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babyosisi:
Anyway ,it was all good,

Chillisauce:
So I went to a farm to buy goat

Efemenaxy pls come and kill this goat for me

Chillisauce:
You and edwife will hold the hands and legs respectively.
Cococandy will hold the ears and pull the head backward while herzumpther will slice the throat

Kimoni is gonna do the roasting to remove the hairs

moca:
There r many types of water yam. I prefer it to ordinary yam(less calories)
Highly recommended for diabetics.

There is another type called ona. Don't know d English name. It can make u dizzy and sluggish after eating if u didn't cook it well.
Infact heard lots of stories about that yam.
I so much lv it but then,its scarce and poisonous too.

I be yam freak then o.

moca:
Erm, this one wey u de crave,has it entered?
Mgboooo cococandy?

bukatyne:
How difficult is it do the right thing or treat your partner How you want him or her to treat you?

breadplanets:
coco nwannem i aint letting go for natin! Im willing to go book a room in a psychiatric home just to keep this one o! Abeg.

Chillisauce:
Been long I ate rice and beans jollof. Nice combo esp when the beans is well cooked

Herzumpther:
Coco please I have a question, it has been on my mind since my cousin told me.

I use to believe that when a man wants to marry a woman he goes according to her tradition. I was surprised when my cousin told me that her white wedding will be at her husband's place which is why she fixed her trad for today then tomorrow she will procced to Anambra where her church wedding will hold. She said it's her fiance's culture. Please is it right? I tot its suppose to be our own culture for everything.

Chillisauce:
Nna menh, see correct husband material . Chai.
Enjoy dear. Noffin do you

babyosisi:
My brothers and sisters what are odds?
What are the odds that today of all days,the man's secretary calls in 10 minutes later to say he can't make it to work today?
Meeting will be rescheduled
That must be the will of God I suppose

First his secretary rushes in at 8.35 to ask if he was there,he wasn't
5 minutes later a phone call from his secretary that he couldn't make it to work today

Herzumpther:
Today is not far gone but I'm very tired already.

My second cousin is getting married to an Igbo guy so her trad is today and white in Anambra on Saturday.

Popcy decided to support by cooking a bit so he killed a goat early this morning.... Mum is already there so I cooked pepper soup with the intestine ( I hate goats with much fat ), Egusi soup and fufu. Yeah I did not do the pounding alone this time, my neighbor assisted me.......its not easy to be the eldest in the house sometimes o my sisters don fly go school so I had to do this alone.

Cococandy the equation is balancing o Igbo men now taking delta women

aisha2:
The man should forgive her jor every woman cheats. Hw should change his old dirty tired boxers, find red boxers and singlets work on his weight and look sexy if she was satisfied at home she wont go with janitor he should go and make friends with the janitor and ask him what he is doing to madam that he oga cant do. He has to stoop to conquer, work on his home divorce is a sin.

Chai I came late to the party

SAMBARRY:
5,000 naira cannot even do a decent lace wig talk less of taking care of the baby

kayjasper:
Okay.


Glory To Jesus.........


Honor to...........

babyosisi:
Hmm
My mentor told me to add the boss's name as an author in my first paper,I did
Asked me to do same in my second paper I also did
Can you believe I sent the rough draft of the papers over 4 times and he never acknowledged receipt till this day
Never read them,never commented
I printed them out and gave him in his office,he never read them
I told my mentor I would take his name off the papers ,my mentor said I shouldn't.i should leave it there for political reasons
The papers were published and I gave him the news of the first one in person,he high fives me and immediately asked for the paper citations so he can put them on his CV
So this is a man I have done huge favors for but his bad belle gets the better part of him




What option do I have if he is blocking me and I decide to go to someone higher and they give me what was clearly deserving?
Doesn't that mean the other person sees through what he is trying to do

babyosisi:
The good thing is that I am in the good books of his superiors but of course humans can be unpredictable

Cococandy sadly,I can't do what you described
My job is such that you get promoted by shining,that is the rule set for promotions etched in stone
He needs to shine in the eyes of his own superior also to get his promotions and raises just like I do
Infact you get annual or merit raises by shining so you have to shine to get kobo added to your salary
For instance my mentor advised me to do one paper and one abstract a year,in that one year I did 4 papers plus 4 abstracts and a grant.
That is a record in my department according to my mentor and all the praises belong to God
My boss has never had a grant,by God's grace I got one my first year in the place and that is a big deal professionally


There is a limit to what he can do sha
If he sits on a promotion out of jealousy and I disagree with the decision,the decision will be made by people above him and the achievements will speak for themselves
I cannot make myself a mediocre because I don't want to outshine him
No way,I will be hurting my career by so doing

CFCfan:
Sorry, it's with Obama

CFCfan:
Don't worry, the certificate is with the military board.

CFCfan:
Nne, can u be my mentor?

Onegai:
If Husbands are superior to their wives, then such husbands should expect no sort of financial support to their families from their wives. In my grandfather's time, he could marry several wives. But if they went breaking their backs to feed their kids while he complained of them being "gold-diggers, unsupportive" etc (like the modern man does), he would be publicly shamed before the village by elders. That's a fact. In the past, fear of raising several kids, none of them your own caused men to look for psychological ways to contain women from cheating (i.e ancestral curses, the onus of maintaining a happy family on the woman etc).

Sadly, the modern woman goes to the same church you attend, where you read the bible and rationalised it was cool for David to have several wives. Remember, Bathsheba had a husband. Most men will end up being the Uriah, not the David (but your egos will sadly not let you see that fact). Think I'm lying? Show me the woman who will turn down the chance to be Dangote's 3rd wife compared to be the 1st wife of a relatively poorer man who has no self-control.

Go on, I'll wait.

You cannot say equality doesn't exist, expect to cheat freely and miraculously turn around, demand my faithfulness and declare I have an equal share of the financial responsibility of the family. That one has passed eating your cake and having it, that also gives the cake to Adamu, Tunde and Chukuma. All or nothing. Be free to be very polygamous but you better be willing to pay up whatever outcome of it (the day I have to ask you more than twice for schoolfees because you're broke because 2nd wife's 3rd child and 4th wife's 1st child collected schoolfees yesterday and you dare complain I should fend for myself, is the day I start to be very intimate with a good-looking dude).

I have never seen a truly repentant wife who cheated. Mostly because it's because it's so hard to women to get caught. Ask all the guys who have had their share of married women how many irate husbands show up threatening to kill them and compare anecdotally with the number of wives complaining about cheating husbands.

Don't worry dude. I'm not trying to change your mind on this subject. This is for the other guys out there thinking Life and their choices have ZERO CONSEQUENCES.

Idowuogbo:
I don show

I'm getting ready for spring y'all...

P.S - who wants my giant lollipop?

BlackLeopard:
That's some serious solid art there, Coco!

Idowuogbo:
^awww...cuteeeee!! *in her american accent* Go on with your bad self, candy!

nelsonoba:
@ cococandy: So have you now found the TRUTH you are searching for? Can you now fly and travel into the world of spirits?

Sagamite:
E she, ma.

It is more what he did to the woman. He did nothing to the man. The man's business is with his wife.

Now, as per woman and janitor, you don't do that to people. If you are going to chop, chop. Don't go filming people and putting it online like a senseless low-life.

He needs to be fcked up. Someone should bust his caps with a few bullets.

Truckpusher:
How him wan take complain wey boy dun big pass master.

Him go complain before? abi him dey look for beating?

Sagamite:
The janitor needs to be fcked up.

Truckpusher:
No mind her - This kain wife fit eat your one month salary for mouth.

Bawss1:
Madam. So na spoon and fork you take chop pancake?