Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 8:09pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
What is compromising video?  I said sexx tape. Dang |
Family › Re: Angry Husband Expose Nude Pictures Of Cheating Wife by cococandy(f): 8:08pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
These men are not wise. If it was me that my wife had her sex tape leaked, I would buy it from the site, take out a copyright on it and we make money from the sales.  Win win win. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:42pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
tchiwinnie: wow, hubby s a fitness trainer. dats nice. Me, i need tips on healthy eating o. i need to flatten my belly how much will you pay?  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:39pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Chillisauce: You haven't done it yet ?  Mine was during breastfeeding days, na cupcake I carry enter bed. With the duvet et all, you won't even notice. 
After eating, I was like.... Oh my Gawd. This is so good !  |
Fashion › Re: Toyin Aimakhu's Outfit To An Event - Hit Or Miss? by cococandy(f): 7:38pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
After reading all the comments here,in sure she will never touch that dress again  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:31pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 6:23pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
tchiwinnie: well done ma'am. e don enter?  lmao. Not at all. Just came to give you guys moral support |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:45pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: ^^ Okay, that's good. Lots of fruit and veg inbetween helps a lot.
Fitness trainer?
Coco, you're in for it!  seriously. Sometimes he drives me insane with his 'Don't eat this' 'Don't eat that' 'Stop eating' rules.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:52pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Lol!
I kinda guessed. Okay, so what do you do inbetween meals i.e: between lunch & dinner? Or after dinner? How d'you curb the temptation to snack on the couch while watching your favourite program on telly?  He said snacking is not bad. Just that it has to be healthy snack like almond nuts or cashew nuts or just munch on one Apple or banana. The point is to not get too hungry before the next meal so that one doesn't over-eat at the next meal. I do have the tendencies to gain weight so I'm always eager to listen to him. My Oga is a fitness trainer, so I believe whatever he says. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 4:43pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
una well done o |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Coco, that looks really lovely.
But er...isn't the portion of rice kinda small?  thanks  No it is not. we are weight watchers in this house  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:28pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
My DH wants fried rice this early morning. Smh. Something he won't allow me to do 
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:25pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Banana strawberry smoothie for breakfast
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Health › Re: Boy Attacked By Dogs Got Infection At Lasuth - Indian Hospital by cococandy(f): 7:44am On Jan 31, 2015 |
No wonder Nigerians will pay millions to travel to US UK or India for the most basic things like child birth.
Lord have mercy. |
Crime › Re: ASP Escapes Mob Lynching After He Raped 9-yr-old Girl by cococandy(f): 11:18pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
ruffhandu: But how come the little girl didn't shout? I hope it was actually a rape case, for if not for the light from the okada, Pastor and Okadaman wouldn't have known anything was happening. If it is not a rape case what is it?  |
Crime › Re: ASP Escapes Mob Lynching After He Raped 9-yr-old Girl by cococandy(f): 11:15pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Tufiakwa |
Family › Re: I Was Wrong, But Did It Warrant A Season Of Verbal Abuse? by cococandy(f): 9:25pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
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Family › Re: I Was Wrong, But Did It Warrant A Season Of Verbal Abuse? by cococandy(f): 8:33pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
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Family › Re: I Was Wrong, But Did It Warrant A Season Of Verbal Abuse? by cococandy(f): 7:06pm On Jan 30, 2015*. Modified: 8:31pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
dein77: Thank you, my sister. I will find some calm time to explain how damaging hurtful words are to me..
It's just that I have always said I wouldn't tolerate direct insults. She knows my stand on it. But she keeps going at it..... Sometimes saying your stand on something doesn't always mean the other person understands why that is your stand. The solution lies in her not only understanding it is your stand but also understanding why it is your stand. Knowing it is your stand alone is not enough to stop her(evidently) Make her understand the effects her actions have on you. One would think a grown up spouse understands the effects of deep hurtful words but you'd be surprised that not all do. So spell it out for her. That is communication. |
Family › Re: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by cococandy(f): 5:21pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Hehehe. In a relationship o. not married.  ok ok. Let me order my gele and wait. |
Family › Re: What A Friend!!!!! by cococandy(f): 5:10pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I meant the West Well I already said I couldn't swear it doesn't exist that means I can't say it exists either. I don't know if it exists in the west I.e I don't know if some westerners(not immigrants) believe in such things. To the best of my knowledge, they are mind tricks played by the smart on the gullible. But I will make sure to keep my distance from anyone I come across who believes in such. |
Family › Re: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by cococandy(f): 5:05pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
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Family › Re: What A Friend!!!!! by cococandy(f): 5:04pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1: lol..ok
Do you think it exists in the civilised world where's the civilized world in your opinion. That will help me answer you better. |
Politics › Re: Court: No Troops For Elections by cococandy(f): 5:01pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
eagleeye2: I won't be surprised if this Aboki Judge is a product of Quota system. . So we should withdraw soldiers so that "dogs and baboons will be soaked in blood" after Buhari loses the election.
Kai Buhari thats their plan. Evil people |
Politics › Re: Court: No Troops For Elections by cococandy(f): 5:00pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
It is the corps members that I fear for |
Family › Re: I Was Wrong, But Did It Warrant A Season Of Verbal Abuse? by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
you say this is one occassion too many,means she's gone off the handle like this several times before.
Since you understand verbal abuse and how damaging it can be to the psyche(as shown in your detailed OP), kindly educate her. All that speech that preceded your story should be given to her and since we don't know her, it is your duty to do that.
If you find you can't communicate effectively to her, just type it and send it to her inbox. She will benefit from it as some women who are sharp tongued don't even realize it is a horrible thing they are doing. |
Family › Re: What A Friend!!!!! by cococandy(f): 4:28pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Do you think it exists or not I wouldn't swear it doesn't exist. But in my opinion it exists in the minds of those who practice it. Color me confused and irritated |
Family › Re: What A Friend!!!!! by cococandy(f): 4:15pm On Jan 30, 2015 |
Lol I know you're just teasing me but you don't even understand how irritating the imagination is to me. I hate passionately anything that remotely has anything minute thing to do with african juju/black magic SAMBARRY: Caman clean ya mouth thereD
Supposing I was a mamalawo and I say bring those things to become a billionaire and enter the Guinness book of records of being the richest woman on earth you no go deep ya hand in side water closet and pack all the issh and look for a mad man or woman's genitals where you go shave all the thick forest bring for the jazz 
oya lie  |
Family › Re: What A Friend!!!!! by cococandy(f): 4:16am On Jan 30, 2015 |
OP shey if the babalawo didn't ask you to bring all those disgusting things, you would have done it eh? Had it been he told you to bring only 5k for the witchcraft medicine you would have gone ahead to do it. Your only turn off was the poo request and Pubic hair ish. If not these disgusting things he asked you to bring,by now your husband would be under the influence of black magic. Right? Dear lord  If you feel so bad about the marriage, why are you there? Why not leave? If I talk now they will say I'm supporting divorce. God knows the day it becomes bad enough that juju will be the answer,I'd rather leave with only bathroom slippers on my feet than go to the devil just to remain a mrs. |
Family › Re: What A Friend!!!!! by cococandy(f): 4:12am On Jan 30, 2015 |
You've said it all. On the other hand too, some good men still end up with wives like these who listen to bad friends and end up using juju to try manipulate the man even when he's not a bad husband. Just that they want to have total control over them in everything. There's nothing I hate more than juju gist. So archaic and dark it irritates me. Tufia! Sophyrocks: Na wa o!! You see what all these men cause for their wives? They turn their wives to either praying dummies praying holy ghost fire against girls while they roam about freely with wh0res or they turn them to witches patronising wizards to manipulate them. Why did these men get married? Why cant these men just do what is right and take care of their families? Why cnt they keep their third legs in check and be faithful? Men like that are prone to being pawns of manipulation and witchcraft but do they know? No o. its their right to cheat bla bla bla bla. See am na. 500k came out from a supposedly broke man with the help of jazz!! I am sure the man spends heaven and earth on the numerous girls he carries that was why he got broke often. Op wan join her church friend. And Na church una dey attend o. Una dey listen to sermons for church so? una dey read una bible for there so? How can you slave for God and then slave for demons? How? Thats the hypocrisy with Nigerians and their overzealousness in religion. Mixing of black magic with christianity. Half hearted worship of God!!
Op, you are a christian abi? you know deep down that what you are about to do is witchcraft, a sin against God. You know that right? Whatever you face with your husband should be sorted between you two. If only people understand this marriage they are pressurising people to rush into, all these problems will reduce. You and your husband should go for counselling and avoid that church friend of yours at all cost. You can exchange greetings but keep your distance. your friend wont kill you for refusing. simply tell her your conscience wont allow you do it.
For you to think of using jazz to make your husband love you means something is wrong with the foundation of your marriage. I hope it wasnt an arranged marriage or a forced one. You cannot force your husband to love you if he never loved you in the 1st place. Love comes naturally. Communicate your concerns with your husband. Communication is key. it should not be taken for granted. Imbibe communication in your marriage and stop sharing your problems with other women unless they are counsellors. its not every advice you get that you must follow. Learn to sieve information you get from people. |
Family › Re: How Many Men Think This Way ? (pic).. by cococandy(f): 4:04am On Jan 30, 2015 |
baby124: Many men secretly have such desires. Especially Nigerian men. Since they are repressed, they try to prove masculinity and live in denial by living a promiscuous life. An over promiscuous person has so many other issues they are hiding. lol |