₦airaland Forum

Ugosample:
it's mostly ladies without common sense that talks like that

my grand mother's that popped babies aplenty should then say what?

and the two of them were champions of flogging and smacking

Skyfornia:
Mtchwww...misplaced priority. If an old man like ekweremadu could be flogged for his wrong doings...why won't a kid be disciplined with some
strokes??

Horlubunmmy:
Nice one.
modern parenting.
such can't happen in naija, instead the the rich ones will look for an under age girl as house maid, and be paying her parent peanut.

vibre:
What has she done wrong? We always say spare the rod and spoil the child so why are they arresting her for not sparing the rod? Do they want the child to spoil?

kindnesskyn:
Read well bro, his paper did not expire mbok

General0847:
He is lucky he did that in a civilized society, if he had tried that in Nigeria by now he would be counting broken bones in his body.
Nobody mentioned rule number 1 of living abroad to him, never let your papers expire no matter what. You cries will fall on deaf ears.

RiyaGoddess:
Whaooooo.
Op thanks for sharing for everyone to learn. Be optimistic. Believe. There's nothing God cannot do. He's Oba Alaanu. Oni wosan lo'ba Mi. The Great physician, The mighty healer. A God of second Chance. But that is if you Believe. You must be thirsty and hungry for it before you can have it. It has happened to others before so yours won't be an exception if only you desire it.
Read my signature

Jabioro:
She can escape here but she can't escape there..she better wait behind so that we can help her resolved it...the solution is here not there....

goodgirl2409:
My husband has really changed. He is so unemotional and revengeful.
I will cook for him severally and he won’t eat. I will serve him food and he won’t eat. I will ask him what I have done and he won’t respond. Every time he gives me the silent treatment.

I feel so pained because I expected more from this marriage but barely 1 year after, he doesn’t seem to love me anymore. Sometimes 1 month will pass, no sex. He would go out and won’t bother to tell me where he is going.



He would come back very late and would just ignore me like I don’t exist.


It happens, it's not a new thing carve ur life around it to sooth u guys. He might actually be going thru stuff u don't knw and can't share with u. Check it self if u changed anything u used to do before u got married.




Although he drops money for me to run the house and communicates strictly with me, it make no sense to me.
I am tired. Is this how marriage is? Is this how men are or am I just suffering?

I don’t have anyone to beg to talk to him,and I was told reporting him to any of his family members is not good. things are getting worse everyday. People who have married for many years and are succeeding please help me. What am I not doing right?

UPDATE.
I want to add that it is not sexual incompatibility.
When he is in his happy mood, I would even be tired of his endless gist. S-x will be very great. He is kind and caring. Such a wonderful man. In fact an angel. He would even wash my underwear’s and clothes.

But when his mood start which is his mood most of the time, he won’t talk to you, he won’t eat. I will finish cooking, he will go outside and buy another food and come and cook. He won’t come back on time. I will ask him what is it, he would not respond. He always feels everything I do to annoy him, i do it on purpose. I am a peace loving person. Everyone around that knows the story
always say that he has a problem.

delugajackson:
Is it right for an adulteress to bring an illegitimate child into the house of God for christening?

If you can answer this question correctly, then you will agree with me that many churches are leading their members to hell.

Asour:
It don't exist because it has been liquidated.

Liquidation means winding up.

Winding up involves SALES of the few (if any) valuable assets for what they are worth.

They are almost no closed down business that you can't realize anything from.

So the sales proceeds are used to settle creditors in a legally prescribed order of preferences.

U don't even understand when I say doesn't exist again I mean doesn't exist and there is nothing to be sold.

Asour:
Most likely nothing would be done to them.

The most damage to them (personally) has already been done by including them on this (public)list.
This hampers their reputation in the business community (including internationally) as well as their creditworthiness.


Barring those with special loan convenants, everybody on this list is acting as an agent(director) of a Limited liability company [Distinct from themselves] and as such there exists a limit to their responsibility for the firms liability.

Typically, this limit is their Shareholding with represents assets in the firm. So creditors get to claim the assets of the firm OR the firm itself and realize (sell) these assets OR run the companies as SHARHOLDERS in ways that assures them of getting their loans back.

In the extreme situation where a specific loan convenant binds a promoter [as personally liable] his personal assets could also be realized to meet these liabilities.

Beyond these the Courts may also call for the "veil of Incorporation" to be lifted on these firms for these guys to stand personally/individually liable as though they borrowed the monies for their personal use.

These guys are RISK takers though. I don't know about their prudence.

mynaija123:
This doesn't make sense because during a SIM swap, you are required to provide numbers you call often and also biometric is required that brings out your details including photo.

godwinkessi:
Na wa ooo and they took another Ibo man why?

nairalanduseles:
Bro u don't need it I use my Nigerian passport to come to nanna but when leaving use my AU one .....They won't even question u .......U re a British season act like one

danberg:
Good day all,
I recently got my UK passport sent from the UK after a successful application.
I was born in the UK but Nigerian by descent. I would like to know if I would be required to present my Nigerian passport at Muritala Mohammed Intl Airport in Lagos, before I can board, since there's no Nigerian visa on my new UK passport.

I am currently processing another Nigerian passport after I lost the former but I still possess an older one.

Advise from those familiar with this situation would be greatly appreciated!

JubrilBuhari:
Lol
Fulani do not own North.
Fulani are tiny people with nothing meaningful to show for as achievements apart from bombing themselves in the name of Boko Haram, invading people's ancestral land killing unarmed women and children.
In terms of literacy you guys are nothing, technology you have nothing to offer.
Entertainment your people are totally useless.

Only looting country dry and causing crisis.
Underachieving lots.

You are not event Nigerians for goodness sake!

kolafolabi:
I swear if I have 1/10 of that, I won't contest for any political office. Politics is a dirty game.

Offpoint:
I'm in support... plastic bags, bottles, cans etc are responsible for a lot of environmental disasters. Nigerians naturally are dirty people who throw their empties anywhere after consumption.

There are paper cups, bottles, cans and bags being used in advance country... we should adopt that.

Next should be pampers, sanitary pads and torn females pants. They're responsible for most flood in Nigeria.

Visit some places in Lagos and you'll definitely support this.

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

gabito4luv:
Thanks for the advice. I have been monitoring her recovery and her condition is stable now. Just her broken bones is what is left for her to heal which is why she can't move now only been assisted by family members. She has been patient since Jan and has run out of it now.

oluayebenz:
You like arguing sha......
Investigate on those arguing with you, I'm sure none of them as ever traveled outside the shore of Nigeria..... They all depend on internet, seeing beautiful pictures on Facebook...... You get muscle sha.....

OP my uncle bought a house in 6months, some dont even know what is called mortgage
OP my cousin is there making 5k usd every month.
As if is that easy.....

Too many wrong info plenty for dis thread, I just decided to kept mute not quoting anyone

Spanishmilf:
That why I said your uncle is lazy and dumb....... He went to another country without any skill he think they plck Money from d tree abi, your uncle didn't bother to further his education �� f u c k him......