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coogar:
there's sensitivity in the foreskin! the first research on this dates back to the 19th century.



that reason you are hanging on is also unproven. hygiene issues could be the reason why the practise exists at all. feminazis turned it into trying to control the libïdo of females.



because boys simply follow traditions - the ones who do it in their adulthood have fathers who did it in their adulthood as well. it's a traditional practise.



i don't believe it's disrespectful, i believe it's barbaric as highlighted by the feminists. about 120 boys die every year from MGM in the almighty USA(where medical facilities are top drawer). heaven knows what the stats would be in mother africa where state of the art facilities are non-existent.

moca:
Hei, edwife, efe and coogar, I saw ur post o but too down to shed more light into it.

So sick.
I hate sickness.
Its well sha.

coogar:
same can be argued for women. a female muslim scholar actually argued women that are uncircumcised have the tendencies to smell down there. so this point is moot!



that's a lie!
where's that pain when they are having sex or you think the foreskin doesn't draw back during the friction that exists during intercöurse?



by the same token, this point can be argued for the men too. uncircumcised men enjoy sëx 50% more. so why don't men say they were cut to reduce the sensation they should naturally get from sėx or touching?



like i said, if uncircumcised males enjoy sėx more than the other divide, could it not be argued that male circumcision is strictly for restrictive purposes?

coogar:
explain the logic, ada owerri.

Nonso23:

coogar:
chief priestess of son abusers.

i hail thee!!!

coogar:
nice!!
so don't argue when people tell you to your face that feminism is a fraud.

it's one thing to acknowledge the fraud & enjoy the ride AND it's another thing to pretend there's no gender bias in the movement.



we have to coin a name for that ö....

son abusers

Nonso23:
When you go about abusing male children you mean??

coogar:
i was expecting such rejoinder.
you have told us you are a feminist & yet you would willingly give up your son to be mutiliated, diced & tortured in the name of MGM while you keep your daughters in a locker.

gender equality? yeah right!

coogar:
if the twin boy is getting circümcised according to his culture then why should the twin girl get any special treatment? the same argument exists for both genders. just as FGM reduces pleasure in women, it does the same to men.

just like baby girls are at risk of getting infected through crude tools, baby boys are at risk too. both genders go through days of pain as well. so don't argue for one gender & neglect the other. we either agree circumcision is bad for all humans or good for all humans.

coogar:
cheats are not born post-marital - they are born pre-marital. he musta been cheating in the past & he just carried on with the bad attitude.




it's taking him time to realise there's no perfect woman....he would hit 100 before he gets the idea that marriage is all about accepting (manageable)imperfections of the spouse -



how do you know he's not tried communicating that yielded no results? i hope you are aware some wives don't like to be corrected or criticised especially on sensitive issues. there are different people out there - you can only find few sane marriages these days.

Chillisauce:
You never know what many men would say in order to hit The honey pot.

coogar:
so whose fault is it that they never saw the cheating side of their spouses? in this day & age of internet - is this a tenable excuse?

it could be that & it could be that plus other reasons. the truth is when most men complain twice about something they don't like in a partner and there's no considerable effort from the partner to change, he might stray & stop complaining.

in his church mind, more complaints would lead to more arguments & more squabs. men are risk takers - he would cheat by the side & not bother again about the attitude he doesn't like in his wife. it's a common theme in men.

Chillisauce:
This is not a bad behavior. But its our culture. All men are polygamous in nature.

You are a wife I never had. What an insult. All to get a punny or what. Why would a man make such an expensive joke.

coogar:
maybe she didn't know?
maybe i dunno it's wrong to drive under the influence. maybe i dunno it's wrong to shäg a minor. maybe i dunno it's wrong to stick grams of heroin in my belly on my way to thailand. you cannot hinge critical life decisions on "maybe she didn't know"

in this day & age, a woman must know. if she's not sure, she should not get married. if she gets married without proper checks, it's her own fault & she shouldn't really be complaining. can i marry a blind woman & later complain my wife cannot see?



the man's problem could be more deep-rooted. perhaps he never loved the OP. one mistake is enough to jolt most men back to reality.

even if they still go ahead to cheat, they won't be caught so easily by leaving sassy messages on their phones. this man is cheating & he doesn't care if his infidelity is discovered or not.

Wendy80:
The Nigerian Man isn't polygamous biko. I disagree. Don't generalise. That's how women excuse their husband's cheating Nature.

coogar:
you really believe a man that hasn't cheated ever before would suddenly become a serial cheat after marriage? where did he quickly learn how to cheat?

from what the OP has said, this dude is an unrepentant serial cheat. he has confessed to it several times & the OP herself has caught him twice on her own. this cheating business has been going on for long - it didn't start with the text message.

coogar:
yes!
she married a serial cheat.

coogar:
so comments are meant to make OPs feel good? what about just telling them the truth? the truth is bitter but that doesn't mean it shouldn't be told.

mutter:
PLEASE we have gone through this so often. The nigerian man is polygamous! So it is not the same yardstick for men and women. Yo know how society ticks on such thinks and you and I cannot be greater than the society or change it.

mutter:
IF your husband is fliring it means he is looking for something he is not getting home. You can`t change your husband but you can change you. Go into yourself and check what you are doing wrong or omitting to do.
Start working on your marriage.
Getting a husband is not hard but the biggest challange is keeping a happy home. Yo need to keep the live alive and kindle the fire every day.
STOP snooping around. His Tel. is not your biz.

Chillisauce:
Rice and Palm oil vegetable sauce with snake meat.

Babymama1:
Me too

Amhappy:
Interesting thread. Singles have a lot to learn here. For those asking how a lady can have five suitors without dating/bedding them. Where i come from once you clock 24/ or get to final yr/nysc most aunties/mummies will be on the look out for u. So you can meet a man for the first time in your father's house and he is a direct suitor.

enkay4love:
I appreciate ur counsel,but thank God u said u're from here & u know how people here behave,especially when u're buying up a case that is'nt urs.Do u know I persuaded her consistently to run to the police for immediate justice,she outrightly objected,saying he'll kill her & even when he finishes his jail term he'll trail her & get her killed.....imagine mentality .This was a case that won't even make him last a day in a police cell,but be bundled immediately to jail cos the physical evidence is there,& the child had bn testifying to the mother.The worst aspect of it that so provoked me most,was getting pregnant again 4 him 4 child number 3 & the accursed bastard ws threatening to harm her if she did'nt get rid of it.I just had to excuse myself from her case,cos she seems abnormal & devoid of balanced reasoning to still open her thighs for a man that molests their own daughter. Too bad..

enkay4love:
If u read thru my post carefully u wuld'nt be suggesting this.If the mother of this child declined my advice of running to d police for immediate justice, with the excuse that "do I want him to kill her" so why will I drink panadol for a headache that's not mine.I even spoke to a DPO acquaintance of mine,who was ready to execute action on the case if brought forward,but she never did,all in fear of the bastard .

silentdon:
**Brings out a ring and kneels*** Will you marry me?

Chillisauce:
where is the soup? all i see is meat.

coco! Hian

Ucheosefoh:
It is not about jumping to any offer from her suitors, how long did she know any of the suitors,
How is she sure some of them are ready for marriage and not playing the marriage card game ( I have witness such)
Op are you willing to marry a man you knows little about his personality or did you plan to date after leaving your boyfriend.
Marriage is a life commitment which you have to be sure who you are committing with to avoid future threads like I left a good guy to marry a beast.