₦airaland Forum

InvertedHammer:
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But if suicide is your only option, go for it.

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delishpot:
Typical Africa man. He' d rather the boy died than have his manhood/ ego trampled upon.
See how he has snatched the child from his mother for eternity? 9 months, years of enduring abuse from him the man towards her( yes, a man that can chain his son must have abused that woman while she was married to him) see how he just wasted her effort and all just because he wants to prove he is the man of his home?

lekhane:
Its really hard for me to blame the man, things don't just happen, it must have a spiritual undertone. Something must be going wrong with the family. God help him to get out of the mess

edwife:
me self,i got a cook-the only problem is, i will be the one dealing with the messy kitchen

when the persons transform into animals they choose to be, they devour goats, sheep and cows and VOMIT them the next day for commercial purposes.

byvan:
Am fine dear, your in law is powering up by the day . How are you preparing for the season?

edwife:
Pic of him slicing the carrots or

Aww,that's a warm nice meal

Idowuogbo:
I'm her sister-in-law. She is well and doing wonders in one lucky man's kitchen. Small world eh?

Buchukwu:
The game should be banned permanently. The owner of that game should be arrested, tortued, sentenced to 1 month in prison (which i think is fair). But it wont happen cos we live in a lawless country. It won't happen in the west cos they have values, they don't joke with terror and racism. Look at what happened to balotelli's instagram picture post.

EnlightenedSoul:
]You're Stunning btw ]

Mayydayy:
men die silly death because men take larger risks.simple.

byvan:
Nne I forgot my password and no be me open the verification mail box, so to change password nah real wah. The thing make logging in tire me.

r231:
Na somebody papa/grandpapi be dis

Chillisauce:
For where? His own UK story version sef might be from Facebook, nairaland and denied visa application

Chillisauce:
The guy hustle no be small. only hustlers will know there fellow hustlers. See his description na. To tell you he suffered well well and thinks all man must have been like him

zeb04:
the woman is divorced.
I guess she has moved on with her life.in her letter she talked about about her daughter having 4 parents meaning she is married also....whichever way sha.

Herzumpther:
It all started out as a joke although, It is no news that I've never tasted pizza before . Today I jokingly a quoted Akposy and the result I got is a pizza which my family and I had for dinner. The pizza came courtesy of kimoni.

Again unbehalf of my family and I we say a big thank you, this shows my tomorrow will indeed be better....As I watched my family eat the pizza happily I just kept asking myself if this is real or a dream with my mum praying for kimoni and asking if I have truly not met her. I can't wait to watch dad eat his too when he returns from work.

Can't believe I got my first Christmas gift from a Nairalander who I don't know and who does not know me too but out of her good will gave me pizza. To say I'm speechless would be an understatement.

Kimoni thanks and God bless you. God will sure repay you for your kind gesture and I hope I will also be able to pay you someday. God bless

Cc Kimono
Cococandy
Babymama/Babyosisi
Chillisauce
Apoksy.. You landed me a pizza bro. Thanks.

ewizard1:
Tho I dont know what transpired between the two of them. ..

But I think... most of those INEC, Govt officers or whatever they are called takes up the opportunity they are working under the protection of the government to getting rude at people!

I'm guessing its what happened. Maybe she has spoken rudely to the Mechanic wey fit reach her elder brother...

You know all these small NYSC girls... be feeling on top like they've read the whole Nigeria.

eagleeye2:
That is why I said it depends on her part of Igbo land. When I went to marry my wife, the Iku Aka visit was attended by her two brothers, and her father. Later their ADA and mother was invited.
I presented Wine and some money to their father, which was accepted by their second son, and I also presented Wine and some money to their mother which was accepted by their Ada.
Her parents then informed us to go, that they will discuss with their daughter. That I will get a feedback soon, and then I will be told when to come and collect list.
It was on our way out that my wife came to greet my people.
I got married this year. 2014.

breadplanets:
Chai coco enyelam assignment now. Chineke mekwaram ebere. Thank you.

lafflaff123:
There are a lot of reasons i do not, i repeat respect any female living in the UK , be them married or not and stories like this tends to make me be a firm believer on my stance.

Years ago, as a student in London. My next door neighbor left her husband in Nigeria to come school in the UK and she moved in with another who happens to be a barber in the South East part, why? i could never tell. Somebody asked a question that why do females act this way when they are in the UK? and the answer my friend is simple, ACCOMMODATION and MONEY but mostly ACCOMMODATION.

At least 4 Squatted with me at different times, but mostly school mates.( did not take advantage of any)

Until you live or visit the UK then you will know what this guys go through just to sleep, and that is why when i see their comments here on NL saying they live in the UK i just laugh, i mean this UK people dey sleep like SARDINE(packed like refugees)in one place.

So, if a lady who usually when they come at first, stay with friends or family(PEOPLE IN THE UK ARE NOTORIOUS FOR NOT LIKING VISITORS WHO STAY FOR LONG) then after sometime, and this usually happens, the host or hostess usually look for reasons to kick them out and the next thing they have no option than to move in with that man that has been toasting them, and the husbands in Nigeria are always the last to know.

For the married women in London? don't know if its the cold or because the husbands work 4 jobs, or just even the fact the men cant satisfy the women. But this women love their husbands on one hand and their toyboys on the other hand. There are some party halls on OLD KENT ROAD, not far from the Millwall Stadium where every weekend Nigerians patronize for party, on any given weekend, i promise you that you can go home with two or 3 different Nigerian married women.

And this the OP is sadly the life of Nigerian women living in the UK.

Your friend sadly, should not have allowed his wife to go outside the country for further studies considering the fact she is young, even the older ones still have twitchy private parts, let alone young girls.

3 weeks ago, i visited Nigeria for a business trip and flew locally from Lagos to Port Harcourt. The lady seated close to me looked like she was in her 50's and out of politeness i said hi. She asked me why i did not pray before the flight took off? i told her it does not matter if i pray or not, and that we all will die if the plane crashes anyway, prayers or not.

We started talking as good neighbors and at the end of the flight i got to know she is 62, married, has grown kids and we exchanged contacts, i exchanged contacts with her because she is somehow affiliated with what brought me to Nigeria and i could do with some contacts. But her calls and other conversations for some strange reasons usually gets back to my girlfriends, wives, my bedroom and stuff like that. I get the message, and she is 62 for God sake. She just told me today she is visiting the US next month and so its time for me to CHANGE my number.

That is a 62 year old woman, so imagine what these young married women will do when they are not with their husbands.

eagleeye2:
Don't know your part of Igbo land. Iku Aka is the first visit. I believe your dad will present Afufa, Orji Igbo and drinks which should be okay. If you guys ( I mean your family) is actually feeling them, you can cook soup or rice.
But you are not even required to be present. Maybe after the men have finished talking and they about leaving, then you can just go and greet them.

Busybody2:
Thanks dear. May God bless you and everyone dear to you as well in Jesus' name