Family › Re: My Father Hate Her Late Father. by Chitumu(op): 10:56pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
OnyeEgo1: Literally take off ur heart let's c if ur head will function at all... D both of dem are relevant.. For the Heart, keep the issue of marrying pending so dat d issue in the head is firstly resolved peacefully, dat way the heart n d head works simultaneously.... i will use my head first to get to what went wrong. Then i will use it to decide what is right. If my heart agree with my head i follow it. That mean head come first. |
Family › Re: My Father Hate Her Late Father. by Chitumu(op): 10:49pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: I'm kinda confused o, you are allowed to marry your kin? its not wrong to marry from your kinsmen. I am considering it for convenience cuz am too emotionaly stressed to engage a lady from other ethnic group. Thank u. |
Family › Re: My Father Hate Her Late Father. by Chitumu(op): 9:53pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
yomi007k: Follow ur head.
Ur heart will only put u and everybody else into more confusion.  seconded |
Family › Re: My Father Hate Her Late Father. by Chitumu(op): 6:26pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Zehner: Bros no offence. But this your write up is kinda difficult to read. Try space am abeg. sorry i am seen space on my side. |
Family › Re: My Father Hate Her Late Father. by Chitumu(op): 6:23pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
lofty900: dont tell ur dad 2 4give and 4get rather join him and fight 4 ur right. if ur dad passes on those people will take over the entire plot and u will be left with nothing. be a man my family are far more powerful than her's. Beside i think the almost 3 other large plot of land including a large farmland is enof to thank God. Her family have only one farmland. I dont think that should bother us. |
Family › My Father Hate Her Late Father. by Chitumu(op): 4:37pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
the cause of this hatred was rooted due to the fact that the family of my wife to be were illegaly residing on the extended plot belonging to my father which he inherited from my late grandfather. My late grand father bought the plot measuring 1000 square feet from my wife to be's grandfather thru trade by barter sometime in 1937. D plot was divided into equal half by my grand pa. Allowing her family to remain in the other half pending when her grandpa will vacate d land. But as fate played its part Her grandpa died and his poor family continue to remain on d plot ever since and d illegal plot has now bin inherited by eldest brother as a tradition. Both side of the land had been fuly developed. Beside my father is rich and have more plot of else where. Its a known fact that both her family and my family are related by kinship i mean we are of one clan. My father appear not to be bothered but deep inside he hate her family i dont realy know why? He has bin gradualy encroaching on the plot her family staying by demolishing the barrier wall to construct more room. And he also limit d structure they can build on d plot causin so much resentment from her mother. the plot her family are staying is now reduced to quater of the original plot. Should i go ahead and marry the girl or side with my father. i badly want my father to forgive and forget life is to short to be accumulating irrelevant worldy thing. Also my father is educated and civilized enof to know peace and generousity matter in a community. I need your advice pls. |
Romance › Re: Imagine This Kind Of Love? Could This Be ????(photo) by Chitumu: 3:55pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
i am here only to read girlz comments. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Obama Meets His Half-Sister, Auma In Kenya Today (Photos) by Chitumu: 7:54pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
NeduLuiZ: A successful man has more relatives than he knows  very true lol  NeduLuiZ: A successful man has more relatives than he knows  very true lol |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Presides Over NEC Meeting At The Villa Today (Photos) by Chitumu: 6:22pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
tempex88: with the seating arrangement, does it mean when the president is away, no one seats on that seat? am just curious its a hot seat. Anybody that sit on it other than the presido does so at his own peril. 50 masked machine gun armed men kept watch over it. Yeah very hot seat. I mean very cool seat. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Meets Young Nigerians In Washington D.C by Chitumu: 7:55pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
nypumain: I would neva want my child to have buhari as a mentor. well, how abot a niger delta militant (jonathan) as his mentor? |
Politics › Re: Buhari Meets Young Nigerians In Washington D.C by Chitumu: 7:49pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Flets: Please can anyone tell me the economic policy direction of this dispensation?
Are we all now blind to reality? What's with the pictures and media hyperactivity without any real life to it?
Whats the plan for the fast depreciating naira? Are we devaluing the naira or not? Are we taking away subsidy or not? Are getting more private participation in the power sector? Are we deregulating the oil and gas downstream or not? Are we subsidizing farmers or not?
Why the numerous media press without addressing the pertinent questions?
Dollar sells for 245 naira Chicken is now 1200 per kilo from 700 Fuel scarcity persists Investors continue to pull out funds Stock market loses 1trillion ALL IN 7 WEEKS
Yet internet children gallivant at the sight of any buhari picture online. .....
but what is the direction? What is he actually saying on our economy? u can either choose to stop wailing or to continue with ur wailing. More importanly stop asking me question abot d falling naira just go and buy made in nigeria instead. |
Family › Re: Three-year-old Falls Into Well While Playing With Friends (photo) by Chitumu: 10:01am On Jul 21, 2015 |
bendutch: This is what to expect when you have a Daura President presiding over your affairs. abeg take ur medication. |
Politics › Re: Analysing The DSS "Incriminating Evidence" Against Sambo Dasuki by Chitumu: 11:40am On Jul 19, 2015 |
gregg2: [size=15pt]Innitially they lied to us they found $40,000 with him. So many lies from this Buhari govt[/size] |
Education › Re: 10 Types Of Boyfriends Kept By Babe's In Higher Institutions by Chitumu: 11:23pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
i think i am the scam victim. I mean financial bf. |
Career › Re: Civil Servants Demand N46, 000 Minimum Wage by Chitumu: 10:33pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
civil servant are actualy worst than boko haram. Where will the 46k come from? With the rate of unemployment at more than 30% how can we employ those idle youth? Unproductive stupid people. |
Politics › Re: UPDATE: Guard Averts Mass Casualty From Jos Church Explosion by Chitumu: 1:55pm On Jul 12, 2015 |
opiaoku: Buhari is a terrorist illiterate bastard Daura dullard gworo chewing bastard burukutu sipping gorilla mumuhamado mumuharii u asked buhari fan to dare u. Pls provide ur address and picture of urself n stop being coward n posting from ur mum's bed rum. Moreover ur post election defeat hatred will not last dru out baba'S tenure. unhappy tanoid. |
Politics › Re: Suicide Bombs: Muslims Kick As Army, Police Frisk Women In Hijab, Burka - Punch by Chitumu: 10:06am On Jul 12, 2015 |
ramdris: I am a devoted and proud Muslim and I am in total support of this action. Desperate time calls for desperate measures. Instead of hijab, they can use small scarf and wound it round there neck, that way, nothing much will be revealed. We Muslims must support the government cause am pained to see this beautiful religion being degraded by those bastards.
And for those that might want to start spilling rubbish here about other people's faith, you are no better off than the Boko haram their selves cause the same spirit of intolerance and respect towards other people's believe is common, the only difference is the killings.
May Allah(swt) guide our path in this life and may He restore victory to our land while protecting our gallant armed forces who are getting killed for us to live peacefully.
Cc: Seun, lalasticlala am muslim too i totaly agree with u cuz most of the victim were actualy muslim. It pain me to read JNI secretary's ignorant comment. |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of The Burnt Churches In Jos by Chitumu: 5:58pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
kolatobs: POSTER ABOVE ME THOUGH.... dont mind him. He is a pscho. |
Business › Re: Dead Man Withdraws N4.3M From Union Bank In Kaduna: Mysterious by Chitumu: 9:56pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
whirlwind7: C'mon! Anyone who assumes that his ghost did this, must be a slowpoke.
Of course, someone who is aware of the young man's death, and who knows his accounts details committed this fraud. Since the withdrawals was via ATM, the crook should have been caught on it's camera, right?
Who applied for and processed the requirements for the debit card to be issued? The bank ought to have all the records nawww.
The bogeyman would be a friend, relation or the bank employee. If Naija police is half dilligent, they will unravel this "mystery" within a few days. no doubt its d bank employee walai pa. I believe cctv go tell us d culprit. |
Nairaland General › Re: Man Lying Down In Front Of Sos Along Iyana Isolo Area Of Lagos by Chitumu: 8:39pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
op why didnt u snap him closely so we can see him face? Wetin u dey fear sef? |
Politics › Re: Buhari And His Son, Yusuf Attend Juma'at Prayer At Presidential Villa Mosque by Chitumu: 7:52pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Samchelsea: I guess u ignorantly refused to see that I didn't mention he told me why they do so. let me answer u why. Cuz d bible didnt allowed women in d church with men. |
Politics › Re: Buhari And His Son, Yusuf Attend Juma'at Prayer At Presidential Villa Mosque by Chitumu: 7:42pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Samchelsea: Congrats to them but I can't find his wife because during Jonathan's tenure, he was always side by side with his during church service......Interestingly my friend just told me women always stays at the back row during Muslim prayers and that I don't seem to understand why, are women now less important during prayers? i doubt if you realy read ur bible. Women are not allowed to go to church half naked, speak, sing and clap their check ur bible man. |
Nairaland General › Re: A Prelaunch Of A Book Tittled Buhari Of The People For Kids. by Chitumu(op): 11:00pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: make una put am for e book. it be available for E-book and probably for free. Will update u when its launched. |
Nairaland General › Re: A Prelaunch Of A Book Tittled Buhari Of The People For Kids. by Chitumu(op): 10:53pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
moderators, seun, lalasticlala why?? I have been denied front page since 12pm. What was my crime?? I take beg u make me FP before the sun rise pls pls i beg u seun, i want to feel what it feel to be lalastic pls. |
Romance › Re: 8 Ways Ladies Stylishly Punish Guys On First Date by Chitumu: 10:26pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
wristwatch: I don't know why some ladies prove hard to get as they stylishly punish guys to know if he can withstand their haughty behaviour or simply they are not interested in having a relationship with him.
Therefore, I will discuss briefly on ways ladies stylishly punish guys.
1. Bring friends along like Protocol officers.
The poor dude perhaps may have borrowed money just to make the date a memorable one. However he later discovers that instead of having a date with his supposed girlfriend alone, she eventually comes along with her numerous friends to siphon his pocket. Funny enough if he tells her his preparation was just for him and her alone, she will start nagging, giving unnecessary excuses like maybe he is a criminal or something, so she can't trust a stranger.
2. They get busy with their mobile devices
This is when they bring out their collection of mobile devices and start pressing them as if they have not operated one before whereby making the dude look foolish and non existence in their presence.
3. Make him overspend
Some ladies are parasitic in nature as they explore the rare advantage at the ink of any date by requesting for several meals, etc. I call them "the sharwama or hot dog babes" as they pick every dick and Harry of meals in an eatery during the first date.
4. They show up very late
When a date is fix at 3pm, they showed up around 6pm giving flimsy excuses of traffic jam due to a tanker explosion, armed robbery attack, boko haram bombing, etc. Thereafter, they won't show any remorse at the expense of expecting the guy to apologise. *Person whey e dey lagos dey claim boko haram bombing... some babes no sabi lie*
5. Monosyllabic reponse to your discussion
How can a guy talks like parrot from morning till night, trying to prove good sense of humour only for him to get short and annoying responses from her like "k" "alright", "hmmm", "what", etc. His morale and confidence will burst like balloon.... one time!
6. Communicate with unfriendly body languages
Some use frustrating body languages like bad eyeing to downsize him, hissing continuously and frown @ him like tiger. In such scenario, the guy will have no choice other than to call it quit.
7. They deliberately start making several calls
This is the time they start calling their long time friends and relatives, keeping the guy in their lust prison like a dog. As a guy, so many things will be going on his mind as what he can do to have the lady's attention.
8. They are in a hurry to leave
Perhaps she is a student, this is when she claims about an early lecture to attend the next day after she came late o! She rush the whole dating thing by asking the guy to get her "take away meal" and she zooms off immediately. "Babe just admit it, you are hungry and looking for maga to feed u."
You can add yours let me ask tosyn2much. |
Nairaland General › A Prelaunch Of A Book Tittled Buhari Of The People For Kids. by Chitumu(op): 12:49pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
A biogragraphic story of president Buhari with an illustration for kids.
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Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints Wike Member Of National Salary Committee by Chitumu: 7:44pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
all i know is that this news was created to decieve and make fools of tanoid. |
Politics › Re: Buhari’s Snail Pace - PUNCH by Chitumu: 11:02am On Jun 23, 2015 |
Symphony007: Calling buhari a snail is an insult to every snail on earth. seconded |
Politics › Re: Bzigu Afakirya, Ex-governor Of Kogi Is Dead by Chitumu: 7:35pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
pls how can i spell "Bzigu"? |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Demands Apology From Saraki, Dogara On National Dailies - Vanguard by Chitumu: 2:13pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Alphaoscar: All this stupid bloggers carrying unverified news should leave Tinubu alone and allow him to enjoy his life. They have been spreading all manners of unverified news on Tinubu and APC. i stopped reading vanguard since 2010. |
Politics › Re: US Donates $5bn To MNJTF For Fight Against Boko Haram. by Chitumu: 9:24pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
false news! i searched google nothing like that. Cc seun, lalasticala. I hereby move a motion to ban the ban sunnybobo3. |
Politics › Re: Shehu Sani In Prison After He Was Given The Life Sentence (Photos) by Chitumu: 10:00am On Jun 12, 2015 |
smithsydny: If Ibrahim Babamosi Babangida is IBB, Goodluck Ebele Jonathan is GEJ and Orji Uzor Kalu is OUK What will Bola Ahmed Tinubu be..... Jagaban borgu |