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Freestainworld:
USA, Canada, Australia where colonised by Europeans, but they are doing very well, what happened?

What are you smoking??
Which European colonized America and Canada
Australia was not colonized and the colonial masters killed all local ethnic genocide on the people they meet there.
Therby taking over the land.
If the white men killed everyone in Nigeria and take over. You will think it is the whites that own Nigeria.
The original people of Australia was wiped out in genocide.
And European toke over the lands.
Those white people you see in Australia are not the real owners of Australia.
Google about Australia genocide by colonial masters

PrincessGlow:
Please, who did Japan, Singapore, Russia, etc colonize?

Asia was doing very great with trading business in the silk road.

Middle East was the heart of medical and mathematics.

Africa was the hub of natural resources and strong workers.

Europe had NOTHING, just a place filled with death,sickness, pirates, thieves, Viking warriors. Their thieves and pirates go around to discover new lands and they find Africa and steal as much as they can to build and transform the future of Europe.

Asian countries like Japan were busy with their innovation and
Only European countries like portugal,Spain, England,french were busy looting and stealing from Africa.

Europe in the 15th century was like Aba, Surulere and ajegunle combined.
Africa and Asia had far better life than Europeans.

So what happened?

Colonization happened.
What is colonization, it is when you invade a peaceful country and enslave it's people to do your bidding.
Europe colonizers killed so many bright and intellectual people and stole Soo much from Africa, gold, natural resources,even workforce
The reason Europe is rich and functioning well today is because of all they stole from Africa
Europe in 1500bc was babaric,suffering black death disease which wiped off 70% of Europe due their very poor sanitation
Google England in 1500bc. Very dirty and filled with theifs called pirates.
All these changed when these pirates, colonial Masters and explorers discovered Africa's natural abundance of resources. So they enslave,torture, steal from Africa
Imagine if in 1500BC Africans invaded Europe and stole everything they had.
Will Europe be as mighty and big as it is today??
Africa is still recovering from the devstation and negative side effect of colonization.
Africa was in harmony
Until the whites came and disorganized everything. Dividing and joining african territory lands and tribes that don't interact with each other.
They messed up everything and left after stealing calling it independence.

How can an European invade your country steal from you, all valuables and enslave your people. Only to give you independence. Independence means "okay guys, we entered this country and have sapped this country dry. So it's time to run away and leave them to find their way.
Stripe them of their local tradition and push foreign tradition down their necks. (Christianity)
Give them a type of a federal government system which does not work for Africa, because Africa is made up of different tribes.
Which is best handled by local cheifs.
This is how Africa thrived before European came and scatter everything.
There was no federal government when European arrived Africa.

My point is, if a theif comes into your house, take your strong children as slaves then keep hostage and enjoy all food and drink in the house. Taking over the house (it is called colonization)
The thief steal your tv,chair,fridge and sell all of it and make money.

Your wall was blue in color but the thief likes red color. So the Repaint your house to red (remove your old tradition and push in their foreign tradition)
Once he is done with you, he will release you (this is independence)
Now you are disorganized,confused and broke (post independence)
Because the theif is now rich fr selling your things, while you are still struggling to catch up.
NOBODY COLONIZED EUROPE
This is what colonization is all about
Forget the fancy definition of colonization you see In the dictionary.
Colonization is entering another man's land, conquer them and steal their resources.
This confused state after the white man has divided your country and joined different parts and mess up everything then run away in form of giving you independence which means we have finished chopping you so you can have your country back.

This Is the reason why Africa is filled with corrupt govt and underdevelopment.

So as an African you have every right to go to Europe.

The riches of Europe, what changed Europe from a smelling sickness infested continent to a world power is from the gold's,copper, and many other natural resources that was stolen from Africa in very large amounts.
Europe used this stolen wealth to trade with other countries
And continued looting from Africa via the colonial Masters made Europe rich everyday.
Because Europe will never be rich if not for those European colonial Masters that stole so muuch from Africa.
Africans OWN Europe

ajimo54:
You are very correct. Cheating is very natural most especially in men. Look, humans are not the only inhabitants of this planet. Other creatures, like animals have sex with several partners. Humans are selfish in nature, the reason for marriage. Marriage is a limited phenomenon. Men who have not had sex outside marriage are so few and wish to do it one day. Cheating is a choice and should not be demonized! It is normal and very normal among all living creatures. However, men just have sex outside marriage not because they hate their family. But women who have sex outside their marriage do so because they dont love their partners! Research has shown this across the world!

You are very wise

Mrscarter:
Lol. You say this until u fall in love with the right one

Been there
Done that

Sometimes I feel ashamed to admit that my last girl friend made me drink beer and smoke weed for the first time.
I have seen beer and weed all around me all my life but never picked interest in them. Even when I hang out with my cousins who did it, they always call me new boy cuz I didn't smoke or drink.
But for some magical reason this my ex girlfriend Arabian mixed chubby girl Julie made me give it a try.
And it was AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We were hitting some joints in the hotel toilet, then drank some beer then we had sex. Mehnnnnnnnnnnnn the weed made my prick super hard and when started dancing to her Spotify playlist.
Omo we kiss and kiss and kiss pre-intimacy them we went to kitchen to drink water from there I start to give her standing doggystyle.
Even right now The flashbacks still they give my prick joy.
One of the best sex I had cuz I was not expecting us to Bleep that night.
And I was never expecting to get high
She was my most favorite ex and funny enough the only one to make me smoke weed with her. My first time.
I miss Julie mehnnn, my Arabian Susu
God bless her wherever she dey

bepositive11:
Let someone you deeply love cheat on you. That will shut you up

Don't consider Jay Z an example. He had his issues with childhood trauma and had to go for therapy. He's faithful now

Consider quality over quantity. The best marriages are the ones between best friends

If you want to cheat, no problem. Just stay away from faithful and loyal women. Look for women who cheat like you

I can love my wife to death does not stop men from cheating on other women.
The ones you see as couple goals
Are just good at hiding their infidelity, because you can take a monkey to America, does not meant monkey will not act like jungle animal.
My point is naturally men and women where designed to have 1 or more partners.
For men it is more profund and the men who deny this are not been truthful
Look at the rate of cheating going on
And ask yourself what is causing this.
We can't pretend for too long that we humans are not sexually attracted for each other.
It can be a stranger u meet in the bus, you love her smile,her smell. She happens to reciprocate feelings othat she likes you. Ok
Let us stop deciding ourselves

donbachi:
Stop deceiving urself..wat we are dealing with,is sexual relationship.

That happens during the 1st to 4th year of marriage. After the wife has delivered and is having postnatal depression which makes wife not interested in sex.
This is when agape love sets in
Sexual love has a duration of 1 to 5 years ,after that it enters the next level which is agape love.

donbachi:
Meaning u never had a first right of choice.

There are types of love
1. Sexual love: This is the first feeling that motivate a man to date a girl. This feeling is what makes the relationship sweet at the beginning.
2. Agape love: This is the SEE FINISH phase of marriage.
The feeling that man feels after wife has given birth and no longer interested in sex as she was in the dating phase. This happens when both man has lost sexual appetite for wife after long period of time, which is normal.

During agape phase is when men cheat a lot, but if the man and woman had string understanding then they agree to have open relationship as long as it won't affect them raising their children

The idea that you should only love 1 person out of 6 billion people in this world is VERY STUPID AND UNREALISTIC.

Love should not be controlled
It should be given FREELY
When you try to control love you end up devastated, disappointed, heartbroken.

But when you and your partner are tired of each other sexually.
It is very very OK for any of them to cheat as long as it won't affect the raising up the kids.
THE MAIN REASON FOR MARRIAGE
IS TO BRING FORTH CHILDREN AND BUILD A FAMILY.
NOT TO CONTROL YOUR PARTNER AND EXPECT THEM TO BE ONLY YOURS.

WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?
THAT A MAN WILL ONLY FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE AND NOBODY ELSE.
SHOW ME A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN
AND I WILL SHOW U A MAN TIRED OF FVCKING HER.

Marriages fail because the 2 partners believe that they own each other.
It is impossible to be sexually attracted to one person for the rest of your life.

Ask Jay z why he cheat on Beyonce
Love is not possessive
True love is freedom of choice
Both men and women need to understand that once you are tired of each other sexually.
It is very ok to find sexual pleasure from someone else.
It doesn't mean you don't love each other NO!!!
It means your love has transformed from sexual love to agape love or family love.

Wow

Lol

Bad

FunnyDude:
With the rate of infection and STD/STI treatment going on, it's not worth the 5 minutes pleasure.

Life na risk joor

I have seen that this couple do not look like they plan for food and reception

So the guy man instead went to burial to eat burial rice and cow meat with motuary standard Guinness and 3 bottles of hero

Infact I can already hear him arguing Chelsea vs man City finals with tooth pick in his mouth and hero in his other hand. This I have seen

By the end of Buhari tenure, the amount of mass graves that will be discovered will make Rwanda genocide look like child's play

Gerrard59:
Anyone who is not there. The emotional baggage that comes with it get as e be. Maybe when she leaves for a different organization or academic program but right there in the company or department is quite messy.

It's just sex bro
No big deal

His

Ochason:
Too much weed.

You don't know your human Rights

It's 12am everywhere is dark so I start jerking off before I sleep.
Midway into the masturbation I notice a tingling feeling on my preq
I on my phone torch and guess what I saw

A mosquito sucking my preq

I'm not worried about malaria, my worry is that I don't know if that was a male mosquito or female mosquito.

I pray it was a female mosquito because
If it is a male mosquito
That means I have committed homosexuality by mistake. what should I do

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