₦airaland Forum

grandstar:
I prefer to use black African than just use African.

Many of these Arabs countries have native blacks. They are descendants of slaves. They may be black on the outside but their soul is Arab. In Arab countries, they are treated differently from us (Nigerians for example)

Sudanese people call themselves Arabs but for all thoughts and purposes, they look black to me. They feel insulted if they are called black.

Black should be banned. There is no race but African. Arabs who live in Egypt are Arabs and never African.

African is our race. We should guard against sharing it with people who simply want to benefit from the continent but not for Africans.

There are many shades of African but we should refuse to be called black.

Black is insultive word. It comes with negative connotations like black sheep, black list, black heart etc. It was given to us to degrade us.

White was give to then because it has positive connotations like purity, cleanliness etc.

We do not realise how calling ourselves and allowing other races to call us black has negative implications to our psyche and their psyche.

African is respectable and not Black.

Sudanese are lost souls because Arab is a race and not a choice. You cannot be Arab race and African race.

[quote author= post=69206169]It really doesn’t make any difference to me really except he has a white skin and I have a dark skin. It would have been same if I married anyone outside my tribe in Nigeria as we all have different cultures. Adaptation happens naturally.”


Love is a beautiful thing.
True love is all that matters.[/quote]Where was this beautiful thing called love when they took your forebears as slaves.

Where was love is a beautiful thing when they discriminate against your kind in their countries.

Africans are dillusional.

grandstar:
Ignorance mixed at times with stupidity (Any country is better than Nigeria mentality) and not poverty are the main drive for anyone heading to Libya.

A lawless fief that treats black Africans worse than Japanese prisoner of war inmates

Which one is black African again?

I thought African is a race. I didn't know there is black, orange, white African. ���

GodnGold:
Please reply my mail.

Which mail na

Alwaysking:
I hope the union would last

would - past
will - future

alexhl:
She might even loose Dbanj and the relationship

I know two people who went through the same. Their relationship never survived after this.
The third one the child went missing till to date. Their marriage never survived. Blame game started until they could not take it no more.
It will be God's grace if they survive.

invigilator:
So Tuface is now a step-what??

OboOlora:
Tuface’s gene is so strong, even the husband is beginning to look like Tuface

jeff1607:
when a woman wants to get Preggy, it takes the grace of God to avoid it, its not only by willpower or protection, if she wants it nothing will stop her and if she doesn't want it even a bucket load of sperm won't accomplish anything.



fear women

Donopsiano:
Her beign dark is the effect of pregnancy ma. Only mothers and mothers to be can understand

So you reckon she is yellow paw paw.

I don't think she has ever been even closer to light skinned. It's just self hate of using filters so that you appear lighter. It's very common. People do it everyday.

Beautiful mama.

Today she looks darker than all her pictures so she filters her pictures.

no1madman:
Dis guy dey look 4 wife. . .

you made my day

enemyofprogress:
see me here

I have picked Remsilla��

Remsilla:
search no further.. I am here for you. Just remove 5 years from ur age, nd whatever u get will be my age from henceforth. If 5 years no do, you can make it 10

Consider it done.

Now I wanna marry a younger man

Test for Kaposi Sarcoma ( skin cancer), just to be sure.

harrwix:
Now see a white man proudly rocking our traditional atire for a "church / white wedding" , where our fellow brothers/sisters be killing themselves over suits and gowns.
Truly inferiority complex begins with you.
Wake-up Africans!

Not only that, to even marry a white man is an insult. It's inferiority complex as well. Did she finish all black men?

The rate we black people rush into marrying white people is so alarming.

Black people will one day be extinct.

Balyz:
Any woman who has ever had sex with a man she isn't married to is a who*e. If my own mother had sex with any man other than my father then she is a who*e

What about the men who slept with those "Lovepeddlers"? Angel Gabriel?

Mofpearl:
Did you teach at a university or at an independent school?

Demmzy15:
Really Which school exactly?

University of Tabuk and later University of Hail.

Mofpearl:
Did you teach at a university or at an independent school?

University

Demmzy15:
Most Saudi universities are far better than ours here, so stop hating

their education is the poorest. I taught there. I wouldn't advice even my worst enemy.

She is dirty and untidy though

laudate:
Yes, God frowns at sex before marriage, but our Lord Jesus the Son of God, said "Let the little children come to me, for theirs' is the kingdom of heaven." (Matt. 19 v 14) Some translations even include the word 'all the little children' in their verses. Jesus Himself did not discriminate between kids born within wedlock, and those born out of wedlock. He never tagged any child as 'illegitimate,' like you are now doing.

The most important thing is to bring up a child with the right values, proper moral training, love for humanity and fear of God, whether you are a single mother or a married one.

The Samaritan woman at the well who had 5 husbands, did not suffer discrimination from Jesus. He did not condemn her, but preached to her, and she became the first evangelist. Even the woman caught in adultery was not condemned by Jesus. In Genesis 38 v 24, Judah had an affair with Tamar his daughter-in-law which resulted in a set of twins. What happened those children? Were they ever called illegitimate in the Bible?

The problem is that there are too many judgmental Christians like you out there in the world, who thrive on Pharisee-like self-righteousness, instead of imbibing the character of Christ. And that is partly why Christianity is the way it is today.

The problem with you Christians is that you twist the verses so that it suits you. You hate it when the bible doesn't agree with your wayward ways.

The same Jesus who said "ALL" children should come to him had preached about sex before marriage and repercussions. Moses, Solomon and the prophets before him had said the same thing.

If you read what I initially said, I said she should refrain from social media and focus on God and ask for wisdom to raise this child because it will not be easy.
Children born before marriage are always a problem even in our cultures. They lack identity and they are always a bone of contention.

Even in cases of Royalty, only legitimate sons take over the throne and wealth.

Even Abraham knew there was gonna be trouble after him and Sarah finally had their own son hence he let go of the Hagar and Ishmael ( illegitimate son) to pave way for Isaac ( legitimate son).
The term "illegitimate" is mentioned so many times in the Bible.

I did not.write Wisdom of Solomon 3-4 and other chapters in the Bible that warn people of illegitimate children.

I am not judging, but the Bible judged.
Christianity is the only religion that protects and condones sins because they find it uncomfortable to know their wrongdoings.

In Islam and Judaism such is never tolerated.

laudate:
Please cut this crap about 'illegitimate' children. There are a lot of children born within wedlock, who turn out to be ten times worse than those whose parents are not married. There are even some women who have been married for 10, 15 or 20 years and have never had a child, yet they are still praying to get pregnant, even if it is just by mistake. And one woman gets pregnant and goes through labour pains and uncertainty to have a child and you call her God-given baby, an 'illegitimate' child? Who da fvck are you to judge an innocent child so harshly? If your lineage was traced, am sure one of your ancestors was illegitimate!

It's well known Christian cut and paste only what's suits them from the Bible. Christians don't wanna be confronted with their own book.

Dude, sex before marriage is not acceptable in the eyes of the God of the Bible. We choose to do it regardless. Therefore repercussions from that are also not acceptable and blessed.

God only gave one person an illigitimate child and that's Jesus, the rest of the people decided to take them before marriage. It's irresponsible to pin God on this. We all decide for ourselves.

As for people who turn out to be good even if they were born out of wedlock, it's just a lie. Countless studies have been made that prove that children born without both parents living together turn out worse of in life than ordinary children from conventional families.

You may look at countries like America, South Africa etc which have high rate of out of wedlock kids.

Apologies if I struck a sensitive nerve, but it true

"raised a king" Wait till past 20yrs and come and tell us.
If I was her I will cease to publicise my struggles and victories and just focus on God to help me in private.

No matter how many enconiums she writes and illegitimate child is illegitimate. The same God and bible promise that illegitimate children will face hardships.If I was her I will spend my life focusing on praying for God's forgiveness and wisdom to raise my child. All this social network flaunting and pride of having an illigitimate child will humble her.

Wisdoms of Solomon 3:13-19 and
Wisdom of Solomon 4:1-3

chivic:
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Go to the continent that virginity is not "overrated" and see Countless of abortion, same sex nonsense, a lot of contract marriages, marriage that hadly last more than a month is more.But as long as we continue to place virginity high,chastity will be enthroned in the society.

In Saudi and UAE mostly claim to be Virgins and some of their marriages don't last a day. In fact they high divorce rate.

They also have high cases of homosexuality, but they do it underground/ discreetly.

I think virginity talk should be personal and reserved for certain people in ones life.

Why is it that male virginity is not taken into consideration in this virginity talk?
WHY IS IT ONLY WOMEN'S VIRGINITY THAT IS BEING FOCUSED ON?

Personally, I would say it's a choice which one should accept to live with its consequences for whichever they choose.

Keeping your virginity and not keeping it both have positive and negative consequences.

I have seen people keeping it and end up in messy marriages and messy messy marital sex life. Where the man may be diabetic, Hypertensive etc and unable to do anything in bed. Whereas if they tried before marriage, they could have found ways or not marry at all.

I have seen people who decided not to keep it and still end up in messy situations too.

It's a personal choice that doesn't need National discussion as it's also not a National Vagina

zinaunreal:
All South African women are prostitutes
If a south african man can sleep with 4. That means a Nigerian man can sleep with 24
Useless loose women

On the contrary this language does not sound like any of the South African languages I have come across.

It could be Zimbabwe girls or Kenya. They all sound the same.

They were in their ordinary regalia ?

When my bride price was paid I specifically asked my family to ask his (husbands ) family if he has a child out of wedlock. He denied having any in front of his family and my family.

I told them that I don't want a man with a child, If he has a child the negotiations should end on the spot. I had previously experienced awfulness of a relationship where the man had children with another woman.

The reason why I did that was to make sure that in future when such things come up, no one blames me for reacting a particular way.

Charly68:
Zambia is for Jesus not for strip dancers so back to sender

Which Jesus, When Zimbabwean and Zambian girls dominate the prostitution industry in the Southern region!!! �����