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Haaaa! Nigeria!!!! Everywhere you go,problem. I'm running away from facebook where all the boys and girls keep updating you with their problems & nairaland is not so different. Well my dear,I dnt knw what to say. Let me just advice you. Only God can give you wisdom so ask him. This is a delicate matter. Going in is the begining of a polygamous marriage.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I hate it when people don't used their brains and just say the first load of bullshît that comes to their head. How can you just assert that 96% cheat?
How many men did you examine? Generalization is a sign of stupîdity[/quote]hahaha...

@OP

If you say naija women dnt cheat,I'd probably want to believe you live in a cave & do not know what happens around/outside where you live. All d nude photos of Naija women caught cheating,that you have online are from where? Heaven or hell? Like someone earlier said,it takes two to cheat. If naija men are cheating,then it means naija women too are cheating. I remember when I was still staying in maryland,there was this pretty akwa-ibom woman I used to admire & she did same. We shopped in the same supermart and anytime we saw ourselves,the feeling was just there... I could see it in her eyes the way she stared at me. The only reason I didnt make a move was cos I was scared of someone doing same with my wife(when I finally get married). I've been in several situations...
All I'll say,pray ur man doesnt. If he does,try talking to him & also try to do things that wont make him cheat...
My friend who is married wants to cheat now cos according to him,his wife is not romantic but she's faithful and hardworking. I've tried talking to him but hey!,I'm not in his home & do not know how much it hurts him.

Finally not all men/women are cheats.

@ Sandy:

I guess while crying,you'd look at his picture and ask: God why me? I guess you'd constantly read old text msgs & the likes,hold on to everything that reminds you of him & break down again into tears... But trust me,the best that you guys can have is what it is. Trust me,you dont wanna know how it feels to raise a sickle cell child,that might eventually die after spending all your resources on him/her. At that stage,you'd be wishing you'd broken up with your husband early enough. Get one thing clear. Even if he was AA & U're AS,it does not guarantee a life long union of hapiness. We've seen pple break up after 6months - 1yr of marriage after dating for 6,7,8 yrs. They always thought they'd found the best thing in life. I'm not tryna discredit or dismiss the love you have for ur man but trust me,when sickle cell issues arise for pple,it's only God that can tell how things will end up. Do not forget that marriage has it's own challenges that some pple cant even handle & adding that to the challenge of dealing with sickle cell kids is something else. Even those who are extremely wealthy,dont find it easy. My advice is,try(I knw it wont be easy) to psyche urself up & face this reality. U can only get over this by finding another relationship that would measure up to what you just lost(if not better). So,try to put urself in the right frame of mind. Go out,meet pple,hangout with friends,see movies,etc. Get involved with as many activities that would help you get over this & also improve ur chances of getting hooked up to somebody worthwhile. Duelling on this incident,is a complete minus and adds no positives. Time is off essence. Try to be strong for yourself. Talk with friends often and avoid being lonely. There are so many options to explore. This's the much I can say now. If you need a friend to talk to,you could also holla me on 07065614087. Perhaps,I might be able to crack you a few jokes & cheer you up from time to time. Just have this at the back of ur mind: there's a beautiful life ahead of you;dnt let the past hinder you. Cheers!

sandylurv: My relationship in which I had so much hope,where I found true love and hapiness,where nothing else mattered to me in this world have just come to an end because of genotype incompatibility (AS-AS).I feel shattered,broken,pained,disconsolate,heavy-hearted,sorrowful,aggrieved,wounded and bruised.my heart bleeds terribly,I've cried myself to sleep several times(usually I feel better after a good cry when I feel bad) bt I still dont feel better.I find myself blaming nature,my stupid genotype,and God....I loved him,I still do,with every fibre of my being.oh God,we had ‎​so much in common,ideas,views,beliefs,birth month,family structure,physical attributes etc.I know for sure,I'll never find anyone like him **sobbing** Until now,I neva believed any human cud feel this much pain.The amount of pain I carry in my heart at the moment is such that I keep wishing for death,mayb I wud find some peace there.I cant say but maybe I feel dis bad cuz it seems soo easy for him.He has moved on,barely one week after.Even went ahead to join a dating site jst bfor our break up.Maybe its just my imagination but it was rili easy for him.Don't know if its usually so easy to let go of someone you trully and really love.He was everything to me,he made me very happy,my world went round because of him,and now,my world feels so empty without him.We had decided to go ahead initially,with the plan of having CVS with each pregnancy but he is too scared to take that chance.This is the saddest thing that ever happened to me all my life.I still want him.Imagine finding someone you love completely,and finding all u ever wanted in that person bt still not be able to have that person.I'm praying to God for strength to carry on (eventhough I must be truthful,I'm sorry,bt my faith and belief in him has greatly dwindled) as I rili don't wanna do anytin nasty.I dnt understand why God wud sit by and watch me go through dis and not intervene.Any words of encouragement to help me go through dis wud be appreciated,as I dnt rili have my friends around me at the moment and I feel so lonely in this world,plus I rili needed to bare my heart one way or the other.I hope I feel better after this.God bless you.

Sorry abt this dear. I dnt knw how you feel now cos I'm not in ur position but I do know how it feels when you cant be with someone you truly love. It really hurts and sometimes,it feels like life is worthless without them. I dnt know how much I could be of help in encouraging you but I'd try.

Sorry guys,can I ask something? I just started visiting this romance section abt a month ago,even though I've been a member on NL since 2008... My question is: are you guys always joking with stuffs like these(silly gay/lesbo threads) or are these folks for real? I'm tryn pretty hard to understand. Can a romance forum veteran help me out? Thanks.

Shollypopz: lol, d jokes I can crack on ur profile pic

Btw, u try. No be real fight, na how we dey play for here be dat

Thanks for making me change my pix... Cheers!

Geez!!! My profile pix? Didnt realise I still got that pix on. Need to change it asap! That's me from 2006...lol

Onila,Onila,Onila.... Ur name suppose to be 2face cos u talk from both sides of ur mouth. One moment,u're a rich gal from a very rich home who doesnt need a man's money & the next moment all u want is money(from wat u've posted above);where do u stand? Pick one spot & park well my dear.

Ok. Here's one stupid thing I did. Was so much in love with my ex & was always showing her messages sent to my inbox from lots of ladies who were on my case. Some wanted a relationship & some sex @ the least. I even went as far as talking about her often on my page,typing all the I love you stuffs on her wall n on my status. I practically threw the relationship in pple's faces on facebook. When we started having issues,I put her pix as my profile pix & a lot of chicks didnt like it. By the time we finally broke up(after I got tired of tryn to salvage it & I asked for us to go separate ways),all my admirers had disappeared. Some unfriended me,some started acting up & a good no just snubbed me. I became ordinary. At that point,I realised I'd fooled myself. Next time,that isht aint gonna happen again.

Nairalanders!!! Dont you guys ever get tired of insulting yourselves? All these name calling aint needed... Makes the whole site look like a place for touts. Sometimes,I wanna comment on topics but the numerous insults flying around puts me off. I'm not tryna be a preacher but hey guys,let's try to keep it civil. Thanks.

@2sexy:

Are you aware GEJ got votes from pple who wouldnt have voted him? Are you aware some of us voted for him so as to avoid a common enemy(IBB) from gaining access to the seat of power directly or by proxy? Are you aware that based on a pact signed in 1999,IBB was suppose to take over from OBJ in 2007 which OBJ later backed out of and made him install Yar'adua? Are you aware that the same power play to shut IBB out of aso rock is what produced GEJ as president? This is not a place for one to start saying certain things but you can be rest assured that there are reasons why GEJ is president today. Pple worked hard,spent their money & mobilised others to prevent Nigeria from resting in the hands of a few mischief makers. These pple do not deserve to be called fools. Except you're one of several IBB supporters.

2sexy: It is nothing new in Naija. Most of the so called leaders are bag of half baked garri.

This is why they don't know how to manage public funds other than siphon into their bank account. It is here in Nigeria that you see people who studied law become minister of sports. What is the result? DISASTER!

It is nothing new because these are mad people parading themselves as an authority. Here in Benin I was shocked when I heard that one guy is now a counsellor. This is someone whom I know his real background, someone who went to the US almost risking his life, got there, started coke deals, bought cars,built houses, them went to Canada and not long after words became a muslim and travelled to the middle east and other arab nations for the sole purpose of selling coke... But in the end, he was deported and couldnt go to any county.

Today, he is counsellor! What do you expect?

But again, I don't pity most Nigerians because when it's time to make the right decision to vote, they end up decieving themselves by virtue sentiments. Most people are complaining of GEJ today are/were the same people that voted him in. Who is fooling who? It's too late to cry when the head is off. I don't feel any guilt because I never voted for GEJ.

I even went as far as almost having a fight with my school room mate why GEJ was a WRONG choice, but just like every other 'f00ls' and blind bats that couldnt think,reason or forsee the future, his point of argument was that he is a SOUTHERN elect. I went to my facebook page, and vented my anger but people saw me as a dooms day prophet. Meanwhile, I was apply common-sense. What is the result today?

But I also know one thing, Nigerians will never change and will sell their souls and that of their un-born generations in the next election which isn't far off.

How did I know? HISTROY!

It's foolishness that will make anybody come on nairaland and address all those who voted for GEJ as fools. It makes nonsense of the common sense you claim to have and also shows you've had a very bad education.

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@jp philips:

You really have a low I.Q and bad education as far as this subject is concerned. So,the judge will set the accused/suspect(s) free for saying/trying to prove that they were a threat to his life if he provides witnesses? What constitutes threat? Are you aware that the victims in death are presumed innocent of the crime? Did they find any weapon on any of them? Even if the debtor calls witnesses to say they saw them with weapons,are you aware that the weapons will have to be provided and forensic tests would be carried out to determine whose finger prints are on those weapons? If you claim they were cultists/thieves,where are the weapons/stolen items recovered from them(in the video)? No evidence of any stolen item/weapon in the recording. Moreover,ignorance is not an excuse in the court of law. No citizen has the right to kill a "suspect" who is suppose to be "innocent" until proven guilty in the court of law. Self defence doesnt apply here cos they weren't killed during a fight or arguement. This is a case of a properly planned action which can be termed as "malicious" as they were paraded naked,their rights to fair hearing was violated,they were beaten for hours before finally being set ablaze. They had the victims for hours & didn't hand them over to the police/law enforcement agents. Moreover,the police are claiming they were chased away with stones from the mob. This worsens the defence of the suspect(s) in custody as they'd also be accused of deliberately obstructing justice. Under this scenario,self defence doesnt apply. Salient points should be noted here: the sibling of one of the victim had identified at least one of them as her brother & pleaded that he wad innocent. But she was bullied & threatened to run away or risk being added to the four. This means that the only option for them at that point should have been handing over suspects to the police since someone was identified. It would have been a little bit more difficult if no one was able to identify at least one of them. Pls dont go about misinforming people on subjects you have no proper/comprehensive knowledge/information about. Thanks.
I wouldn't have replied but then,you've shown so much ignorance in your thesis above. You need proper education on the matter at hand before you can speak. No legal practictioner will back you up with all these stuffs you wrote above.

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