₦airaland Forum

chris51:
Congratulations to our own Akinwunmi Adesina. God has vindicated him against the US.

chris51:
Nothing stops you from giving the milk to your son, better than quarrelling

newace:
I'm tired of the patience,i bought a box of the sma milk.

chris51:
My dear, there's life after wedding.
Cut your coat according to your cloth and you will have a beautiful wedding for less than 500k.

Cut down on the number of people you are inviting. 100 people you will take good care of is better than 1000.

Buy yourself a good suit. Your wife can hire a lovely wedding gown.

A bag of rice will feed not less than 300 people. Get a good caterer who will give estimate for chicken and condiments to cook a bag of rice and the labour.

Don't involve family with cooking. They will steal half of the things.

For drinks:
Get enough water, malt, mineral and wine for toasting only.

No high table

Good luck

chris51:
I think you are INSANE.
How can you say you want to sleep with your girl friend and her sister. Something is mentally wrong with you.
Did they force you to render them financial help?

You should be ashamed of yourself.

ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

chris51:
The President has done well. Babalakin became larger than life in Unilag.

As a Pro-Chancellor, Babalakin didn't have the powers he was exhibiting.

chris51:
DON'T PACK OUT.

Living with your parents have prevented irresponsible people from getting close to you. Immediately you pack out, you are vulnerable.

Buying a land is a good idea. It's an investment. The most important thing is to have a steady income or good business.

You and your parents have good relationship. Please keep it up and God bless you

chris51:
It's a man that died. Not his wife

JosephXavier:
May her humble soul rest in peace, amen

chris51:
Obaseki benefitted from godfatherism, why does he want it to end now?

It must continue so that others will also enjoy same privilege

chris51:
Very embarrassing. President of Somalia to be exchanging blows with his deputy in public. Shameful.
The two of them should be impeached

chris51:
Kudos to Buhari and Rotimi Amaechi for the Rail projects.
Even if we owe, we have something to show for it.
Well done

chris51:
How did Obama get involved in Gaddafi's death? Was is not during George Bush Jr time that we had Arab Spring that almost destroyed the whole of that region?
Osama Bin Laden, the terrorist was killed during Obama's regime.
Please give honour to whom it's due

tutudesz:
Bush had no choice after 9/11, but Obama created the ISIL just because he wanted Syria, he destroyed one of the most peacefully country in the world. Obama involvement in Gaddafi death is the reason why Bokoharam is still strong today

rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

Quit the job. Your boss is a hopeless and irresponsible man. He is trying to intimidate and blackmail you.
Go and do something with your hands. Don't let the idiot ruin your future.

What should I do?

rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

Quit the job. Your boss is a hopeless and irresponsible man. He is trying to intimidate and blackmail you.
Go and do something with your hands. Don't let the idiot ruin your future.

What should I do?

chris51:
Obaseki, are you God?

chris51:
You shouldn't have beaten your girl friend. What you could have done was to give her two hours to pack her load and leave.

Stop everything about marriage. A lady who could not accommodate a motherless girl is a wicked lady. Your niece is a consolation to you and your family, after losing her mother, who was your only sister.

Please NO SENTIMENTS, send your girl friend out of your house and life. She is NOT a wife material.

Good Luck.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.