Family › Re: My Brother Stabbed Me Multiple Times Without Remorse! by cococandy(f): 7:32pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
bee444: I don't want to read deep meaning into the dream. He's my brother and couldnt possibly mean evil against me but they have not been talking to you or when they do it is in anger because you haven't sent them money despite not having settled down in your new place? You still think they don't mean any harm? What about the ones you did before? Any appreciation? Plus spell it out in clear terms that you won't be able to help them in a while until you find your own feet. Remind them of the times you helped them before and show them how selfish they are being. If they want to cut off from you because of that, good riddance Family is meant to be a bane of support. Not the chasm that sucks you dry and empty |
Family › Re: I Need your Advice by cococandy(f): 7:26pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: It's up to both of them Lotetta , they are both grown up adults .... And Not for us to judge her decision in the end.  thats true i know Like I said in my other post, it is up to her to decide when enough is enough.  |
Family › Re: I Need your Advice by cococandy(f): 7:20pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Classic.
There must be a video of the man and his mistress in action before it can be confirmed. |
Family › Re: I Need your Advice by cococandy(f): 7:14pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
After telling you his whorres are better than you, you still let the gate man talk you into staying?  Wait you would even stay if he tendered a fake apology (because that's what it is gonna be) Wowzers! cionon: I am not making mouth. You guys aren't understanding me. If after his wrong doing, I called him to order and he feels it's normal, I told him if he z nt ready to change then I will leave His reply was what am I still doing. So I said fine I will leave. I was actually thinking that he would beg since he was wrong especially after telling me his whores are better than me in all aspect.
This morning I woke up early and was packing then he just dropped the tfare and left. If he had begged and apologised, I wud have stayed.
I respect my neighbour cause she is a granny and spoke to me like a mother. |
Family › Re: I Need your Advice by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
cionon: He womanises. I have seen condoms a lot in his office trousers. Called his attention but he never even had the courtesy to say his sorry instead he says he carries them for a reason and it should stop questioning him. My cuxn as seen him with a girl b4, bt he denied it even wen it was obvious he lied about his whereabt cause the frnd he said he was going to see came to the house. and he is very pompous. Never apologies for his wrong doings. Very disrespectful So basically he cheats and demands that you take it without questions. Even jumps at the a chance of you leaving him,so that he can have more freedom to roam about. Hmm. Only you can decide when you've had enough. When even your gateman and parents can't convince you to bear it any second longer. I'm glad you don't have a weak mind. You will be fine in the end if you keep up your personality Because eventually it will lead you away from anything that troubles your soul. Like the disrespectful unrepentant cheat you married. |
Family › Re: I Need your Advice by cococandy(f): 5:28pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
What are those faults he refused to work on.? @OP |
Family › Re: He Practically Changed After I Got Pregnant by cococandy(f): 4:22pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
tunrybabe: Av read all ur comments. And I agree that av been foolish, can't believe this is happening to me. Am I dreaming? I already promised God and d unborn baby that I won't commit abortion, if not d preg is just 3 weeks. Iv learnt my lesson. Thanks to all  To dose that tried to mail me, d mail addy isn't functioning now, u can get me on 08052323115. I need ur sincere advice plsssssssssssssssssssssss. I wish you gooluck dear. 3weeks pregnant for an assholee,not tied by marriage and don't know what to do about it? Ngwanu continue. Safe delivery.  |
Family › Re: He Practically Changed After I Got Pregnant by cococandy(f): 8:18am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Mynd44: When you all are done with the insults, you might want to help her with valid ideas on how to solve her issues.
Any time this decade will help too. Person bring problem early morning and Na insult Una take greet am.
Smh for you people what she wants is for someone to tell her to fast and pray that he will change and come back to her. Leave the other women n kids to come marry her. And they will live happily ever after.' If you can kindly tell her that. I think she will be happy |
Family › Re: He Practically Changed After I Got Pregnant by cococandy(f): 7:17am On Feb 02, 2015*. Modified: 7:50am On Feb 02, 2015 |
I SHAKE MY HEAD FOR YOU.
You're seeing the obvious signs that he's a user and doesn't like to deal with responsibility yet you're pushing yourself into him more and more and crying tears of joy because he came back to you when he heard you got a job.
With all these happenings and his American wife palaver and all his attitude, if he proposes marriage to you now, you will still jump for joy and come back few weeks later to NL with more stories that touch.
Idi funny my sister. |
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Family › Re: Married Woman Displaying Pictures On Social-Media: Wrong? by cococandy(f): 11:33pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
wimpey: I have no problem with off the shoulder bride's dresses , but there should not be too much cleavage on show . I too saw two pictures on the internet which must be of models as surely no bride would go to her wedding in dresses like these ! I will try and post them . I like beautiful women which these brides are , but the dresses are straining and are likely to pop open and expose the bosoms for the world to see ! They don't this one is something else  |
Family › Re: Married Woman Displaying Pictures On Social-Media: Wrong? by cococandy(f): 11:32pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
queensmith: My mother was asking me what exactly my problem with Nigerian men is, I responded with 'even if he is the nicest guy, he seems perfect, handles all his issues right, is open, is honest blah blah- there isn't a day he won't come out with bulshit that will make me divorce him in a split second'
This topic is a prime example- the op may be the most innocent, polite nicest man or whatever, but his mentality and his views are 1st world sickening. Does marriage=bondage?
is putting your photos on a website simply a means to attract attention? You never heard of sharing? I guess you also believe your wife shouldnt have male or unmarried friends and if they are they should be ugly and or crippled.
Nigerian men are inherently insecure, the insecurity is translated into all sorts of nonsense standards to be upheld. Its nothing but hogwash and bulsh*t lol. On point |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 10:02pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:01pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Herzumpther: The times i use to carry it people look at me eh. Its not as if its long and straight, its long and curly just like a baby's own so when you pull it up is falls back.
Somebody's once told me in the bus that my hair looks funny. I manage to carry it with the help of dye but it cuts my small hair.
I plan to carry it natural when I loose the wool I have on now.  stop dying it pls. You will spoil the beauty of it. It is even naturally long and curly? Lucky you |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 9:59pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Eh..eh..not you too.

Yeah, I know it sounds ridiculous. Okay, from now on, I nor go ask qweshion. See how Cococandy and Njokusboy dey laff moi.   |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Chai , hit it? Crackhaus !!
Sorry what are they hitting ? No no, don't say. These boys..
I still don't get how seeing username chillisauce amounts to milf.
Thinking it was Mother in law, blah blah see o. Claim it na. Aren't you a hot fresh mama?  You too thought it had something to do with mother in law? Lmao@You and efe |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 9:48pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 9:44pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Chillisauce: So MILF is Mother I like to f*** Hot mama Woman salivating on young boys.
Crackhaus come and explain why you called me MILF. And which is your definition.
Chai, I don suffer for these boys hand no chilli. Woman salivating over young boys doesn't apply to the meaning of milf. That's a cougar. Milf applies to ther other top two definitions. Hot mamas like Jennifer Lopez and Angelina Jolie that young boys are still going crazy about even after they've had plentiful kids  When a guy calls one a milf,it means that despite her being married and a mom,given a chance, he would like to hit it. |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 9:12pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
jnrbayano: Pot bellies for men in some areas in Lagos is acclaimed evidence of good living. At least I know this when I was living in Lagos.
 i know my brother. That's the only way they can make it obvious that they are Chiefs and alhajis  |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 8:46pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
I still think men with pot bellies look worse than women with pot bellies.
And moca Abi Chillisauce (who was it) is right. While there is no excuse for anyone to get fat and stay fat.
there's understandable reason why a woman can get a big tummy.the blame will come if after getting the tummy she doesn't do something to correct it. Even then some women who had CS won't find tummy exercise easy especially if the surgery was done in one of those wack naija hospitals.
But what excuse do men have to even gain the tummy in the first place? None. So a man with beer belly should be flogged not just for being lazy to work it off but for getting it in the first place.
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Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 8:34pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Chillisauce: How can this man escape from ritualist with that kind of belly. Twah. Na sh1t full this belly the small intestine go don turn to large intestine, while the large intestine don turn to 5inch pipe  rotfl That na better beer belle. Nigerian big man things |
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Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 7:56pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 7:49pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Husbands, Can You Survive A Week Without Your Wife? by cococandy(f): 7:48pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
ejikeme: what i have learnt from some married around me is no matter how independent a man may think he is, the moment he's connected to a woman through marriage bound by love and understanding, never you separate the man from the wife. stories abound where the husband couldn't take the shock of their wife dying. lol we all know men can't survive when their wives die. That's why they remarry in less than 6months.  |
Politics › Re: Military Captures Armoured Vehicles, Artillery Guns Overnight (pic) by cococandy(f): 7:42pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Good job |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 7:27pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Clear conscience fears no.......  I'm sure you know the person.
As for pot belly husband. Except he is sick. if not, na screw driver I go use burst the sh1t stomach.
I forgive women with pot belly, (i no no whether na pikin dey dia ), but men with pot belly? Mba! Like this ba? I think men with pot belly look worse than women with pot bellies 
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Crime › Re: Woman Beats and Bathes Maid With Hot Water by cococandy(f): 7:22pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Both the woman and those who have her the child are guilty of human trafficking.
They should be imprisoned. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:40pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Omelette for breakfast today. This man can cook like sunnybobo3  God bless his mother 
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:37pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
otiigba1:
this will have you running up and the toilet all day, do not eat this for breakfast esspecially if you are travelling long distance, you will end up shi"tting in your pants/trousers,skirts  are you kidding me? I eat this all the time. Very filling and nutritious too. No stomach upset ever |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:56pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Chillisauce: see my lorre coco don lose weight oh! 
Its all good. I've not really lost weight. Just not adding any more  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:52pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Oh lord datalossvictim1 I love your hair. runs to check. Oh my dataloss  Nwa Oma |