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agoadiv:
wonderful nairalands,i just wanna go straight to the point...

av been dating dis gurl for sometimes now.before she accepted me,she told me to promise her dat if we get to date dat sex is outta de booki didn't promise but i rada promised her that i won't try sex until she agrees to it...and am de kind of guy that u can hold me by my word..



now i nid sex from her and i nid it like seriously and de vexation am passing through is dat when we have a heated conversation abt sex,at last wen am getting angry she just say 'NO SEX N REMEMBER, U WON'T FORCE ME TO DO IT' ....in my house ooo...







pls how do i convince her?do i force her?cos she comes to ma house regularly or do i just..............go with ur ideas??

Lol, shame on you. Don't you have something else to do? Others are working hard and you're here thinking about going to bed with a woman.

Lol, i will certainly cut off your dicck. Well, to answer your question, she feels it's not yet time to sleep with you. She wants a possible relationship to marriage and so, wouldn't want to jeopardize it.

Treat her good and talk about marriage and future kids with her being mom. While you're dad

Introduce her to your family, if you have a sister, it's an added advantage. Let her get together with your family and she'll give it to you naturally. Please you can only do all these if you're thinking of tying the knot with this chick later. But if you don't want to, do not go far with her. Just let her go if you can't control your sexual urge.

Hope my advice helps.

biikeys:
It's basically tougher for international students to get into Harvard not just because of citizenship, but because a US citizen or someone who studied in the US typically has a better profile; based on research experience, letters of recommendation, connections to alumni etc. Those all play a huge role in admitting and funding prospective students, apart from just test scores.

That's not the criteria. My relative did not have his first degree in the US before heading to MIT and Harvard.

Don't be discouraged and always focus on your dreams. If my relative had listened to his own brother, perhaps, he wouldn't have made it to both schools. Today, people respect him a lot. @bigyansh, I am only worried about the test scores. Achieving that GRE test would be really hard for you and you probably do not have leadership skills and qualities. How many international articles have you written in the last 5 years? Where were these articles published?

Guys on Nairaland are full of crap.

Losers thread. Those who support the OP are all losers. A golddigger will always justify her general notion for milking guys. May God have mercy on these girls. End time girls claiming that they are good, meanwhile in actual sense, they're other way round.

Walspring:
2.5555556 or 2.56

Thanks. I appreciate.

Hi everybody,

Please what's likely gonna be point of this WAEC Result below; Will it up to 3.40?

CRK B3, ECONOMICS C5, GOVERNMENT B2, ENGLISH LITERATURE C4, ENGLISH C5, YORUBA B3, MATHS C4, AGRIC SCIENCE C5 AND BIOLOGY C5

zeezahbee:
hehehehe, this man has duped you oo, so you send thousands of dollars to his family. You need to report him to the necessary authorities before he dupes another woman. Don't be proud you were sending money to his family because they don't give a freaking Bleep about you. .

Count your losses and move on babe or else that man is coming back to dupe you of your house ,car and whatever money you got.
You are lucky he left early.
I live in Texas and I might probably have seen him around

Sorry girl

Haha, she seems so proud of this con man. This happens when a woman is so desperate and cannot do a background check before jumping about like a toddler. It's quite unfortunate.

I guess she's downhearted now but just have to move on, keep her fingers crossed and hope for the best next time.

zeezahbee:
hehehehe, this man has duped you oo, so you send thousands of dollars to his family. You need to report him to the necessary authorities before he dupes another woman. Don't be proud you were sending money to his family because they don't give a freaking Bleep about you. .

Count your losses and move on babe or else that man is coming back to dupe you of your house ,car and whatever money you got.
You are lucky he left early.
I live in Texas and I might probably have seen him around

Sorry girl

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ggratia1:
I'm from the United States of course. I live in the US and so does my husband. No need to be rude.

Hello, this man milked you probably because of your behavior. Remember, it takes two to tango.

You sound a little bit Jamaican. Which country are you originally from?

aristocrazzy:
This is not all. My rich friend can neva be friend zoned because of his Money and cars. That's another tip.

You're completely a wussy

OP; your piece is nothing to write home about and would encourage guys to cheat more than ever before.

Please do not scream when your boyfriend cheat on you because it is sign of loving you

EroticAngelina:
I believe you brother!

Yeah ok!

eminentme:
skip all dis jor....in summary, make enuf money to escape being friend zoned!

Money is not everything nigga.

Copied from a source.

1. Self-Respect
The belief that you are worthy of great things. Those with little to no self-respect for
themselves typically end up in the Friend Zone for nearly all of their lives. This is because they are unable to believe that they are worthy of great things.

Until they are able to believe that they deserve great things they will not be able to ask for anything.

2. Confidence

Don't be shy be honest. The belief you will get what you want. Once you can understand and BELIEVE that you are worthy of great things the next step is to believe that you can get what you want. That means if you see a woman you want to be with you, there needs to be a belief that you will get her. Again, if you don't believe it, how is she going to believe it?

3. Ability To Be Direct

This is the physical part of the process. Once you believe that you are awesome and that others will think you are awesome as well, you have to figure out how to approach them to ask for what you want.

What you want is not the Friend Zone but intimacy, love, sex, relationship, dating. So ask for it, believe you're worthy of getting it and be okay if you don't.

No more beating around the bush and waiting for the perfect moment. That is putting your wants in someone else's control. Take control, be direct and ask for what you want.

For example, instead of asking "What are you up to this weekend?" say "I want to take you out this weekend." Direct. Yes or No. Then you know and you can choose how you want to move forward.

Once you work on these three things that I've listed above and you're able to own these attributes and put them to practice, I guarantee you will never find yourself remotely close to the friend zone ever again!

ebdib:
I realize most people on this website think Gre and toefl are the only things that matter in graduate admissions. Especially to top or ivy league schools.

How wrong!!!

Granted you must score within 95+ percentile in both sections of the GRE.
But guess what? So will other candidates. If you're looking to use test scores as your edge when applying to Harvard or princeton then you're sorely mistaken. There will always be others who will score perfect in all three areas.

Your Gpa matters. If you're not first class, I don't think you should apply to Harvard or Princeton first of all. I mean you could try but you'd certainly have an uphill task and that means your gre and toefl must be perfect.

Research experience. How much TANGIBLE research work has he done in his field?
What about first paper publications and conference presentations?
Any internships?
Any honours?
Are the recommender professors who are grounded in the given field?

After all these then you have a grueling Skype interview with the admissions committee.

Then there's funding. Harvard, princeton, Yale are bleeping expensive. If you're not funded, it's almost 10M per year. That's not beans. To be funded by ivy league schools is even harder than the admission.

I'm not discouraging anyone from applying to ivy league schools. I attend one but I know what i went through. Please you have to know what you are and what you can offer.
Don't waste your application fee on harvard ($100-150) when you know you can't even crack 166-170 on the GRE verbal and quantitative or can't get 110+ in toefl or you don't have a close to perfect GPA.

Managing expectations is a wise thing

Cc @bignyash

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Mhizkel:
xactly!hex too small

Damn hahaha! i bet you're one of those girls who throws her panties on d stage at concerts. lol

Mhizkel:
Yes o it wud stil mean notin ooo

Lol, so you mean he's not man enough to handle you?

Mhizkel:
Dah was jus 3rounds na..n 2me, 3rounds is notin

lol, you're one naughty girl, aren't you?

emusmith:
Why na?

Why asking? Lol, married women are full of temptation. They'll get you seduced and then sleep with you. Had to tell one that I have a fiance in the camp, so she could leave me alone but later discovered i tricked her

OP, lol. NYSC Camp is really crazy, didn't sleep with my two eyes closed and later got sick.

One interesting scenario was when i decided not to go to the pitch and my roommates were reluctant too but they were all punished.

Mammy market was my favorite place. Mornings, afternoons and nights. The food there is good. Really had lots of fun.

And finally my "presido", he was good to me and had to introduce him to my sister's friend who I ought to date. The spirit of friendship is very important to me.

bignyash:
They aren't looking for perfect. They are looking for leaders and those who stand out

That's right. Get a great score in TOEFL and GRE first. I may likely introduce you to someone who studied at Harvard, if only I'll be part of your clique when you procure Admission.

Temptee101:
This man did the traditional marriage of my sister on the 3rd of January 2015. I went to club last night which was Friday with some friends. On arrival, one of them ran to me narrating how he saw my in-law in the club.

On getting to the corner where my friend told me he saw him; i saw my sister's husband with another lady. In fact they were kissing.

On sighting me after few minutes, he became uncomfortable and stopped dancing with her.

It wasn't up to 5minutes he left with the lady. On their way out i rushed to him and greeted him to make sure he actually saw me.

My sister is already pregnant for him. What should i do to save my sister's marriage?

Should i let my family know because he fears them so much?

This is really crazy. Please withhold the information first for now and use it to keep the man on his toes.

MrHardOn:
Classical music...Now you talking. most of the ladies that give me with ease...Don't even know my home. I think its more of Yans...Swag..Talk Big.

Hehe, I am a very sincere person but hey, why being a playboy? Please always use condom, if possible two-in-one so as to protect yourself properly and stop scoring

MrHardOn:
Classicalmusic...Its not about money and home. Its about your diick and performance. what you can offer in bed. If its by what you stated....most guys with good home or money won't be looking for babes. They had just sit at home and when they do finally get one...they should not perform well...ok.

Look, women love most what they see before bedroom activities. And that is why if she comes to your home with her friends and they like it, believe me, her love for you would be 100% because a house tells more about someone.

Also is the fact that some quality women will try to know where you live, what you do so as to determine if you're the right man for her.

A good sex, however, becomes an added advantage.

MrHardOn:
Farano....makes it easy because she likes sex. Great. But is that to mean you have never made it difficult for any guy?

Man, please stop sounding weak. If you have the money, good home and of course speak pretty good English, quality women will always want you.

theorbiters:
Damn!! U must be expensive

Probably not. She's using hypnosis on you guys.

I know her tactics pretty well and can throw her off-balance.

She's just like my ex girl-friend.

rubey:
The only reason why I am gonna make it easy for anyone to get into my pant in when he has paid my bride price

OK OK good. In other words, i'm picturing in my mind that you're doing everything you can to attract a man on a raw, sexual level to propose to you, huh?

You guys should please stop hyping these girls because some of them are losers and do pretend a lot.

Only few are good.

sexyseun:
I decided last week to end my weird and crazy relationship with my BF. The truth is i see no future with him. Though he's nice, caring and all that but his sexual perversion freaks me out.
Most times when i ask some silly questions on this forum its not because i just want to but because of what he ask me to do. He wanted a 3some with any friend of mine, i declined, he smoked skunk and almost killed me with "dat tin" i didn't say much. We went to watch a movie at the cinema at ikeja and he had the audacity to ask for a B.j right there at the cinema, i laughed at it at first but later i began thinking out loud that this guy only want seex and nothing more. Though we are good friends, we play together and all that, her sister is my close friend and also a Nairalander so she "might" get to read this. I am so sorry, i can't take it anymore. Am done with him for good.

Hehehe. But why didn't you realize this when you were banging him?

Stop acting silly!

prettymina:
Am a young girl dating a guy who is in nigeria he used to b all over me with calls nd text..but he claim to b busy..am now broke nd depressed..what should I do...

Sorry about that. And do not feel depressed!

What you should do is to view yourself as the price. If you don't think you're, then fake it until you know you're.

You also need an auxillary boyfriend. Someone who'll comfort you.

Hope I've solved your problem!

chukwumaebenmel:
What's STEM.. And ave wanted to ask. What course fetches money in d US. I hear business related courses are not too good.

Nice

Tymax:
Nicely put. Because I am pleased, I will listen to Handel's Zadok the Priest and Chopin's Nocturne today, in honor of the OP, ClassicalMusic.

ok thnks.