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bukatyne:
I hope women who 'snap' and kill their husbands get such understanding from NL

LostMermaid:
Yes, I'm a virgin.

babyosisi:
I have read her story again and it makes me angry that a woman would dare call another woman a slut based On what the man she calls husband to be tells her?

LostMermaid:
She cheated on him when they were living together. Then, started living with that other man she cheated on with, and, started keeping the kid away from my future husband, now that she's found 'a better dad for the child'. That's what makes me call her a slut. Because I think people who cheat on their partners, and then who torture them by not showing their kid, shouldn't deserve much respect, should they?

LostMermaid:
Where did you make up i'm pregnant from? I'm not pregnant or anything. He wants to marry me. And he wants to have a child (or two) with me. So it's a PLAN. Nothing to do with what his ex did; nothing to do with saying she's on birth control to a man(who wants to split up!!), and then tricking him into pregnancy and then claiming not understanding that pregnancy until 4th month.

Secondly, to me, cheating on a man doesn't make a woman very moral. And as far as I know this is the same all over the world. This woman cheated on my future husband, and she is still together with that man. She was sending that man love messages when she was living together with my future husband and their child. This is why she is slutty.

I never cheated on anyone. And never tricked anyone!

I hope you haven't either!

So you won't go ahead and act like the lawyer of a 'slut' who cheated on the father of her child, and then tried to keep that child away from him, causing him so much pain.

pickabeau1:
Once again...be real

Let me explain it to you maybe it will stick this time


A man will not over think how a step kid will mean his wife will not love his own kids

If a man does not want baby daddy drama..he moves on

He will not pretend to like d kid to get the ring


Those who do this are a minority



Its more common with you females


Do you understand now

softysparky:
Op you are wicked and evil. And don't be surprised your type might end not having a child at all.

Any day you try anything diabolical around that child you will die.

Chillisauce:
What's the difference between she and the lady.

Both of them dey chop pen1s even when not married and she calls her a slut.

Wonders shall never end

pickabeau1:
You've started again with your absurd theories

Do you see men pretending to like a step child to marry the woman

If they do..what's the ratio to women who have smiling faces but hate the kid

Continue ranting about hypocrisy

When u come to the real world..u can contribute

LostMermaid:
He proposed to me. We want to get married. He WANTS TO have a child(even two) with me. So we are PLANNING it. I'm not pregnant. I didn't trick him with anything.

I called his ex a slut because she CHEATED (and also tricked) AND didn't want to show his kid to him. I didn't doany of these. Don't judge so quick.

corisande:
It still exists
I just smh at those that argue that it doesn't

just that nobody cares if you're one UNTIL when marriage comes up. especially if you're igbo

I get same replies as cococandy from my parents too when I say I don't care osu or not if I meet the one

Akposy:
C food ooo... Chop remain 4 me na...na god I use beg u.

Small small wif egg ooo.
This ur fone camera is killing me softly.........

moca:
U know why I called u out?
Sorry I use ur peopl(not for bashing pls).

They r so much into this thing. Infact, see adrenaline pumping anytime we argue about it.
An osu dare not join them in kporakpo meeting.
An osu dare not live in d same room with them,rather they will go and squat.
If 3 or 4 of them r gathered and discussing,an d they sight an osu, they will all leave as if something is on their tail.
these r young school gals.

As per d guys, even during friendship, they hv started asking,inquiring if she is an osu.

It was soo bad we yab and taunt them a lot.

I know that thing exist but some people take it way too serious.
See marginalization. So what do they preach in church abi church people r also part of d ish?

No vex o.
Just remembering school days.

moca:
This practice eeh.

Cococandy, show urself cos ur people r the number one culprit

What is even d origin?
And I heard they r always beautiful,handsome and wealthy.

I didn't check,didnt ask.
Will ask hubby if his people asked.

moca:
But some ladiies can be brutally mean.
True.
I know a family that their US wife so much dealt with, they became a mockery in d eyes of the peoplee.
Not only did the village gal eyes opeen, she also framed the husband as a drug dealer and he was jailed for yrs.
Cos of one yeye african american boy.

It was yrs later that d man was found innocent and he came home. It was announced in church and we tropped to their house. He looked like Osama bin Laden. So unkept and malnurished.

Meanwhile, wifey has built big and very fine duplex in her papa's house, helped her people a lot while d husband's pple, I can't bring myself to say all that happened to them.
D guy's parents died of heart break.

When it was ascertained that d woman framed her hubby up, our people took over the case and dealt with d lady and her family.
D last I heard about her was that she is no longer in US.
American guy no kuku marry her.
As long as she breathes, she can't come home cos she was excommunicated.

D church, kinsmen and good will ppeople contributed money for d guy and he traveled again to start life afresh but not in US.
Said he had lived all his life outside so will find it heard adapting in naija and seeing his wife's family every now and then can kill him.
So far, he is doing welll. A dr.

So yep, some of we ladies r really very mean.
It runs both ways.

Splendblex:
We command it to speed.Amen

mutter:
Thank you

Many women remain in an abused marriage so long because they are afraid and ashamed to speak up.
Not just because they are ashamed of the experiences they made but because people write them off as screwed up , weak and so on.

Initially you might get a little bit of sympathy but those that sympathize with you quickly turn round and throw it at you.
We are all human and all guilty of the same, things like this make us aware of our short comings and give us reason to think again.

Aisha is a wonderful lady and has done so much here, helping so many people in need. She is passionate about what she does and caring for the less privileged.
She wrote what she did not to hurt me but she was expressing her hurt for the victims, I respect that !

I hold her in high esteem and I hope you all do so too.

aisha2:
I refuse to believe that myth. Men just say it to knock our heads together with that statement. We differ and that is expected we react differently. I don't think she is throwing others under the bus I just think she doesn't empathise with others in the shoes she once walked.

How many of you ladies came around and understood my point and defended me yet some differed so if you could understand despite the thousand others calling me names how then are we enemies to ourselves? Sometimes we agree sometimes we differ based on experiences and convictions but we are not enemies.
Women support each other in the worst situations

mainman7:
Indeed, this is the height of cowardice, igbos are the most senseless cowards ever known to Man. Immediately, I saw the title, I knew 99.99% of them would be igbos. They have the highest wife killing rate in the world; It is official!
A truely strong and matured man would never hit let alone kill his wife. Being a true Yoruba man, instead of displaying his ability to kill by killing a weaker sex, Benjamin Adekunle joined the army and got the title of killing and slaughtering the largest Number of opponent soldiers in the civil war. We still hold the title, ask to verify how Col Obasanjo (OBJ's Son) and other Yoruba Soldiers are slaughtering Bokoharams in large numbers. I'm so proud to be Yoruba!

ileobatojo:
Honestly, my jaw is still on the floor. This revelation about that particular poster/persona is the number 1 most shocking thing I have ever read on NL. Ever.

Unbelievable.