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[quote author=.com]who be dat one[/quote]google his songs. na warri boy

Nnadiekwe Dave... very wonderful performer. you can add me on fb

[quote author=felzylix][/quote]how did you do this? awesome..LIKE!

erigga new money

ضسثذاعزدي it is really disturbing

Hayjaycity: You are the most foolish person on this thread for u to quote all what the OP posted, jst for u 2 type..."hmmmm"....the OP should have a name for people like on in the workplace dat never succeeds

me nkor

me nkor

Wallade: I will not feel comfortable at the wedding so I will not be there.

having an Ex aint a good thing mehn! what kind of excuse would you give for not attending the wedding?

Giant teeth mode activated

Abbey2sam: I feel great, knowing fully well that I have drank in that well before.....................

It's a good feeling.......talking from experience

what if the love is still strong?

600billion rejected by ASUU...

ASUU, why always YOU

WildChild00: Can this be recommended to ur family member?...lol

hahaha, just acting funny bob

what of p*rn ?

how do you feel? how do you feel?

I will give gay pple a chance to marry but will jail them if they fail to produce a child-president:robert mugabe




lol.... me derailed

still looking for my name

WESTERNCR: Please I seriously need advice on business I can do with N1.5m that can generate daily or weekly income for me. I need honest and direct advice please. God bless

To be honest with u,I think u should go into building material business because people build houses everyday and u can have have profit per day ranging from 10k upwards,that is what me think

please!!!!!!!!!
Photoshop gurus, i need just one favour from you. i need to lay my hands on turorials and ebooks on how to paint with adobe photoshop.. please, it is urgent

DECOtech: DERAILER!!!

it is a potential bro... laughter makes one live longer... read and decided to share...

udomafire: LMAO. I don laugh so deyyy my Hennessy bottle don break

today is 9ja's bday.. ease ur stress

as for me, YES, the humour here is too much!

A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, "Mypen!s," and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, "Error. Not long enough."

A husband and wife are trying to set up a new password for their computer. The husband puts, "Myp*nis," and the wife falls on the ground laughing because on the screen it says, "Error. Not long enough."

answer peeps, if you were to be reborn, would u have loved to be reborn into Nigeria? and why? what have you gained and lost by being a Nigerian?

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ Actually, if you'd sued him, you would have spent far more than that N500.00

This is typical example of when something that just isn't worth the bother. But question for you: how did you know he'd received N15,000? And why didn't you at that point, insist (and I mean really insist) on getting your money back from him before he hit the games consoles?[/quote]he told me himself that his mum had sent the money. i asked for mind but he refused to give it to me. he kept on laying stories but at the end, i discovered he had gambled them all. well, i do not blame him at all. i am just happy it was 500naira

[quote author=Efemena_xy]@OP, if you have to go through all those 7 or 8 stages you listed, then you can be rest assured the person you lent money to is no friend of yours.

True, money brings out the worst in people and you should only lend what you can afford to lose. But the question is: What if this friend of yours miscalculated the depth of their financial mess and find it difficult, or better still, can't afford to pay you back? What will you do? Even if you take legal action and have them thrown into jail, you still won't get your money back.





Jide and CC, I agree with you both whole-heartedly. That's why when I give, I don't expect to get it back. I give with a clean heart and leave it at that.

If I will, I will. If I won't, I won't.

Simple.[/quote]i happen to have a friend in school whom i lent 500naira. he got about 15,000 naira after the week i lent him and refused to pay back the money after telling him i would need the money back to print my gst assignment which is to be submitted the same week he got the 15,000 naira. he gambled with his 15;000 naira in a play station store and he did his assignment with the money left and refused to pay back the money . this is a person whom we were so close. i asked him for the money but he refused and that was the end of the friendship.

I believe no true friend would want to draw you back. i managed to get money from another source and did my assignment and submitted it hurriedly. assuming i sued him because of that 500naira, they would say i am wicked... Wicked friends!!!

acorn tree: This method are meant for white people. if u are dealing with black man and you are talking softly like this there is little possibility for u to get back ur money. At times if ure not aggressssive and use threat u will not get ur money back

hahaha... so do you mean blackmen have blackheart? it is advicable you follow the steps before becoming aggressive with collecting back your momey

Sometimes, a friend may come along
who isn't so hesitant about taking
money, but hesitant when it comes to
giving it back. All it takes is a firm
reminder and a little patience!



1) Tell your friend that you
will not lend anymore
money until they pay the
previous amount back . This
is an effective way of getting
it paid off, but they will just
turn around and borrow
money again, so it's half-
and-half.


2)Remind them every 2-3
days for about a week. If
they still haven't paid it back,
move on to the next step.


3)Pull them off to the side
and make sure neither one
of you are distracted. Say
something such as, "It's fine
that you borrowed money
from me, but I'm getting very
impatient. I need that money
and I'd like you to give it to
me by (deadline)."
Be polite . You can be firm
without being aggressive.
Never, ever make
intimidating threats such as
" if you don't give me my
money back, I'm gonna
make you'".


4)Talk to them again after
about a month, but this
time, you must be a lot
more firm! Raise your voice
at them and tell them if they
don't pay you back soon,
you will quit giving them
money. However, if your
friend owes you large sums
of money, wait to do this
after about two months.


5) If over 3 months pass and
your friend still does not
pay you then let them
know that you do not want
to see them again until
they pay you. However,
don't think that the
friendship is about money.
Did you just give money to
your friend just so they
could pay you?


6) If you are still unsuccessful,
accept the fact that you
have lost your money for
good and you have learned
a valuable lesson. If it was a
very large sum of money
your last resort should be
legal action.


7)If you are willing to use
legal action be sure to have
evidence that this is a
trespass to title meaning
that you gave your friend
temporary title of the
money instead of
possession . Whoever has the
greater right to title or
possession will win. You will
also have the burden of
proof so be prepared. If you
have any evidence at all that
he knows he has the money
and he will pay you back
then that is your strongest
piece of evidence.



Tips:
Only lend your friends what you
feel comfortable with losing
because you can never be sure
you can get it back.

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