's very stupid of u,and childish!!!upon ur claimed knowledge, u still dey do flesh to flesh o,I know babes like u

Well i owe you no explanation, but i will share that i am in Saudi Arabia dear, where HIV+ people cant work in the country. That being said i am negative. Sorry to burst your bubble.

Still you have not supported your claims, you quoting a guy on ( faceless forum ) Nairaland with information that has only been tested by his bias self. What he says on Nairaland may not be necessarily true. And you cannot conclude that HIV+ patients on drugs cannot transmit the virus based on one person. Thats very dim witted.

The stupid person here is you, who claims something and still cannot support it when questioned and resort personal attacks.

I still maintain that you are ignorant and stupid.

HIV+ patients on ART'S can still transmit the virus. A few lucky people may have not been infected but some people do get infected.

ajuwarhodes:



U have read so much,but u haven't read well enough,use ur google very well...
All u have written is just what u read online, use that same "online" well

U sound intelligent, why don't u ask questions?in the stead of being a one way traffic,improve on ur knowledge dear.
When people says things,don't argue blindingly, do ur own research too,so that u don't sound dumb,u know,for an intelligent person to be sounding dumb can be pathetic?

Well, not everyone relies on Google. Now i understand because you studied at the University of Google. You think everything on google is Psalms. I didnt.

How have i argued blindingly? The only thing you should do is prove that i am wrong. What i wrote is not google knowledge, its what i studied and experienced.

I asked you how come infections keep on growing in countries like SA and Botswana when they have the best HIV interventions? How come the same people who are on treatment keep on infecting thousands?

The only person who sound dumb is you, for thinking that sleeping with an HIV positive person who is on ART'S is safe. Thats one absurd claim i have ever heard.

Could be that you are positive and you are misleading everyone so that they can also be HIV+.

Continue sleeping with HIV+ people on treatment and re-infect yourself with a drug resistance viral strain.

ajuwarhodes:



She knows nothing,let her be!!!

I have explained. The difference, what you are saying is pure ignorance that will mislead people who visit this forum.

The fact that someone has low viral load or undetectable virus doesnt not make the person HIV negative or non infectious.

Nma27:
can you explain yourself? What ignorance are u on about?

Well microbiologically, what you said is not true. Viral infections can continue to infect other people even when you are on treatment. The reason why viral illnesses are not curable is you can only treat the symptoms but you can never get rid of the virus.E.g. Herpes, genital warts, HIV, cold, shingles, Ebola, Hepatitis etc because of the virus protein coat around it which is complex

Meanwhile, bacterial infections can be treated completely e.g. TB.

Thats the reason why its not easy to treat a viral disease. Only symptoms of gets treated.

The fact that its in small amounts in your blood does not mean it cannot infect. Its even more dangerous to be infected by someone on ART'S because when you get sick as a recipient, the virus has already developed its resistance and those people become drug resistant and dont respond to drugs.

Virus being undetectable doesnt me its not there, it waits for your body to be immune compromised.

Just like people who had chicken pox, normaly develope shingles once their immune system is compromised.

Why do you think in countries like Botswana, Zambia, Zimbabwe and SA infections keep on going up despite the fact that so many of their citizens are on ART's??

Thoseon ART'S continue to infect other people in numbers.

ensamy:
Since she is on medicaton one can be having sex with her without condom and will not get the infection .
I had an HIV positive beautiful girl freind and we had sex sevrrally without condom and nothing happened to me since she was on ARV drugs .
Till today am still negative.

Nma27:
That's sheer wickedness o but I don't think you would have caught d virus as she is taking her drugs. Lord protect us from doom carriers.

May God save you from ignorance.

Waladade4luv:
Pls i want matured minds in the house and experienced peeps to answer aw a man can cope or treat his short tempered wife.
This is a woman who picks offence in virtually everything that happens in d house even among her co workers at work, the taxi driver that carried her, even d passangers she sit win in a bus to the bike man that carried her, pple she buys things from, infact the list is endless everybody is always offending her.
In the house she always see somthing to complain about, to d extent that one will be beging her not to vex even when she is at fault, infact so many other thinz like that that one cannot finish saying.
To guys in d house av u been in a situation like this bfor and can someone treat such a wife since its not easy to change her at dis stage.

My husband lets me calm down and he doesnt respond. He just looks at me and carry on with whatever he is doing. He sometimes leaves the house for about an hour. When he comes back, i am normally cool and I am able to address the issue. That has helped me throw less and less tantrums. I am now better than before. While he is out i feel bad. It feels like punishment. That pushes me to control my temper next time.

IYANGBALI:
Make we no lie so as to put devil for shame,dis hauwa no fine o,she be like bong a fish like fab dey fabfunmi and ajepako. No wonder she dey jealous Zahra wey dem wan keep for the other room.

her ugly comment made us notice how ugly she is. She may have not meant any bad though.

wifee:
It has been a while...
I wasnt wrong with my fears, he indeed had a traditional marriage organised... He even took me to their family (of course she wasnt around), thinking I wouldn't know who they are... Well, after all this and much more I finally made the decision to leave. It was the best decision ever made...Thanks for all your answers. Have a great time.

I am happy for you.

As for the new wife, she will loose him exactly the same way she won him.

Keep your head high and trust the universe to take care of everything.

Good luck deary.

Brigham:
I find her story very hard to believe.

She maybe schizophrenic.

I also find her story to be scanty.

Whay doesnt she go to her family or extended family? Doesnt she have extended family from both her parents side?

lepasharon:
You Africans are barbabic and deserve the cesspits you all live in!

We are very sorry Mrs European.

Yes ooo, that was where he was suppose to start before canvassing to be a president

jagugu88li:
Its not the first time its happening in Africa, edit that. South Africa 2013 and Zimbabwe 2014.

Kudos Kenyan Doctors and the worst part is, even the first one was done by another enemy. Now, if Ghana were to bring in good news too, some people will die.

OP is lying. Its not the first one. The South African one the surviving twin is 30yrs.

ArcIbrahim38:
when GEJ was producing children out of wedlock that was fine? but this legitimate marriage is not? what kind of hypocracy is this. Please allow them to make their decision.

There is nothing ligitimate about children born of second, third and forth wives let alone out of wedlock. If you come after the first wife you are stealing the man from her. Nothing ligitimate about taking another woman's man. God will never bless you with another woman's man.

Abraham realised it was impossible, thats why he sent Ishmael and his mother in the wilderness.

One man can never treat all the wives equally. A man cannot treat his children equally, how much more of wives.

Why is the kid wearing a party dress to school?

Doesnt he know that at school kids play, paint, dance and do crazy stuff. DAAAVIIIIIIDDDDOOOO!!!!!