₦airaland Forum

Spanishmilf:
Sorry say your uncle didn't plan his travel stuff before going to. Uk he is lazy asf

Meaning did u read d story at all. My dear he went to d UK in d 70s all his children are bonafide British citizens but like someone said life is not always as green as we think it is over there. There are many Nigerians in d UK and US who r practically living from hand to mouth there whereas web they where in Nigeria they where boyant while there are the ones who are doing real good and there are also the ones who are doing crime to meet up

Joystark:
Lol.

He's now a celeb o.

#slappingsenator

U forgot to add hiv slapping senator

ThothHermes:
Then it's over. My standards, especially concerning morality cannot be lowered for any one.

Holy holy u dey try

Spanishmilf:
He is actually working asse is off Night and winter and probably minding his business do you think if it everybody that travel out ND they are successful are into fraud one of d reason why Africa is moving backward........ Don't you have anyone in your family who as travelled out of d country before?

On d contrary 90% of my family live outside and I mean Canada and America. Ok now u said he works nights and winters which is very very stressful and difficult. It's just unfortunate dat we have bad very bad leaders in Nigeria if not it's actually easier to make money here. I have an uncle who worked as a bus driver for years in d UK. He trained his children with it built houses in Nigeria with it but died a year after his retirement, before he died he said he really suffered in d UK dat after each day's job he must take pain killers and by d time he felt he needed to retire he was already worn out.

homehunters:
I pity you if you ever listen to those Suggesting you invest the money here . I have seen people who travel to uk with less then 4million Naira and now he is doing very well and have even built a beautiful bungalow for his mum. That's all I have to tell you. Better still if you have a relative who can accommodate you until you can stand on your own two feet.

Do u knw wat d person is doing in d UK?

PrinceCharmings:
i don't understand this comment ooo is it a must that he must marry her?

Oh yes but he has to after making her a second hand property not just with one baby but 2. Assuming d girl is ur sister how will u feel. He shld have used condoms right from d onset dat way he wouldn't have to come to nairaland to tell us stories.

Bbbwings:
This op na mumu.
You wan nack you no use condom
You don nack finish you no place her on morning after pill.

He just destroyed this girls life.

How did he even get to the abroad sef?
Cos him mumu no be here.

I wonder ooo

sirdouglas:
In as much as you are trying to be mean. I understand your point. For the record, I am not a boy. I will appreciate if you address me with more respect.

Marrying her will not be such a bad idea but we may not enjoy the marriage. Especially her. She has said it over time that she knows that I don't love her. In as much as that is not entirely true, it is not far from it. She doesn't fit my profile for a wife and that is why I have been trying to end the relationship.

If this is coming from a woman I will understand but coming from a guy makes me want to ask you how old you are. Sorry but that's so insensitive of you and immature.

I never meant ill for her and I have been as reasonable and honest I can be with the situation. Judging me won't solve the problem.
What about a girl that a guy rejected for good three times and told her that he doesn't like her for marriage and she is still insisting and keep coming back? It's a two way thingb ro and I am expecting you to be more reasonable with your replies.

She doesn't fit ur profile for a wife but she does for a sex mate and u kept on shaggging her unprotected u be mumu.

sirdouglas:
Thanks bro. Sleeping with her without condom was my fault but I trusted her. They can't force me because they know I could have chosen the easy way out and endanger the life of their daughter in the process if I wanted to. I am doing everything I think is the right thing though I am not sure of the paternity yet. I felt that she giving birth to twins means something but now you have said it. I will still go for paternity test to remove any form of doubt. I am not coming back any time soon so I wouldn't say I don'twant the kids. After delivery, wouldn't it be late to lay claim on the children??

U r very wicked now dat u are dumping d young girl with twins at dis stage of her life, who do u think will now marry her. After making her second class citizen u now want to run away. Later u will get married to someone else and she will be there carry d stigma of teenage pregnancy

sirdouglas:
Now before you judge me, I beg you to hear my side of the story.
I said my side of the story cos if she is here, she may not agree with everything I have to say.
This is a lengthy one but I will try to make it as short as possible.
I it is important to note that I am not writing this to be judged or ridiculed. I want matured and reasonable people to help out.

I met this girl in 2017. Can't really remember the month but it should be getting to 2years now. We started dating. As at the time I met her I wasn't struggling, I have my own business and apartment so I wouldn't say she met me when I had nothing. I was a big boy then if I can use that word.
She was just 19 or so then. I am this kind of guy that really really take relationship serious and always looking out to see if things can work out. I don't spend on her, I don't do much for her then. I wanted to see the kind of person she is. She doesn't care or even ask of anything. She might ask for something once in a while but I will pretend I didn't hearw her and to my amazement, she will never talk about it again.
With time I started noticing something about her that I don't like. First is she is really not smart and educated. I noticed that she doesn't have her own say. She listens to gossip and always bore me with what this person said or that person. I really hate that shit.
She is a mama's girl too. Sometimes I wonder if she gives her mom details of our sex life.
She won't sweep the house or do anything for me even while the relationship progressed. I started taking care of her and helping out with her needs. I constantly keep wondering if I can settle down with her but I am always stuck with that question.

I ended the relationship when it was clear to me that I can't live with her. I am an ambitious young man and I am not there yet. I want a woman who will be more than a sex mate. I want someone who can confidently handle my business and manage my home when I am not there. She is to naive to my liking. I am tired trying to build her into the kind of woman I want.

There is only one main reason why I wasn't really hard on her. She was one girl who accepted me from her heart and I know it and I respected that too. I suck when it comes to women and I respect women a lot. You know what they say about guys that respect women. They are mostly single �
She came back few months later. She wasn't ready to let go. Being that I am a loner. My defence wasn't strong enough. We started dating. I got hold of myself and ask her to go again because I couldn't see a future with her and I can't bring myself to be wasting her time.

She wanted to stay, I told her in plain words that I don't want to marry her and that's why I am setting her free.

She left and came back the third time. We had sex and all that but this time I was determined to let her go. I went to a lab for a test with to make sure I didn't infect her with anything because I treated staph before I met her and I was afraid it may still be there or something. To my utmost surprise, she was the one who infected me with gonorrhea. I treated mine and hers and ask her to go.

I noticed that she haven't seen her period and asked her and she confirmed it. She left and came back few weeks later that she is pregnant. She insisted that she wanted to have an abortion but I wasn't interested. I told her to keep the child. Besides, she has been the one telling me that my sperm us not working. I laughed over it. I became afraid that she will try something stupid so I took her to a pharmacist friend of mine to discourage her.

Her mother got to know and ask her to call me. I went with a friend and told her mother everything. I started suspecting that the child might not be mine because I treated her of an infection she possibly contacted from another person. In fact, I was shocked when she confessed about the infection. She said it is the toilet they use at home but I never believed her.

I told her mother that I am not sure about the paternity but however, I will take care of her. I told her family that I don't want to marry her and I have told her that severely.

We had a long discussion that day and I left. I started taking care if her the more. I made sure that I made my stand clear on the matter. I don't want to be a murderer so I got to do what is necessary. She started complaining about abuse from her siblings and war started. They beat her almost all the time and I wanted to take it personal. Shit do happen at times but that is not enough reason to kill their sister.

When all this is happening, I was processing my papers. In fact, I started processing my papers before she got pregnant and she is full aware of that. I took another group of friends to their home to help beg the brothers to stop beating her so they don't kill her and the child.

My visa took time so she was almost due for delivery before I left. I sent money to her account and bought some things I felt she would need even the unnecessary ones and left.

My problem now is that she contacted me few days ago to tell me that the scan said she is having twins now not a boy. I can't explain in details because I don't know but the bottom line is that she is now having a twins. I feel for her like I always do.

I don't want to marry out of pity. I don't want to live a promiscuous life. I don't want to marry this girl honestly and having a twins for me just complicated the matter the more.

She said the doctor said she will be delivering this month. I am thinking of sending my uncle and younger brother to her family house to do the iku aka or whatever that is called so I can lay claims to my kids.

Her family is so messed up that I will never want to do anything with them on a normal day. They are from onitsha in anambra and I swore never to marry from that state. That's one of the reason I kept chasing her away. When I say messed up, I am really not that good with English to find the right word to define how disorganized it is.

I am feeling like a monster already. I need all the help that I can get. I never expected this to happen. I never wanted to complicate her life but here I am in the middle of all this.

Should I marry her out of pity and save her the embarrassment or give her money and make sure she comfortable and go ahead with my life. Honestly I don't know what to do.

So with all this ur big grammar u don't know about condoms? Pity or not u must marry her, u can get divorced later ooo

Comedian2019:
Is it your money they are giving them?
Bad belle

I wonder ooo some people can be big enemies of other people's progress

EASY32:
w97 5/15 p. 5-6
Should You Believe in Reincarnation?

THE Greek philosopher Plato connected falling in love with the idea of reincarnation. He believed that after the death of the body, the soul, being immortal, migrates to what has been called the “realm of the pure forms.” Bodiless, it remains there for some time, contemplating the forms. When it is later reincarnated into another body, the soul subconsciously remembers and yearns for the realm of forms. According to Plato, people fall in love because they see in their beloved the ideal form of beauty they vaguely remember and seek.

Identifying the Source and the Basis




The teaching of reincarnation requires that the soul be immortal. The origin of reincarnation, then, must be traced to those peoples or nations that held such a belief. On this basis, some think that it originated in ancient Egypt. Others hold that it got started in old Babylonia. To create prestige for the Babylonian religion, its priesthood advanced the doctrine of transmigration of the soul. They could thus claim that their religious heroes were reincarnations of notable, though long dead, ancestors.

It was in India, however, that belief in reincarnation came to full bloom. The Hindu sages were grappling with the universal problems of evil and of suffering among humans. ‘How can these be harmonized with the concept of a righteous Creator?’ they asked. They tried to resolve the conflict between God’s righteousness and the unforeseen calamities and inequalities in the world. In time, they devised “the law of karma,” the law of cause and effect—‘whatever a man sows, that shall he reap.’ They worked out a detailed ‘balance sheet’ whereby merits and demerits in one life are rewarded or punished in the next.

“Karma” simply means “action.” A Hindu is said to have good karma if he conforms to social and religious norms and bad karma if he does not. His action, or karma, determines his future in each successive rebirth. “All men are born with a blueprint of character, mainly prepared by their actions in previous lives, though their physical traits are determined by heredity,” says philosopher Nikhilananda. “A man is [thus] an architect of his own fate, the builder of his own destiny.” The ultimate goal, however, is to be liberated from this cycle of transmigration and be united with Brahman—the ultimate reality. This, it is believed, is achieved by striving for socially acceptable behavior and special Hindu knowledge.

The teaching of reincarnation thus uses as its foundation the doctrine of the immortality of the soul and builds on it using the law of karma. Let us see what God’s inspired Word, the Bible, has to say regarding these ideas.

Is the Soul Immortal?

To answer this question, let us turn to the highest authority on the subject—the inspired Word of the Creator. In the very first book of the Bible, Genesis, we learn the accurate meaning of “soul.” Regarding the creation of the first man, Adam, the Bible says: “Jehovah God proceeded to form the man out of dust from the ground and to blow into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man came to be a living soul.” (Genesis 2:7) Clearly, the soul is not what a man has but what he is. The Hebrew word used here for soul is neʹphesh. It occurs some 700 times in the Bible, and it never refers to a separate and ethereal part of a human but always to something tangible and physical.—Job 6:7; Psalm 35:13; 107:9; 119:28.

What happens to the soul at death? Consider what happened to Adam at his death. When he sinned, God told him: “You [will] return to the ground, for out of it you were taken. For dust you are and to dust you will return.” (Genesis 3:19) Think of what that means. Before God created him from the dust, Adam did not exist. After his death, Adam returned to the same state of nonexistence.

Simply stated, the Bible teaches that death is the opposite of life. At Ecclesiastes 9:5, 10, we read: “The living are conscious that they will die; but as for the dead, they are conscious of nothing at all, neither do they anymore have wages, because the remembrance of them has been forgotten. All that your hand finds to do, do with your very power, for there is no work nor devising nor knowledge nor wisdom in Sheol, the place to which you are going.”

This means that the dead are unable to do or feel anything. They no longer have any thoughts, nor do they remember anything. The psalmist states: “Do not put your trust in nobles, nor in the son of earthling man, to whom no salvation belongs. His spirit goes out, he goes back to his ground; in that day his thoughts do perish.”—Psalm 146:3, 4.

The Bible clearly shows that at death the soul does not move on to another body, but it dies. “The soul that is sinning—it itself will die,” the Bible emphatically states. (Ezekiel 18:4, 20; Acts 3:23; Revelation 16:3) Thus, the doctrine of the immortality of the soul—the very foundation of the theory of reincarnation—does not find any support in the Scriptures. Without it, the theory collapses. What, then, explains the suffering we see in the world?

So how do u explain judgement, heaven and hell

OJODEL10:
biblically, once some died that's all. but there is something of note in the book of hebrew concerning having trait or information from ones ancestors. HEBREW 7 : 8-108-10
8 In the one case, thetenth is collected by people who die; but in the other case, by him who is declared to be living.9One might even say that Levi, who collects the tenth, paid the tenth through Abraham,10because whenMelchizedek met Abraham, Levi was still in the body of his ancestor. the soul is not coming back; but the spirit. John came back in with the spirit of Elijah. so the possibility of carrying over the information from past life is possible is not at the same time. note the behaviour of some children or people, all most similar with their ancestors. not really the soul of the any of the ancestors but one of their spirit.

Interested in ur answer but can't comprehend ur English

AfonjaBoston:
Igbo pig go and grind pepper for that Malaysian developer isi ewu man of yours

Yes we r Igbo pigs no problem .Show me how many great structures that are owned by u pig shepherds. At least all animals are not equal says George Orwell and I agree. These pigs hold d purse strings of this nation. Try us and see how broke u guys will end up being. How many contacts do u have in China, Korea Japan India even Cotonou Here talk less of us and the likes am very sure NONE. So wen we Igbo pigs like u call us talk don't talk cos wen money talks bullshit like u remain mute

AfonjaBoston:
Ipob idiots won't like this development.

Yet they will not go back to their huts across the niger

U have obviously not been across d Niger cos if u have u will be able to tell who lives in huts with brown roofs

Wanity:
Thus is how they end up deceiving other ladies to live fake life like her










Their promoters are to be blame

Abi oo and I was busy envying her

100 million my foot wen zikel dey pay 20k salary to staff. Head office n a trade fair ooo is he worth all dat. E just put cctv for his offices last year ooo

kachi19:
He look gay there :\

Dis one is wrong ur first post was correct

IamD18:
Lies from the pit of hell.

How many of this generation hoes can do this when selling their body for pleasure has become a norm for them?

I refuse to believe this cooked up story.

She fvcked her way out of poverty in
That's what these lazy creatures are good at!

U think it's every girl dat has d mind to sleep around with men for money?

deebrain:
I was been sarcastic. If you read the post with the wisdom your parents released to you, and probably the unfortunate schools you went to, you should have detected it.

And you must be very stupid.

Please am sorry but someone user my moniker to reply u I think he did dat via my laptop am sorry

AnyoneButAtiku:
Scrrrcrew you and your leprous fingers, nitwit.

Am so sorry I think someone replied ur post with my moniker via my laptop cos am so surprised to see dis post and reply

PopeFlatino:
U know one thing I realize in this present world,, People expecially Relatives won't pay attention to u until u die..am a Living testimony,Since this year I have been suffering massively like never before but no one cares,suicide isn't an option yet but with d way am depressed and broke I pray I survives it..

I will go on Facebook to make a post like "so depressed" or any possible message accross to interested ones,all of them will start famzing u publicly , asking u on comment "Nna wats d problem?"... but once u inbox d relative that u need little cash to solve ur problem he /she will snub u or block u.

To d extent dat I even begged for 2k here on nairaland and a guy messed me up with joke..

But once u die ,all of them go just contribute #10k or more for ur burial...

In summary,We should learn to detect signals earlier,if u have help a brother before it turns soar

Is it cos of money u want to commit suicide. Pls don't even dat person u r asking for money from wat makes u think he or she has, or doesn't have a problem greater dan ur need.
If u are broke today does not mean u will not have tomorrow. For it shall all come to pass.

Jobminister:
Devil you mean?

What about real humans that are even worst that the devil.

They coin people brain and led them to path away with their had earn money, so that they can be living in affluence while the members continue in abject poverty.

So what do you have to say about this ones.

leave the foolish pastors son..what of the human,s that kill people in the name of religion..whether na lucifer or belzeebub.its all fiction..unless babies adults that take fiction too seriously

Success1020:
Afonjas are the ones peddling those lies out of envy. Same afonja who accuses Innoson of assembling despite Innoson open plant policy of showing his manufacturing process, same afonjas will tell you that Proforce, a yoruba owned military combat IVs does manufacturing..LOL. Deceiving themselves! But the funny thing is Igbos don't give a damn if Proforce manufactures or assembles even though we know he assembles. IGBOS, AS BUSINESS MINDED PEOPLE KNOW IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL AS LONG AS HE IS CONTRIBUTING TO THE ECONOMY!

EVERY tribe in nigeria has their own problem..but the yorubas in particular are always envious when achievements are not made by them.especially if it comes from igbos

deebrain:
This is getting interesting.

Hopefully Zlatan will be proven innocent, cos I love the dance he made popular.

Why is EFCC trying to carry his sole?

oga shut up..because he brought out a dance step you like does that make him much less a criminal..i see somthing dey do you abi

who drake epp.until you sign me to ur label ,then i will agree say you be boss

AnyoneButAtiku:
Congrats to her.

^^^Let me quickly make one important correction though. The first Black female mayor of a London borough was Lydia Simmons (Slough) - 1984.
Also, while at it, I should point out that the first female mayor of Nigerian ancestry was Erelu Lola Ayorinde (Wandsworth) - 1999.

Thank me later.

nigga sharrap..i just browsed it now,you are so wrong

EVILFOREST:
MESSI don suffer
The hatred towards MESSI is now second to none.

For me the saddest day in SOCCER HISTORY will be the very day LIONNEL MESSI will retire. Perhaps, that will be the HAPPIEST MOMENT for some people.

true talk bro..people are just unhappy that the ronaldo they like so much cant match messi..do they hate sallah this much.no its always messi

oshe...why nah only yansh i dey see for here

the worst thing be say its gonna be one of this ugly hausa gals....fear north

Sellfish:


Regard this news at your own peril

If your loved ones get kidnapped, just jejely pay the ransom

These days there is very little difference between killer/kidnapper herdsman, Police and the Army.... I view all of them with equal suspicio











You will be shocked that the kidnapper at night is a Policeman by day

I repeat...Do not allow Nigerian Police learn work with your kidnapped loved ones...

The Police will mess up the rescue operation, get the victim killed, then turn around and arrest you for murder in order to mask their incompetence

True talk

Y vote a comedian as president is Nigeria a joke?