₦airaland Forum

CityNG:
The only one I've ever read about Nigerian men and killing their spouses outside of Texas was in Los Angeles where a guy tied his Wife to the back of thier pickup truck and dragged her around the neighborhood till she died.

CityNG:
Nigerian Men, Texas and Spousal Murder is a trifecta.

Missy89:
Texas again? Why?

Nonso23:
Why are you women getting riled up over our decision to take positive steps to live longer
Why are you trying to convince yourselves that we don't mean it?

Well, women don't like hearing the truth... They'd rather regale in illusions and lies.

Vivly:
Abi o. What if our future president is trapped in a condom?

mutter:
When the woman tried to seek help by reporting to his family she was warned never to raise it again because it was an abomination. Even her own family people reacted that way. In Nigeria there are some things that must remain silent.

In the past she had sought advice (also from christian mothers) and had been told she should be happy and thank God that the man was so active, they wished their husbands where like that

crackhaus:
So let's assume he got issues too, is that enough to take half his assets, or collect alimony and child-support payments, and/or decide when he should see his kids?

Remember she's probably going to get married again and be a beneficiary of new husband's money, while ex-husband who's providing for his new wife will still be sending his hard-earned money to her...

Yields:
He didn't go rubbing anything in anyone's faces. He wrote a song about people's girlfriends (how he earned the nickname, "MyStealyogirl"), but you can't blame him for that. He's an entertainer and the females who went to him are the ones to be blamed - since they're the ones in relationships and the ones with the onus of being faithful to their men. Putting a bullet in him will not stop the women from cheating. They can still find other mean to creep with.

crackhaus:
However, it's something to think on and be guarded against.

I don't believe it's only his experience, I've heard many stories and personally know some men unfortunate enough to have being caught in such situations.

coogar:
ada owerri!!!!
the last authentic ada of owerri. you know you can't give up on me. education is necessary in this day & age. the fees for next session has been increased - 20% increase.

coogar:
judged where? in owerri?

having sėx with a disabled person isn't statutory rapë if the victim is over the age of consent. the charge is still rapë, not statutory rape cos the victim lacks the mental capacity to consent, not the age of consent.

age is the only key issue to statutory rapë.

i won't give up educating you

mutter:
..and I know a woman who had a baby and was stitched under the husband raped her the next day and bust the stitches. He came back late in the night with condoms in the pocket, he had obviously had another woman out there before.

Yields:
If you're going to blame Trey, you might as well blame her too. It takes two.
Besides, she was the one who willingly cheated, habitually.
If it wasn't Trey Songs, it would've been any other man.

coogar:
ok - statutory rapë is having sex(either forced or consensual) with anyone under the age of consent. it has nothing to do with being a boss or an employee. the age of the victim is the key.



if the victim over 18 consents, it's not statutory räpe. his attacker has only abused the position of trust & he's committed an error of professional judgement. it's not & never can constitute statutory rapë. stop making your own bush opinion & forcing it on others.

a victim has to be under the age of consent for statutory rape to apply. so much for your güguru & epa education.

coogar:
you are a bush woman!
statutory rapë is primarily centred on the age of consent, nothing to do with boss/employee relationship. if the employee is over the age of consent, statutory rape does not apply. do you know the meaning at all or which school had the gall to grant you a certificate with this level of illiteracy?

coogar:
her reply is hilarious....
we said a woman cannot legally rapê a man, she said a lot of women have been jailed for statutory rapē. according to her logic, a child is a man.



statutory rapë is an act of räpe against a minor(a child)....a boy is not a man. you need education.

crackhaus:
Okay, we're not fighting.

The discussion is about a husband and wife (two grown adults), let's put that back into perspective.

crackhaus:
Pained maybe, does that make it any less than the truth?

It happened and will continue to happen...

coogar:
we shall continue to educate you?

crackhaus:
Isn't this because most boys/men usually don't assume the 'victim stance' when it comes to experiences with girls/women?

adebisicutie:
How can a housewife offer alimony. Yes she can work but surely it will take her sometime to be able to afford rent and such. In Nigeria a man can throw his wife out of the house and she has no rights. You see it all the time where the man will throw her clothes outside and kick her out and that us it. If the man asked her to be a house wive , when he throws her out where is she supposed to live until she gets a job? That is the point, her contributions to the family asset is totally ignored forgetting that her taking care of the kids and the home front helped him to be able to focus on work. A third of husband assets for where? Nor in Nigeria

In Nigeria, no one is mandated to pay child support. No one in Nigeria will ever go to jail for not paying child support so even if the woman gets custody of the kids if the man refuses to pay child support there is no law for her to get it. No one is saying the woman should automatically get the kids, joint custody should be the normal thing as long as neither party Is deemed unfit by the courts.

Even in a case where a woman works and she maybe pays the rent while the husband puts his own savings towards building the house. As long as her name isn't on the documents she has no claim to any assets . In order countries the assets are divided because the law takes it into consideration that in the marriage the two parties worked together to acquire what the family has. In marriages with both parties working the couple usually has an arrangement on which bills each party takes care of , so if the woman was paying school fees while the man was paying mortgages and such of course in a divorce the assists should be shared. In Nigeria no one will care if the woman was paying salaries or school fees. The man will own the home

A lot of Nigerian women are smarter now, ensuring that their name is on every asset the family acquires

crackhaus:
The unfortunate man who marries a greedy desperate gold-digging skank in the west is monumentally fvcked for the most part.

adebisicutie:
A woman can rape a man, she can give him drugs that will make him not fully conscious but he'll have a hardon.

coogar:
not in nigeria, USA & the UK.

the worst she can get is sëxual assault - the only time a woman can be charged with eapë is if she is an accomplice to a man räping another woman. so for a woman to get charged with rapê, a man has to be charged with her.

a woman can commit murder, lie, kidnap, do drugs, drive under the influence, cause grievous bodily harm, etc but somehow the court don't agree she can rapë a man. at some point, the coming generation would question our IQ when we are old & grey.

coogar:
a woman cannot rapë a man anywhere on the planet. she doesn't have the tool required to perpetrate rapë....even her fingers don't carry the same weight as that of a man in the legal perspective.

#genderequality