Celebrities › Re: Jim Iyke Celebrates His Son's Birthday As He Turns One by Chrysz(m): 1:32pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
edlion57: I'm still yet to understand the joy to hv children wen U are not married Note it is a free world |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Sandeep Kumar Sacked As Indian Minister Over Sex Tape With Woman by Chrysz(m): 1:21pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
women affairs minister having affair with a woman. I think that is an act of diligence on duty. No crime |
Education › Re: 18 Pictures Only Those Attending FUTA Can Relate To - McBrooklyn by Chrysz(m): 2:46am On Jul 13, 2016 |
McBrooklyn: 18. When after 5 years and you're finally going to graduate with your colleagues
cc: lalasticlala, mynd44, seun, Fynestboi, Dominique . Man u re on point jooor. |
Sports › Re: Ronaldo Presents To Nani His Silver Boot Award by Chrysz(m): 2:34am On Jul 13, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Drunk Officer Sleeping On The Floor In Lagos At Costain Bus Stop (Pics by Chrysz(m): 2:08am On Jul 13, 2016 |
SeverusSnape: A disgrace not only to the Nigerian Police Force, But also to this country.
Ironically, This one is among those saddled with the responsibility of protecting lives and property. Shame. tell me why Nigeria police will be respected. Na ppl dem sabi kill. too sad  [color=#000000][/color] |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Chrysz(m): 1:53am On Jul 13, 2016 |
BrokenHeart2016: Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action. O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND. Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts. Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.
Sorry for my grammatical blunders the truth need to be told, once a lady is ahead of you just try nd take a walk.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Christians And Addiction: 5 Facts About Addiction That You Need To Understand by Chrysz(m): 12:49am On Feb 29, 2016 |
ProsperOnyema: I am addicted to my phone. How can I stop it. gift to orphanages. |
Education › Re: I'm A Victim Of Fake JAMB Runz - Help! by Chrysz(m): 12:40am On Feb 29, 2016 |
People like u got 2 institutions nd starts swimming in carryovers. Pls 4 God sake it can never help u 2 anywhere, u've gotten a brain use it, don't leave it idle. |
Romance › Re: How A Nairalander Spent Her Valentines Day by Chrysz(m): 11:43pm On Feb 14, 2016 |
INTROVERT: Best way at least she fulfilling the law. No love greater than this. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 14th December 2015 by Chrysz(m): 10:40pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
akatekpe: Bros this is not a good case study na..checkout d league table na..that position doesn't fit Chelsea at all..worst should be around 7th na u no wat Chelsea fans re just impatient, i love Arsenal fans 4 ds. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester Vs Chelsea (2 - 1) On 14th December 2015 by Chrysz(m): 10:21pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
I saw ds coming. Bt i blv in one tin dominance ix nt 4 eva, everything is a phase xo Chelsea fans du embrace it.  |
Education › Re: Please Help! My Student Said She Is In Love With Me by Chrysz(m): 8:36pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Some gullible pple ll blve ds ur fiction. |
Crime › Re: Robbers Kill Father Of Two, Rape Three Ladies (photo) by Chrysz(m): 7:58pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
adesewa4uyahoo: RIP to the dead......naija situation is really worrisome....seems our safety does not mean anything to this government.....aani shagbako loruko jesu A big amen 2 dat ma lady |
Crime › Re: Woman Brutalizes 15-yr-old Maid, Slashes Her With Razor Blade (pictures) by Chrysz(m): 11:42pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
oluwajjayfabric: This life sef... Maids are wicked.. madams are wicked.. Everybody is just wicked.. How person wan do.. no u woman dy cause am. If maids are wicked, cus they don't ve issue with men |
Crime › Re: Woman Brutalizes 15-yr-old Maid, Slashes Her With Razor Blade (pictures) by Chrysz(m): 11:36pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
Lilimax: Evil people everywhere! aw can we identify dm. It seems u dm  |
Sports › Re: It's Official: I Quit Chelsea; I Have Lost My Faith In Mourinho by Chrysz(m): 11:45am On Oct 25, 2015 |
forgiveness: I don't think Morinho is the problem. For me, Hazard is the problem. He has lost confidence.  forgiveness: I don't think Morinho is the problem. For me, Hazard is the problem. He has lost confidence. The entire team has lost the trust in him. and besides morinho is jvst a season coach. |
Sports › Re: It's Official: I Quit Chelsea; I Have Lost My Faith In Mourinho by Chrysz(m): 11:36am On Oct 25, 2015 |
faithfancy: Join the gunners Any diff btw d 2 club? both ar struggling. |
Fashion › Re: Guys What's the name of this Hairstyle? by Chrysz(m): 8:47am On Oct 25, 2015 |
sinaj: E b lyk plantain leafs that sovnds like ur favourite. |
Fashion › Re: Beauty Mistakes That Make You Age by Chrysz(m): 8:32am On Oct 25, 2015 |
kennygee: I said "No" to Brown face powder a long time ago, but there is a temptation to always use it.
But i'm still winning the fight.  Who are u deceiving? |
Health › Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do Immediately After A Meal by Chrysz(m): 9:32pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
[quote author=Aminat508 post=39311727]I wish ma p.man cud see dis nd learn. |
Education › Re: Some Shameful Romantic Moves We Made In Nigerian Mixed Secondary Schools!!! by Chrysz(m): 9:00pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Back then girls do fear me cus i neva gv a room 4 talking much. Bt ds days hmmm |
Crime › Re: Confusion In Swahli Market As Man Was Alleged To Have Defiled A 12year Old Girl by Chrysz(m): 8:33pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
[quote author=Freemanan post=39324012]This occured on my return home from work. The military men refused me and my friend from snapping!
Something should really be Done immediately to reduce this Child molestation and abuse.
al dis old men sef. |
Crime › Re: Devil Made Me Insert My Fingers In 8-year-old Girl's Private Part - Pastor, 67 by Chrysz(m): 12:20pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
 They ll not no devil when they are in act bt when they got caught....... Devil is the first suspect..... |
Crime › Re: Passenger Caught Stealing From Another Passenger's Bag From Lagos To Warri (Pics by Chrysz(m): 12:14pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Shameless goat |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Showers Fans With Cash In Ibadan( Video & Photos) by Chrysz(m): 1:06am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Kid indeed  Kid indeed |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (0 - 0) On 24th August 2015 by Chrysz(m): 12:49am On Aug 25, 2015 |
pbs4real: i dnt knw wat to say to wenger,why would u kip ur fastest players on the bench chambers and bellerin mess'd up 2day,GOD bless coquelin he really tried,old age is affecting wenger. . .wat i wanted was 3points and wenger gave liverpool hope. . I hope you haven't drunk. U should even be thankful for taking a point. If not for cotinho's shots dat went begging, omo dat guy wanted to kill u |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (0 - 0) On 24th August 2015 by Chrysz(m): 12:36am On Aug 25, 2015 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (0 - 0) On 24th August 2015 by Chrysz(m): 11:12pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Mprepz: Guy or woman
Shea dats hw yu see a star player in ur village! se na d back of TV u watch nii abi u dey use glasses |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (0 - 0) On 24th August 2015 by Chrysz(m): 11:09pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Eluwilussit: Ox will do it against any defender in the world! Even Clyne had it rough. Giroud killed Arsenal today. Chambers, emmmmm, thank God Liverpool didn't capitalize on his fucck ups.  na God save ya head today |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (0 - 0) On 24th August 2015 by Chrysz(m): 11:07pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
[quote author=mukina2 post=37295840]wetin d guy do u ogbeni |
Family › Re: Husband Beats And Threatened To Pour Hot Water On Wife When Denied Sex by Chrysz(m): 5:45am On Aug 21, 2015 |
[quote author=shaiba post=37158560]. Such a man is nothing but an animal  no matter what you dnt ve 2 lay ur hand on any woman as the case may be. |
Romance › Re: Sex Will Make Your Relationship Stronger Only At The Appropriate Time by Chrysz(m): 5:34am On Aug 21, 2015 |
 bamac: It is a long one, please bare with me..
Through conceptual clarification i could deduce that "relationship is the way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc., talk to, behave toward, and deal with each other. It is also a romantic or sexual friendship between two people: the way in which two or more people or things are connected".
Sex on the other hand is the "physical activities in which people touch each other's bodies, kiss each other, etc. :physical activities that is related to and often and often includes sexual intercourse".
Many youths of today have likened relationship to be sex which shouldn't be so.
Relationship and sex might work hand-in-hand but it shouldn't be incorporated at the wrong time.
The opportunity for courtship is being abused on a daily basis just because we try to make relationship work through sex.
So many young girls have involved themselves in premarital sex which has led to unwanted pregnancy which some will abort while some will be forced to give birth at a tender age.
Everything in life is by stage. Yes, it is not possible you wake up one day and conclude that you want to get married without having someone you are dating that you have known for some months.
But the fact is that relationship and sex are two different things that should only be linked at the appropriate time.
So many men made their lady believe that if the lady did not have sex with them then she doesn't love them.
See, if you want to love, nobody will stop you from loving anybody, but don't pretend to love when your ultimate goal is to get under her.
Don't make her believe that sex makes relationship stronger.
Premarital sex doesn't make any relationship stronger, it kills the relationship especially when the intention is not for marriage.
Even at a stage, couples that didn't involve in premarital sex get tired of having sex with each other, then if that is the case, are you not making it a bit faster to lose thirst for sex?
I think ladies of this generation should have become wiser enough to decide about their life earlier than 18years.
Some men will only have sex with a lady ones and that's all. You should be able to keep your precious self away from the beast in men.
Many men out their are no more interested in staying with a woman for so long, they will tell you they don't like eating a particular food twice but love to eat different kinds of food.
They will come to you and give you all the sweet words and you will gladly accept them and even release your body to them like sheep without Shepherd.
You are the only one that can destroy yourself. You only go into wrong hands if you did not say yes to the right person.
During courtship you are free to decide if you can cope with each other or not, and you can choose to continue or discontinue your relationship.
But now a days, ladies find it difficult to leave the beast they are into relationship with simply because they have engaged in sex which has made her emotionally attached with the man.
That way, it will not be easy for her to say no when she should have said it.
Some men change immediately they have sex with their lady. The sex will automatically be an eye opener for them, they will want to explore more, thereby exposing them to any other things in skirt.
I am not saying it is not good to introduce sex in your relationship, but it is necessary to introduce it at the appropriate time to avoid the series of disadvantages associated with it.
It makes relationship stronger but this is for the couple and perhaps serious minded couple-to-be. Biblically it is not for those who are not married, in fact, it is a sin.
Some men are only interested in getting under a lady, but how will you decipher the true man from the fake? You can be safe if you keep your precious part till the right time.
Those that are even married can get divorced anytime let alone those that are not.
Though, some ladies are the cause of their own fall. They cannot do without sex, and so many reasons got them so attracted to that which we might not blame them for some, while some are due to covetousness and love of money.
Sex in courtship can mar your marital life more than it can make it. Be wise and never give yourself room to regret your impatient.
Please your comments, criticism, likes and share will only encourage me, i will be so glad to see them coming...
http://bamisepeters.com/2015/08/sex-will-make-your-relationship.html |