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My take I think the woman should confront her husband even though I don't support husband snatchers.

But let's take a cursory look at this development wholistically, I believe in sowing & reaping ....you see when I was in the university almost all my female friends had boyfriends alongside sugar Daddy (ies), they all claim these sugar Daddies are there just to meet thier financial needs and to them it was just fun and all will end after uni, little did they know that they were planting a seed.

You see as small as the mustard seed, when planted can grow into a big tree, now most of them cry foul when they see thier hubby with anoda woman, I just laugh most times except God intervene ...this is the truth if you sleep with somebody's husband the same will be melted to you is a simple law, same applies to guyz...

Am not saying that he woman did but check well .

Hmmm Iran is playing with fire, they don't know that trump is one of the most rugged & blunt president you can ever toil with.... My heart goes to the ordinary (poor) masses in Iran ...

Wahala dey oooo

I swear down TRUMP is Dugged and he means business, I think this is the president that fits America's lifestyle.

Dugged & Rugged ...the middle East don see president .

This guy need to get justice for what he went through... And the network providers should not be left in this buhaha..

This guy is really angry and I can relate with what he went through..

I like his Duggedness in trying to get justice.

I see...how time flies

YourCoffin:
It is not a crime. It is punishment for a crime.

seriously this guy is funny, I dont even know what to type anymore I just dey laugh

shakmati:
I appreciate you but we have gone beyond the point of making things work. If you are advising me to take Angela as a second wife, I might consider...as long as you can advise me on how to do that too....because my wife would never ageee.

Don't make decisions from emotional point of view, the bolded above already shows you are not a Christian, you may think you are doing the right thing now,alongside Angela, but bro in no distance time you will wish you never made this decision. You woke up and together with another man's wife u r planning to hurt your wife, for a crime she did not commit after giving you too beautiful kids, not that you are divorcing her on the ground of infidelity but just like that chaii, if she curses you from the depth of her heart nobody except God can reverse it.

Think of it, the shame you will bring to this innocent woman, making her a laughing stock among her friends, neighbours e.t.c, even the shame her family will go through, what about your kids which eye will they use to look at you forever, or what excuse will you give to them ....they will hate you forever, cos anytime dey see thier mum cry thier hatred for you will increase.

On the flip side, put yourself in the shoe of your bro in-law, do you think you can bear it, that your wife not girlfriend has been snatched from you by your bro in-law, just like that after a kid in the picture, making him to carryout byforce unplan adjustment for himself and the kid, are you 4real or your are kidding, am just so disappointed in you as man cos you are about to hit a rock and you don't know.

Did your wife force you to marry her, you drove all her suitors away put a ring on her finger and after 5years with two kids, you said you don't want again, to make it worse not with a woman she doesn't know but a close one at that ...sincerely am laughing you.

In closing, I will like you to ponder on this scenario..

*** what if after marriage with Angela, God forbid but shit happens she couldn't convince for 5 or more years ...what will be your fate, even Angela herself will hate her marriage.

*** what if after marriage, you discover that Angela is not the angel you thought she is, she keeps boyfriends or a she is a lesbian.

*** what if business suddenly goes down and sour for you but angela is making it big, do you think she will be all supportive and loving..

Use your tongue to count your teeth man, cos the Devil wants to play chess on your life and destiny ..

I wish you well.

So op what you are saying is that these individuals wealth has no link with public fund ba...ok ooo if you say oooo but as a person i choose not to believe.

... This got to me. ..any place on earth..

Seriously Iran should just chill if they want thier name to go into extinction.

murecool:
Nigeria has overtaken Egypt as the largest rice producer in Africa. Nigeria now produces 8 million tonnes out of the Africa average of 14.6 million tonnes of rice annually. Egypt used to produce 4.3 tonnes annually but suffered a decline of almost 40 percent in the last one year.
This is a clear evidence that the President Muhammadu Buhari's rice policy is moving in the right direction.

https://allafrica.com/view/group/main/main/id/00066911.html

But Op were exactly are they planting this rice ...which States majorly deal on rice production in large/commercial/export purpose?.

And why is the effect not felt among the populace or as well as it's effect in price reduction.

Cos if we have overtook Egypt in rice production, as you claim, then we have to check how much rice is sold in Egypt and compare it here, Cos the excess with which we use in overtaking Egypt must reflect practically in price fall, if not is just a mere theory .

February 18

Saintmary:
When a husband and wife refuse to plan their family and pop 4 kids in 5 years. Whereas they got married based on people's advice "get married naw, God will provide for you".
The husband is a traditional man who lifts no finger in the house yet believes a woman must bring something to the table.
So, the poor woman, whose body has not recovered from incessant childbirths, is doing every house chore, tending the kids alone, working a job and dealing with possibly nasty in laws, Uncle only drops money, how will she not look like his mother, how will she get time to take care of her looks, out of 24 hours?

I think the above should also be considered but not an excuse not to care for herself, although conditions/environment/financial power play a role here, cos my sister did the above gave birth to 4 children in 5 years in UK, and she is still looking more like a babe than before, as I said above the conditions/environment BTW UK & naija are different as well as financial power and husband support...

Men should support thier wives at homes, in the kitchen, chores and the likes cos the home is everybody's but women should not take it for granted by mistaken an arm shake for handshake.

Op nice nice nice write up .

This guy is so funny.

LegendaryLover:
Are there still communities where this man's face is not known? I mean he's famous for god's sake. Will be even more famous in the east from he's from.
And truth be told, most villagers watch more indigenous movies than foreign ones. Also, villages enjoy electricity alot these days, in some cases more than towns sef.

U won't want to eat a star? ur star.




So, it's either he's lying/exaggerating, the blogger is lying, those men he heard were lying, his director is lying, or NL is lying.

on the flip side of the coin did you ever believe if all the villages in Nigeria had electricity, what if that particular village was among the ones without ....think deep bro

The rate of killing is just too much in this country, urgent actions just have to be taken ASAP.

I fear who nu fear US sha

Respect !!!

fayose and his mouth eeeh

This is not good coming at this festive period, God help us with the level of insecurity everywhere... Even ex president house... Hmmm were come safe.

Seen is believing.. We are definitely keeping our fingers crossed.

Wow let's see how the appeal will go

ghettokid1:
Fake news!.
Social media bill is for people like you

please sir, no offence how do you know the link is fake cos I just saw a link attached to it in another similar thread, and also a related story of Quilox being shut down by Lagos state government.

Interesting times ahead... We are observing .

We are watching keenly...cos words are easy to say but actions are what validate those words.

Let me share my little thought on this :. Now there is NO woman that don't like sex, however three things can make a woman dislike sex.

1. She is a virgin ...you can't simply like what you have not eaten, no matter how good a soup smells, you still have to taste it to determine if it's sweet or not.

2. Rape/ Bad sexual event of the past: This can make any woman dislike sex, cos it's just keep reminding her of what she is trying to forget .

3. Below Par performance from her spouse: This is one of the major cause why many married women rejects sexual calls from thier below par performance hubby, and get it outside, these below reasons can further butress the above

3(a) he is faced with constant quick ejaculation and weak erection ....popularly known as the indomie men.

3(b)lack a good understanding of sex as well as thier spouses core areas of sexual pleasure, these men even if they last in bed don't really know how to manipulate thier way ( in terms of skills & positioning) through the woman's virgina bringing about the desired orgasm that she seek.

Be that as it may, sticking to point 3, a woman should be able to communicate with her hubby if she is not getting it properly and tell him what to do per time before, during and after sexual intercourse.

However, op with statement like this coming from your wife..."Always giving excuses. At night, Am tired. In d morning, go work abeg others have left and making money and it here looking for who to ram." am sorry op I doubt if she loves you deeply.

Op do this ..

- ignore her for sometime, I mean avoid being too needy sexually, just pretend you don't need it anymore & put up a smiling face while doing it ...watch her reactions for sometime.

- op, for God sake can you allow her do the buying of those food items herself, it's like you are spoiling her, she sees herself as the price..she maybe feeling like queen of England ( of course she is Queen, no disrespect).

- Deliberately delay the upkeep money you give to her all the time, making up some excuses for it, and reduce the attention and hype you give to her.

- spoil yourself a little, change your fashion sense abit, wear sneakers, neat jeans, t-shirts, knickers with sneakers, get perfumes that smell well...just look more polished ...nice gold chains ..let her feel Jealous that anoda woman might steal you outside .


If she does not respond to the above after a period of time ...then op am sorry She ain't love you.

Religious war is one of the most dangerous war one can ever experience, cos it's centers on believe/belief, the painful part of it is that it is the poor among them that suffers the hit most times.

God deliver this nation from the hands of blood sucking wannabe leaders.