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Please I will like anybody responding to state if he/she is married or single

macjive01:
Chines4, pls how could he go about it- taking control of his life ? That's why he is on this forum.

Let u'r guy think things through before he acts. How can you borrow money to finance u'r wife holiday or M-I-L trip. You can't give what u don't have simple. Let him start applying our fathers money wisdom. save and buy and not buy on credit. especially things that don't add economic value.

A man should be a man and say no and be firm about certain issues. And he should stop being a slave to his wife,just because he wants some action. being off s3x will not kill him. After all some men are catholic priest.

He should put his finance in shape and drop all excess load on his finance

DaLover:
No it musn't, if we all agree that no one is better than the other,
some may be lucker to have experienced education first, or be blessed with natural
resources, but that still does't make them better,

If that understanding of equality is observed by most, than there shall be peaceful progress.

Chines you have to understand the discussion in the context of the title and the underlying issues,

Well the discussion is quite obvious, don't need to repeat it,
The underlying issue is that proponents of the ACN are saying that their party is the one to
lead us out of the mess called nigeria, and we on the other hand are saying capital NO,
not with ethnic brand of politics, and definately not with false mis-representations of performance
by the ACN. Especially when it has been proven beyond doubt that ACN is just as corrupt as PDP,
but with tribal afiliations.

IMO what is required is a party that can carry all along, has a clear vision on how to rapidly industrial
the country and make it productive, not all these populist policies of free this, free that, things that
are unsustainable and depend on oil revenue, so far no party has been able to do that,
But for people to want to use tricks to bambozule me to a tribal party is just outrightly shameful.

I believe that ACN in the next election will be able to state if its a regional party or a National one. Now that they are controlling SW, if they can get more states in the next election then we can say with facts that ACN have stepped up to be a National Party. But for now let us not turn this to Libya

"" VERY - NICE "" 1978 MACK R DUMP TRUCK ,,, E7 MOTOR 350 HP ,,, { NEW CLUTCH ASSEMBLY } ,,, 6+2 SPEED TRANSMISSION ,,, " DOUBLE - FRAME " CAMEL BACK SUSPENSION - # 44,000 REAR AXLES / # 18,000 FRONT AXLE ,,, { 18 YARD DUMP BED } ,,, { 80 % TIRES & BRAKES } ,,,, { $ 3,000.00 } IN NEW MECHANICAL UPGRADES ,,,, VERY WELL MAINTAINED ,,, EXCELLENT CONDITION ,,, READY TO WORK ,,,

Wumine:
bwaaaaahhhhhh bwaaaaaaaaaahhhh bwaaaaaahhhhhh!!! ***sobbing**
yeah am jealous that anothereligible 'dudu' is going to[b] hang himself[/b]. i only hope*pray* its not true. . . . God please

With one of the most beautiful actress in Nigeria. You can't say hang himself, Its will be fun all the way Celeb. marriage. They so fit each other

Wumine:
D'Bang! Plsssssss don't do this to yourself! Don't! Don't!! Dont!!! It might take u down the drain.
Genevieve ***mutes***

Are u jealous?. Another eligible dudu about to go and u'r still there

[quote author=l.a.j link=topic=657609.msg8268934#msg8268934 date=1304674658]retaliate and let him catch u red handed with a man bleeping u in his bedroom.so he will know that what goes around comes around.ok[/quote]

The guy is not in control of his life not to talk of his family. Let him take control of his life first

The truck will be out of the port by tomorrow. Serious Buyer in Lagos and its environ Call now so that we can finalize. Since the truck will be Moved to Asaba on Wednesday

Must this degenerate to tribal war. Can't we just discuss as Nigerians and stop all these Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba mentality.

I wish them well. Celeb. wedding ok

I believe it's possible with special grace of God, By ourselves it will be very very difficult. But by his grace its possible. Prayers is highly needed here ooo. God lead us not into temptation but deliver us from all evil Amen.

zstranger:
^^^

I heard PDP is an Igbo party, is that true?

Thats a first by Ndigbo, no be so?

PDP as a party was formed by G34 and G34 is not ndigbo affair it's a Nigeria affair. Nigerians don't vote part but individual. Ngigi won in Anambra not because ACN is a National party but because people just like Ngige. ACN is a Yoruba party but its gradually going National by bring popular candidates to the poll in their platform.

I don't have time to go through all the post. But from OP  post and responses. I believe that the young man is hurt. why do u raise the issue of age difference. and I believe that you may have told the guy that U can't commit to a guy younger than you. Bringing the age issue up is like telling the guy, look don't get too serious with me. That's hurts and the guy is feeling used and hurt so he wants to get back to you. Don't feel too bad, talk to him and find out why and let him know that he hurts you.

Still Available

Its unfortunate Just go on with u'r life. And don't forget the lesson, don't drink and get tipsy again

Educative

Let the guy just behave normal, and try and ignore her walking around nude and concentrate in getting himself out of his financial crises. And let him just pray God have a way of putting things right. But please don't go out of u'r way to please u'r wife since she don't appreciate it. Equally check the kind of friends she hang out with.

In the tradition of the Igbo's a woman that is married to a man belong to the man. The change of name is sacrosanct. have u heard of our great,granny them, granny them that have different surname to their husband. Personally if a wife is not willing to do a name change then let her stay in her fathers house and continue the use of her father's surname. Another annoying one is using her fathers surname before her husband surname. Even if your father is Bill Gate, No way just change u'r name to that my local surname can you Imagine Mrs Dupe Ajayi-Desumu as in Mrs Dupe Desumu nee Ajayi

Ujujoan:
Before I respond to your obviously ignorant post, I'll ask you one question . . . .  When was the last time you visited Anambra? Or at least the major town in Anambra . . Like Onitsha, Awka and Nnewi?  

Ujujoan I have taken my time to go through u'r post. Gov. Obi may not be a saint but He have done well as Governor of Anambra state. The road network is wonderful can you tell a town in Anambra state that don't have access road, the upgrade of school now a lot government school can boast of computer lab, portable water and good learning environment, Upgrade  of General Hospitals. Development of a state is not an easy task. This is a state that have nothing to show. I must equally commend Ngige because he started the good work. And as a Governor he worked well in Onitsha and Anambra Central and that was why he is able to win Prof Dora and not because Gov. Obi is not performing. I'm working in Onitsha and I'm from the state