Timih:
I'm very disturbed now

This might be long

I don't know if he's the one assaulting her or she's the one doing so.. I don't even know what is going on

I got back from work, went to the bathroom and when I came out, I saw my son entering a room. He was calling her name and entered. I've been suspecting something like this so I used the opportunity to peep. I saw my son sitting close to her, putting his hand across her neck, this time she was giving a faint smile while putting her palms on her face. Later the boy went to her back and started squeezing her breast from behind. Mehn.. I'm sad, shocked, bad.. Everything. I called him and I pretended not to see anything, why? I know if I react, I'll severely deal with him and that won't change anything because he's been poisoned already. I feel like I've failed as a father already.

He's 7 turning to 8,the girl is 14. I seriously don't know what to do about my son, in fact I can't eat to think well. I'll be sending away the girl though but I'm sure that won't stop my son from doing things. Especially in his school. I'm afraid of anything that may happen.

First time I noticed a strange relationship between them, i called him, talked to him about not showing his pen.is to anyone, to keep himself covered and all sort, asked him questions about anyone touching him in any manner and he said no. I asked him about his friends in school.. He named 8 of dem and 2 of them are girls.

I've failed as a father. My wife is not yet back but when I tell her, she will beat the boy and that won't change anything. I don't know where I went wrong. The maid bathes the boy, dresses for him too. Maybe that's where the issue lies. My wife just gave birth and that's why we employed a maid to help her and take care of the house till the baby is old enough.

I don't know where he got it from, I've stopped my wife from watching movies on dstv anytime he's with her.. She only watches redeemed channel and maybe news then when he's asleep, she face her movies. She asked why and i said there was a day I came back from work, and the way he greeted me was very strange... Normally, I relate with him as if we are age mates.. I can say my guy, how u dey na and he replies with daddy, I just gentle... Just normal guyman things but this one is totally different and no one needs to tell me he got it from the movies.. No one.

Maybe I have to take charge of bathing him

He's a very smart boy.. Very very smart and that's my fear.. And for him to be exposed to this has duely affected me.

Please help me.. Abuse me, curse me.. I don't have a choice.. Just help me

Pardon my English pls.. Just help

yes you can take charge of bathing him and dressing him up. U see that is why I said parents have failed leaving their wards in the care of strangers in pursuit of material things has caused more damage to the younger generation than good. God help us all.

Keep hope alive. Don't give up.

Where are the protesters ooo please we need protest on this now. The man that did this should die by burning in stake.

[quote author=Mandeyy post=80212274][/quote] sure. Tradition is recognized in law. In my town is same thing if you don't marry a woman and she gives you children those children are not yours. Don't try it

spongeisback:
Traditionally the boy doesn't belong to you according to the family. Even if you go to court they would never ever ever grant you custody of that child except you can prove he's not being well taken care of by his mother.

My advice, open an account in his name, instead of giving cash to his mother pay the money into that account and send it to her through the account, document everything you spend on him and make sure you contribute to his upbringing as much as you can. Be there for every milestone in his life because if you take the "one day he will look for me approach" it may come back to hunt you.


Sorry.




For the IDIOTS quoting me to insult themselves.

my dear you are right. If you did not marry a woman before she gave birth for you the child ain't yours it's in my tradition too.

Cheap talks. Bleep you all shading Nigerian women. My mama is the best and I follow her foot steps.

dejio42:

The guy is in owerri,he saw her picture and fell in love. He want them to be like romeo & juliet.


It seems this guy has seen her face 2 face in owerri (from the way he discribe her)

Am I correct?

you failed.

Remain where you are for now and save wella. Don't be in a rush to move out and live on your own you will spend more than you do now and you may not be able to save much again as you were saving before. And again Bro think of investing don't depend on monthly salary or wage it's a disaster.

I tot as much

EWU!

See the name sef, na them them. The raper is them, the rapee is them, the cartoonist is them. Thank God they are the ones destroying themselves and the wailers from the East are just crazy. This is how the former war started. Igbos learn ooo. Allow them to their drama.

Dboy55:
Good morning my fellow nairalanders,please I'm a 20yr a old virgin who started having sex yesterday with a girl yesterday.but the girl is not a virgin though. She also told me since this year yesterday was the first time she will be having sex .
When we did it yesterday,I discovered I don't usually realise easily,like we had sex for a few mins like 10mins ...and she had to finish it off with handjob,I wasn't still able to ejaculate .
Guys I'm scared,I think I'm sick or something and the girl I'm having sex with also likes complaining,like she's tired .She can't ride me ... etc
Please experts in the house,what is wrong with me ?

please kid go and read your books

[quote author=Dboy55 post=80080332]Good morning my fellow nairalanders,please I'm a 20yr a old virgin who started having sex yesterday with a girl yesterday.but the girl is not a virgin though. She also told me since this year yesterday was the first time she will be having sex .
When we did it yesterday,I discovered I don't usually realise easily,like we had sex for a few mins like 10mins ...and she had to finish it off with handjob,I wasn't still able to ejaculate .
Guys I'm scared,I think I'm sick or something and the girl I'm having sex with also likes complaining,like she's tired .She can't ride me ... etc
Please experts in the house,what is wrong with me ?[/qu kid please go and read your books.

paroh137:
As dominique hasn't replied my pm since last year nko? As my opa mose was specially designed to pleasure and be pleasured by her what do I now do? Oh I live for the day when I finally feast on that sweet honey pot overflowing with sweet nectar.

Dominique honey I know you might have reservations as to your looks, or mine for that matter. But I assure you that you have nothing to fear, and I'll make it worth your while. Let's just do this thing just once and get it out of our systems. What are you scared of baby?
C

trouble maker

willyo:


Thanks for the gestures

you are very welcome my dear

willyo:


Not enough evidence to conclude she's a kidnapper

u are dumb please

This funny dude have big mouth. Mtshwww

Does love surpose to punish one or make one happy and elevated. Because as far as I'm concerned 1cor 13 told me that love is pure in summary. Op love can never be one sided if it's love. Think twice and get the hell of out of ur hallucinations. Go make ur life better and in the process u will find true love.

tochez24:
Bro I'm not here to condemn or judge you but truth be told, you have really used this young naive girl please stop looking for a reason to dump her, see ehh life don't always go as planned,even if you will come after 5yrs you can still marry and keep her till you're back.... You can Polish her to your taste, this girl you see today as mgbeke can be the woman of your dreams tomorrow with the right treatment, we all started from somewhere and she is no an exception. She is already having your kids i think you should consider that too, or moreover you can even make papers for her and kis to come over there to stay with you, ONE THING IS CERTAIN SHE WILL NEVER REMAIN NAIVE ALL HER LIFE. She just needs your love touches to spark the woman in her!!!! Brother think twice about this....

she will never change. My guy is from onitsha and he is mummy's boy. At 33 going to 34 he still lives with his parents. Each time we are discussing he says mummy and daddy says this or that. I was tired of all that so I walked away biko. Onitsha people can't change for u it's in their blood. I dated him for 5years waiting for him to start his life but no way. Always mummy said. Biko I waka

Please please don't marry out of pity biko. Onitsha women hmmmm. U are seeing the red signs meaning danger and u want to put ur head. Please I advise u to just take care of those children and marry someone u love. Marriage is not do or die affair mbok. Don't say I didn't tell you. I have a friend from onitsha a guy precisely who sweared that he will NEVER marry from onitsha his town why; because all his uncles and cousin brothers that married onitsha women are not with wives anymore. The women ran back home. As for that girl she tells her mama about u guys sex life. Their mothers controls them. They are messed up people. Their women hardly stays in a man's house so op think B4 u regret ur life

Those jobless youths over there. They are the criminals themselves parading as vigilante.

You northern youths are liars. It can't happen anywhere unless Nigerians are dead all.

Nasa28:


Hahahahaha.... Pls, tell them we're really sorry ooo

I shall

Nasa28:
That's good...

Ruga is not what we need now. Trump is chasing illegal immigrants out of USA, but Buhari is giving free lands to the same people he once said are from MALI.

Please, who did we offend in thlis country?

ur ancestors. Hahahaha

Pastors are jealous of themselves. I don't trust you either. You are happy his into this mess because his grace is greater than yours. Christiandom is where we find the highest conspiracy and backstabbing. Betrayers, greed and jealousy. Thank you Pat Sam

Pastors are jealous of themselves. I don't trust you either. You are happy his into this mess because his grace is greater than yours. Christiandom is where we find the highest conspiracy and backstabbing. Betrayers, greedy and jealousy. Thank you Pat Sam

Don't quit your job. You are bold and fearless. You just fought for what is right for you I see no betrayal about that. Get closer to God in prayers he will see you through.

You people did not burn okorocha that delt with your miserable selves. Senseless imolites

Let me hear word. Is this the first rape ever . How many victims have you all fought for in your neighborhood or just an eye service. Get lost all you Nigerian celebrities. Fight a just better cause that will benefit Nigerians light protest for good governance, steady electricity, good roads, security and so on. You guys are stupid and mad.

Yes you are right. What you said is truth. I don't believe the rape. It's just character deformation and assaination. And fight against God and his Church.

Devil at work to fight God and his Church. Though I don't really know the truth. Time shall tell.

As far as I'm concerned I smell lies. He is handsome and many of this women has thrown theirselves to him but he rejected them all and married whom he loved. Now an opportunity to destroy him has come they want to fight him because he didn't married them. I know women.