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Romance › Re: Ladies Admit Using “Charm” To Get Men (Screenshots) by cococandy(f): 5:58pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Very sad something. No goals MzTunechi: abi ooo na real oloshi them be PDPGuy: I’m telling you. Very stupid set of women ��♀️ |
Romance › Re: Ladies Admit Using “Charm” To Get Men (Screenshots) by cococandy(f): 5:32pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Lmao:
They can’t use the juju to get money. Na to find man.
Oloshi them |
Celebrities › Re: Lilian Bach Celebrates Her 49th Birthday With Stunning Photos by cococandy(f): 5:24pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Women Are Harassing Me by cococandy(f): 12:09pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Don’t mind them. They are perpetuating stupid rigid social beliefs that men or women can’t do certain things. Victims of their own mentality. shortgun: I am always harassed by women anytime I go to the Market to buy food stuff. They are always making bad comments about me coming to the market as a man to buy food items. 
If I buy fish of 2k, they will say this "one u are buying fish of 2k today it's like madam is around"; I will tell them I live alone, they will be like so na only u go finish fish of 2,000. The other day, two women that came to buy stuff were saying to my hearing that it's only stingy men that don't want their wives to chop their money will come to the market to buy food stuff. They said serious minded men don't have time to go to the market. They were almost making fun of me but I kept my cool. Me that is single, where is the wife?
I was waiting for my turn another time for d woman selling vegetables to attend to me, she finished selling to d woman before me, instead for her to serve me next she turned to a woman that was behind me I said to her, "madam how much Ugu u want buy" I didn't say anything to both of them, when she was almost done slicing the vegetables she now said but "madam this Oga first you come" The woman said, "madam leave this Oga him no smart, I sharp pass am, that's why and I am a bully, I can bully my way to get what I want Correct men don't come to the market, this one na woman." I don't know if I should be angry,sad or just disappear Even the way they look at me with disgust is enough to give one heart attack. They will keep telling me things like, Oga u be fine man and u get money, why u no want marry  Is a crime that I like to cook my meals myself...and cook good, very good  Is it a crime to be a single Man in this country?
Pls what can I do to stop this harassment by women in the market? These days I will drive to a market far from my area to get stuff. Not that I can't talk back at them but u know how sharp their mouths is  Is food stuff market only for women? Local man is tired. |
Family › Re: My Husband Hates Me by cococandy(f): 11:28am On Nov 09, 2019 |
It’s so sad that your family does not love you.
Your fiancé (let’s call him that) is probably still resenting you because he feels that you didn’t do enough to stop your family from disrespecting him and his family. I tell you those feelings can run deep and they do linger. As you can see, That’s when things started going bad between both of you.
Your family needs to apologize to him. Wholeheartedly. If family meeting has to be called for it to happen, then so be it. Your sister, uncle, mom, all y’all.
From your narrative, he was the only one who was there for you when your family turned their backs on you and you guys paid him back with ugliness. He might have gone ahead with the introduction to save face at the moment but became emotionally detached afterwards .
YOU PEOPLE NEED TO APOLOGIZE!!! |
Family › Re: Woman Almost Got Husband Lynched After Calling Him Car Snatcher. by cococandy(f): 11:25pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
For you folks that always support jungle justice. Bunch of brainless morons with no minds of their own. Some will join in beating folks that they have no idea what their offense is to start with |
Family › Re: Should I Sell A Property And Start My Business ? by cococandy(f): 11:21pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
BTW
A 20yr old is big enough to understand things. In fact even the 12 yr old can understand too.
The secret properties you’re discovering, have you told them about it? If you haven’t, are you ever going to tell them? Do they know how much their mom left behind?
At their ages, they can have input (especially the 20yr old) on what is to be done with their mom’s estate. |
Family › Re: Should I Sell A Property And Start My Business ? by cococandy(f): 11:18pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
We all know how this is going to end. Poor children  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:47pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:28pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Thanks  stunningjudy: So i heard. Nevertheless, your camera is good and you take lovely pictures.  |
Travel › Re: Cost Of Flight Tickets From Nigeria To USA by cococandy(f): 3:16pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Alright  Myhusband: no tax, no high cost of things and as time goes on when the business kick start you can easily get access to loan, that will promote it. increase in capital is equivalent to increase in profit. when business flourish then you divert to another channel of business and it goes on and on
the 20million you're doing hide&seek to achieved there, how would it increase. before you open a business channel in USA you think is a child play?
many who travelled abroad end up struggling back home when things is not paving way at the end. I know of one lady that's feeding the family because of her husband inability to get stable income in Houston Texas and you will compare those with people struggling in Nigeria. aside from stable electricity, water and good roads, how else can you tell me those are better than me? there is securities challenges in Nigeria, there is gun control palava in America
life is a choice, I have lined behind my choice, so let it not be your headache |
Travel › Re: Cost Of Flight Tickets From Nigeria To USA by cococandy(f): 2:49pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
and you think 1 million naira in Nigeria will make you financially better off than he is?  Myhusband: really? with high spending for food, tax, house and others there? then why is the man in my street developing one building storey for 5yrs?
better indeed, living hide and seek lifestyles there is what you called better. I'm going to visit America and other western countries as a tourist, not as a slave to white.
that's my opinion, who cares about someone that's financially better? financial status stability is divine, not constant. don't count on it  |
Travel › Re: Cost Of Flight Tickets From Nigeria To USA by cococandy(f): 2:25pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Myhusband: I don't form what I'm not. and what's special about that give me part of the 1m you've touched. i can't have that money and be running there to be doing menial job with high tax If you don’t have at least 20 million resting in your account in Nigeria, someone doing menial job here is financially better than you. |
Travel › Re: Cost Of Flight Tickets From Nigeria To USA by cococandy(f): 2:21pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
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Travel › Re: Cost Of Flight Tickets From Nigeria To USA by cococandy(f): 2:20pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
They didn’t mention Emirates. My favorite. Very classy |
Celebrities › Re: Nwanneka Nkumah Brutalized By Policemen, Lands In Hospital by cococandy(f): 2:16pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Stupid comment majamajic: until all these girls know how and when to address someone as Oga , when the person is not actually your boss |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:08pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
I hear some android phones have better picture quality than iPhones stunningjudy: I was silently praying you won't say Iphone so I can show someone that an android can be so nice.  |
Family › Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by cococandy(f): 7:37am On Nov 08, 2019 |
If he’s asked you to leave repeatedly and you’re still there, know that you’re just married to yourself. He’s washed his hands off the marriage.
It up to you to decide when enough is enough.
You never know if another man’s seed is what will end up getting you pregnant and you’re there wasting your youth on someone who CLEARY doesn’t want you anymore.
Don’t beg for love. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:14am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Oh because she’s the jollof madam right  Acidosis: Lol. I can't afford to share that with anyone  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Nov 08, 2019 |
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Properties › Re: Hannah Otite Weeps As Tenant Converts Flats To Hotel (photo) by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Nov 08, 2019 |
You people are unbelievable rowland545: I see no wrong doing here.....some of this land owners are dubious as fvck....after fixing the house for you. You now want to evict..
The case will drag on while d hotel Lady will keep on making money.....I think I should do this to my land Lady |
Properties › Re: Hannah Otite Weeps As Tenant Converts Flats To Hotel (photo) by cococandy(f): 7:10am On Nov 08, 2019 |
 Skyfornia: If he is paying his rents...why is the woman bothered? Abi she is enemy of progress?? Some landlords/landladies are wicked, a tenant will move into your dilapidated apartment and renovate it to his taste, when they see that the apartment is looking better, they will either look for a way to eject the tenant or increase his rent. |
Crime › Re: Mexican Cop Who Arrested Ovidio Guzman Killed With 155 Rounds (Pics/Video) by cococandy(f): 7:03am On Nov 08, 2019 |
glorify them  dederocs: Strong enough message, these are real killers, not wannabes toy soldiers making noise here, yet they ain't clipped noone or committed no felony yet. I respect the structure of the Cartels organisation...but I see the Yankees stepping into the scene once again. mu2sa2: Like the fulani, drug barons neither forgive nor forget. hustla: Omo these ones no dey play o  mysticwarrior: Mexican drugs cartels are much more deadlier than Colombian cartels, El chapo forged an empire and created a dynasty, even in jail el chapo children who are his successors continue to run the cartel with an iron fisted hands, that is what Pablo Escobar was unable to do. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:54am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Trouble maker Iogobenz: lol. No be camera,na money. What an off question.You no see the background? "What phone are you using"...? Homebase them  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:52am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Prestonn: Beautiful and looks delicious  thanks |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:02pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
ibkayee: Lmao the plate lol. Before or after eating ?  |
Family › Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 10:33pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
olabrinks: I always say if you are cheating on your husband, please oh just take it to the grave or hide it very very well. There’s no amount of ranting or equality that can modify the nature of men. There’s nothing like if ‘I can forgive him why can’t he do the same’? The quicker you accept the realities of life, the easier life will be for you. They simply cannot handle a cheating gf/wife. They just can’t, no matter how much they try. That’s how many women have peace in their homes, they cheat and they cover it well. The only time you should confess is if children are involved. Even when children are involved, why confess? That should be the cherry on the cake for any man who thinks it’s okay for him to be a layabout but god forbid his woman do same. I think if such a man has four kids. 3 of them rightfully should be from outside men. I’m in my house let them come and beat me  |
Family › Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 10:31pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
MissJoy29: Na today! Have you not seen married guys accusing their sidechics of cheating on them?  The cognitive discombobulation of it all |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
stunningjudy: Your pictures are always almost perfect! What phone is that? Thanks. It’s iPhone XS Max. |
Family › Re: We Confessed To Each Other, Should I Be Worried? by cococandy(f): 9:11pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
you’re not even sure of your future faithfulness. Mtchew The entitlement and hypocrisy. harrikoko: I agreed I goofed guys, yes I did confess to her that I did worse and I do pray I find the strength never to cheat on her again . I was only worried because I never believed she could do that shit. Like I stated in the post I can swear anywhere and with anything that she can't cheat? I have forgiven and I do she has forgiven me as well, but my fear is that, there could be more and she's not comfortable telling, because she accidentally let it slipped that if she had done it with her ex our marriage would have crashed long ago as he would prolly blackmail her. I am just here to seek advice from mature minds on how we can make herself better and how to prove to her that she's still my world. Thanks |