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So long as we continue celebrating Church Auditoriums and not state of the art Labs, green houses for food production, factories, schools etc, we will never eradicate poverty

uglodoh:
In South Africa, most of their teachers are Nigerians.

Most

His feet are very swollen.

He is very sick. Could be Deep Vein Thrombosis which is very common among people of his age. The job stresss and DVT, he is unlikely to survive.

Follow your head and understand that "YOU ARE FREE TO CHOOSE, BUT YOU ARE NOT FREE FROM THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR CHOICE"

Whatever decision you decide to take, weigh if the consequences will be easy for you to handle alone should he change.

GOOD LUCK

Jakumo:
Damn ! Those are some of the most profoundly ugly women I have ever had the misfortune of beholding. It is fascinating to note the proud look on the face of their blubber-loving husband. To compare such nasty fat apparitions with hippos would be a grave insult to hippos, for sure.

Clearly the good folks in South Africa have never even heard of physical exercise, perhaps on account of them being too drunk most of their waking hours, to hear anything

No amount of money under the sun could ever entice me to touch any such disgusting examples of clinical obesity. No wonder that Africans are mocked mercilessly by bemused observers living outside the Dark Continent.

You are one very unhappy person

They should not leave the wife.

She looks like a drug addict.

I thought record labels do their travel bookings when they go for perfomances. Was the booking business or leisure?

solid3:
This one that was cchasingthr girl I was with. I pity his wife.

This is just way too much

God exists. No doubt about that.

BUT God never said he is Christian or Muslim or Buddhist or Sikh etc. So I question the authenticity of religion.

Religion seems like it was all about power and politics

Khd95:
welcome to the light. u made a very good decision

"light"

michoim:
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Didn't you read he was on oxygen? Make sensible comments

You are the ine not sensible here and cannot comprehend. If the body is lifeless, it means the person is dead. Where did they get oxygen on the road, Professor oxygen?

How was his body lifeless if he is in hospital now. Did he die and resurrect

Who is boyfriend? Ordinary boyfriend ordering a girl not to do what Mmmxcceeew

NOETHNICITY:
I swear to God, I ve a former neighbor, staunch Catholics, Ibo by tribe, he is married to 2wives.
Both wives re Catholics.
The man was excommunicated then, though I don't know as of now if he is still a Catholic

His Catholicism is just by birth. He is still a practicing Catholic. One of the marriages is definately not recognised by the Church. Or even both marriages. I can tell you, he may have not tied the knot in the Church.

Gaddafithe2nd:
Well done Musa Ahmed, you are a good man and a good muslim. You detest cheating that is why you followed the Islamic doctrine of getting married to another wife since you are capable to do it financially and physically.
As for his ex-wife, she is the loser. Once you are muslim lady, you can never compel your husband to marry only you. Is only a selfish muslim lady/woman that would go against what almighty Allah says in the Quran. All other muslim ladies should learn from this. I don't know why our muslim women are now selfish like their western counterparts.

Only women are selfish for not agreeing to have co-wives, abi?

Men are angels for not considering the feelings of the first wives. What do you call doing something against your partners approval and knowing well that they don't like it?

phranq:
Which one again is endured?? He is a Muslim and his religion accepts multiple wives but d lady was jealous and did not want him to do d right thing as a devoted Muslim. Had it been d first wife is a Christian it would hv bin a different ball game.

God is a jealous God. He doesn't like it when attention meant for him is devided. He doesn't like being jealous. He hates the feeling.

What kind of a God who experts us to do what he himself cannot stand?

So, polygamy being permissible in Islam is a total misogynist idea that was created by men for a man's gratification and has nothing to do with God.

So this Hauwa girl bleaches.

She keeps on refering to her being so dark. Was she born light skinned. Low self esteemed girl.

Her skin though.

shevchenko:
This is not a mall.It is a clothing store .Useless girl

I was equally confused. I turned my phone upside down looking for a mall, thinking it's behind my phone.

Just one clothing shop qualifies to be a mall!!!

I LOVE THIS WOMAN. I hope its all misunderstanding

I remember KEMI OLUNLOYO saying something about exposing someone who is a coniving liar in the cast of Okafor's Law. I guess she meant her. She must be saying " I told Nigerians" in her prison cell.

Talking because she is a beneficiary.

hopeforcharles:
How sure are u that he will bring back an STIs ?
Is not as if she has caught him in the act, it hasn't reached the level of taking this kinda drastic actions

Men only need a place to sleep with anybody else. Women need a reason to sleep with someone else.

The days he finds a place to do it, it will be a done deal.

Randy100:
What an amateur mistake. Never ever open your door for your ex.

AccessME:
Ladies in general have nothing special to offer guyz apart from their smelling unkept pussy..

I hope this include your grandmother, mother, sisters, aunties, nieces

Why do you go out on the streets looking for prostitutes and hoping to wife them? You have only yourself to blame.

I offered way too much to my husband. So surely you must be hanging around with prostitutes.

jmoore:
There are two types of virgin. Wise and foolish ones.

I will dwell on the wise virgin.

A wise virgin have a lot to offer.

She offers selfcontrol and faithfulness. Having abstained from sex till marriage, this wise virgin can never look outside the marriage for sex. She is contented with what she gets, there is nothing for her to compare with. The principles that she held unto when she was single is now part of her lifestyle.


A wise virgin offers a body that is abortion free. Most of the folks ranting against virgins on this page are the same ones that will say 70% of girls have committed abortion. Can a virgin lady abort her baby? No sex, no pregnancy, therefore no abortion.


A wise virgin offers you a body that is STDs free. It will shock you to see how many times those against virgins on this page have treated STDs in their lives. No sex, no STDS.


A wise virgin offers a body that is free from 'bondage'. Sex bounds those involved in it. be it a prostitute or a wife. Therefore, a wise virgin offers a body that has not been bonded to anyone.


A wise virgin is a great model for your kids, she will definitely bring up your kids in a moral way.




My choice for marriage is definitely a virtuous virgin lady. Nothing less than that.

Yes ooo So says a virgin. You can only expect a virgin when you are a virgin.

lekeshoow:
Hello guys, I salute the effort of the OP and all members of this thread, I really want to move to KSA before the end of this year in sha Allah, I am a graduate of mathematics but I have been working as an RF Drive Test Engineer (Telecommunication sector) since last year, pls I need someone to advice me on how to get this job more easily and quicker, I am satisfied with the restrictions over there, in fact its the major reason I want to go there, I will start applying for jobs posted on the telecom forums I have subscribed to online, and will also start taking steps on getting my Nigerian passport when I get my next salary, my wife is studying Medical Lab Sc to finish next year in sha Allah, pls I need someone to enlighten me more on the important things I need to be aware of to make this dream a reality soonest in sha Allah. Thank you.

hemmn and pls, on some of the job links I saw, it was written on the description that 'transferable iqama or ajeer is a must', don't know what that means o.

Take a look at the above posts with webpage addresses, they might help you. Only if you wanna go into the academic field.

Iqama is a work permit that your employer applies on your behalf to work here. The employer bears all the costs of relocation etc and they become our Mahrams especially for us women.Some employers refuse to hand people over to other employers because of the costs of relocating and recruiting one person.

Therefore they sort of "close iqama" meaning you cannot resign and join another employer. You have to resign, return to your country of origin and start the process all over again.

"Transferable Iqama" simply means transferable work permit. Eg. If you come with a wife and your wife is your dependant under your "Iqama", she can find a job while in Saudi, if she decides to take another offer, she is free to do it because her "Iqama" is transferable. She didnt arrive in Saudi through any company, but through the husband.

This is somehow modern day slavery, but it doesn't affect us that much. People resign and return to their home countries and start the process all over again.

lebete3000:
That's fun for you den. But a medic colleague of mine used just a year there and I doubt if he came for a summer break. He also complained bitterly about the restrictions despite being a Muslim.

Well you get used to it and create your own fun. Yes, your collegue was not exeggerating. Yes, alot of Muslims expecially from the UK, find it hard to cope here.

For medics, leave is calculated differently. For us in the academic sector, we have quiete generous breaks in between quater terms and a very generous summer break.

henrimoto:
Sis. Chi, are you still in Saudi Arabia ? oh, Welldone.

The good lord will continue to preserve you.

Hey. Yes oooo, no easy bros.

Thanks