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cococandy:
nope it is not in my nature to pick petty quarrels. I run from trouble and confrontations. I never talk na quarrel I wan come quarrel? So color me confused if I don't understand that line of it being women's nature.
Now you're sounding like I said marital dissatisfaction is the only reason why a woman may be troublesome. Hmm. I didn't say that. Some women are troublesome by their own genetic make up.

Are there men who endure marital frustrations? How come these men dont go frustrating their son in law like the so called frustrated women do to their daughter in Law

crackhaus:
Bullsh1t!
What if she has more than one son, she'd be attached to all of them the same way, yes?

My take is that MIL-DIL relationships are dependent more on the chemistry between both than on just the MIL - she may not just like her son's new wife.

I think its female nature. The MIL people are complaining about today also complained about their own MIL 30yrs ago, 30yrs from now another set of wifes would be complaining about these MIL
MIL vs wife saga is a common occurrence all over the world even in cultures the men dont "cheat like the devil Nigerian men"

cococandy:
why would I feel that need? People who feel such need are usually people who are frustrated themselves. So question is why will I be living in bitterness up to the point of frustration with no hope for change or repentance from such a man and do nothing about it because erm he's a man and there's nothing I can do about it or one of those other lame hare brained excuses some females come up with to excuse bad behavior just to feel like they are not the only ones in misery.

No sir,if I do have a son sometime in this life,in my middle age or old age I will be very occupied picking the grey hairs from my darling husband's hair than going around fomenting trouble for my daughter in law because I can't stand the loving my son is giving her.
Ain't nobady gat time for that shiit

Dont you think its female nature to pick petty quarrels?

The men who found no fulfillment in their matrimonial homes, How come they are not disturbing their daughters husband?

Have we not seen how girls pick petty fights even in school hostels over ordinary bunk space while in the boys hostel you would barely know who owns the space? Or are those transferring aggression from their matrimonial homes too?

Even on this forum how many times have we seen female posters just stay on each others throat for years or those ones are transferring marital frustrations too

Mondisweets:
its means doing so with integrity .i.e. Asking a guy out without sounding desparate

Too much of dribbling around the issue

Would you tell your daughter to "Pop the question" buy ring, get on her knees and ask "Would you marry me". SIMPLE

Mondisweets:
their physique and fighting technique will determine who may win. A fight can be stopped by one nasty kick in the groin

I would like to see you put these to test. Take 10 female and 10 male of same age and put them to a fistfight without weapons

it has never been treated as less offensive so long it was not act of defence it is an offence (whether the attack was by a woman or by a man)

Why is it a mantra to "Never hit a woman" but we hardly hear "Never hit a man" rather its always "He deserves it"

fragile vessel being something delicate like a glass. You can throw a stainless steel cup on the floor a million times and it wont break, but if u throw a glass on the floor once, it can break or completely shutter. That's how i understood that verse. Thats why it says, "giving honour"...care and protect them.

-Holding an office (is not determined by nature, its be one's capacity and qualifications.)
- personal hygiene.

Has anyone stopped a woman from holding any office, in Nigeria? I know a woman who contested for Governor and even Presidency.

Personal Hygiene, Its called PERSONAL, You have a right to do whatever you want to yourself

Mondisweets:
i can definitely give her insight on how to show interest in a guy and how not to go overboard with it. i would also encourage her on taking him out on dates too and giving him gifts just to show him appreciation here and there

Why cant she go all the way like a boy would do? Are you insinuating there are some things a boy can do but a girl is not "supposed" to do?

The same way you tell your sons to woo, tell your daughters to woo guys also

You should sit on your friends lap

Mondisweets:
if women were any fragile i doubt majority who have given birth would have survived it. The pain endured is as intense as have 5 different bones being broken at the same time.

and the reason why we have many senseless wars all around the world too

we are talking about equality in things that are not restricted by nature.

If you put a man and a woman of equal age and diet together in a fistfight, who do you think would prevail?

WHy do you think a woman hitting a man is viewed as a lesser offence than the other way round?

Yo're probably a christian, The bible quoted below

"
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them wisely, giving honour unto the woman, as unto a more fragile vessel and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers not be hindered."

When nature has made you different, then theres a limit to how you can be equal. Nature made Lions different from Elephants and they cant be equal

BABE3:
She said in one interview like that; " I think I'm a femisnist, sort of".

Why you dey yarn like this?

If you are into showbiz and theres a magic word that astronomically increase your bank account why wont you use it?

Even Fela would say he's a feminist under the right circumstance

Ignore it. DOnt ask her about anything

I agree with BAB3 100%

Beyonce is a feminist of convenience. The term sells and the best way to sell is to tag along

She is the wife of a man who sang

"You know I - thug em, Bleep em, love em, leave em
Cause I don't fuckin need em
Take em out the hood, keep em lookin good
But I don't fuckin feed em"

Many chicks wanna put Jigga fist in cuffs
Divorce him and split his bucks
Just because you got good head, I'ma break bread
so you can be livin it up? Shit I..
parts with nothin, y'all be frontin
Me give my heart to a woman?
Not for nothin, never happen
I'll be forever mackin
Heart cold as assassins, I got no passion
I got no patience
And I hate waitin..
Hoe get yo' ass in
And let's RI-I-I-I-I-IDE.. check em out now
RI-I-I-I-I-IDE, yeah"

How can you call yourself a feminist yet hope to have a child from semenn thats from a man you hate so much?

Or at worst have a son, love him nurture him and yet hate the fact that he has a Y chromosome

Mondisweets:
I would teach my son how to cook and clean the house, the same way i would teach my female daughter how to change a flat tyre and use a lawn mower.

Thats what i believe is gender equality i should never make my male child feel he is too sexxy to cook or wash a plate! If he moves out of my house and has to leave on his own without a maid, who in the hell will do these things for him?
I will never give my female child the impression that she is too fragile to remove and replace a car tyre or cut grass. if she ever gets stranded in the middle of nowhere because she doesn't know how to change an ordinary tyre, who will help her?

Gender equality also means you teach your female and male child how to be independent too, so i don't see why some of you still make all of this noise about special privileges?

You might have to take your crusade up with nature who created both sexes different.

Its nature who made men naturally stronger than women due to having a higher muscle mass.

A baby boy from 7 month graviatates towards Trucks, balls and high risk play while a baby girl wants to play with dolls, tend them love them and is generally calmed

Its nature who made women more fragile, tender and caring.

Its nature who made men have more testosterone required for military, Taking risks and daring acts

No amount of role equality can make a man conceive a child naturally nor a woman impregnate another woman. Genes and nature control that

Shey dem wan chop am ni? Nothing is actually beyond these people

For me I think Ibime wins

Obanikoro the same man who killed Funsho Williams.

The man who was imposed by Abuja after Funsho WIlliams widow defeated him in party primaries.

The man with no profession or who can tell us what was Koro's profession outside politics?

Fashola is a Lawyer, Tinubu an Accountant, OBJ a soldier whats Koros job? Thuggery

Only an irresponsible govt would make Koro their minister and governorship candidate

^^ Its on record that black women are the ones with the highest rate on broken down families or non existing family structure.

The aggression of a black woman both at the family front and at the work place has made them tagged "Angry black women"

Hardly do you hear an Asian woman yelling about feminism but its blacks who take it on their head and feminism is anti-traditional family.

Most feminist dont even believe they should be under any man's roof like this CEO, playing wife and daughter-in-law

BTW those who operate in the traditional family setup of man and wife still have a significantly higher chance of success

Thats why all these black women who just pick up feminism by the roadside and carry it on their head just make me laugh

All other successful races have their women playing their roles as mothers wifes and still progressing in their career

But a black woman by the time she gets a small 9-5 job at McDonalds, No one would hear any word again, Its Im a strong black woman, my husband should be washing the ground i step on

A woman a whole CEO of Pepsico still plays her wifely and motherly duties without complaining but if na all these black women na all the world for don hear. Na to first chase the husband comot because he is probably not making as much as her then harass everyone even her drivers, juniors and cook on how much she makes and how she is strong and independent like say na only dem

Thats why its better for both to work and finance the house equally while also doing the chores equally. That would ensure that there is no cheating

He should have shouted

"Catch am catch am thief thief thief"

funshint: But wait; is FFK from Osun or Ekiti state?? Cramjones U̶̲̥̅̊ dey alright sha?

Is FFK not from Ife?

Maybe Wike should call on the person he called his Jesus christ Shepopotamus

biafran soul: This Cramjones character depicts the real characteristics of a Yoruba man; neither here nor there. Hypocrite!!

And who depicts the real characteristics of an Ibo man? Clifford orji or Osisikankwu?

Mimisboygreat: A man is a genius if he thinks with his mind and not his pen*is. Op stop thinking with ya pen*is abeg. Why not say it was GEJ that master minded nyaya bomb blast?

Was GEJ not the one who masterminded October 1 2010 bombing? So why wont he continue in his ways of bombing and pinning the blame on opponents

Does anyone still take this cocaine addict Fani Kayode serious

There is no reason to vote the clueless one into power except for the usual I had no shoes sentiments

A man who achieved nothing for over 15yrs in govt and thought everything in life is achieved solely on LUCK

As deputy governor, he sat there like a dummy while the state was looted by his godfather

As governor he was more interested in how much alcohol he can consume in a day

As Vice President he became a licensed hypnotized houseboy wearing apron for Turai until well meaning Nigerians came to liberate him

As President he has broken all records as the most clueless ruler this country has ever witnessed which every Nigerian and foreigner recognize

And can the OP use her investigative skills to tell us how the Otueke drinkard and Shepopotamus became wealthy without any clear means of livelihood

Senseless post by the OP as usual

No evidence to back it up. Tinubu was already a millionaire before he became governor of lagos state

The same shadows the PDP led govt have been chasing since, they took him to court and he was acquitted

I made a similar post to what the OP wrote but it was wiped out in the data loss

Boko Haram is sponsored by PDP and Jonathan

The evidence is clear from October 1 2010 bombing when Eagle square was bombed MEND claimed responsibility, Jonathan quickly absolved MEND, The govt blamed the opponent of Jonathan at that time IBB and Dokpesi they showed us text messages "Na we do am", "Lets meet at IBB office"

Soon IBB dropped out of contention and all charges were dropped that simply shows that it was a govt arrangement to get rid of opponent. The same thing thats happening with the current Boko Haram

laudate: Er, you forgot that part of the reasons the Ekiti voted against Fayemi was because of Tinubu's overbearing attitude in the APC which the Ekiti people disliked. They felt Tinubu would be calling the shots indirectly in Ekiti through Fayemi, if he was re-elected.

Apart from that, I tend to belive most of what you wrote in your post. Populist figures tend to command a greater following among the electorate, than the technocrats.

Ekiti people didnt vote against Fayemi because of Tinubu, they voted for someone who was more connected to them in the grassroot.
Fayemi was seen as an elite who cant relate to them, while Fayose was seen as a man of the grassroot

If Tinubu had died 2yrs ago Fayose would still have beated Fayemi with the way politics is played in Nigeria

Now that the US officials have told us the truth maybe we can now say they are sponsored by APC.

When people would leave the truth and be chasing after lies is what i dont understand

In the depth of their mind everyone knows this Boko Haram is a Jonathan and PDP arrangement. Azazi said it, cost him his job and life