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GboyegaD:
No but I am in the US as a Canadian. I prefer it here however, I need defend my country of citizenship too.

I see. Well most Americans are with you guys.

abbey621:
The wife, SUZZETTE VAN-LARE.

I see

When you pointed out the obvious to them before the election they said it’s not possible.

See his

merits:
well said.

abbey621:
There was only one restraining order filed and that was in 2023 and the petitioner did not show up to court resulting in the case being dismissed.

Who was the petitioner?

GboyegaD:
Wish Canada had positioned herself better before now. We shouldn't wait until a time like this to take actions. Our dependence on the US is a bit too much.

Ah since when? Did you leave us in America to face this man alone?

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Canada will fold. They have more to lose.

However, I wonder what's Trump's end game in sowing seeds of discord in the North Atlantic Military & Economic Alliance.

Canada has always been there fighting and defending US national interest in far away Middle East, Africa etc

RollinTNDA:
Very Good💥💥💥💥
That means Dollar will reduce

merits:
Trump didn't think deep before dishing out is useless policies shallow thinking Trump must receive sense.

Because he’s a Russian asset? Everything he’s doing doesn’t benefit America.

I hear there was a restraining order against him

abbey621:
If he was truly a danger to his kids there would be a restraining order against him and criminal proceedings!

armyofone:
Market to crash at whose expense and loss ?

Please the millionaire and billionaire in the current
administration should do everything to avoid the market "crashing again like 2021"

Americans were told they will win so much and start begging the winning is too much and tired of winning.

Please oh, show we the people winnings not waking up to see market crashing

The way they fix their mouth to team market crash like it’s all a game. Such ghoulish thirst for chaos.

Market crash is people’s retirements and lifetimes investments. some of who are past the age of waiting and playing the long game with their money. These are the same people that were promised the economy would be amazing overnight and they voted for him because of that promise.


At least be honest and tell them you plan to crash the market and the economy let them make an informed choice on who to vote?

You guys are hoes and you are sleeping with the women in your community. I wonder who you think the women are sleeping with?
I fear this is common sense

happney65:
Leave them, They will soon learn. In VDM's voice "They learn,and they will learn the hard way"

We’re learning alongside them that’s what makes it awful.

If only they had been sincere enough to tell their voters that they planned to plunge everyone into pain. But no. They lied about coming to make the economy better on day one.

In the last 50 years of American politics, republicans always cause recessions and massive job losses. They get voted out because of the massive suffering they cause. But as soon as democrats fix the economy and create job growth, the republican supporters start to get comfortable again. They forget what happened the last time. They let their isms take control of the better part of their brains and vote again to foist suffering on everyone. As if somehow they thought it would be different this time. That those they hate will suffer and they’ll be exempt. That has never been the case.

Rinse and repeat.
If they don’t burn the country to rubble, they’ll never learn

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happney65:
US stock market futures plunged Sunday, one day after President Donald Trump announced 25% tariffs on Canada and Mexico and 10% tariffs on China set to go into effect on Tuesday.


Dow futures were down 1.4%, or over 600 points, while S&P 500 futures dropped 1.9%. The futures traded for tech-heavy Nasdaq Composite were down 2.4% as of 6:36 p.m. ET. Bitcoin was also down 3.5% over the last 24 hours.

The sharp selloff in the futures market implies the indexes will also open substantially lower when trading kicks off Monday at 9:30 a.m. ET.

Elon musk continues his broad daylight coup of the united states govt.

Demanding access to SCIF.

Continues to push out any federal official who’s doing their job by not allowing him access to sensitive protected information.

If you don’t know what scif is, pls sit out the conversation 😑.

Elon Musk’s takeover of federal government infrastructure is ongoing, and at the center of things is a coterie of engineers who are barely out of—and in at least one case, purportedly still in—college. Most have connections to Musk, and at least two have connections to Musk’s longtime associate Peter Thiel, a cofounder and chair of the analytics firm and government contractor Palantir who has long expressed opposition to democracy.

WIRED has identified six young men—all apparently between the ages of 19 and 24, according to public databases, their online presences, and other records—who have little to no government experience and are now playing critical roles in Musk’s so-called Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE) project, tasked by executive order with “modernizing Federal technology and software to maximize governmental efficiency and productivity.” The engineers all hold nebulous job titles within DOGE, and at least one appears to be working as a volunteer.

Honestly it’s not even 70% in favor of women here.

The stories where women seemed to get the upper hand often get pushed to the internet more to fit a narrative .

GloriousGbola:
i was saying something about cultural differences

the man is coming from nigeria

where sexual violence and domestic violence against women will be defended
where most women are typically financially depended on their spouses
where women are often advised by their parents to bear with domestic violence
where you can refuse to provide for your children if you are separated from your wife

a lot of men get mentally broken when they transition from a society that is tilted 100% in favor of men to a society that tilts 70% in favor of women.

there was a video circulating a few months ago where a lawyer in pwc was throwing things at his wife. the matter just disappeared. that is the nigerian reality.

Kobojunkie:
He did that for just $1900 a month for his kids? He killed himself for just $1900 a month child support?

Crazy isn’t it?

I don’t make cardiologist money but I’d gladly pay $4000 a month for two kids because that’s what is needed for the other parent to even begin to break even. The parent who’s keeping the kids is often at a financial loss.

Can’t believe he did this for $2k. What a shame

Oh

Of course. Internet with their addiction of salt and pepper to issues.

I knew that $15k sounded sus. That’s footballer type of child support.

Average monthly child support in America is around $400.

Sounds like his family and people on his side are not good people. The two major lies already have set the tone

GloriousGbola:
the man did not lose any license . i googled him and his wife.

this is the latest from the Dad

i had said before that everything about this story is documented

in the end it is the reputation of the guy that will be smeared in the mud

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/he-klled-himself-to-avoid-paying-1900-francis-van-lare-alleges-his-daughters-partner-who-took-his-life-was-a-dead-beat-dad-denies-report-of-15k-per-month-child-support.html

$1900 not 15k because he has a special needs son
he was asked to pay child support , not alimony because the daughter is self sufficient
he had restraining orders

Nnamdipapa:
I don't think so. At most, she'll be another baby mama . What does she have to offer any man at this stage in her life with so many baggages?

APOPTOSIS:
It's possible but chances are meagre and almost insignificant with such history and tags around her. She's already marked for avoidance.

You’d be surprised

Don’t be surprised she’ll get married next year

APOPTOSIS:
I live in the U.S.
...na now that woman suffer start.
Unlike Nigeria where men woo women randomly we avoid them like plagues here, not to talk of a woman with such a bad prognosis around here. How naaa?
Where she want see man with the baggage (Chidlren) and tag (widow) she carry now.
U can't win all battles.
Even me, I let some go...
See how dem destroy their ATM machine.
Everyone Lost here, big time.
I was saying exact thing to my friend here
You don't just let treasures slip away.
They are not easy to come by.

Nonexisting1:
Your witch daughter was not responsible for his death but in the process of the divorce, she made sure he lost his license to practice, lost all his saved up thousands of dollars and had restricted access to his own children. Maybe It would have been better if she helped him put the bullet through his head. Mtchew

It’s incredibly difficult to lose your license to practice medicine in America if you didn’t do anything to warrant it.

Outside of their marriage issues, there has to be something he did to warrant the medical board taking his license. He’s not the only divorced doctor here. They don’t just take your license because you’re having issues with your wife.

As a matter of fact, one of my colleagues is divorcing her doctor husband and she has to pay him $450k in damages because of domestic violence she did to him.

What was the violence? She hit him when she walked in on him cheating with one of his nurses that works in his clinic.

I know you guys love an opportunity to rant about the misfortune of Nigerian men in the USA. You hardly see women making noise like this when they’re at fault. We usually take the L and walk away.

IMAliyu2:
It sounds like enlightened centrist bs, and a felicious argument.

It's like being around during the civil rights debate, and saying both the pro and anti sides are the same.
No it's not, your unwillingness to engage and find out the objectives of both sides and make up your mind on which one aligns with your views is on you, and we can also say with history on our side, and with values shared by almost everyone today one side was the good one.

This ‼️‼️

To the best of my knowledg, Democrat supporters haven’t gone to white house to hang the vice president.

Nor are Americans in the streets currently protesting what they feel are draconian Democrat policies being actively implemented.

The disingenuous both siding of clear issues is sickening.
I can actually “respect” those who are owning their isms with their chest.

The bill for federal abortion ban has been reintroduced into the house by republican lawmakers.

When I said it last year that the republicans were after EVERY woman’s right to abortions. Ndi team “you’re taking it too far “They’d never do that” kept quoting me saying it will never get to that.

“Republicans don’t want federal abortion bans. They only want states rights”. Whatever the hell that means for the women who live there. Well here we are. Just like I said.

Now that they have majority in the house and senate. If they pass this bill into law, stay prepared to bury your wives and daughters. We have already seen deaths in states like Texas where women died from sepsis waiting to get sick enough to deserve abortion.

The cheaper eggs will be worth it.

Rice and peas with curry chicken

IjeBos:
The damage Trump is doing to the US is incalculable.
He is turning US allies into enemies for what purpose?

For the benefit of his sponsors

They might be confusing physician assistant with medical assistant.

PAs earn as much as nurse practitioners.

GloriousGbola:
Are you sure about that tho? Some geniuses on this thread say a PA is the medical equivalent of a court clerk. Like what do I know anyway?

Imho all the talk is just made up conjecture shared by the late doctors family.

And Nigerians poverty striken mentality

Yes 15gs is a dent but it is not the end of the world for a high earner.

IjeBos:
What you are capable of is false equivalencies and pretending you're a rational person because you can stand in the middle between US Democracy and a guy who wants to crater it and what it stand for.
Tell me what is the middle position of 'Black people and Women aren't capable of doing the jobs what White men can' and 'Black people and women are capable of doing jobs White men can' ?
There is none, just the fight for equality. Not everything has a middle position.

I too would like to know what the middle point here is. in their opinion.

2.)You are opening your mouth about a side wanting people to walk their path, yet seem to miss the people who want to oppress people with their religion. Funny.
I don't need anyone to walk my path. I do need people to live in the reality that we all do. You can believe whatever you want but don't come here and make up things to bolster your views just like you did.
If you want to believe Biden was extreme, have facts to back it up. Don't just pull out bullshit you heard on right wing media you can't even explain nor understand..

They literally trying to foist white nationalism on all Americans regardless of personal beliefs and those who are calling it out are the ones who are biased against neutrality.

The jokes write themselves.

PepeXKermit:
180k for family of 5? with kids in Kindergarten and day care? good luck..loooool

Where do you live?

As a working PA, she’s not hurting for cash either. I wonder how they reached the $15k settlement.

GloriousGbola:
Technically she is not Nigerian

This is her name

suzette chibuogu van-lare

Google her without her native name and you will see most of her history

Born 1990

High school in the US.

Hometown Marietta Georgia

Working Physician assistant

This is easy to say when you’re supporting evil
This is not about picking sides. It’s not a debate. Or a friendly match.It’s people lives and livelihoods.

I was right. This here is just talk for you guys. You have no stake. That why you can post anything and think you deserve a civil response.

Basil was just asked if he would support Trump invading the EU. And he all but said yes. Imagine if someone whose life would be impacted by such an invasion or someone who could even lose their life in such an invasion was reading it? You expect them to sit down and have a nice chat with him about why the invasion is a light issue that ends on Nairaland. For you it’s a difference in opinion. For the people whose lives you’re so nonchalantly discussing, it’s financial ruin, insecurity and possible war they are not interested in being a part of.

You have no depth. It’s almost bordering on stupidity if such simple concepts have to be explained to you.

Pls fvck off too. And stay ignored.

Livelystone01:
From my observation here, you guys are hypocrites, you believe someone must stand for your views even when they are not right and that's fascism. You try to convince them that people from other parties and policies are blanket bad which is in itself same thing as what you condemn.

The other guys here do not force anyone to believe them or support what they support, that's why they seem to be better than you guys. I have spoken against their policies but they never responded with shades or attacks.

You especially, do not engage in discussions on this thread, you always attack someone for a different view. I saw the subtle shades you threw in the other responses you gave to me but I ignored because they are childish, I did not also respond because I do not operate like a pig as I am not a pig.

You do not need to respond to my views, ignore them and scroll to the next.

Like I said, there is no difference between what your group does and what the other guys do. If anything, you guys are worse off because you want everyone to walk your path even when they are wrong.

This is the same nonsense you were chatting when they asked you to provide an example of a liberal policy that’s extreme. Of course you went silent because you had nothing.

Wanna be neutral so bad you’re starting to look foolish. Pls miss me with the no nonsense. I don’t have time to coddle your feelings.

Livelystone01:
Check your views on this write up and tell me you are better than a MAGA in one the red States.

You are a fascist and you don't see it yet because you have pinned your head inside the sand, buried yourself inside the cemetery of self righteousness and think everyone who does not flow in your direction at all times is not your friend.

Almost of those who claim to be liberal here are very much same with you.
No difference between you and basillico in every aspect, just different sides of same coin.

Decidetolive:
Lol.. I will take my kids and return home. She can remain there but I will make sure I starve her financially

Or you guys can be good husbands instead of playing games

mmsen:
I didn't say anything about leaving anyone anywhere.

Well my initial post that you responded to was addressing those kinds of comments. So if it wasn’t referring to you, you could’ve skipped it.

Condoms to Gaza that is proven to be a lie? You’re too damn gullible.

DOGE is an unconstitutional organization that is not approved by congress. American congress controls the American purse. The fact that you think anyone off the street should have access to such sensitive information because they cozied up to the president is a clear indication that you’re not using all your neurons the way that God intended. Now it’s up to Elon to pay US bonds or we go into a default?. There’s a reason why that never depended on one only person.

Why don’t we get rid of congress then, let Trump be one arm of the govt and Elon the other arm. I don’t know if you’re intentionally this obtuse or you just have an evil streak that lets you justify whatever nonsense you feel like but I’m done with your stupidity. Pls don’t mention me again. Because it’s been difficult staying civil with you.

You think I’m working to pay into social security and the federal govt workers in my life are doing their jobs earnestly so that an egomaniacal South African oligarch can come without clearance to have access to our social security benefits and paychecks?

And you’re sitting in 4x4 cubicle somewhere unaffected, telling us how it’s a good thing. Either you’re dumb or you’re a terrible person. I’ve tried to give you the benefit of doubt but not anymore.

Pls fvck off.

basilico:
Elon heads DOGE. How you expect him to cut govt waste if he can't see where the money is going ? This guy didn't want to give him access
Too bad I can't edit after this post , but hasn't Elon discovered they was sending money to terrorists?
Don't remind me of condoms to Gaza too.
I always provide where I can of direct links.I don't make up staff from the air. Mainstream media job is to lie to you,if you don't want hbp soon believe in the opposite of what they write esp on anything Trump.
That's my advice Thank me later

diamond68:
yeah. Very beautiful. Someone posted her pic with her dad at a burger joint. Igbo girl

Okay.