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I would like to know which marriage each of us would like to go for Church Marriage or Court Marriage and why would you like to go for your choice??

Please serious contributors only

I would say my questions are simple and straight forward:

I have a registered Limited Company but what happened was that an inferno (fire) happened and burnt the Certificate of Incorporation, form 2 & 7, CTC of memo and article of association, FIRS Receipt and all the document given after registration. The questions are:
            1. Is it possible to get a replacement of all these documents?
            2. What are the processes involved in getting them back?
            3. How long would it take to get them back and possibly the cost?
4. The company was registered a year ago , would I need tax clearance since all company registered in Nigeria have 5 year tax hoilday?

Thank you so much as i hope to see your post soon answering these questions

funkyfella:
Well dude, I've been in such a situation n it really is a tough decision to make. The truth is time will eventually make u regret the blindness of "love" and u'll wake up to reality at age 50, Lets be wise, notice these features at the beginning of the r/ship and be quick to end it once u start having doubts,

@ funkyfella ,
You are right , its really a tough decision but please what reality would i wake up to at age 50?? Please share more with me

v3nom4eva:
@ c me o, i won't lie to u, i'm in d same "hole" you're in, I have this girl i'm dating and i'm juz a year older than her, but cuz of my babyface, she holds d upper hand and EVEN my mom thinks she's older than me, I love her to death, so i share ur pain, But if you do love her, stick by her irrespective of whatever pple think/say abt the both of you,

Hope it works for you two, all the best

@v3nom4eva
Thanks for sharing your personal experience with me but would like to know what it eventually leads to? Are you married to her now? how did you cope with what people are saying to you, e.t.c. Please let me drink from your pool of experience.

v3nom4eva:
@ Izeek, LOL, after three kids, she'd prolly look like a 200 pound whale, with stetch marks, fallin jugs, eyebags,

EWWWWW, that is soooooooooooooo GROSSSSSSSSSS

she is not fat but slim and straight , the problem is just her look , she looks older than me

try www.oanda.com

@ nethacker

Please that your grammar is too big for me, I beg bring it dowm to my level , O se , lol
I want to understand every bit of what you meant. Thank you

IFELEKE:
@Poster,
Is that why you don't want her?
Her Looks and Maturity Edge threatens/frightens you

I want her and love her ,  she has been very caring to me but my friends keep complaining about her look (she is good looking though but she looks older than me while I am older than her as per age)

Czarskit:
~ 'Looks' more mature? As in Ugly? ~ I think not! ~

No ,  she is not ugly but good looking but her look seems older than her age while I have a younger look than her but my friends keeps complaining about her look. If we are going together ,  people usually think she is my elder sister and sometimes eyed her while we are together, There was even a time when a friend told me he will get someone that looks younger than her and someone that her look fits mine.

Guys in the house, Could you marry a girl that look older and matured than you, even when your friends and relatives are complaining so much about this Although you are older than her as per age concern

@ amebo-no1

Just accept whatever they call the guy involved to be, it could be CEO or not but. I think the poster knows what he is saying better and wants everyone advise based on what he puts up here.

I appreciate all your contributions , all made a meaningful contribution. However, suggestion is needed to be ascertain if it is true love or not How do I go about checking this and what could be the mission she might want to carry out and how do I go into checking of that Thank you

Thank you all for your contribution ,  Though some friends see her age to be 25 - 26. )
However, another thing happened yesterday, she told me she has prayed about our relationship and said no problem but some of my family will kick against it. She asked me to go and pray about our relationship too and I told her my mom will do that. She asked me to call and tell her on phone but I said she will be coming to me soon and I will discuss it with her and want my mom to see her first.

She asked what would happen if they say we are not compatible and I told her its better to listen than going against it,  (it was after this she told me she has prayed about it),  some minutes later ,  she told me to impregnated her but I told her I dont want a baby that I cant take care of for now and also told her we need to meet some target first before thinking of baby. She later told me to impregnated her and promise to abort later but I said I dont support abortion at all. Maybe I would say she wants us to get married on time,  Please I am confused and dont know why this is happening. Is this really a true love or she wants to force herself on me (remember she has never asked of anything from me, she never know I own my business and the car I ride) Is she really pretending or what

Nairalander, please contribute ,

Your Problem is not that you fall in love so easily but you give away sex so easily, even if you get yourself well you will see that you give away sex to those that you dont even feel anything for but sex.
Try and run from being alone with any guy, Seal your mind from having sex even to the one you love dearly. I have this same issue at hand bet I made the gal realised all these after having my own part in he stuff, lol

There is this girl I found in my school on April 2nd 2009, she is a mini - business lady. She sells stuffs and makes her profit and I happen to be a guy of 26 years but with a younger look, i have a business of my own, ride a car of my own and live a good rented flat apartment but shared it with some friends but I never made her to know that I own all these but she knows about the apartment I live. I told her I was working with the company for a token salary and my company owns the car and it could be taken from me at anytime but her response always is "NO PROBLEM, we will get our own". This lady told me she will be 22 yrs in coming months but her look seems matured/older than her age, almost everybody finds it difficult to believe her age, they assumed she lied to me about her age although I have not taken any serious step to ask her some proof of her age.
She has been very caring about me, deals with me with everything she has and promised to do more whenever I need any assistance from her. She does cooking and sometimes never ask me for a kobo, washing my clothes, tidying home though we are not living together. She talked of buying some stuff for me and home like a better tv set and a better frezzer for the kitchen but I stopped her. Honestly, all these and more made me to really fall in love with her becos I believe she is also in love thats why she is doing all these but my friends are wondering how this could be just in a short time. I was advised not to show her that I love her but I never followed that becos I believe Love should be receprocal (she shows me that she loves me too). I am even planning of marrying her by next year if she continues to be like this.

But recently, I was told by one of my friends that I might likely be under her spell for me to fall in love and show that I love her. Even though she never asked of anything from me, some called her a great pretender but I am really confused; does it mean a spell to love and care for someone that did same to you Please Advise me; how do I go about knowing if she is really pretending I asked about her past and I never see anything thats so much bad about her past though no one without a past. They said she will change from her present attitude towards me though she promised never to change and even told me thats her true behaviour , she told me she never done all thats she is doing to me for any man before becos she never found someone she loved like me, I am confused I really love this girl in just this short period I met her, Is this really a spell Is this really a true love Is she really pretending or what Please advise me

There is this girl I found in my school on April 2nd 2009, she is a mini - business lady. She sells stuffs and makes her profit and I happen to be a guy of 26 years but with a younger look, i have a business of my own, ride a car of my own and live a good rented flat apartment but shared it with some friends but I never made her to know that I own all these but she knows about the apartment I live. I told her I was working with the company for a token salary and my company owns the car and it could be taken from me at anytime but her response always is "NO PROBLEM, we will get our own". This lady told me she will be 22 yrs in coming months but her look seems matured/older than her age, almost everybody finds it difficult to believe her age, they assumed she lied to me about her age although I have not taken any serious step to ask her some proof of her age.
She has been very caring about me, deals with me with everything she has and promised to do more whenever I need any assistance from her. She does cooking and sometimes never ask me for a kobo, washing my clothes, tidying home though we are not living together. She talked of buying some stuff for me and home like a better tv set and a better frezzer for the kitchen but I stopped her. Honestly, all these and more made me to really fall in love with her becos I believe she is also in love thats why she is doing all these but my friends are wondering how this could be just in a short time. I was advised not to show her that I love her but I never followed that becos I believe Love should be receprocal (she shows me that she loves me too). I am even planning of marrying her by next year if she continues to be like this.

But recently, I was told by one of my friends that I might likely be under her spell for me to fall in love and show that I love her. Even though she never asked of anything from me, some called her a great pretender but I am really confused; does it mean a spell to love and care for someone that did same to you Please Advise me; how do I go about knowing if she is really pretending I asked about her past and I never see anything thats so much bad about her past though no one without a past. They said she will change from her present attitude towards me though she promised never to change and even told me thats her true behaviour , she told me she never done all thats she is doing to me for any man before becos she never found someone she loved like me, I am confused I really love this girl in just this short period I met her, Is this really a spell Is this really a true love Is she really pretending or what Please advise me

There is this girl I found in my school on April 2nd 2009, she is a mini - business lady. She sells stuffs and makes her profit and I happen to be a guy of 26 years but with a younger look, i have a business of my own, ride a car of my own and live a good rented flat apartment but shared it with some friends but I never made her to know that I own all these but she knows about the apartment I live. I told her I was working with the company for a token salary and my company owns the car and it could be taken from me at anytime but her response always is "NO PROBLEM, we will get our own". This lady told me she will be 22 yrs in coming months but her look seems matured/older than her age, almost everybody finds it difficult to believe her age, they assumed she lied to me about her age although I have not taken any serious step to ask her some proof of her age.
She has been very caring about me, deals with me with everything she has and promised to do more whenever I need any assistance from her. She does cooking and sometimes never ask me for a kobo, washing my clothes, tidying home though we are not living together. She talked of buying some stuff for me and home like a better tv set and a better frezzer for the kitchen but I stopped her. Honestly, all these and more made me to really fall in love with her becos I believe she is also in love thats why she is doing all these but my friends are wondering how this could be just in a short time. I was advised not to show her that I love her but I never followed that becos I believe Love should be receprocal (she shows me that she loves me too). I am even planning of marrying her by next year if she continues to be like this.

But recently, I was told by one of my friends that I might likely be under her spell for me to fall in love and show that I love her. Even though she never asked of anything from me, some called her a great pretender but I am really confused; does it mean a spell to love and care for someone that did same to you Please Advise me; how do I go about knowing if she is really pretending I asked about her past and I never see anything thats so much bad about her past though no one without a past. They said she will change from her present attitude towards me though she promised never to change and even told me thats her true behaviour , she told me she never done all thats she is doing to me for any man before becos she never found someone she loved like me, I am confused I really love this girl in just this short period I met her, Is this really a spell Is this really a true love Is she really pretending or what Please advise me on how to know !!!