On some of the points actually. Since I for one don’t agree with over-religiousity (if there’s a word like that)
sassysure: That lady is very childish. Her problem is church service. She isn't bothered about compatibility in bed. What does she know. All these Pentecostal churches have been breaking homes with their hypocritical and judgemental laws that they manufacture from the back of their brains. And trust our women. We follow to the end.
Yet, its the same pastors that sleep with their female flocks.
That man said yes at the heat of the moment. Hoping she will succumb after trado. It's not really to fulfil her fantasy wish but to tell pastor that she did it on her wedding night. Pastor can use it to boast. Wonder why husbands of these pious ladies are very promiscuous?
Why do we do church marriage? Simply an avenue for the clergy to shine. Nothing more. Also the gifts that follow. Not because it's the purest form of marriage. U know, we know how to take advantage of things in this part of the world and these men of the pulpit are taken the advantage fully
teemy: There is a middle ground here. She is afraid of pre-marital sex. He only just need explain to her that with wedding comes marriage. That is all. She will get it and come to terms except there is something else wedding in a church premises means to her.
Wedding in a church premises obviously means the world to her. He should go along with her on that. For this specific issue, there’s not really a middle ground. If he says he won’t marry her anymore because of this issue, they will still have to go through a divorce process (same as if he waits until after the church wedding only to find out that she’s not a virgin). So what’s it to him? Divorce now or divorce later. Same process. He might as well speed up the church wedding and find out what it’s going to be.
What I fear most for this marriage is the precedent of not accepting facts but wanting to overspiritualize things. Wifey might stick with 'only what pastor says' and hubby might capitalize on it to do as he wishes. They both need to sit at a table and plan on accepting facts as they are and not create mountains out of molehills.
I agree with this. I find over religious folks cringey. I don’t know what it is about them. I think OP should have stayed in his lane. Can’t go for Mary Amaka and expect Kim kardashian in the bedroom.
P.S. You could have given your recommendation without attacking him. All the best coco. Cheers.
TruthSpeaker: Suspend the white wedding indefinitely, while you keep fucking around openly. Let her know she will only be the loser if she keeps hoarding that pussy I guess is rather smelly. When you eventually find out she is not a virgin, doesn’t she know what she will deserve will be capital punishment?
Matters of the vaginaa is affecting this one so badly.
teemy: Been a while coco. The wedding night in this case had long come and gone.
Not for her.
She believes it’s on her white wedding day. As do many Nigerian women actually. The wedding is not fully official until the white wedding day. You all know this.
I may not necessarily agree with that but he knew what she stood for. She probably had a fantasy (as was taught to her by the pious society) of keeping her virginity until she wears the white wedding gown and then having sex for first time after saying I do with the ring and all that.
So these men shame women for being oloshos who have sex before marriage but can’t stand one who’s actually waiting for the wedding night? Confused mofos.
OP that woman knows what she wants which is more than anyone can say for you.
You may not be good enough for her so if it pleases you, let her go. She will find someone who shares same beliefs as her and will be willing to wait.
then you can find the one who will have sex with you whenever you want so that you and your fellow NL retrdds can swarm around and call her olosho.
WildChild00: Nice "love puff puff" How can I make this? Can you please share......
Thanks.
Here. I found a straight forward video recipe because I’m lazy to type the full recipe.
It’s like 2 minutes. Very short
One thing I’ll add is that you have wait until the yeast you added to the water starts to bubble/froth before adding it to the powder ingredients . That’s how you know it’s active yeast.
Unless you’re using instant or rapid rise yeast. Then you can add it straight to the dough mix.
ibkayee: Oh I see, you must have plans in store for Christmas, other than our tree there isn’t much we do inside. But I think I’ll be putting Christmas lights outside (first time)
I personally don’t have plans, my DH usually does the Christmas one. He’s good at it. Snippet of our last year. Can’t wait to see what he comes up with this year.