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stzy:
Sorry ladies but there are 2 many of u online so its a separation technique... We are made 2 lik wot we c n c wot we lik... Most tyms pictures aids in toast development. Especially wen u guys barely knw eachoda or wen its been long u guys saw eachother... If I js met u n. Ur dp isn't as awesome I'll need clarification pix o bt I won't ask immediately n wen u do. Give its a sign of game on.. Lolz

so after the selection of the ones you accessed and ignored, who will go for them. If I catch you there.

falconey:

falconey.. If I see that spade looking teeth of yours again, you tell me what's funny. You must be one of them right?

It is getting out of hand these days.
Guys seems to be loosing it to ladies in the aspect of picture demands. A guy meets a lady on social media, barely introducing himself, he would start demanding for pictures of her even when there is a display picture of hers available there.
And to make matters worst, his own DP will not even be there. Why would they be more interested in the pix than even knowing who she is?
"babe let me see your pix nah"
"cute but I want to see your full pix"
"wow! you look gorgeous though I have not seen your backview pix"
"You are so hawt damn! Do u mind sending me pix of as you are right now and what you are wearing"
Guys!! Why all these assessment? Even when the guy resembles Oby.

Cute. I love this woman.

Hmm..
This kind of wildfire can never be quenched once it starts burning. My brother, I hope you have made some reasonable savings for yourself atleast to be able to be take care of yourself? You are hot, smart, handsome and to crown it all, a VIRGIN. Now I can see how your late mom's friend (may her soul rest in peace) is planning
To take care of her friend's son coupled with her small pretty witch of a daughter.
Please.. It is unnegotiable as to whether you should continue going to that house or not. Cook and eat at home or go to buka.
I lack words to tell you the great danger you are in. The daughter would have been cool but please leave her ok? Cut all ties now while u can. Biko nnaa. If you want me to kneel down for you, I will. I will not go into the details but just heed to my warning nwoke oma. Tnx.

naijagalnxtdoor:
You could have corrected me without being sarcastic. The English you know, I know too. Thanks.

there is no sarcasm in what I wrote. I am sorry I have removed it.

Nice pix

Hmm ..

Ok

Niceman4u:
it looks lik I saw u in d dream!

lol, it wasn't me you saw.

More grace to you.

Niceman4u:
who r u babe?

I am chocolateme of Nairaland. Tnx

I can never be shocked by such news. So I refused to be shocked.
Sometime, we should appear natural everyday for one full week make both male and female so that someone will know what he or she is going into to avoid story for the gods at last.
@ d pictures; is that a human being or DanaPlast?

libertyfather:
Gobe!! I don't thinkk there's anyway to brainwash him, he has learn what he will later know in his life, leave the boy alone let him live with his new experience @ least he's 10years old almost a teen age... always lock the door next you are about to do such action film again



I don't think this is what he need

don't be too fast papa Liberty.. Chocolateme wasn't done yet. You can go back and check.

Sorry about that. You should be more careful in your home, you should not make him feel odd about the scenario especially your wife. Don't try to be suddenly over nice to him or over harsh. Just keep living normally as you used to but I cant promise u that the picture will erase easily from his head but as they grow, teach them the rules of life and what it takes to grow in the fear of God.
It depends on your way of raising your kids to dtermine if he will say it or not to others but I seriously doubt that because he may never really know what or how to explain what he saw and trust me children of nowadays and their exposure sef. But try to talk to your wife about her crying episode and drama of hers so that everything can get back to normal in the house. It is well.





FTC
CHOCOLAETE CREAM

Hmm.. its a pity that when decisions like this are made, the innocent citizens are the one that gets most into the crossfire but I hope the issue gets addressed before it goes haywire.

tranxo:
HELLOOOOO!!!!!! Did you read this?

then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using,


Having the same contacts does not mean she could chat with the old phone. Did you even read the OP's post sell? Or you just spat out something all in the name of FTC? Visible issues must be dealt with BEFORE marriage. Kids will not change her. Addictions are dangerous. Have thought of the fact that she can leave her cooking unattended and burn down the house? Have you even thought of if she will be coordinated enough to even take care of children? She is the best type that will forget to do her school runs.
Nawaooo for some kain advice

ok sir.

Jagabanthelion:
All in a bid to protect your fellow woman,see the kind of advice u are giving to a man who honestly is trying to draw his straying girl back home. He shd give her space so she can finally start cheating right? There is a line btw being excited by a new phone n plannin cheating. I've gone thru d chats of my last 2 gfs n I tell u,d contents are the same. U can guess y I ended both relationships. Ladies these days can be disgusting. Imagine a lady in your house,ontop your own bed. telling about 3 guys she loves them too ryt in ur presence,just because u can't see her phone.let's not even talk about d dirty chats n nude pictures they exchange.
OP,u MUST see what she is chatting on dat phone b4 harbouring any thoughts of continuing wit the relationship. Beta act fast b4 she starts deleting them. Believe me,what u may find may save u frm marrying a woman who may kill u with hypertension b4 u get to 50yrs.

ok my opinion does not count and yours does. I wonder if the best option is for him to end it with her and go for that perfect one without blemish already waiting for him. He didn't write of infidelity, he also said it recently started after he bought the phone not that another person bought the phone for her. Another vital thing I always pick in threads on NL is that no one both males and females can be honest about their story, they never tell you their own shortcomings or faults to the issue, they always tellall negatives on the culprit that's why you keep seeing one sided comments all over the place. In my NL posts, I have never sided anyone because I don't believe one person is guilty of all. Here I told him that since she feels she doesn't have his time, reality will bring her to her senses while he should find out what went wrong.so now, run along.

ElFenomeno1:
Get lost.... fool
Just read your initial comment and tell me you don't deserve to be tied to a stake and pelted with rotten tomatoes!!!

you know why you still need to grow up as a man? Because if wishes were horses, beggers will ride. Check this. : this is social media : all you've got are just negative insulting words to make yourself feel better : bad words don't have effects or prevail on anything or anyone if not boko haram will be cursing and swearing morn afternoon and night : showing the world how the number of responsible words you have left especially in an unfavorable situation that needs just your personal opinion : if you observe well, you will read meaning into the following statement; "HELP!! My boyfriend is eluded with wisdom to talk RESPONSIBLY" that's your case :if you are truly a man, bring it on to my land and space without adding your addiction.I guess not!

ElFenomeno1:
Daft cu nt

that's all you learnt in all your 22 years of trying to grow into a man and which is still eluding u. Stay well dear.

Unu egbuola mmadu n'obodo a

AngryNigerian:
Lol...babe, na new year ooo! Or, na ya resolution Anyway, my peeps call me AnGrYnIgErIaN, & itz not hard to predict my hobby...squeezing out the anger in us! So, can I meet you

let me check your dp first.

Really? Eziokwu? I didn't know.now I know.

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[color=#1980BC]i think it's best we all mind our business instead of looking for who to chastise. [/color][/quote]ofcourse you are right. Our business here has been done, they alerted us with the gist, I posted, you quoted, all on the same thread, then business closed.

AngryNigerian:
...& then you shared your contacts with the officer, abi dem look you finish leave you go like that I hear say women like FRSC officers like as dem take like Army officers...no mind me shaa; na new year

yes, he collected the contacts of all the passengers in the bus including the driver's own. Ma nke nwanne gi nwanyi.

Its all one of those domestic issues, give her a space because as kids start rolling in, more responsibilities go change am for her. I don't think that its the phone alone that changed her because even with her former phone, she still has her contacts and has been like that. You should talk sense into her but don't seize the fone as it will hype matters. She will come around.




FTC
CHOCOLATE CREAM
Some people are quoting and calling me names and insulting me for my opinion here, but I will suggest you guys drop your own personal opinions too. I hardly accept threads as they appear on NL. There is nothing like WINNERS and SINNERS. I don't support the lady's attitude but the guy should handle their issue with care lest public opinion brings more damages to his mindset. He should retrace and he will find out that the problem has nothing to do with the phone only, I bet he knows where I am going. U people shoud continue your invasion into my land and space.

Hmm!!
I don't even know who deserves to be chastised among the two now, is it the small boy who has no respect for elders by his words though can be excused as a juvenile deliquent or the old uncle who dosnt know his status to be openly fighting with his last born's agemate on social media instead of playing the role of finding a way for them to solve it behind closed doors though can be excused as per limelight reasons. Respect is earned not bought.

Yes but our solution that day was smiles upon smiles upon smiles till they warned and let us go.
But don't smile like that in this Change.





FTC
CHOCOLATE CREAM

jopretty:
babe you dey vex oo hahahahahaa if e comes to beating people to rob them, then know say them go dey break these criminals into 2 cos most of them dry like firewood.

hahahahaha you are funny oo.

Na waoo! These weapons no dey finish? Upon all the confisticated quantity so far coupled with the destruction of discovered weapon manufacturing hide outs.
They shall soon run out of weapons make I see whether na beating dey go dey take beat people to death. Nonsense.





FTC
CHOCOLATE CREAM

It depends on the duration of the debt coupled with the understanding between us concerning the debt. If its ok, no problem. He can spray one billion for all I care but when the time comes for me to be paid back and story for the gods enters it, he he!
But if we have been having it rough over my money and I catch him spraying money, God knows that its at the police cell that both of us will sleep that day.

cruzita:
I give my pops man bra give my Momsy boxers

nice one, hope u snapped them pix after they wore it?