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donbachi:
Meaning u never had a first right of choice.

There are types of love
1. Sexual love: This is the first feeling that motivate a man to date a girl. This feeling is what makes the relationship sweet at the beginning.
2. Agape love: This is the SEE FINISH phase of marriage.
The feeling that man feels after wife has given birth and no longer interested in sex as she was in the dating phase. This happens when both man has lost sexual appetite for wife after long period of time, which is normal.

During agape phase is when men cheat a lot, but if the man and woman had string understanding then they agree to have open relationship as long as it won't affect them raising their children

The idea that you should only love 1 person out of 6 billion people in this world is VERY STUPID AND UNREALISTIC.

Love should not be controlled
It should be given FREELY
When you try to control love you end up devastated, disappointed, heartbroken.

But when you and your partner are tired of each other sexually.
It is very very OK for any of them to cheat as long as it won't affect the raising up the kids.
THE MAIN REASON FOR MARRIAGE
IS TO BRING FORTH CHILDREN AND BUILD A FAMILY.
NOT TO CONTROL YOUR PARTNER AND EXPECT THEM TO BE ONLY YOURS.

WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?
THAT A MAN WILL ONLY FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE AND NOBODY ELSE.
SHOW ME A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN
AND I WILL SHOW U A MAN TIRED OF FVCKING HER.

Marriages fail because the 2 partners believe that they own each other.
It is impossible to be sexually attracted to one person for the rest of your life.

Ask Jay z why he cheat on Beyonce
Love is not possessive
True love is freedom of choice
Both men and women need to understand that once you are tired of each other sexually.
It is very ok to find sexual pleasure from someone else.
It doesn't mean you don't love each other NO!!!
It means your love has transformed from sexual love to agape love or family love.

Wow

Lol

Bad

FunnyDude:
With the rate of infection and STD/STI treatment going on, it's not worth the 5 minutes pleasure.

Life na risk joor

I have seen that this couple do not look like they plan for food and reception

So the guy man instead went to burial to eat burial rice and cow meat with motuary standard Guinness and 3 bottles of hero

Infact I can already hear him arguing Chelsea vs man City finals with tooth pick in his mouth and hero in his other hand. This I have seen

By the end of Buhari tenure, the amount of mass graves that will be discovered will make Rwanda genocide look like child's play

Gerrard59:
Anyone who is not there. The emotional baggage that comes with it get as e be. Maybe when she leaves for a different organization or academic program but right there in the company or department is quite messy.

It's just sex bro
No big deal

His

Ochason:
Too much weed.

You don't know your human Rights

It's 12am everywhere is dark so I start jerking off before I sleep.
Midway into the masturbation I notice a tingling feeling on my preq
I on my phone torch and guess what I saw

A mosquito sucking my preq

I'm not worried about malaria, my worry is that I don't know if that was a male mosquito or female mosquito.

I pray it was a female mosquito because
If it is a male mosquito
That means I have committed homosexuality by mistake. what should I do

Cool

Hmm

Nawa

JackDaAlienz:
When i travelled to Russia to study medicine I was 23 years when I meet a very beautiful Russian girl named Yulia
She was 17 turning to 18.

I loved this girl with all my heart and she was so in love with me. Infact she loved me too much.
I was her first black boyfriend
We dated for 2 years
Then we broke up because I needed some space.
We still became very close friends after the break up.
Until she got a new boyfriend.
She called me crying and telling me that she has not loved any guy in this life more than me. But she doesn't know what to do about this rich guy who wants her.
I told her to go ahead, that if he can give her the life she always dreamed of living.

She clearly want this guy because of his money. Her new boyfriend is very rich and me I wasn't financially strong then.
Her boyfriend knows I'm her ex, so he forced her to block me everywhere.
We haven't talked since 3 years

I moved on like nothing happened
Now I'm back in Nigeria
It's been 3 years now
But here is the problem
No matter how hard I try to forget her
It doesn't work
I still get flashbacks of our love, romance and all the good times we had.
No matter how hard I try, I just can't forget her.

I got into a new relationship which ended shortly because the girl I was dating said I was still in love with my ex. That I talk about my ex more than I talk about her.
And it's true, I unknowingly bring up my ex in our discussion.
How do I get over my ex of 3 years.
I sometimes cry at night thinking about her
It's so weird, I have never had this kind of bond with a girl.

How can I remove her from my mind
It's like I'm spiritually tied to this girl

GO AND FIND NAIJA GIRL AND STOP EMBARRASSING YOURSELF ONLINE..ODE

Biglittlelois:
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Is that the guy that infected you with H.I.V?