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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 1:17am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Guest007: if both the OP agreed that until their wedding night and she specified that is the white wedding tman agreement is an agreement.. I asked someone this question here.. if I can dump you after traditional marriage what prevents me from dumping you after white wedding for your info and traditional marriage also have a marriage certificate
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Lexusgs430: 1:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: Onyeka Owenu song comes to mind....... If you love me, you go wait for me............. Move the wedding forward. Would she still give you her cookie, if you conduct registry wedding? Registry wedding in the eyes of the law, is legally acceptable than church wedding.... I hope she is truly a virgin, after all this months of waiting.... But after the deed is done, I hope you feel it would be worth the wait...... The worse lays are virgins...... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by BarrElChapo(m): 1:19am On Oct 31, 2019 |
If you are a Nigerian. I just want you to find a lawyer friend and tell him to advise you or educate you on the kind of marriage our laws recognize. Your views will definitely shift a little bit from where you are now Wiseoldman: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Wiseoldman: 1:20am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter: I'm sure you don't know that the so called church wedding you described here is the British Traditional wedding. The template is designed by the Church of England. And guess who is the head of the Church if England? Queen Elizabeth This is how they want their traditional wedding done. They passed this on to their colonies like Nigeria. Wedding's in the bible were mostly done in the brides house. The pastor can bless the wedding at the ceremony. No need for church building, since the building is not the church but the people. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Sterope(f): 1:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Is this the bible's interpretation of a marital ceremony or your own self righteous interpretation? White wedding gown was not the norm until 1849. Many Christian women prior to that got married in their 'pure' form without the silly colour. tradepunter: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 1:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
was okay with her religious convictions Which convictions. Who verified her virginity? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by lewis512(m): 1:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Na this kind thread Nairalander no dey sleep on top , we go hear am till tomorrow morning , Amazingly those commenting never get hair for their private part Ooo ......shake my head |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 1:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
ode4short: I Thank u now
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 1:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Wiseoldman: You did noooooooooot read my post. I know you didnt! It amazes me when people quote me with something that only has a passing relevance to what I said. I mean I really find it amazing. Amazing! |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 1:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BarrElChapo: I get you. But it is illogical to claim fraud or duress . He was in nowhere defrauded or forced to marry her. A marriage is a contract and a promise to marry is an executory contract consisting of the promisor and promisee. The man is the promisor who makes a promise to the promisee and the promisee accepts the promise. How can the promisee then be liable for fraud or duress? By the the above I mean that it is only the party whose consent was sought that can dissolve the marriage because of fraud. The person who sought the consent cannot alledge fraud. Below a screenshot from your article. UyaiIncomparabl: You're an angel UyaiIncomparabl
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ikwedim(m): 1:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Don't fall for this trick. One confirm her HIV status or something else. There is something she is hiding. She knows once una Don marry, no going back. Shine your eyes oo |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Wiseoldman: 1:26am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BarrElChapo: By law, you need a government issued certificate. This can be issued by any Nigerian with such authority, some places of worship have applied and gotten the license and can issue this. Biblically, you need the traditional wedding. That is why no church will do a ceremonial british traditional wedding without you confirming that you have done the traditional wedding. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by TruthSpeaker: 1:26am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Suspend the white wedding indefinitely, while you keep fucking around openly. Let her know she will only be the loser if she keeps hoarding that pussy I guess is rather smelly. When you eventually find out she is not a virgin, doesn’t she know what she will deserve will be capital punishment? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by yomi007k(m): 1:26am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: I dey tell u. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Neddstark: 1:28am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Happy sexually-deprived union |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Wiseoldman: 1:28am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter: Sorry if I misquoted you. Cheers. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Neddstark: 1:28am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Newguyhere: I'm learning from you bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by teemy(m): 1:28am On Oct 31, 2019 |
cococandy: Been a while coco. The wedding night in this case had long come and gone. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by DeHumbleTboy: 1:30am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BarrElChapo:pls advise me. Seems you're a law practitioner. My WhatsApp 08052969792 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by teemy(m): 1:32am On Oct 31, 2019 |
TruthSpeaker: Quite a rude statement to speak about someone else's wife just because he brought up the subject here. However, if you yet insist on the 'smelly' place, we all lived close to that place for 9 months and most passed out through there to come out. Live with it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 1:32am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905: What if... This girl had a dream for her first night. What if this whole thing is all she lived for? What if she pictured her first night with her husband in her own special way. If you read the op... She made it very clear which wedding night she meant. Op said he never took her seriously, to chop new pussy is messing up his integrity and his character. I really feel bad for the girl... So much shame and drama for the night she waited for while op treated STD up and down 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by udemzyudex(m): 1:35am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter: Na wa oooo |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by favour32(m): 1:35am On Oct 31, 2019 |
White man tells you that yours,the blackman's own is useless except his. My people get it right,when you marry traditionally, that's the main deal.If you want to add jara go do or copy the white man's wedding which you have been brainwashed as the one acceptable by God. Who told you? My man! You have been brainwashed too! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by cococandy(f): 1:37am On Oct 31, 2019 |
teemy:Not for her. She believes it’s on her white wedding day. As do many Nigerian women actually. The wedding is not fully official until the white wedding day. You all know this. I may not necessarily agree with that but he knew what she stood for. She probably had a fantasy (as was taught to her by the pious society) of keeping her virginity until she wears the white wedding gown and then having sex for first time after saying I do with the ring and all that. He agreed to that and now he’s complaining. Sounds like a petulant child. He should gtfo 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 1:37am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Wiseoldman:No problem. Cheers |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 1:39am On Oct 31, 2019 |
udemzyudex:Lol are all those "o"s for me? Why do you ask a question when you dont want to know the answer |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by BarrElChapo(m): 1:39am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I'm not not claiming anything I just merely lifted what the law provides find below from the matrimonial causes act. 3. (1) Subject to the provisions of this section, a marriage that takes place after the commencement of this Act is void in any of the following cases but not otherwise, that is to say, where- (a) either of the parties is, at the time of the marriage, lawfully married to some other person; (b) the parties are within the prohibited degrees of consanguinity or, subject to section 4 of this Act, of affinity; (c) the marriage is not a valid marriage under the law of the place where the marriage takes place, by reason of a failure to comply with the requirements of the law of that place with respect to the form of solemnisation of marriages; (d) the consent of either of the parties is not a real consent because- (i) it was obtained by duress or fraud; or (ii) that party is mistaken as to identity of the other party, or as to the nature of the ceremony performed; or (iii) that party is mentally incapable of understand- ing the nature of the marriage contract; (e) either of the parties is not of marriageable age You said marriage is a contract.. What are the ingredients of a valid contract ? Offer, consideration and acceptance. back to the scenario.. if a man wishes to marry a woman for the sole purpose of procreation and the woman accepts knowing fully that she cannot bear children. Has a valid contract been executed between them ? your guess is as good as mine. Keep in mind that procreation is the consideration for entering into the contract in the first place.. Cheers Freehuman: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by cococandy(f): 1:39am On Oct 31, 2019 |
TruthSpeaker: Matters of the vaginaa is affecting this one so badly. Pathetic 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 1:41am On Oct 31, 2019 |
my broda, you are the scammer here. You rushed the traditional wedding only just so you can shift her pants. All I can hear from you are the words of a selfish Hot man, you would rather she compromise her faith and words just to satisfy your silliness. If you can't wait for the white wedding, them collect back all your bride price and the remaining trash which seems to be basis of your selfish foolish words. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 1:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Guest007: hahahahahaha .. your wicked.. I do understand what you mean this might have been her fantasy her Cinderella story... but I think you need to still look at the OP side even for a little while ..an agreement is agreement whether OP took it seriously or not buh body nor fire it's blood that runs through he's veins and from the look of things the white wedding ain't coming anytime soon one of them will have to make a compromise buh the truth is this they are already married.. my fear for OP is that he's sexual life is already fvcked up
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by stormborn28(m): 1:44am On Oct 31, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:she doesn't get wet at close range |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 1:45am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BarrElChapo: Check 3(d) above the key word is consent. Before you quoted me I had edited my post to explain it better to you. I hope you understand. ************ I get you. But it is illogical to claim fraud or duress . He was in nowhere defrauded or forced to marry her. A marriage is a contract and a promise to marry is an executory contract consisting of the promisor and promisee. The man is the promisor who makes a promise to the promisee and the promisee accepts the promise. How can the promisee then be liable for fraud or duress? By the the above I mean that it is only the party whose consent was sought that can dissolve the marriage because of fraud. The person who sought the consent cannot alledge fraud. As far as proposal is done in Nigeria by a man, he cannot claim fraud or duress. Fraud or duress can only be relied upon by the promisee or the party whose consent was sought. Below a screenshot from your article.
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