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chris51:
Lauretta. Onochie should mind her business. A parent has the privilege to discipline her child as he/ she seems fit, as long as the child is not assaulted or treated badly.

In the case of "mummy calm down". From the dialogue between mother and son, you can see that boy knows he did wrong but just pleading with the boy.

The mother didn't beat him but only wants him to be cautioned.

chris51:
Yeye dey smell. When Saraki and others defected to PDP, who recalled them?

Obaseki just defected to PDP and was given gubernatorial ticket.

A beg leave Dogara alone. APC=PDP

chris51:
Some members of Ize-Iyamu's family are backing Obaseki while some members of Obaseki's family are also backing Ize-Iyamu.
Its all crazy
They have turned election to child's play. Trading with it. Very unserious people

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Goalnaldo:
This is seriously serious . If his family couldn't back him, then who will?

hashtagged:
Thats what women are meant to be, so if women arent slaves, men shouldnt be breadwinners, you put it like women doing house work is slavery, the men doing the breadwinning what is that called?

In a home

A womans job: cooking, caring for kids, child bearing, maintaning the home

A mans job: breadwinning, making money and
provision for the family.

Today's women are also bread winners. They go out to work or trade. Come home and take care of family and home.


Isnt it balanced, OP you are just a simp, ass licking women wont get you anywhere, so you want men to make money and care for the home as women sit down and watch you(their slave) do everything up to washing their undies. Nonsense

chris51:
Trump has no power to shift election. US election is 1st Tuesday of November in any election year.

From CNN interview, it was revealed that he will seize to be President sometime in January 2021. According to the Constitution, If there's no election before then, the Speaker of the House will take over.

The Speaker is, Nancy Pelosi, Democrat.
Trump can not afford to take such chances.

chris51:
There's nothing wrong with the video. The mother didn't assault the child.
The child knows he did wrong. Showing the mother how to lie down and calm down is what crack my bones.
The boy is very brilliant at his tender age.
When he starts his family in future, it will be fun for his children to watch.

TalkTalkTwins:
I still don't get why a parent will be punishing their child and turn on the camera...
At a point the boy even asked, mummy are you videoing me? It's not nice.

There's life outside social media. Stop taking videos of your family moments and posting, people will enjoy it but the child might grow up to dislike that.
Even plenty American superstars that we're copying don't let the world know their children till they reach their ages of consent.

Satan66:
Nigerians are a disgrace both locally and abroad.
Imagine this woman is saying you don't need face mask?
That the virus has a cure!?
She should be stripped of her medical license.

kolafolabi:
Not good for Obaseki, not good at all. I strongly hope he wins and put to shame the issue of godfatherism.

chris51:
You are a very LUCKY young man. Finding a girl who will discourage you from lavishing money on wedding, is rare.
Listen to her. If she has no car, buy her one as a wedding gift.

God bless your union.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

RiyadhGoddess:
Oh waoooh her husband isn't Pete E.
Congrats to the new couple

donstan18:
Father of the yea mehn!! That lady could possibly be a Nland feminist!

More of fathers like this will drastically reduce the rate of social media hoes, misandrist and feminists in the society.

This is what Bobrisky's father lacked!

Kudos to the man!
A real African DAD!

God bless the man. I pray we have more fathers like him. Do you know how many girls have got into trouble and died because of social media?

A 14 year old girl recently left home and stayed with a boy in a hotel. When he was done with her, his friend took over.

If parents can discipline their children the way this man did, the society will be better

chris51:
Please leave the girl alone. At only 12, no mother and doesn't know the father.
You should sympathise with her.
Thank God she is doing something good for herself.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Who be this child way nor know he Korean Papa

Imagine! You way just dey start life don dey arrogant
I read the whole thing...the little imp is so arrogant... na you nor know your Papa..na you still dey insult your mama land
Asked about warri.... imagine this was her reply

The only thing I have to say about Warri is that it’s an annoying and disgusting place!

Bastard daughter of a thousand father..
How i wish i even know him papa self make i bomb am through wechat....all these myung, seo, Wong, hoon, joon, Hun children self

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Seun, I learnt you are also an alumni of Obafemi Awolowo University. Please take note that the Ori-Olokun that is found in the Museum is only a travesty. It is also quite unfortunate that the same fake image is used as the University Crest while the real artifact remains somewhere close to London

Source: His books, majorly his personal memoirs
Lalasticlala, I spent my weekend preparing this . Kindly let me take your position in posting this one Birthday for today
I'm currently sipping from a bottle of Heineken in honour!

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

Oracle55:
Please my fellows i need your advice, i am in between 2 choices. I have this land i just bought and wana build my house i have fenced it and out gate but i am thinking if to use the money i got to develop the land or i use it and travel abroad (uk ) for my masters pls advice me.

For those abroad is it easy there and can i get a good job after my masters or i should remain here in Nigeria and get married?

I will need to sell my car and properties if i am to travel.

Please help move to front page for more views and suggestions thanks

ukpahu:
Hear my story. I am Igala by tribe. When i was in the village this thing happen more than 12 years ago.

A lady i was dating then got pregnant and she told me about it, then i asked her what's the next step, she told me that she will abort the baby. One month later, another story that she will not give me the baby because my mother doesn't like her.

Before she gave birth to the baby, i traveled to town and got work in one of the federal universities. I spent two years without going back to the village. The last time i traveled to village, i noticed that she is married to another man with two children o. I asked her of my baby, she told me to divorce my wife and marry her before she can give my baby or if i try any thing funy she is going to charm me.

I told my uncle about it, he told me to forget about the baby that God has already given me a good wife and three children.

This whole thing is giving me sleepless night. I can't sleep. I am always thinking of my baby and my wife is noticing some changes in me.

Please what will i do? Should i take legal action on her? pls advice me ooooo. The woman is my first love, i will continue to love her till i die. She is the only woman i ever loved, even more than my wife. I love this woman but she cost me pain.

chris51:
Nothing to worry about. The best treatment is to consult, iya elewe Omo. Women who sell herbs. I experienced it with one of my children, nearly 40 years ago and that's how my baby was cured.

You will be giving herbs to boil and bath the baby, I assure you that these women are fantastic. Please do not give the baby anything to drink for it. Just something to bath the body and rub

mandalorian:
Hello house, my boy is barely one month old and he developed this skin issue. One of my colleagues said it is Ela(Yoruba) but from my experience, ela use to manifest as very red tiny rashes around the neck and joints.

Now this one is not on his neck (though it is in both his elbow joints, scarcely on his Tommy and this morning I say it at the back of his knee), his skin molts around the rashes. I just can't completely describe it that's why I included the pics.

I need help elders in the house. I took him back to the hospital where he was
born but they said it will go but I don't like the look.
Mods pls help me push to fp.

yinkus6750:
Good game plan.
Both candidates having Muslims as deputy, will go a long way in getting more support.
Pray the election should be peaceful, free and fair, while the people's vote should count.
Wish both Obaseki and Iyamu, best of luck.

UDOKABESTLUV:
https://m.guardian.ng/news/ezekwesili-loses-mum-to-cancer/

chris51:
Molded blocks are better and stronger.
The people selling already made blocks by addind less cement to sand.

That's how they make profit.

chatinent:
Good day all. For sb novice in building, which will you suggest (checking cost, and durability), which is better: buying blocks or molding it by oneself?
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Please I also need opinions on what to do to afford thugs causing me problems on site.